This Reality DOES NOT EXIST!!!
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
186.90422
Summary
In this episode, we talk about feminism and what it means to be a feminist. We discuss what feminism means to us, what it doesn't mean to us and how it has gone too far in the modern day world. We also discuss the dangers of promiscuity and the impact it can have on our mental health.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
feminism a disaster so i'd like to go around and everyone say if you consider yourself a feminist
00:00:06.640
yes no and then why um i'd say no i'm not a feminist because i think i believe
00:00:17.120
i'm in between i would say but i'll say no because i don't think there's things that men can do and
00:00:23.280
there's things that women can't do and there's things that women can do and there's things that
00:00:26.720
men can't do if that makes sense so i feel that's why i'm in the middle and i'm still saying a bit of
00:00:32.480
nah i'm not a feminist okay um yeah me i'm i'm similar to jenny um i don't think i'm a feminist
00:00:40.480
because i do believe that i am like strong on like gender roles um so i do believe that um there's
00:00:47.760
certain things that a woman should do in a relationship there's certain things a man
00:00:51.200
should do in a relationship but i'm also like big on women empowerment i just don't
00:00:56.560
feel like it collides yeah okay go ahead i would say no um i don't really identify with anything
00:01:04.240
that feminism stands for anymore okay go ahead um yeah i'm sort of like in between i i would say
00:01:13.120
i'm very much a traditional feminist um not so much a modern feminist um i still have those
00:01:20.320
traditional values and i feel like i do believe in female empowerment i do believe in the movement
00:01:26.720
of feminism um yeah okay go ahead yeah i would say i'm sort of in between as well but it just gets a
00:01:35.360
bit too technical i believe in them obviously opening doors for women but it gets too technical for me so
00:01:42.080
for me i'm in between as well this feminist role okay i do not consider myself to be a feminist whatsoever
00:01:49.440
a man and a woman has complete different duties and roles they're not equal a man's purpose is to
00:01:55.680
protect provide and lead and a woman's purpose is to nurture and reproduce as far as i'm concerned
00:02:02.160
they are not equal i'm not a feminist i'm very in tune with myself spiritually and i feel like
00:02:09.360
everything in the modern day world just really collides with my spirit so definitely not wow a whole
00:02:15.840
room not one feminist why do you guys think that is where has it gone too far
00:02:25.120
promiscuity is promoted i think that's too far i think for women having multiple sexual partners
00:02:33.920
is really bad for your mental health um it messes up your hormones biologically and also like even if
00:02:41.360
you're not technically sleeping with all of them what kind of person are you if you're just an object
00:02:46.080
on millions of people's screens and all that object is is your boobs and bum they're not really seeing
00:02:52.640
you for who you are and if you don't care about who you are enough to put that out there and all you
00:02:57.840
want to put out there is your body um then i think that shows that maybe there's something not quite right
00:03:04.000
inside that maybe you don't value in yourself so you only value the exterior part of yourself do you
00:03:10.240
guys know women that can sleep around and are genuinely happy doing it no i don't think i've
00:03:15.280
ever met one really no no one no so why do you think it's pushed so much if the outcomes aren't good for
00:03:21.760
women because i feel like people that people that may be um this is just like from me watching but i feel
00:03:31.280
like people that maybe do sleep around a lot um maybe if they don't actually like know who they
00:03:36.800
are or like know what they stand for completely and they want to act like they're happy so they'll
00:03:42.080
tell people yeah this is what makes me happy this is what i do so you do it too so it's like
00:03:46.400
let's it's like some whole gang thing um like even amber rose for example this what is that thing she
00:03:52.080
does a nude walk oh slut walk yeah let's stop walk okay okay would anyone go to a slut walk anyone
00:03:59.600
here no okay continue yeah i'll go no i can't lie i would go for fun like to watch it i would do
00:04:05.600
interviews yeah yeah that's exactly what i was gonna say i would go to like interview people and say you
00:04:11.120
know what is it yeah but i don't think i would take part in a slut walk no yeah definitely no i don't
00:04:17.520
think so but yeah what i was gonna say about the amber rose um suck walk i feel like with feminism
00:04:23.120
now it's if you show your the more body you show the more empowered you are as a woman and i feel
00:04:30.000
that there's so much more to that and it's like they try and talk for all women as a whole when
00:04:35.520
really this is your opinion so even in dating now it's like men they'll come and talk to you in a
00:04:42.400
certain way like you're a feminist already like they just think you're a feminist i don't know
00:04:46.400
i don't have to explain it but yeah do you think older women sabotage younger women yeah yeah yeah
00:04:53.200
yeah i i feel like going back to what we were just talking about as well like i feel like women
00:04:58.400
are trying to compete with men and i think that is literally where the problem is we are trying to
00:05:04.160
compete with men why is it okay for a man to sleep with loads of women but it's not okay for me
00:05:09.200
and actually do we actually enjoy that like we have to actually ask so ask ourselves like do we
00:05:16.080
actually enjoy casually giving our body like that and you know because we have emotions and we you
00:05:23.440
know we feel things and like for men it's different they can go and do that and have zero emotion
00:05:29.040
whereas with women it's completely different and we can't you know deny that so is it though like do
00:05:36.000
you actually think like do you actually most of my friends i feel like you know they tell me stories and
00:05:43.600
they sleep with someone and they get attached like so you don't think men do or do you think they're
00:05:49.280
just better hiding their emotions because no they don't because i think so no i i men can literally go
00:05:56.400
and do that and have zero emotion they can do that and and they're programmed to be like that whereas
00:06:02.560
why are we trying to compete with that but i but just because someone's programmed to be like something i don't
00:06:08.160
feel like they're being completely open and saying like they can just go and sleep around with anyone
00:06:13.120
and they don't feel any like i don't believe that that i actually i don't think they've got to the
00:06:17.680
root of the problem of why they can do that because that's not humane but but the thing is like when
00:06:21.680
many have money power and status they do do it so it's like easy it's a trend for a man is chris brown
00:06:27.360
like saying stop no of course they're loving it don't sleep with me of course they're loving it but i feel like
00:06:33.600
there's effects that is just it's not attached to okay you're sleeping with loads of people this
00:06:38.720
is why you feel like that i feel like they might feel type of ways but they're not attaching it to
00:06:43.040
oh because i'm just going around sleeping with loads of women because i've got loads of male friends
00:06:47.360
and i see the after effect that has with them sleeping with loads of women but they won't actually
00:06:52.480
admit it yeah they won't actually admit it or pinpoint it on that but i think that sort of goes
00:06:57.600
back uh that sort of goes back to like the whole peer pressure with men and maintaining this image of like
00:07:03.840
you know when you become successful and you have money the girls come with it and i feel like a
00:07:08.720
lot of men are trying to force that and that's probably why your friends are feeling some type
00:07:14.800
of way afterwards because they're doing something but maybe they don't really want to be doing it
00:07:20.400
but also i'll be real like when men obviously sleep around their body's not going to change if a woman
00:07:27.200
sleeps around your body's a temple your body's going to change it's going to adapt to whoever you're
00:07:30.720
sleeping with so that's where you know i mean i'm saying like okay the levels of women and men
00:07:38.400
financially are like the same but like following being full of fashion like it's like you're the
00:07:47.200
mean like you're lowering your standards and your body changes like women we're very we all adapt to a
00:07:53.280
man well not me but you know i'm saying as for men they just you know i mean they can go around do
00:08:00.160
what they're doing honky dory their body's not going to change a woman's body does change you know
00:08:04.800
i mean you're a key so yeah very true yeah very true and i feel like as women we we just have a lot
00:08:12.240
more to lose and that there's a lot more at stake for us so that's why we are naturally going to be
00:08:18.000
very you know picky and selective and you know i i pride myself in being selective and you know not
00:08:27.520
giving my body freely to just anyone like do you think you guys could respect a guy like
00:08:34.720
like do you think you guys could respect a guy um and follow his lead if you make more money than him