This Topic Made Her Cry
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about abortion, promiscuity, and the foster care system. We also talk about the importance of adoption and foster care, and why it's a great option for people that aren't in a situation to have children.
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feel like I feel like it's all extremely sad very very very sad and this
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conversations sad I mean even criminals can get supervised visits and I just
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would have to be pretty bad can I just finish there is so many kids that are
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suffering so many I'm seeing in my family friends like it's sad listen to
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what we're talking about it's sad is they're just bringing children into this
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world and the child and we're talking about the fight between the mom and the
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dad and it's crazy and then you've got these children his poor children who I'm
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thinking of like some of my friends are struggling because he's manipulative she's
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manipulative and you've got this kid who is just a kid and just wants to be a
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kid and doesn't want to have to go through all of this crap and I think it
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all comes down to promiscuous premise like being from if we was taught right if we
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was taught right because it's not right to sleep around it's not right to to just
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be like oh I'm just gonna get an abortion it's not and even if you are life pro
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pro-choice you know even pro-choice you know it's not right to be like let's get
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another abortion let's get another abortion I'll get another one it's not
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right these and it is a life and I get that some people don't believe that it is
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a life it's got a heartbeat you go to a scan the amount of women that I know that
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have been like I'm pregnant how do they know like and then they've gone on the
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they found out they are they knew they got pregnant on this certain day like
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it's it's something spiritual it's something that we cannot explain no
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science can explain it no like how can we explain a life you a woman create in life
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we create life that is that that is the most amazing thing in the world like man
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and a woman get together and they can create life I think it's this is just
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it's really sad I I totally agree with you I think you bring bring brought out a
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very important point it's responsibility you know you mentioned that it's you it's
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your response it's our responsibility to give out the birth but it's also think
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about this if you are now you're homeless and you have you carry a baby but you
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you can't you mentally unstable and you can't even afford to raise a baby think
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about you don't want to raise you know well my mom was in that situation my mom
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gave up she she had a kid she gave up a kid for adoption when she was 17 and it's
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actually really cool he grew up I met him when I was 22 for the first time he's
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31 he just got married he just had his first son so I mean a lot of times we act
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like if you're in a bad situation there's no light at the end of the tunnel there's
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nothing you can do but you know adoption is really a great option for people that
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aren't in a situation to have children it's not we act like there's no option but a lot
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of people they just really don't have options they can't they they can't have a baby at
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that moment you know right there's so many families that want to baby there's so many
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families that are like waiting to adopt that especially with all the first because people
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are having kids later and later they're all the fertility issues and a lot of people I
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know we always talk about the foster care system but if you put a baby into the
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foster care system they're most likely going to be adopted the issue is the
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parents that wait to do it because like most people don't want to you know adopt
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I agree with you but that's why it's important to give them up for adoption when
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that when they're babies it's a lot easier to find a family to adopt them when
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they're babies because the issue is is a lot of like incompetent mothers try to
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keep the kid and they just can't take care of it then social services takes it
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away and the problem is most like families they're not looking to adopt like a
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five-year-old from like a crackhead or something like you know that comes with a
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lot of problems but but if you do that at birth it's a lot easier to find a family
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I feel like I feel like I feel like this generation and it's like now that
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abortion is becoming more I mean you couldn't even talk about it years ago
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like people would be like we won't be sat here talking about abortion and we
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think it's right and we think it's wrong and we won't be able to because it's it
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wasn't I think it was so hush hush and shameful and because morally it's wrong like
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that's what we're told and the thing is we're breeding kids that are think about
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the future so the future if we are like this now and there's problems and there's
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issues and you know there's issues in the family and things like that and there's
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children this child is going through it they're gonna grow up with other issues
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as well as what they've got from their parents this is why I mean it's gonna be
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more and more this is why I think it's so important for women to pick
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husbands get married and stay married I wish you would do because if abortion
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wasn't imagine if abortion was banned yeah I think women would would be would
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take more care with picking their right and that's and that's the problem as I
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just think we have it we live in a culture that promotes promiscuity and I
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don't necessarily like do what you want to do but the issue is that when you act
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selfishly everybody suffers and the kids suffer especially because if you if you
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leave your husband now you know your kids staying in a single mother home or
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well I agree with you you know in regards to like women picking better
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better guys but at the same time I have seen many a case where girls think they've
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picked a really good guy you know I mean he's ticking all the boxes but but but
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it's a facade it's a lie and he's toxic but my question to them is what and I just
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have a hard time believing that the parents didn't say anything and even if
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maybe they don't have the best home life that their friends didn't say
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anything in my experience the people that are in toxic relationships have
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everybody around them telling them they're in a toxic relationship and they
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don't listen it might not be toxic that's the thing that it might not be any
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abuse and things like that it just might be a case where maybe the man just
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doesn't care as much as he let on you know and that's that's the thing you know if
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he doesn't care that much then there's certain things that he won't I think
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that's an unrealistic expectation like I like because throughout life like
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sometimes your husband's gonna care more or care less like I just think you
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can't make emotional decisions that affect the whole family based on things