JustPearlyThings - This Topic Made Her Cry

00:00:00.000 feel like I feel like it's all extremely sad very very very sad and this

00:00:06.660 conversations sad I mean even criminals can get supervised visits and I just

00:00:13.380 would have to be pretty bad can I just finish there is so many kids that are

00:00:18.240 suffering so many I'm seeing in my family friends like it's sad listen to

00:00:26.700 what we're talking about it's sad is they're just bringing children into this

00:00:30.180 world and the child and we're talking about the fight between the mom and the

00:00:35.580 dad and it's crazy and then you've got these children his poor children who I'm

00:00:41.940 thinking of like some of my friends are struggling because he's manipulative she's

00:00:48.720 manipulative and you've got this kid who is just a kid and just wants to be a

00:00:53.520 kid and doesn't want to have to go through all of this crap and I think it

00:00:59.820 all comes down to promiscuous premise like being from if we was taught right if we

00:01:09.240 was taught right because it's not right to sleep around it's not right to to just

00:01:16.760 be like oh I'm just gonna get an abortion it's not and even if you are life pro

00:01:22.560 pro-choice you know even pro-choice you know it's not right to be like let's get

00:01:29.280 another abortion let's get another abortion I'll get another one it's not 1.00

00:01:32.760 right these and it is a life and I get that some people don't believe that it is

00:01:38.940 a life it's got a heartbeat you go to a scan the amount of women that I know that 1.00

00:01:44.220 have been like I'm pregnant how do they know like and then they've gone on the

00:01:49.940 they found out they are they knew they got pregnant on this certain day like

00:01:54.860 it's it's something spiritual it's something that we cannot explain no

00:02:01.580 science can explain it no like how can we explain a life you a woman create in life 1.00

00:02:10.580 we create life that is that that is the most amazing thing in the world like man

00:02:18.020 and a woman get together and they can create life I think it's this is just 0.83

00:02:22.940 it's really sad I I totally agree with you I think you bring bring brought out a

00:02:28.220 very important point it's responsibility you know you mentioned that it's you it's

00:02:33.140 your response it's our responsibility to give out the birth but it's also think

00:02:39.020 about this if you are now you're homeless and you have you carry a baby but you

00:02:45.020 you can't you mentally unstable and you can't even afford to raise a baby think 0.68

00:02:50.900 about you don't want to raise you know well my mom was in that situation my mom

00:02:54.260 gave up she she had a kid she gave up a kid for adoption when she was 17 and it's

00:02:59.840 actually really cool he grew up I met him when I was 22 for the first time he's

00:03:03.940 31 he just got married he just had his first son so I mean a lot of times we act

00:03:08.240 like if you're in a bad situation there's no light at the end of the tunnel there's

00:03:11.420 nothing you can do but you know adoption is really a great option for people that

00:03:15.960 aren't in a situation to have children it's not we act like there's no option but a lot

00:03:20.720 of people they just really don't have options they can't they they can't have a baby at

00:03:25.480 that moment you know right there's so many families that want to baby there's so many

00:03:31.020 families that are like waiting to adopt that especially with all the first because people

00:03:34.660 are having kids later and later they're all the fertility issues and a lot of people I

00:03:38.500 know we always talk about the foster care system but if you put a baby into the

00:03:42.140 foster care system they're most likely going to be adopted the issue is the

00:03:45.880 parents that wait to do it because like most people don't want to you know adopt

00:03:50.380 like a 5 7 10 year old system is horrible

00:03:53.220 I agree with you but that's why it's important to give them up for adoption when 1.00

00:04:01.800 that when they're babies it's a lot easier to find a family to adopt them when

00:04:05.540 they're babies because the issue is is a lot of like incompetent mothers try to 1.00

00:04:09.080 keep the kid and they just can't take care of it then social services takes it

00:04:12.320 away and the problem is most like families they're not looking to adopt like a

00:04:17.160 five-year-old from like a crackhead or something like you know that comes with a

00:04:20.480 lot of problems but but if you do that at birth it's a lot easier to find a family

00:04:24.420 I feel like I feel like I feel like this generation and it's like now that 0.96

00:04:32.520 abortion is becoming more I mean you couldn't even talk about it years ago

00:04:37.420 like people would be like we won't be sat here talking about abortion and we

00:04:42.040 think it's right and we think it's wrong and we won't be able to because it's it

00:04:45.800 wasn't I think it was so hush hush and shameful and because morally it's wrong like

00:04:53.540 that's what we're told and the thing is we're breeding kids that are think about

00:05:01.200 the future so the future if we are like this now and there's problems and there's

00:05:04.880 issues and you know there's issues in the family and things like that and there's

00:05:09.580 children this child is going through it they're gonna grow up with other issues

00:05:14.840 as well as what they've got from their parents this is why I mean it's gonna be

00:05:18.640 more and more this is why I think it's so important for women to pick 1.00

00:05:22.300 husbands get married and stay married I wish you would do because if abortion 1.00

00:05:26.800 wasn't imagine if abortion was banned yeah I think women would would be would 1.00

00:05:31.900 take more care with picking their right and that's and that's the problem as I

00:05:36.460 just think we have it we live in a culture that promotes promiscuity and I

00:05:39.800 don't necessarily like do what you want to do but the issue is that when you act

00:05:45.140 selfishly everybody suffers and the kids suffer especially because if you if you

00:05:50.360 leave your husband now you know your kids staying in a single mother home or

00:05:53.240 boyfriend or you don't pick a good dad

00:05:54.860 well I agree with you you know in regards to like women picking better 1.00

00:05:58.620 better guys but at the same time I have seen many a case where girls think they've 0.99

00:06:03.920 picked a really good guy you know I mean he's ticking all the boxes but but but

00:06:08.640 it's a facade it's a lie and he's toxic but my question to them is what and I just

00:06:14.580 have a hard time believing that the parents didn't say anything and even if

00:06:18.040 maybe they don't have the best home life that their friends didn't say

00:06:20.740 anything in my experience the people that are in toxic relationships have

00:06:25.220 everybody around them telling them they're in a toxic relationship and they

00:06:28.560 don't listen it might not be toxic that's the thing that it might not be any

00:06:31.980 abuse and things like that it just might be a case where maybe the man just

00:06:37.240 doesn't care as much as he let on you know and that's that's the thing you know if

00:06:41.800 he doesn't care that much then there's certain things that he won't I think

00:06:45.880 that's an unrealistic expectation like I like because throughout life like

00:06:50.800 sometimes your husband's gonna care more or care less like I just think you

00:06:55.260 can't make emotional decisions that affect the whole family based on things

00:06:59.920 that change and feelings change

JustPearlyThings - July 12, 2023

This Topic Made Her Cry

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