JustPearlyThings - October 23, 2023


Tiktok Fame RUINED Her Marriage

Topics
be in a man's world
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Bella Porch Juna Palop Chaboy Nika
This Unhinged Single Mother Gets Kicked Out For Saying This Trash Modern Women Are Bad Communicator

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

188.58

Word count

1,812

Sentence count

163

Harmful content

Misogyny

21

sentences flagged

Toxicity

5

sentences flagged

Hate speech

17

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode of Thick & Thin I discuss fat jokes, TikTok star Bella Porch, and why women need to be in the public eye. I also talk about why women should be more selfless in their relationships.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So, as you guys know, I've talked a lot about beautiful, majestic creatures on this channel.
00:00:07.820 For those of you that know that, no. Fat chicks. Now, fat chicks really get sensitive when we talk 1.00
00:00:14.440 about their weight. And the truth is that men prefer thinner, healthy women. And typically,
00:00:20.620 what you see from bigger women is that they get mad and they just shit on me for this opinion. 1.00
00:00:27.420 But recently, an overweight woman has come out to give her opinion on fat jokes. Let's pull it up. 1.00
00:00:36.300 Okay, let's do it. If you get mad over fat jokes, lose the weight, okay?
00:00:41.240 That's what I'm saying.
00:00:41.840 Let's do it.
00:00:52.420 BBL sponsor.
00:00:53.420 Oh, wait. Actually, I think that was a dude. I don't know. I just, I saw the clip. But seriously,
00:01:00.480 guys, and I actually love this because it's so much better when you could just poke fun on yourself.
00:01:06.080 I'm not saying to bully people into oblivion, but I mean, come on, guys. I'll take a ginger joke.
00:01:12.220 You know what I mean? You can't get that big and not be able to take a fat joke here or there.
00:01:17.280 You know, we've sort of lost this ability in America. Like, like, I remember when I was a kid,
00:01:22.540 early 2000s. I mean, it was more common to see racist, sexist, and homophobic jokes, let's just
00:01:29.480 say. But as women have entered the media and the workforce, you really see that going away because, 1.00
00:01:36.100 and it's interesting that this is a dude, like, actually that's saying that because men are better
00:01:40.840 able to take being made fun of. Where women, we just don't really do it well. And my plea to women
00:01:48.820 is if you want to be in a man's world, if you want to be on the internet, if you want to be in the
00:01:52.200 media, if you want to do all this stuff, then be in it. Be in it. Don't cry and complain about being
00:01:58.060 made fun of later when you ask to be in a guy's world that you didn't have to be in. And that's
00:02:03.200 why you see this phenomenon when women enter a space like politics, media, and corporations. 1.00
00:02:09.220 You see this phenomenon of people policing speech, human resources, lawsuits, et cetera.
00:02:15.280 When at the end of the day, we cannot police speech. We can't. And again, I say, if you want
00:02:20.500 to be in a man's world, be in it. Okay. So, so last but not least today, I want to talk about 0.97
00:02:26.460 Bella Porch. So Bella Porch is a viral TikTok star. This woman, so I remember early TikTok days when 0.77
00:02:34.160 Bella blew up. So this woman had the most viral TikTok of all time, the most viewed video with 0.99
00:02:40.780 over 50 million views. And it was so interesting to just see her face. Like she found a way to make
00:02:46.120 her face like move with the muse. It was kind of cool. And recently I saw a video of her on Call
00:02:52.240 Her Daddy talking about how her career actually led her to divorce. Let's pull it up. 0.98
00:02:58.260 I want to be an artist. I want to sing. I want to be like, I want to be in the spotlight. Like I want
00:03:04.920 to perform. And, um, I don't think he ever wants to be part of that. Sometimes it just, it just sucks
00:03:11.200 because, you know, like you want to do something for yourself and like a career, but then you love
00:03:19.340 someone and they, they can't handle it. So it's just like, you kind of just have to pick, right?
00:03:23.840 So words are important. And I wanted to point out something that she says during this video that you
00:03:29.020 kind of just have to pick. And, you know, she goes on, I watched this whole interview. She actually
00:03:33.020 goes on to talk about how he was a really private person and her becoming a public figure really just
00:03:39.580 damaged their relationship and they couldn't handle it. And again, you'll, you'll see this tendency
00:03:45.200 for women to, and I hear older women talk about this too. I just want to do something for myself.
00:03:50.960 And it's funny because when men do selfless things, they're a lot less narcissistic with it.
00:03:58.080 And they don't look at it as a burden. They look at it as a duty where when women tend to 1.00
00:04:02.720 do things like for the family, they look at it as a detriment. They, they hold resentment to the
00:04:09.620 people that hold back their decision. Now I will say this decision may work out for her.
00:04:14.700 She may end up getting remarried. She may be able to have it all, but there are thousands of women 1.00
00:04:20.940 that watch these types of videos and think they will have the same outcome as a woman that is worth 1.00
00:04:27.360 millions and millions of dollars. That is born one of the most, I would argue top 20 ish percent of
00:04:35.040 beauty. Most women will not have these outcomes for making selfish decisions. And typically women in 1.00
00:04:42.760 her shoes don't end up having good outcomes anyway, but I just, I want to give the devil's
00:04:47.340 advocate here. And here, this woman says she's speaking for so many women here. She is. And that's
00:04:53.360 the sad part. She absolutely is speaking for many women because many, most women are selfish in 2023. 1.00
00:05:03.080 Most women care more about themselves and their career than their family and children. 1.00
00:05:09.440 And she admits it there that her career was more important and she was going to pick herself.
00:05:16.120 And I don't, I don't really, I'm a little bit, I have a nuanced opinion on this stuff.
00:05:21.620 Do what you're going to do. At least she didn't have children. Okay. But don't complain later.
00:05:26.400 Don't whine and cry about the outcomes later. You're a man. If he really loves you, he'll support you no
00:05:33.120 matter what. Oh really? What if she wants to do sex work? What if she's putting their relationship 1.00
00:05:38.880 in a compromising position? No matter what? Really? Really? And this is this feminist garbage that 1.00
00:05:45.720 we've just been programmed, that's been shoved down our throat, that says we can do everything a man can 1.00
00:05:51.040 do and still have it all. The truth of the matter is everything in life comes with choices and trade-offs.
00:05:56.240 You cannot have everything. Juna Palop says she chose her dreams. He can't just be proud of what
00:06:02.340 she has accomplished right now. Well, at what cost is the question? And you don't know the ins and
00:06:07.800 outs of the story. You don't know his side of things. Maybe she was going out and putting their 0.77
00:06:12.200 relationship in compromising position. Maybe he's a private person and didn't sign up to be a part of
00:06:17.820 that life. And the thing is, women will constantly lead other women down the path of destruction. 1.00
00:06:23.620 So now, you know, the question becomes, is the grass greener on the other side? For Bella,
00:06:27.780 I really, I hope it is. I never wish negativity on people, but I will say in most cases it's not.
00:06:34.260 Bella Porch is talking about here splitting the bill on a recent date. Let's pull it up.
00:06:39.940 Have you gone on any dates? Like, what's the vibe? Yeah. Okay. I actually went on a date a few
00:06:46.340 days ago. How'd it go? It was weird because I, he likes me, but we split the bill.
00:06:53.620 It's interesting because women want to be modern when it benefits them, but traditional when it 1.00
00:07:02.940 doesn't. I'm sorry, but why is this girl worth millions and millions of dollars complaining 1.00
00:07:07.400 about splitting the bill? I mean, you know, you wanted to be modern, which is fine. No hate, but
00:07:13.060 don't complain about the outcomes later. And these guys are probably thinking this girl's worth,
00:07:18.500 I don't know what she's worth, but I would guess upwards of 10 million. Especially what they were
00:07:23.980 paying for TikTok brand deals back in the day. Guys, it was stupid. It was crazy. These people 1.00
00:07:29.120 were making so much money. I actually, I met a bunch of the top like TikTokers back then. Oh my God. 1.00
00:07:35.600 It was so crazy. I met the D'Amelios back in the day, which is like another top TikTok family. And it
00:07:41.340 was just briefly, but it was so crazy to me to see these like 18 year old kids, you know, driving
00:07:47.140 sports cars, having private drivers, going out to these super expensive, very interesting, very cool
00:07:52.600 actually. You know, it's like they want to be, you can't have everything. You want to be modern, you
00:07:57.080 know, take what comes with it. And I think that's actually the trend we're going to see in the West
00:08:01.540 because you'll see it in Japan. It's actually super normal to split the bills there. Like it's like
00:08:06.820 not, I've asked people over there and they say it's like very normal. The women don't even think 1.00
00:08:12.640 much of it. I think that's a trend you're going to see here because again, you know, the price of
00:08:16.740 women is going up and men are kind of getting sick and tired of paying for something. They don't really 0.79
00:08:21.640 get any value out of. So user 85 says you're not supposed to split the bill. Hey Nika, don't date 0.99
00:08:29.440 him again. LOL, red flag. Chaboy, this is the etiquette. Listen up. Whoever asked for the date should pay.
00:08:37.380 And I used to, I used to actually have different views on this. Like I think a couple of years ago,
00:08:43.220 I used to say that like men should pay. And I, my issue with that logic is like, we can't have 1.00
00:08:49.860 everything. We either want to be modern or we want to be traditional. And the question is if, you know,
00:08:55.240 paying is a deal breaker for you or are you the traditional chick that deserves to be paid for? 1.00
00:09:01.960 But to be fair, I think most guys, to be honest, pay anyway. Like there's just, you know,
00:09:06.020 most guys don't really fight it like that.
00:09:07.680 Actually, I've been getting stuck.
00:09:09.080 So, let's get started.
00:09:09.420 I think maybe folks because we flip the digital meter into a few minutes and I'll
00:09:13.100 keep rising out.
00:09:14.620 I'll probably leave some des ะทums at about 20 minutes.
00:09:15.620 And then I have to begin the other one.
00:09:17.040 How many people happen?
00:09:17.520 I think that you're not getting close to these terms today.
00:09:18.980 So?
00:09:19.580 How many people?
00:09:20.680 Do you wanna get rid of that?
00:09:21.280 What's going on?
00:09:22.180 And then we'll keep the tunnel?
00:09:24.420 I actually wonder if he times like there's just something
00:09:26.240 cleanup.
00:09:26.880 But to be honest everyone who is ready.
00:09:29.360 I've been on this other side of the party's worst time and there's they look
00:09:31.920 up.
00:09:32.820 Then what's going?
00:09:33.740 Well, then you're able to winino?