JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023


Traditional Woman DEMOLISHES Feminism


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9 minutes

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189.81879

Word count

1,847

Sentence count

152

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Misogyny

17

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16

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In this episode, the girls discuss what it means to be a feminist and why they don t consider themselves one. We also discuss the dangers of having multiple sexual partners and why women should or shouldn t sleep with multiple partners.

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00:00:00.000 a disaster. So I'd like to go around and everyone say if you consider yourself a feminist, yes, 1.00
00:00:06.820 no, and then why? I'd say no. I'm not a feminist because I think I believe, I'm in between,
00:00:17.660 I would say, but I'll say no because I don't think, there's things that men can do and there's
00:00:23.220 things that women can't do and there's things that women can do and there's things that men 1.00
00:00:26.640 can't do, if that makes sense. So I feel that's why I'm in the middle and I'm still saying
00:00:31.420 a bit of, nah, I'm not a feminist. Okay. Yeah, me, I'm similar to Janay. I don't think I'm 0.92
00:00:39.560 a feminist because I do believe that I am like strong on like gender roles. So I do believe
00:00:46.640 that there's certain things that a woman should do in a relationship, there's certain things 0.95
00:00:50.720 a man should do in a relationship, but I'm also like big on women empowerment. I just
00:00:56.080 don't feel like it collides. Yeah. Okay, go ahead. I would say no. I don't really identify
00:01:03.360 with anything that feminism stands for anymore. Okay, go ahead. Yeah, I'm sort of like in
00:01:11.340 between. I would say I'm very much a traditional feminist, not so much a modern feminist. I still
00:01:19.600 have those traditional values and I feel like I do believe in female empowerment. I do believe
00:01:25.480 in the movement of feminism. Yeah. Okay, go ahead. Yeah, I would say I'm sort of in between
00:01:32.960 as well, but it just gets a bit too technical. I believe in them obviously opening doors for
00:01:38.920 women, but it gets too technical for me. So for me, I'm in between as well, this feminist 1.00
00:01:44.000 role. Okay. I do not consider myself to be a feminist whatsoever. A man and a woman has
00:01:50.460 complete different duties and roles. They're not equal. A man's purpose is to protect, provide, 1.00
00:01:56.740 hunt and lead. And a woman's purpose is to nurture and reproduce as far as I'm concerned. 1.00
00:02:02.080 They are not equal. I'm not a feminist. I'm very in tune with myself spiritually. And I feel
00:02:08.780 like everything in the modern day world just really collides with my spirit. So definitely
00:02:14.020 not. Wow. A whole room, not one feminist. Wow. Why do you guys think that is? Where has 1.00
00:02:20.540 it gone too far?
00:02:25.180 Promiscuity is promoted. I think that's too far. I think for women, having multiple sexual partners 1.00
00:02:33.200 is really bad for your mental health. It messes up your hormones biologically. And also like,
00:02:40.760 even if you're not technically sleeping with all of them, what kind of person are you if
00:02:45.080 you're just an object on millions of people's screens and all that object is, is your boobs 0.87
00:02:50.380 and bum. They're not really seeing you for who you are. And if you don't care about who 0.75
00:02:55.260 you are enough to put that out there and all you want to put out there is your body, then
00:02:59.760 I think that shows that maybe there's something not quite right inside that maybe you don't
00:03:05.220 value in yourself. So you only value the exterior part of yourself.
00:03:09.520 Do you guys know women that can sleep around and are genuinely happy doing it? 1.00
00:03:13.120 No. I don't think I've ever met one.
00:03:15.700 Really? No.
00:03:16.700 No one? No.
00:03:18.700 So why do you think it's pushed so much if the outcomes aren't good for women?
00:03:21.800 Because I feel like people, like people that maybe, this is just like from me watching,
00:03:30.800 but I feel like people that maybe do sleep around a lot, maybe if they don't actually
00:03:35.700 like know who they are or like know what they stand for completely and they want to act like
00:03:40.740 they're happy. So they'll tell people, yeah, this is what makes me happy. This is what I
00:03:43.980 do. So you do it too. So it's like, it's like some whole gang thing. Like even Amber Rose,
00:03:49.840 for example, this, what is that thing? She does a nude walk. 1.00
00:03:52.840 Slut walk. 1.00
00:03:53.840 Oh, slut walk. Yeah. The slut walk. 1.00
00:03:56.840 Wait, wait, okay.
00:03:57.840 Would anyone go to a slut walk? Anyone here? 1.00
00:03:59.840 No.
00:04:00.840 Okay. Continue.
00:04:01.840 No, I can't lie. I would go for fun, like to watch it.
00:04:04.840 I would do interviews.
00:04:06.840 Yeah, that's exactly what I was going to say. I would go to like interview people and say,
00:04:10.840 you know, what is it? But I don't think I would take part in a slut walk. No. Yeah, definitely. 1.00
00:04:16.840 No, I don't think so. But yeah, what I was going to say about the Amber
00:04:19.820 Rose, suck walk. I feel like with feminism now, it's, if you show your, the more body 1.00
00:04:26.820 you show, the more empowered you are as a woman. And I feel that there's so much more
00:04:30.820 to that. And it's like, they try and talk for all women as a whole, when really this
00:04:35.820 is your opinion. So even in dating now, it's like men, they will come and talk to you in
00:04:41.820 a certain way, like you're a feminist already, like they just think you're a feminist. I don't
00:04:45.820 know. I don't have to explain it, but yeah.
00:04:47.820 Do you think older women sabotage younger women? 1.00
00:04:49.820 Yeah.
00:04:50.820 Yeah.
00:04:51.820 I feel like going back to what we were just talking about as well. Like I feel like women
00:04:57.820 are trying to compete with men. And I think that is literally where the problem is. We
00:05:02.820 are trying to compete with men. Why is it okay for a man to sleep with loads of women, but 0.98
00:05:06.820 it's not okay for me. And actually, do we actually enjoy that? Like we have to actually ask ourselves,
00:05:13.820 like, do we actually enjoy casually giving our body like that? And, you know, because
00:05:21.820 we have emotions and we, you know, we feel things and like for men, it's different. They
00:05:25.820 can go and do that and have zero emotion. Whereas with women, it's completely different 1.00
00:05:30.820 and we can't, you know, deny that.
00:05:32.820 What is it though? Like, do you actually think that?
00:05:36.820 Well, most of my friends, I feel like, you know, they tell me stories and they sleep
00:05:43.820 with someone and they get attached. Like.
00:05:46.820 So you don't think men do? Or do you think they're just better hiding their emotions because
00:05:49.820 of that?
00:05:50.820 No, they don't.
00:05:51.820 No, they don't.
00:05:52.820 You don't think so?
00:05:53.820 No.
00:05:54.820 Men can literally go and do that and have zero emotion. They can do that. And they're programmed
00:05:59.820 to be like that. Whereas why are we trying to compete with that?
00:06:03.820 But just because someone's programmed to be like something, I don't feel like they're
00:06:08.820 being completely open and saying like, they can just go and sleep around with anyone and
00:06:12.820 they don't feel any, like, I don't believe that. I actually, I don't think they've got
00:06:16.820 to the root of the problem of why they can do that because that's not humane.
00:06:19.820 But the thing is like when men get money, power and status, they do do it. So it's like
00:06:23.820 easy for a guy.
00:06:24.820 It's a trend for a man. 0.98
00:06:25.820 It's like, is Chris Brown like saying, stop, stop.
00:06:28.820 No, of course they're loving it.
00:06:30.820 Don't sleep with me.
00:06:31.820 Of course they're loving it, but I feel like there's effects that is just, it's not attached
00:06:35.820 to, okay, you're sleeping with loads of people. This is why you feel like that. I feel like
00:06:39.820 they might feel type of ways, but they're not attaching it to, oh, cause I'm just going
00:06:43.820 around sleeping with loads of women. Cause I've got loads of male friends and I see the
00:06:47.820 after effect that has with them sleeping with loads of women, but they won't actually admit
00:06:51.820 it.
00:06:52.820 Yeah. They will actually admit it or pinpoint it on that.
00:06:54.820 But I think that sort of goes back, that sort of goes back to like the whole peer pressure
00:07:00.820 with men and maintaining this image of like, you know, when you become successful and you
00:07:04.820 have money, the girls come with it. And I feel like a lot of men are trying to force that.
00:07:10.820 And that's probably why your friends are feeling some type of way afterwards. Cause they're
00:07:15.820 doing something, but maybe they don't really want to be doing it.
00:07:19.820 But also I'll be real like when men obviously sleep around their body's not going to change.
00:07:25.820 If a woman sleeps around your body's a temple, your body's going to change. 1.00
00:07:28.820 It's going to adapt to whoever you're sleeping with. So that's where, you know what I mean?
00:07:33.820 I'm saying like, okay, the levels of women and men financially are like the same, but like
00:07:40.820 following being full of fashion, like it's like you're the mean, like you're, you're lowering your standards
00:07:48.820 and your body changes that women were very, we all adapt to a man. Well, not me, but you know what I'm saying?
00:07:55.820 As for men, they just, you know what I mean? They can go around and do what they do in honky dory.
00:08:00.820 Their body's not going to change. A woman's body does change. Do you know what I mean? 1.00
00:08:04.820 You're a key. So yeah, very true. Yeah, very true.
00:08:08.820 And I feel like as women, we, we just have a lot more to lose and that there's a lot more at stake for us.
00:08:14.820 So that's why we are naturally going to be very, you know, picky and selective.
00:08:20.820 And, you know, I, I pride myself in being selective and, you know, not giving my body freely to just anyone.
00:08:29.820 Like, do you think you guys could respect a guy and follow his lead if you make more money than him?
00:08:37.820 No. Subconsciously, I don't think, whoa. No.
00:08:41.820 I don't mind like in terms of finances, it doesn't make a difference to me.
00:08:45.820 Yeah, I wouldn't mind if my partner made more money than me.
00:08:48.820 It's as long as you talk to me with the same level of respect because I'm still earning.
00:08:52.820 So what if you were paying 80% of the bills and you had to buy a house?
00:08:56.820 Whoa. So let's say you pay...
00:08:57.820 That don't make sense.
00:08:59.820 I'm just taking it to the, like to the extreme. You're paying 80% of the bills.
00:09:04.820 And he says, we're buying this house and you don't like it. You hate it.
00:09:08.820 Are you going to go with it?
00:09:09.820 No.
00:09:10.820 You'd have to convince me why we're buying it. You'd have to make logical sense.
00:09:14.820 I personally, I think...
00:09:16.820 The whole point is that you're not submitting if he has to convince you.
00:09:19.820 True.
00:09:20.820 That's like if it's your boss and he tells you to do something, you just do it.
00:09:23.820 True, true.
00:09:24.820 I mean, I think when we're being honest, it's hard to submit to someone.
00:09:27.820 Many of you know I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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