JustPearlyThings - Traditional Woman VS Modern Woman

00:00:00.000 streets. So if you don't have a strong male leadership in your life, being raised by a

00:00:04.840 father who's a king and a prophet and priest is what we call it, then you need validation from

00:00:10.420 the street. If you don't have a group of men who guide you and tell you no. I was raised in an era

00:00:17.320 where like the way I was raised, a lot of women would say it's toxic masculinity, that he's an

00:00:24.720 ogre. They would criticize my father. But let me tell you something. My father is my best friend

00:00:28.300 to this day. Okay. I was in church four days a week, all day on Sunday. I hated it growing up,

00:00:35.760 but it was the only life I knew. And I, as I, him now, like my dad, when he tells my daughter

00:00:42.640 something, he tells me he doesn't like something from my daughters. They come to me and they say,

00:00:47.560 he said that they don't do that. They don't do that anymore because they know I'm just like,

00:00:51.800 that's your grandfather. I don't give a, like, don't come to me. That's your authority.

00:00:55.320 Let me ask you a question. Why do you think so many women these days, like modern women 1.00

00:01:00.700 these days are just like posting all of this kind of like provocative stuff on their social

00:01:05.180 media and they're not getting paid because I always hear, oh, but what if it's for business?

00:01:08.740 What if I'm getting paid? But the majority of you are not. That's a, this is not even worth

00:01:12.860 talking about the money side of it. So why do you think so many women or girls are posting 1.00

00:01:17.700 all of these kinds of images?

00:01:19.060 I've made real money making family content, money that they've never even seen.

00:01:22.160 They don't even know the type of levels that actually exist making real money. It's just

00:01:26.780 some scraps. And so they, they, they think it's real money and it's absolutely not. Sexual

00:01:33.000 attention is different from relationship intention and they will value the validation from the

00:01:37.340 streets and a man who was actually going to provide and protect for you. They don't understand

00:01:41.260 the value of a man. They don't understand his worth. They don't care about it. They think

00:01:45.260 that, you know, they, they've never had it in their life. So it's not a criticism. I think

00:01:50.780 it's a failure of society. I think it's a failure of their family, their family structure, a failure

00:01:55.160 of their mother who did not teach them or show them what a wife is and what a good man does

00:02:02.620 and how to be a wife. The man should be the authority in your life. It's just the way I

00:02:06.680 was raised. If you don't like it, I'm sorry. That's just your problem. But I say this because

00:02:11.020 you don't, I know to this day, my uncles right now, one of y'all popped off with me, my entire

00:02:16.620 family will ride out with me. Right now, my cousin and sister are here with me. I like,

00:02:22.120 like, like, like, I have family protection. And I think a lot of people were not raised

00:02:27.440 in those circumstances. So they don't understand what it means, the value, the only thing that

00:02:31.520 matters is the family structure. And the leader of a family is a man. And if he says something,

00:02:36.800 it doesn't mean like, like a lot of people think a man's authority means he's an ogre and

00:02:40.940 he's like, you can't talk and all this. Let me tell you something. A man who's about his bank,

00:02:46.780 about his bread, about his life, about his family, he's listening to his woman. He cares about what

00:02:51.720 his woman thinks because he adds value to his life. He doesn't have time to argue and fuss with you. 1.00

00:02:56.620 If he says something, let it go. Because he's adding so much to your life that you can never

00:03:01.920 get from these simps and these weak panderers online who give you base validation. These same men

00:03:08.820 would just, they would provide nothing. They will get you pregnant and leave you. 1.00

00:03:12.500 Listen, all they're going to do is pump and dump. Trust.

00:03:15.960 Skeet and skirt.

00:03:16.920 Listen, listen, listen.

00:03:17.800 Skeet and retreat. 0.92

00:03:18.720 I'll let someone else speak. Pearl, what do you think about it? What do you think about this whole,

00:03:24.120 you know, Instagram stuff?

00:03:26.340 I mean, I think it's what is your priority in life? And do you care more about Instagram or do you

00:03:31.120 care more about a family? And I'm assuming that this is someone that you would want to start a family

00:03:36.460 with or date long-term. And what is your Instagram profile worth a family when that could be a good

00:03:42.680 guy that's going to take care of you and look after your family?

00:03:45.940 What do you think, what do you, what is your response to like what the girls said in response?

00:03:49.740 Like, you know, well, you met me like this and you know, um, well, if I, if I can look it back in 10

00:03:55.300 years and feel okay about it, like, what do you think about what they said in response?

00:03:58.740 Um, I mean, to me, that's just saying you want to be in the streets forever. Okay. Uh, you don't

00:04:05.260 think you have to ever make sacrifices or change things about yourself or your family that you have

00:04:09.640 to be the exact same. I mean, you don't think your mom changed at all when she became a mother,

00:04:14.460 she had to grow up a bit. I mean, if, but that's the thing we live in this me, me, me culture where 0.98

00:04:19.380 it's me, me, me before the family instead of the family before me, like our great grandmothers,

00:04:23.520 our grandmothers, they didn't think like this. They, they, they put the family before

00:04:28.220 everything. I'm going to ask the young lady in the corner. What, what do you think about what's

00:04:35.320 been said so far? Well, uh, to answer the initial question, if my man asked me, it wouldn't even be

00:04:41.980 a conversation because I don't post anything now that he wouldn't approve of. And the only reason

00:04:47.720 that I am on social media is because he's encouraging me to get more of what I do, which is traditional,

00:04:54.560 uh, out there. Um, I would say at 27, a hardworking, honest man cannot even compete with the attention

00:05:04.280 that you can get from the volume of men on social media. However, fast forward 20 years at 47,

00:05:12.760 you would give a limb to have an honest, hardworking man who dedicated his life to you instead of the

00:05:21.140 volume of men who would give you momentary attention online.

00:05:25.860 So do you feel like a lot of, uh, younger women that's completely just, I don't know, 0.96

00:05:31.300 they, they're unaware, maybe they don't care about it or they're just not being taught, like

00:05:35.660 the value of like, you know, um, uh, maybe the leadership of a good man or whatever.

00:05:42.000 And, and I kind of like just going down the rabbit hole of, yeah, it's just my life. YOLO.

00:05:46.920 I'll do what I want. Don't tell me nothing. Like, what'd you think about it? Well, we've talked

00:05:50.800 about it a little bit this week and at 27 or in your twenties, it's really hard to see your forties.

00:05:56.420 You think you'll be forever young. You think you'll have that zest, that gusto. I see myself in a lot

00:06:02.160 of these younger women, but you will start to slow down because in your forties, 60 is right around 1.00

00:06:07.720 the corner. And hopefully you've made decisions that make your, your later years, something you look

00:06:13.080 forward to. I don't blame younger women because like I said, one man could never compete with the 1.00

00:06:20.260 world of the internet, but I think it is a little bit short-sighted. And I do agree with Melanie.

00:06:25.760 We do have to teach the younger women that tomorrow will come. Men operate that way, that tomorrow is 0.94

00:06:33.340 coming. A lot of times women don't until they're there and it's too late. 1.00

00:06:37.720 Yeah. That's called hitting the wall. Yeah. And the wall is undefeated. And then, and then

00:06:43.100 a guy like me pops up to do a reaction video or a guy like MTR pops up to do a reaction video

00:06:49.060 and we just don't have much. In fact, not much. I don't have no sympathy. I don't care.

00:06:53.980 And that's it. Like, do you know what I mean? And I want to move to my boy MTR. What do you

00:06:59.000 think about this, bro? What do you think about this?

00:07:00.780 I mean, I think that the last few, a couple of speakers pretty much echo my sentiments

00:07:07.620 completely, but at the same time, I think that the first young lady behind me said,

00:07:12.300 you know, you knew this when you got a relationship with me, which is, you know, a fair, a fair

00:07:18.120 thing. You know, I think that, um, you know, as a man is going about his life and doing the

00:07:22.920 things that he does to vet young women in their life, looking at their digital footprint is

00:07:27.440 absolutely integral in understanding who she is, how she wants to document herself from

00:07:35.480 a digital perspective is going to tell you a lot about her. Is she insecure? How confident 1.00

00:07:40.760 that she is within herself, how she deems her sexuality to be, and how important that it

00:07:46.340 is to you that you might want to monitor or close off boundaries of what that is. And

00:07:50.900 it's demonstrating itself online. The fact of the matter is, is I think like a lot of women 1.00

00:07:55.760 today are in combat unbeknownst to them with the media around them that tells them to be

00:08:02.200 liberated, that tells them to be free, that tells them to be independent, that tells them

00:08:06.840 that they don't need no man, that tells them that they got the infinite time in the world

00:08:10.440 to do whatever thing, everything that they could possibly want. The media that tells them

00:08:14.540 that they can have everything that they possibly want. That same media doesn't tell men the

00:08:18.800 same thing, but shout out to Maggie. She says something very important is that men by

00:08:22.980 trade, especially masculine men, are long-term thinkers. Masculine men are also not consumed

00:08:28.620 with the short-term dopamine hits that you find on social media, right? So if you meet

00:08:33.260 a young lady whose mind is gone, whose mind is for the streets, that doesn't understand the 1.00

00:08:37.260 importance of why you would want that to change or to happen, then she don't want to be saved.

00:08:43.420 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this

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JustPearlyThings - March 19, 2023

Traditional Woman VS Modern Woman

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