JustPearlyThings - July 29, 2023


Trans Woman CALLS OUT Trans People


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10 minutes

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169.61235

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1,721

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Summary


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00:00:00.000 what what does the rest of like life look like for you uh we i don't consider yourself like
00:00:06.780 what do you do you consider yourself trans do you do you think that's not okay i just call him i'm
00:00:12.440 just male male i always have been i never transitioned i never did transitioned there
00:00:17.220 is no transition because there is no change of sex right you cannot change you can change your
00:00:23.100 appearance but you can't change your sex you just can't so to me i just i'm a male i still like
00:00:33.700 you know i how should i say this i'm not restricting myself to a to a way of being just because i call
00:00:41.540 myself a man there's not i don't have to like be an absolute alpha chad sort of type who loves
00:00:49.940 sports and drinks beer you know i don't need to do that to be a man i can just be a man by being
00:00:54.780 male right there's no one way to be it and i wish i knew that like properly knew that so i always say
00:01:02.980 that i don't think it's like kind to help to allow trans people to live in delusion because i think it
00:01:10.880 leads to this stuff and um i didn't know too much about the surgery but i've always said like i don't
00:01:18.660 think it helps trans people letting them in our bathrooms and like allowing them like to act like
00:01:24.740 acting like they're the opposite gender because they're not what do you think about that um
00:01:30.980 part about an issue i personally feel that there are some people who generally believe that they are
00:01:39.320 happier when they're trans um i think it's cruel to tell people who clearly are not women or clearly
00:01:49.660 are not men that they are right but i do think the the way i say is we functioned we were functioning
00:01:58.700 fine up until about 2015 right everyone was those the bathroom thing was that a big issue before then
00:02:05.840 was there a big trans thing in bathrooms no it wasn't it was because when i wreck it realized it
00:02:11.780 was the caitlin jenner that was like the first big thing i remember but like this is my point before
00:02:17.120 then everyone kind of got on with it there was no big huge problem but now all of a sudden you've got
00:02:23.700 all these very sexually fueled all the males who want to carry out their politicize it well not just
00:02:32.020 that they want to carry out their fetish and like the there is a bit of a nice big situation going on
00:02:36.940 there and then you've got people who are like very voyeuristic and they do a lot of exhibitionism like
00:02:42.760 uh flashing in i don't know if you saw in the uk there was this there was this uh trans person i used
00:02:50.740 the quotations this day um who was caught in i think it was barker and stonehouse maybe it was
00:02:56.720 house in fraser um and they were flat they were taking pictures of themselves with the dick out
00:03:02.000 and shit in women's clothes and stuff and it's like the breastfeeding ones and the ones who
00:03:08.700 are like doing all this shit that never was really like wanted or like a representation of the people who
00:03:17.180 do amend their presentation to fit in and i know it may feel like delusional and cruel but
00:03:25.540 where do you draw the line on that because there are a lot of people in life who are living in
00:03:30.480 delusion there are a lot of people who i'm anti it's mostly women that live in delusion i'm anti
00:03:36.000 delusion it's okay you can disagree but i'm just i'm like yeah i'm with i'm with i don't think anyone
00:03:43.100 should be living in delusion we should be painfully honest like when fat people think they're hot i think
00:03:48.680 that's bad too i'm like we gotta really agree i agree with that yeah like i feel like before
00:03:54.560 you know they used to be like like i you know if i was younger and i was like oh i think i'm a boy
00:04:02.260 they'd be like no you're not and then you just keep telling them they're not until they eventually
00:04:05.860 believe they're not but i'm like i feel like you could tell me if i'm wrong because we like like
00:04:11.680 coddle everybody nobody tells you the truth and then give them these like funnels where they just
00:04:16.680 can like live out the delusion whether it's i've just noticed the same system so this isn't even like
00:04:21.640 i don't know a ton about the trans stuff but even with the body positive stuff i applied for a body
00:04:26.440 positive job the other day and it was the same thing these big words where i don't know what
00:04:30.080 anything means and then they give me a system where i can like a group where i can live out my delusion
00:04:36.060 yeah and it's like outside of the real world yeah um and they make it the real world
00:04:43.680 yeah yeah they do there's a lot of people who are trying to convince everyone else of their own
00:04:49.560 reality you know of the or a reality that they're trying to sell themselves because we all tell
00:04:55.820 ourselves a story you know and life is kind of about understanding that story but some people try
00:05:02.740 and sell a different one and that is the delusion and it doesn't matter what it is but some people
00:05:08.520 generally do believe their ideology like the fat acceptance stuff um but yeah i'm i'm kind of with
00:05:19.380 you on the fat acceptance not a fat shame anyone no i will fat shame yes i'm a big fat shamer
00:05:26.400 oh you would hate me in my very early 20s that was a podgy boy what i was the fatty in my early 20s
00:05:33.520 but i needed that i needed yeah well i didn't i wouldn't i don't mind fat people i just don't
00:05:38.220 like fat people that think they're thin ah right oh yeah yes yes you know just like i don't like like
00:05:47.120 yeah i just don't like the pretending you know what i mean let's just live in the like these chicks
00:05:53.020 will wear these bikinis to the beach and i'm like why are you don't my mom always told me you have
00:05:58.080 to earn a bikini now i know i mean so here's the thing body i think only hot bodies are bikini
00:06:07.840 but i think like fat acceptance itself rather than saying again like kind of with the trans stuff
00:06:15.800 that this applies to everyone they can't just have their own quiet corner and say look some guys are
00:06:22.220 very big women right some guys really are into that that's a huge thing
00:06:28.780 probably because they can't screw the thin chicks you're still probably not their first choice
00:06:37.280 you're right i don't know i don't know dude think about it do you see any rich men that have fat wives
00:06:44.080 i've seen some guys who are quite fit really chase after the after the chunky ones i really have
00:06:51.160 well i mean to marry them like i mean marry them i don't know i don't know about marry them but
00:06:57.940 they definitely get with them well yeah because it's like easier the guys want the sex they're
00:07:02.540 like let me get the sex well that's easier than going after the thin chick over there i'll take it
00:07:08.280 yeah it's not a compliment you know and they used to tell you that so they'd be like get on the
00:07:14.400 treadmill and lose the weight i think you are kind of touching on a point about the sort of
00:07:21.580 social shame aspect that is kind of missing in some circles because the whole point in shame socially
00:07:30.080 is to keep our own behavior in check to keep us moving along to stop people mainly you don't want
00:07:36.460 for instance uh pervaded old man for instance to walk around naked next to kids that like no one
00:07:42.560 wants that but there are steps to get there right um yeah yeah so wait question how would you
00:07:51.940 because you you felt like you were um you you felt like you were a girl you're from like a young age
00:08:00.880 i think the wires got kind of crossed i think what happened was i very young i didn't think i was a
00:08:10.080 girl i just wanted to play with those things i just wanted to be those things i didn't think oh i
00:08:16.160 therefore i am a girl i think what happened was as i got older and i started developing as like
00:08:23.200 attraction for the same sex like other guys and stuff i became very nervous around that became very
00:08:30.580 fearful around that and over time i think it was like oh the reason i am the way i am is because
00:08:35.800 i must because well because i'm a girl and but how did you how did you get that idea i don't know
00:08:42.900 it just happened over time i really don't know i wish i knew no i i just wonder how like i this could
00:08:49.820 have been prevented like that's that was more my thought process was for me was it was it the media
00:08:56.540 was it like was it something at home i think the book kind of stops at the people who are
00:09:02.620 administering the treatment really because you know if you're if you are if you don't have that
00:09:11.020 and you have people who think that then they're gonna go off and think that and that's that right
00:09:15.340 but if you are supplying it right you are pumping it out then you've got responsibilities i feel and i
00:09:22.600 wonder how many people like me are getting sent through when they really shouldn't uh but even
00:09:29.660 people who are adamant that they want the surgery can still regret it and they can feel even worse
00:09:36.380 because they don't have a similar setting where they don't have all this veneration and this belief
00:09:41.480 they just literally think actually i i played me hand and i lost really badly in this one
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