Trans Woman CALLS OUT Trans People
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Summary
In this episode of the Transphobia and Dysphoria podcast, we talk about the trans community, the trans bathroom debate and the transphobic culture in the UK. We are joined by the trans activist, body positive body positivity activist and transphobia activist, to discuss the trans issue.
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what what does the rest of like life look like for you uh we i don't consider yourself like
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what do you do you consider yourself trans do you do you think that's not okay i just call him i'm
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just male male i always have been i never transitioned i never did transitioned there
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is no transition because there is no change of sex right you cannot change you can change your
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appearance but you can't change your sex you just can't so to me i just i'm a male i still like
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you know i how should i say this i'm not restricting myself to a to a way of being just because i call
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myself a man there's not i don't have to like be an absolute alpha chad sort of type who loves
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sports and drinks beer you know i don't need to do that to be a man i can just be a man by being
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male right there's no one way to be it and i wish i knew that like properly knew that so i always say
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that i don't think it's like kind to help to allow trans people to live in delusion because i think it
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leads to this stuff and um i didn't know too much about the surgery but i've always said like i don't
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think it helps trans people letting them in our bathrooms and like allowing them like to act like
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acting like they're the opposite gender because they're not what do you think about that um
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part about an issue i personally feel that there are some people who generally believe that they are
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happier when they're trans um i think it's cruel to tell people who clearly are not women or clearly
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are not men that they are right but i do think the the way i say is we functioned we were functioning
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fine up until about 2015 right everyone was those the bathroom thing was that a big issue before then
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was there a big trans thing in bathrooms no it wasn't it was because when i wreck it realized it
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was the caitlin jenner that was like the first big thing i remember but like this is my point before
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then everyone kind of got on with it there was no big huge problem but now all of a sudden you've got
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all these very sexually fueled all the males who want to carry out their politicize it well not just
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that they want to carry out their fetish and like the there is a bit of a nice big situation going on
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there and then you've got people who are like very voyeuristic and they do a lot of exhibitionism like
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uh flashing in i don't know if you saw in the uk there was this there was this uh trans person i used
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the quotations this day um who was caught in i think it was barker and stonehouse maybe it was
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house in fraser um and they were flat they were taking pictures of themselves with the dick out
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and shit in women's clothes and stuff and it's like the breastfeeding ones and the ones who
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are like doing all this shit that never was really like wanted or like a representation of the people who
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do amend their presentation to fit in and i know it may feel like delusional and cruel but
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where do you draw the line on that because there are a lot of people in life who are living in
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delusion there are a lot of people who i'm anti it's mostly women that live in delusion i'm anti
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delusion it's okay you can disagree but i'm just i'm like yeah i'm with i'm with i don't think anyone
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should be living in delusion we should be painfully honest like when fat people think they're hot i think
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that's bad too i'm like we gotta really agree i agree with that yeah like i feel like before
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you know they used to be like like i you know if i was younger and i was like oh i think i'm a boy
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they'd be like no you're not and then you just keep telling them they're not until they eventually
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believe they're not but i'm like i feel like you could tell me if i'm wrong because we like like
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coddle everybody nobody tells you the truth and then give them these like funnels where they just
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can like live out the delusion whether it's i've just noticed the same system so this isn't even like
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i don't know a ton about the trans stuff but even with the body positive stuff i applied for a body
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positive job the other day and it was the same thing these big words where i don't know what
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anything means and then they give me a system where i can like a group where i can live out my delusion
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yeah and it's like outside of the real world yeah um and they make it the real world
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yeah yeah they do there's a lot of people who are trying to convince everyone else of their own
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reality you know of the or a reality that they're trying to sell themselves because we all tell
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ourselves a story you know and life is kind of about understanding that story but some people try
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and sell a different one and that is the delusion and it doesn't matter what it is but some people
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generally do believe their ideology like the fat acceptance stuff um but yeah i'm i'm kind of with
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you on the fat acceptance not a fat shame anyone no i will fat shame yes i'm a big fat shamer
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oh you would hate me in my very early 20s that was a podgy boy what i was the fatty in my early 20s
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but i needed that i needed yeah well i didn't i wouldn't i don't mind fat people i just don't
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like fat people that think they're thin ah right oh yeah yes yes you know just like i don't like like
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yeah i just don't like the pretending you know what i mean let's just live in the like these chicks
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will wear these bikinis to the beach and i'm like why are you don't my mom always told me you have
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to earn a bikini now i know i mean so here's the thing body i think only hot bodies are bikini
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but i think like fat acceptance itself rather than saying again like kind of with the trans stuff
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that this applies to everyone they can't just have their own quiet corner and say look some guys are
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very big women right some guys really are into that that's a huge thing
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probably because they can't screw the thin chicks you're still probably not their first choice
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you're right i don't know i don't know dude think about it do you see any rich men that have fat wives
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i've seen some guys who are quite fit really chase after the after the chunky ones i really have
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well i mean to marry them like i mean marry them i don't know i don't know about marry them but
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they definitely get with them well yeah because it's like easier the guys want the sex they're
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like let me get the sex well that's easier than going after the thin chick over there i'll take it
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yeah it's not a compliment you know and they used to tell you that so they'd be like get on the
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treadmill and lose the weight i think you are kind of touching on a point about the sort of
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social shame aspect that is kind of missing in some circles because the whole point in shame socially
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is to keep our own behavior in check to keep us moving along to stop people mainly you don't want
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for instance uh pervaded old man for instance to walk around naked next to kids that like no one
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wants that but there are steps to get there right um yeah yeah so wait question how would you
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because you you felt like you were um you you felt like you were a girl you're from like a young age
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i think the wires got kind of crossed i think what happened was i very young i didn't think i was a
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girl i just wanted to play with those things i just wanted to be those things i didn't think oh i
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therefore i am a girl i think what happened was as i got older and i started developing as like
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attraction for the same sex like other guys and stuff i became very nervous around that became very
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fearful around that and over time i think it was like oh the reason i am the way i am is because
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i must because well because i'm a girl and but how did you how did you get that idea i don't know
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it just happened over time i really don't know i wish i knew no i i just wonder how like i this could
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have been prevented like that's that was more my thought process was for me was it was it the media
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was it like was it something at home i think the book kind of stops at the people who are
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administering the treatment really because you know if you're if you are if you don't have that
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and you have people who think that then they're gonna go off and think that and that's that right
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but if you are supplying it right you are pumping it out then you've got responsibilities i feel and i
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wonder how many people like me are getting sent through when they really shouldn't uh but even
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people who are adamant that they want the surgery can still regret it and they can feel even worse
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because they don't have a similar setting where they don't have all this veneration and this belief
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they just literally think actually i i played me hand and i lost really badly in this one