JustPearlyThings - May 01, 2023


@TrueGeordie Breaks down the wall to modern women


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11 minutes

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Word count

2,486

Sentence count

260

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Hate speech

18

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how women in their 20s and 30s are the worst when it comes to relationships and how to deal with it. We also talk about why women choose non-monogamy in their 30s and how it affects their chances of getting married.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I said, I'm in a relationship, and we're good, and we're stable.
00:00:05.060 I'm not saying that...
00:00:07.620 Even if we take you out of it, the average woman, 31 at first marriage and overweight. 1.00
00:00:12.460 Okay, no, no, no, not in shape, and not young.
00:00:16.020 Women don't realise the urgency that they should be operating with, by the way. 1.00
00:00:19.840 As in, a friend of mine was in a wedding the other day.
00:00:23.720 It was an Indian wedding, and there were several girls there who were late 20s.
00:00:30.000 Not in a relationship, not married.
00:00:31.920 And we're thinking, like, women from that background, usually they're the quickest to get married, you know what I mean?
00:00:36.280 So I don't think...
00:00:37.400 And when I'm dealing with what I've been dealing with women, they don't realise the competition they're up against. 1.00
00:00:43.840 They have no clue.
00:00:45.140 That's why they look at me, and they're like, I'm a pretty girl.
00:00:48.660 You know, what's he going to do?
00:00:49.760 They don't realise.
00:00:50.400 It's like, oh, you're...
00:00:51.640 Like, I'll just spin the wheel and just pick the name out if I want.
00:00:54.220 I'm not that guy now.
00:00:55.240 I'm just saying that's the way I want, just to be fucking clear.
00:00:58.020 You know what I'm saying?
00:00:58.820 Like, I think if women realise the reality that Pearl is trying to get across here, people think Pearl is, like, trying to rub people's noses.
00:01:05.620 No, no, no, no, no.
00:01:06.220 She's actually...
00:01:07.160 No, but I'm just saying, like, if people were aware of how cutthroat and competition is, it wouldn't be.
00:01:12.380 Because you are competing.
00:01:13.760 That's what I'm saying.
00:01:14.720 There's competition out there.
00:01:15.560 Yeah.
00:01:16.100 But that's the thing.
00:01:17.080 It's like every guy that we're interested is probably top 20% of men, meaning he's talking to five other chicks.
00:01:23.540 So wait, how are these other 80% of guys in a relationship?
00:01:26.120 They're not.
00:01:26.760 They find one person to stick with them for life.
00:01:28.860 You know, you're only fun.
00:01:30.740 They're the subscribers.
00:01:32.800 No, no, so this is the thing.
00:01:34.040 When women are in their 20s, they choose non-monogamy. 0.84
00:01:37.100 Right.
00:01:37.280 So when women, we take out the men, what do women pick for? 1.00
00:01:41.700 Butterflies, right?
00:01:42.700 Tingles.
00:01:43.180 He makes me feel a certain way.
00:01:44.920 So what does that mean?
00:01:46.220 It's looks.
00:01:47.000 Okay, let's just call it space.
00:01:48.400 So in our 20s, we go for looks, meaning we share men in our 20s.
00:01:52.240 And then at 30s, when we need a child, it switches.
00:01:55.580 So the guys that are in relationships are getting the leftover women. 0.99
00:01:58.400 And that's the problem, though, is they're realizing too late.
00:02:01.840 Like your peak, your prime, unfortunately, is when you're at your dumbest.
00:02:05.640 When you're in your early 20s, when you look your prettiest, is when every man wants you.
00:02:09.760 But you're too busy trying men out.
00:02:12.040 But by the time you realize, you're like, now I want to settle down, the window is gone.
00:02:17.360 And that is closed.
00:02:18.260 And now you're hoping that the guy hasn't already been married, got kids.
00:02:22.020 And it's difficult.
00:02:22.740 But women aren't realizing this till it's still late. 1.00
00:02:24.600 There was advocate.
00:02:25.180 Why do we associate our peak with our youth and physical space?
00:02:29.720 That's what I want to know.
00:02:30.580 Wait, wait, wait.
00:02:31.260 No, that's a good question.
00:02:32.540 That is a good question.
00:02:33.040 It's different from men and for women. 0.93
00:02:34.020 Couldn't your peak actually be, once you've gone through all of those experiences and you understand, as a man or a woman, who you truly are?
00:02:39.500 Question for you.
00:02:40.420 Would all those men paying for your OnlyFans still want to fuck you with 50 years old, pal?
00:02:44.340 That's the reason.
00:02:45.660 With what?
00:02:46.180 Good question.
00:02:47.140 No, I'm saying, if he was 50 years old on OnlyFans, would the same amount of people be paying money?
00:02:51.380 There's only one way to find out.
00:02:52.740 No, no, no.
00:02:53.860 That's true.
00:02:54.860 I'm just, he's keeping all youth and physical space.
00:02:57.420 Well, he's attractive to the men.
00:02:59.420 No, no.
00:02:59.920 Okay, but actually, I have a better question.
00:03:02.320 Would they want to watch if you're effing 60-year-old women? 1.00
00:03:05.200 Yeah, exactly.
00:03:06.620 Oh.
00:03:06.960 You'd be surprised.
00:03:08.120 I've got some mad requests.
00:03:10.020 He showed me a bloody actor that he had on his podcast who'd done something with a 78-year-old.
00:03:15.020 Don't drop me into the jam.
00:03:17.680 We're talking in general.
00:03:19.160 Let's just be real.
00:03:19.800 No, your facts, facts, facts.
00:03:20.460 You know, in the beauty industry, anything that sells sex, they want the young women. 0.99
00:03:23.920 No, it's true, it's true, it's true.
00:03:24.680 And so it's like, we're not saying you can't get better as a person.
00:03:27.820 I think a lot of times, older women are a lot nicer and kinder. 1.00
00:03:31.720 But from a, yeah, I get it.
00:03:32.920 But I want parents to get married at early 22, 23, 24, 25.
00:03:39.120 Now it's like 30s.
00:03:40.880 At that time, we valued the purity of women, you know what I mean?
00:03:45.680 And the youth of women.
00:03:47.440 And that's what we hold high up there in high regards.
00:03:50.380 Whereas women hold, for men, how much accomplishments we've done. 1.00
00:03:53.780 I've got a question on that in the world.
00:03:55.320 And men peak around 35.
00:03:57.120 I've got a question, just out of curiosity, right?
00:03:58.540 It seems we're talking about a relationship.
00:03:59.940 For you four women, what's more important? 0.71
00:04:01.720 A man's loyalty and his honesty or his stature and position in society?
00:04:06.420 Because then we'll be able to decipher how much infidelity really is a problem.
00:04:10.720 But for me, I'm saying loyalty and what would you say?
00:04:14.780 So it's out of loyalty or social status?
00:04:17.340 I.e. you've got a 20% guy who will cheat on you Monday to Monday twice on a Sunday?
00:04:21.140 Loyalty for me.
00:04:21.660 Or a, not a tramp, well, an 80% guy who's not so rich but he's going to be loyal to you.
00:04:25.820 What's more important?
00:04:26.840 You can make money together if you take it like that.
00:04:29.180 Loyalty, yeah.
00:04:29.820 Loyalty?
00:04:30.420 For me, it would definitely be loyalty and a good line of communication.
00:04:36.320 And you?
00:04:37.000 Loyalty.
00:04:37.540 Loyalty.
00:04:38.140 Yeah.
00:04:39.180 Liars.
00:04:39.540 Yeah, I think, and this is the thing, I think it sounds nice.
00:04:42.860 It sounds real nice.
00:04:43.780 It sounds nice.
00:04:44.920 But we just have to talk about, by and large, women don't pick loyalty when they're at their peak. 1.00
00:04:49.040 So it's like, they could say that, but it's like, when, no, because seriously, if loyalty was the number one thing to you guys.
00:04:55.220 It's not for everyone.
00:04:55.820 If it was, no, listen, listen, if it was the number one thing to you guys.
00:04:58.800 None of you would be single.
00:04:59.600 No, you would be virgins on your wedding day because you want to make sure that you have a man that sleeps with you, that's loyal to you for life. 1.00
00:05:07.500 But we don't pick that.
00:05:08.660 Yeah, but I feel like sexual education is not that into the early stage.
00:05:15.900 But why?
00:05:17.160 Why?
00:05:17.520 That's the question.
00:05:18.160 Why?
00:05:18.420 Because women don't value it. 1.00
00:05:20.560 Women have changed. 1.00
00:05:22.520 Yeah.
00:05:22.960 Can I ask the ladies a very valuable question, which I don't think anybody's asked.
00:05:26.960 Yeah.
00:05:27.080 If you guys were a man for one day, yeah, you know that question, if you guys were a man for one day, yeah, what would you do?
00:05:37.320 Would you go out and shag all these women? 1.00
00:05:38.940 Yeah.
00:05:39.440 I know you, the thing is, if you guys were men for one day, you lot would shag all the women. 0.97
00:05:45.960 I would have heard it so many times.
00:05:47.140 You always said, if I had a penis on a thangness, then they would do the most. 1.00
00:05:50.560 Would you like me to answer?
00:05:51.160 Yeah, so you need to understand.
00:05:52.140 Would you like me to answer?
00:05:53.300 Yeah, go for it.
00:05:54.000 I know how to answer.
00:05:54.880 If I was a man for a day.
00:06:00.780 You'd probably want to be a man for longer.
00:06:02.820 No, no.
00:06:04.420 I watch the feminists crawl out of the conversation. 1.00
00:06:08.960 The first thing I would do, okay, is, I don't know, because, I mean, I'm not about, and that's the thing, if you've just got one track mind, like, are you just going to go and shag everybody?
00:06:22.760 No.
00:06:23.200 Okay, but you, you're a man for one day, what you can do in one day.
00:06:27.260 Have a wank.
00:06:27.700 You'd be surprised.
00:06:28.800 I don't know.
00:06:30.280 I don't know.
00:06:31.120 I'll probably try and set up some sort of, I don't know, something, but sex will be the last thing that will be on my, on my plate.
00:06:39.220 You'd play with your willy, you'd be the first thing you'd do.
00:06:41.440 No.
00:06:42.020 The hell you would.
00:06:42.900 Wait, no.
00:06:43.640 First of all, if I wake up as a man in a day, I'll be shocked to be like, oh, why is this thing standing up?
00:06:49.540 How do I even control this?
00:06:50.980 What do I do?
00:06:51.860 First of all, I'll be like, what the fuck?
00:06:53.080 What the fuck do I do with this?
00:06:54.020 I want to see if I,
00:06:54.700 Second of all, I'll be like, okay, I'll call one of my brothers, but bro, I'm a man now, so can you help me please?
00:06:59.060 I'll take you standing up, help me.
00:07:00.620 I want to think about going to my fucking girl.
00:07:02.020 That's not fucking what this is.
00:07:03.340 You would have to have a penis to understand. 0.96
00:07:05.840 That's what I'm saying.
00:07:06.760 You have to have a penis to understand. 0.97
00:07:08.020 Well, guys, men have like, I don't know, like four, five, ten, I don't know, a million times the testosterone we do.
00:07:14.180 A hundred percent.
00:07:14.820 Yeah, and so it's like, we will never understand how much they think about sex.
00:07:17.760 Can I give it a try?
00:07:18.500 I'll give it a try.
00:07:19.200 I totally agree with that.
00:07:20.200 You know when you're coming on your period and you're real moody and it's like, for some women, I'm not moody.
00:07:25.760 No, no, some women are really hormonal, really upset about, you cry over any little thing, right? 1.00
00:07:30.700 Imagine that, but you're horny as fucking nonstop.
00:07:33.880 That's what it's like being a man.
00:07:35.140 A hundred percent.
00:07:36.140 Hormones.
00:07:37.140 It's just hormones.
00:07:38.140 Fair enough.
00:07:39.140 In your head, you know what, you're like, this isn't really me, it's just like.
00:07:42.480 I thought I was the only one.
00:07:43.480 But wait, what if your woman is as well?
00:07:46.440 Oof, then you've got a match made in heaven.
00:07:48.640 Yeah, what if your woman is as well? 0.86
00:07:50.260 You've got a match made in heaven.
00:07:51.260 Well, then great, yeah, I mean, fantastic.
00:07:53.180 Open up an only fast face. 0.84
00:07:54.380 Fuck your own.
00:07:55.380 Well, they say most men cheat because their woman is not active enough, but what if she 0.95
00:08:01.680 is?
00:08:02.680 Then what's the excuse then?
00:08:03.680 I think it's just that men.
00:08:04.680 It's the novelty.
00:08:05.680 The novelty wears off.
00:08:06.680 It's the novelty.
00:08:07.680 You know what you're going to expect.
00:08:08.680 You know the position.
00:08:09.680 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:10.680 Even in the.
00:08:11.680 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:12.680 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:13.680 Do your thing, you fall asleep.
00:08:14.680 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:15.680 I'm a girl jerk chicken, but I couldn't eat it every day.
00:08:18.680 Wow.
00:08:19.680 Sometimes I want to get, you know, the chef special.
00:08:24.000 Who said fish?
00:08:26.300 I'm serious.
00:08:27.300 For the guys that have cheated before, what's the most like demon time thing you've done?
00:08:33.300 Oh, no.
00:08:35.600 That's a good one.
00:08:36.600 Oh, no.
00:08:37.600 Dude.
00:08:38.600 Now my pure image is just going to.
00:08:40.600 This is smart.
00:08:41.900 The good way to result.
00:08:42.900 Now go out there.
00:08:43.900 Remember honesty.
00:08:44.900 Now know more about what you've been up to.
00:08:46.900 Remember honesty, guys.
00:08:47.900 Okay, okay.
00:08:48.900 No word of a lie.
00:08:49.900 I cheated on this girl. 0.76
00:08:50.900 First love of my life, Jade.
00:08:51.900 The only girl I've probably ever, ever loved.
00:08:52.900 Man states her name?
00:08:53.900 Five year relationship.
00:08:54.900 She knows, she knows, she knows.
00:08:55.900 No, no, no.
00:08:56.900 Jade, he misses you.
00:08:57.900 No, watch this.
00:08:58.900 I miss you so much.
00:08:59.900 You're going to see her.
00:09:00.900 You're going to see her.
00:09:01.900 You're going to see her.
00:09:02.900 All right.
00:09:03.900 So listen, this is serious.
00:09:04.900 So I was always a good person at heart, even when I was doing bad.
00:09:08.200 So I cheated on her. 0.90
00:09:09.600 And I've been watching too many like blockbuster movies and rom-coms.
00:09:13.600 And I thought, you know what?
00:09:14.800 If I go and tell her, I've just cheated on her and cry.
00:09:17.500 She's going to love me and be like, what an amazing human being.
00:09:20.900 So I did that.
00:09:21.500 I jumped in the car.
00:09:22.500 Drove home listening to bloody Backstreet Boys.
00:09:27.500 Whatever I was listening to.
00:09:28.900 Driving, driving, driving.
00:09:29.900 I'm thinking about what I'm going to say.
00:09:31.000 I'm going to say, sit down.
00:09:32.000 Right.
00:09:32.300 Yeah, I'm a man.
00:09:32.900 This is what a real man do.
00:09:33.900 Opened the door, told her, oh my God.
00:09:35.800 It was the biggest mistake I've made in my life.
00:09:37.600 Like literally, we were never, ever the same after that moment.
00:09:41.900 So I suppose the dogly thing to do is to cheat and then have the audacity to tell someone
00:09:47.000 that you cheated thinking you're a hero when actually you're not.
00:09:50.000 I want credit.
00:09:51.000 I told you the truth.
00:09:52.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:09:53.000 They told me.
00:09:54.000 If I tell you the truth, it's going to be okay.
00:09:55.000 If I tell you the truth, it's going to be okay.
00:09:56.000 Whether it goes well or not though, I think.
00:09:58.000 I've got worse.
00:09:59.000 I did the right thing.
00:10:00.000 Yeah, you did the right thing.
00:10:01.000 No, the right thing is just not cheating to me.
00:10:03.000 I've learned my life.
00:10:04.000 There you go.
00:10:05.000 At least you said it.
00:10:06.000 And tell me then.
00:10:07.000 Yeah.
00:10:08.000 But I was going to say, if she looks back at it now, she'll probably be like, do you know
00:10:10.000 what?
00:10:11.000 I have respect for him for telling me back then.
00:10:12.000 But obviously in that situation, she's probably like.
00:10:14.000 She's married with how many kids? 1.00
00:10:15.000 Four or five?
00:10:16.000 I don't know.
00:10:17.000 So we're talking about the amount of time between chugging another woman. 0.97
00:10:20.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:10:21.000 What's the most girls you've slept with in a day? 1.00
00:10:23.000 I don't know.
00:10:24.000 Four?
00:10:25.000 Four?
00:10:26.000 Four?
00:10:27.000 Four?
00:10:28.000 Four?
00:10:29.000 Four?
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00:10:31.000 Four?
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00:10:40.000 Four?
00:10:41.000 Four?
00:10:42.000 Four?
00:10:43.000 Five over four I did a crazy stint I did seven girls in five days. 0.99
00:10:46.620 Five?
00:10:47.620 Yeah, seven girls in five days. 1.00
00:10:49.620 Wow.
00:10:50.620 That was, that was.
00:10:51.620 Did you catch anything?
00:10:52.620 Innovation.
00:10:53.620 Was that include.
00:10:54.620 No.
00:10:55.620 No, because I'm like OCD, I wanna be kissed.
00:10:56.620 I've got this thing I would have to do like a six point check you have to open your mouth
00:10:59.420 and go ah aah aah.
00:11:01.160 Like if there are any lumps or dodgy white patches, no, nah, nah.
00:11:05.860 I ain't about that.
00:11:06.860 So what was down there?
00:11:07.860 I don't know if something I'm good.
00:11:09.140 Oh, come on now, do the six point check down there of course.
00:11:10.380 That's a 24 point check.
00:11:11.320 Would you?
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