JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023


Two Men BATTLE OUT What High Value Means


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In this episode, we talk about what a high value woman is and how to look for one. We also talk about the traits that men are looking for in a woman and the traits a woman needs to have in order to be a good woman.

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00:00:00.000 thing as a high-value woman? If so, what does that look like? Start here, go around. 1.00
00:00:10.240 I think there is a high-value woman because I know that men care about women's past and women 0.97
00:00:21.380 care about a man's future. So, I think men do look for a high-value woman.
00:00:33.680 So, what traits does she have? So, she's like, what, a virgin? You just said that they care 0.96
00:00:41.100 about their past. Like, what is... Well, like, I can't really answer that because I feel like
00:00:46.300 every man has its own... Okay. You don't think there's any general things? It's just, you don't
00:00:50.580 know. Maybe, like, body count. I feel like some guys care about body count and what women 0.91
00:00:57.460 do for a living and their mindsets and their goals in life. Okay. What do you think?
00:01:05.240 I think there is high-value women. I think they have to have some traits. Like, they have to 1.00
00:01:12.100 be motivated. They have to motivate me in some way. They also have to be family-orientated
00:01:17.520 because I'm big on family. So, that's definitely high-value. And I will say... I don't know
00:01:24.400 because some people have past and they have history, you know, but you can't really judge
00:01:28.620 them from that. So, I don't know if that... You can't judge on their past? Yeah. It's like...
00:01:33.880 Can I judge a man if he has a past of, like, prison?
00:01:38.240 Uh... You can, but that person can't change, though. So, it's... Oh, I shouldn't?
00:01:44.560 You want your daughter, like, your daughter, your sister, going out with a guy, got out of prison...
00:01:49.400 Like, me, personally, if I meet the guy and I like him... Oh, wow.
00:01:54.500 ...in some way... I think that's bad advice. You think?
00:01:56.880 Yeah, I think that is. Who here, guys? Your daughter, prison past, you're cool with? Anyone?
00:02:02.500 Listen, if the dude was in prison from a less than a kid and you're like, but I like him,
00:02:07.520 you might want to rethink that. But, obviously, that's, like, specific. You know what I mean?
00:02:10.620 Like, if he was just in prison about anything else, then I'd probably give him a chance.
00:02:16.360 But, like, in general, I don't really hold people from what they've done.
00:02:20.420 Okay.
00:02:20.900 See what they are now.
00:02:21.700 Okay, so, for high-value women to you, body count doesn't matter. If it's a thousand, you're cool. 1.00
00:02:26.200 I wouldn't say I'm cool.
00:02:27.840 Okay, so it matters somewhat.
00:02:29.740 Yeah, somewhat.
00:02:30.720 Okay, so what? How many bodies she's got to be under? 0.74
00:02:33.700 I'll say probably stay under, like, 20.
00:02:38.400 Okay, under 20, she's high-value.
00:02:40.580 Yeah.
00:02:41.120 Okay, what else?
00:02:42.800 I'll say definitely to motivate me in some way.
00:02:46.360 I'll say, because I'm a gym person, I'll say health.
00:02:51.060 Healthy, okay.
00:02:51.960 Yeah, and high-value.
00:02:57.500 Is there a woman you think of when you think of a high-value woman?
00:03:02.760 Someone in the media?
00:03:04.940 If not, it's okay, but I'm just wondering.
00:03:06.900 I'm really working my brain.
00:03:08.040 I'm just trying to.
00:03:08.520 Yeah.
00:03:08.780 Yeah.
00:03:12.400 Not right now.
00:03:13.580 I wouldn't, like, choose a specific one right now.
00:03:16.680 Okay.
00:03:17.260 What do you think?
00:03:18.460 I think with high-value women, it can mean different things. 1.00
00:03:22.240 I think if a woman's got respect, she's kind, she's honest, she's got, like, a business mentality, 0.96
00:03:28.300 and she's hard-working, that, to me, shows she's a higher value because she's putting
00:03:33.800 in that extra effort.
00:03:34.960 And I know a lot of girls that sit around at home all day, don't do nothing with their 1.00
00:03:38.660 life, but then you see a lot of women that work their arses off, you know? 1.00
00:03:42.660 And to me, that shows that they're trying to be good women, you know?
00:03:46.720 I don't think so.
00:03:47.220 No?
00:03:48.140 No?
00:03:48.620 I don't think men really care.
00:03:50.380 No?
00:03:51.140 Yeah.
00:03:51.740 It's like nothing to them.
00:03:53.560 I get, okay.
00:03:54.880 It's like, you know how a guy talks about his shoe collection?
00:03:57.720 Yeah.
00:03:58.160 And you're like, oh, that's nice, but I don't care.
00:03:59.860 Yeah, okay, yeah.
00:04:01.220 Okay.
00:04:02.000 It's like our jobs, you know?
00:04:03.100 Yeah.
00:04:03.320 I think it's hard because everyone's got, like, a different vision in their head of how a
00:04:07.620 woman should be. 1.00
00:04:08.420 I'm just curious.
00:04:09.160 So, okay, so you said she's got to have respect.
00:04:11.420 Like, what does she have to do to be a high-value woman? 1.00
00:04:14.560 Like, what skills does she have to have? 1.00
00:04:17.420 What does she have to look like? 1.00
00:04:20.500 Well, we all know a man likes a classy woman, right? 1.00
00:04:24.220 Not all men, but we all know a man likes a classy woman.
00:04:26.640 Not someone that shows their arse off on Instagram or, you know, oh, sorry, does that sort of
00:04:31.480 thing.
00:04:32.300 So, in my head, a high-value woman to a man is someone that dresses appropriately and has 0.96
00:04:38.580 morals.
00:04:39.560 Okay.
00:04:39.840 Whatever that means to some people.
00:04:41.880 Okay.
00:04:42.400 But, um...
00:04:42.900 The bar is low.
00:04:44.220 That's it?
00:04:45.700 I mean, that's all we gotta do?
00:04:47.760 I mean, my head is a bit frazzled right now, but...
00:04:50.520 So, don't sleep...
00:04:51.400 All right, this is what I got so far.
00:04:52.720 Don't sleep with 20 people.
00:04:55.400 Don't have your butt on Instagram.
00:04:59.180 Be in shape and be respectable.
00:05:03.140 That's it?
00:05:04.600 Okay, that's fine.
00:05:05.740 I'm just taking something back.
00:05:06.940 I think there's some more.
00:05:07.820 There's some more there, you know?
00:05:08.980 I do.
00:05:09.480 I'm just repeating back.
00:05:10.980 I feel like it'll come back to me.
00:05:12.640 That's okay.
00:05:13.280 Okay, what do you think?
00:05:14.100 What is a high-value woman? 1.00
00:05:15.320 And does it exist?
00:05:17.080 Because some people don't believe in it, so it's up to you.
00:05:19.280 It has to exist, but it's completely different to what makes a high-value man.
00:05:25.200 I think women judge a high-value man based on the things that we want and what we look for. 1.00
00:05:30.460 So, a high-value woman has to be based on what men are looking for, which is going to be completely different. 0.86
00:05:36.780 So, it would be younger women, 20 to 20, in shape, yeah, not got everything out on Instagram, 0.95
00:05:47.540 and low-body count, wants kids, wants family, wants a husband, doesn't want to go out on girls' holidays, 1.00
00:05:56.780 all those kind of things.
00:06:00.580 Based, based.
00:06:02.800 Okay, what do you think?
00:06:03.840 High-value woman? 0.99
00:06:04.480 No, I don't believe there's high-value women. 1.00
00:06:06.420 I believe value is contextual.
00:06:08.480 Okay.
00:06:08.660 So, it's all very dependent on what you see at the end of the day.
00:06:11.420 You could have a woman who is, or what society theme is, overweight, and a man might value that 0.86
00:06:16.940 really highly, because that's what he wants.
00:06:18.440 It all depends on somebody's experience.
00:06:20.080 So, I don't believe there's high-value women. 1.00
00:06:21.640 I believe that there are women who want to put out certain ways about them, and if that's 1.00
00:06:26.920 what they want to do, then that's awesome.
00:06:28.540 And there are women who are going to do what they're going to do, and men will still idolize 1.00
00:06:32.040 and worship them anyway.
00:06:33.240 That's what I believe anyway.
00:06:35.380 Sorry, can you explain that again?
00:06:37.260 Yeah, so, value is contextual.
00:06:39.080 Right.
00:06:39.220 So, it depends on how someone will perceive that woman.
00:06:43.240 And so, somebody might look at, I don't know, the queen and see she's high-value, because
00:06:47.100 she's head of the monarchy, and she owns Windsor Castle and all the rest of it. 0.73
00:06:50.840 Some of us look at the queen and think, I can't stand her. 0.98
00:06:53.280 I don't like her at all.
00:06:54.000 She's not high-value to me.
00:06:55.200 Okay.
00:06:55.520 Whereas, somebody may look at somebody that lives within a council estate, and they may 0.99
00:07:00.640 aspire to be with a woman like that.
00:07:02.260 But you don't think there's general things that most men might look at, I don't know,
00:07:08.220 Margot Robbie, Beyonce 20 years ago, and say, like, the high-value or good-looking.
00:07:13.420 Like, you don't think there's general things that, like, men want?
00:07:15.780 Good-looking doesn't mean high-value, though.
00:07:17.400 Somebody can, there's loads of people that are good-looking.
00:07:19.320 It doesn't mean that they're high-value.
00:07:20.560 So, at the end of the day...
00:07:21.340 I'm just wondering if it starts there, at least for guys.
00:07:23.940 No.
00:07:24.300 So, I can only talk for myself.
00:07:25.900 But for me, personally, looks doesn't necessarily then equate to high-value.
00:07:29.080 I've seen women that are what people classify as tens, and their values are minus 10. 1.00
00:07:34.000 So, at the end of the day, to me, it's contextual, very, very contextual.
00:07:37.540 Well, I'm not saying it's just...
00:07:39.180 Like, I'm saying it's not looks alone, but, like, it would start there.
00:07:42.020 Like, I don't think you can be, like, 300 pounds and be high-value as a girl.
00:07:45.460 I just think it doesn't.
00:07:46.620 Depends on who's looking.
00:07:47.600 I know men that want 300-pound girls, and they deem them to be high-value. 1.00
00:07:51.060 So, it just depends, in my opinion...
00:07:52.580 I think, usually, those guys can't get laid by anyone else.
00:07:56.060 Very true.
00:07:56.760 Because, you know, I don't see, you know, I just...
00:07:58.540 I don't see the rich men, like, bringing the whales to functions, you know?
00:08:02.960 So, very, very true, but then we're not looking at it from a men's point of view.
00:08:06.360 We're looking at it from a women's point of view. 1.00
00:08:07.760 So, the question you asked was, is what do people deem to be a high-value?
00:08:10.860 So, I'm not looking as a high-value man looking as a high-value woman. 0.98
00:08:13.820 I'm just looking at what a high-value woman is in my context. 1.00
00:08:16.240 No, I was thinking of it from the men's point of view,
00:08:18.760 because I'm just looking at, like, the most sought-after men tend to pick,
00:08:21.540 which isn't, like, fat chicks. 0.98
00:08:23.140 Okay.
00:08:23.700 So, if we're looking at it from that way, the most sought-after men,
00:08:27.140 no, they wouldn't necessarily pick that.
00:08:28.840 Although, some men have some really crazy fetishes.
00:08:31.980 So, they may say that they don't want these women on the surface, 0.63
00:08:36.120 but then what they're doing behind closed doors is they've got that type of woman. 1.00
00:08:38.700 I mean, every king had concubines.
00:08:40.860 Very true.
00:08:41.140 But that doesn't make her a queen, you know?
00:08:42.740 No, it doesn't at all.
00:08:44.040 But he might deem that woman, so the high-value woman might be the one that he puts on a pedestal, 0.96
00:08:47.980 but then he might deem the woman that he's sleeping with that's 300 pounds high-value as well,
00:08:51.540 because she's given him what he needs at the time that he needs it.
00:08:54.340 So, it's all very contextual.
00:08:55.500 Yeah, but I would think you'd have, like, results to show.
00:08:58.220 You know what I mean?
00:08:58.740 Like, you'd have, like, a ring or, like, a house.
00:09:00.820 Oh, so some concubines have house rings. 1.00
00:09:04.480 Yeah, they might, but I just, I don't really see them bringing the concubines out in public.
00:09:09.380 Like, they're usually in the back, you know?
00:09:11.420 I agree with that.
00:09:12.420 That I agree with.
00:09:13.360 Yeah, they don't bring those concubines, but those concubines get to live in the ivory tower. 1.00
00:09:17.460 Yeah.
00:09:17.700 And they're quite happy with it as well.
00:09:19.140 So, yeah, to me, it's contextual.
00:09:21.020 Okay, what do you think?
00:09:21.860 Do high-value women exist? 1.00
00:09:22.920 Yeah, yeah.
00:09:24.260 High-value women does exist because, like, the first time being on the set, so they're giving me some afternoon. 1.00
00:09:38.160 So, what was the question again?
00:09:39.760 All right.
00:09:40.180 So, what is a high-value?
00:09:42.060 Do high-value women exist? 1.00
00:09:43.880 And what is a high-value woman? 1.00
00:09:45.040 So, high-value women is, like, a girl that got herself put together, like, that go out there every single day to work on what they love. 1.00
00:09:54.760 And also, like, doesn't party all the time.
00:09:57.640 And, yeah, that's what I've got.
00:10:01.020 So, is Oprah a high-value woman? 0.90
00:10:04.040 No, not really.
00:10:05.020 She does what she loves every day.
00:10:07.460 I don't think she's a big partier.
00:10:09.040 She doesn't seem like it.
00:10:10.680 Oprah, high-value, no?
00:10:12.140 Uh, yeah, but no, at the same time, isn't it?
00:10:15.520 Okay.
00:10:15.900 But I think, yeah, I think, yeah, I think, yeah.
00:10:17.300 Some of you guys, the bar is, like, low.
00:10:20.000 Like, wow.
00:10:20.780 I don't really, yeah.
00:10:22.520 It's like, with this, everyone here is a high-value woman.
00:10:26.980 Like, I think it depends, though.
00:10:29.460 Like, because, like, there's women out there that work to separate themselves from the rest, which is why I can appreciate that, you know what I mean? 0.92
00:10:37.620 But, obviously, we're all, like, humans.
00:10:41.240 We like what we like.
00:10:42.580 But I believe, like, there is high-value women out there. 1.00
00:10:45.740 There is women that really go out there and gets it. 1.00
00:10:48.960 They're really putting the work to be to a higher level.
00:10:52.580 Yeah, yeah.
00:10:52.900 Yeah, um, I guess, like, what you guys, most of you, not you, but are describing, it's just, like, it's very, like, a low bar.
00:11:00.500 Like, we don't really got to do much.
00:11:02.080 You might be right.
00:11:03.080 I'm just asking the question.
00:11:04.640 What do you think?
00:11:05.480 Is there a high-value woman? 1.00
00:11:06.560 Do high-value women exist? 1.00
00:11:08.100 If so, who are they?
00:11:09.880 Well, so this is an interesting question.
00:11:11.840 I pondered about this a little bit, too, because there's a lot of people that will ask, like, oh, you know, high-value men.
00:11:16.520 So that's the other side of it is, does a high-value man exist, right?
00:11:20.800 People are like, what's a high-value man?
00:11:22.760 Well, that's an easy question to answer.
00:11:24.640 It's just a high-value man.
00:11:25.980 First of all, who measures value?
00:11:27.380 Like, we have to have an objective standard.
00:11:28.880 We can't be delusional and be like, everybody likes different things.
00:11:31.740 Well, you know, if this girl's into this kink, then she's a high-value woman. 1.00
00:11:34.540 It's like, is she high-value because you're into crapping in her mouth and she takes it?
00:11:38.080 That makes her high-value?
00:11:38.920 That's absolutely crazy.
00:11:40.660 A kink doesn't make a person high-value. 1.00
00:11:42.140 It makes them a sexual object.
00:11:43.320 I can buy a sexual object, and if I can buy it, it's not going to be a lot of value in the marketplace because there's a lot of dudes that can buy it.
00:11:49.340 So who determines value?
00:11:51.260 That's an interesting question, and the answer is it's the market that determines the value.
00:11:54.760 For people who don't know what that means, it's like, buy my house for a billion dollars.
00:11:58.980 It's like, but this house sucks.
00:12:00.060 Yeah, but I determine my own value.
00:12:01.580 It's a billion dollars.
00:12:02.260 How many people buy that house?
00:12:04.360 Zero people.
00:12:05.120 Who determines the value of a house?
00:12:06.340 The market.
00:12:06.740 What does that mean?
00:12:07.260 It's the willing number of buyers that are going to pay the maximum price, and the highest bidder usually wins.
00:12:11.600 So the value has to be determined by the highest bidder.
00:12:14.700 That's how things work in life, right?
00:12:16.340 So a high-value woman would be a woman that is sought after by the highest bidder, the highest bidding man. 0.99
00:12:22.400 Now, this is a really interesting question because this is – I actually had a really interesting discussion with a friend of mine about this.
00:12:27.200 Like, what does it mean to bid on a woman? 0.83
00:12:29.340 See, this is where women get confused, right? 1.00
00:12:30.780 Because women are like, oh, a lot of guys want to sleep with me, and they DM me, so I'm a high-value woman.
00:12:35.800 But that's a misnomer in the value marketplace, and there's a really easy answer for that, right?
00:12:40.480 Like, here's a question for you guys.
00:12:41.980 How many people in the world today can go pay cash and buy a Ferrari?
00:12:45.540 Is that a lot or a little?
00:12:47.000 A little.
00:12:47.640 It's a little.
00:12:48.280 How many people can save up for a little bit and rent a Ferrari for their wedding or their graduation?
00:12:53.800 A lot.
00:12:54.300 Quite a lot of people, right?
00:12:55.540 So women are like, oh, these dudes are hitting me. 1.00
00:12:57.400 I'm high-value.
00:12:57.880 It's like, no, you're a rental car.
00:12:59.740 You know, a lot of guys can save up and rent a nice car for a day.
00:13:02.600 You're not high-value.
00:13:03.360 So a high-value cannot be a rental car.
00:13:05.100 A high-value has to be an owner car.
00:13:07.500 So a high-value woman, by the definition of the market, is just what is the highest status or the highest value or most desired, because that's how men's value is marketed, you know?
00:13:17.380 What is the highest-value man that is willing to give you what?
00:13:21.060 A ring.
00:13:21.440 A ring.
00:13:21.920 There it is.
00:13:22.540 It's the highest-value man that's willing to give you a ring.
00:13:24.920 So if you can get dudes that want to hump you, but they don't want to give you a ring, you're not high-value.
00:13:29.660 And that's the answer.
00:13:30.860 Do high-value women exist? 1.00
00:13:32.320 Yes, because I'm married for 10 years with four kids, and I know a lot of other dudes that are doing pretty darn well that are married to these women. 0.99
00:13:42.220 But then it goes back to what I was saying before, so it's contextual.
00:13:45.680 So it's like, I could say my mom's high-value, but my mom's done a lot of stuff that other people would have deemed to be high-value, but my mom's high-value because she's worth something to me.
00:13:55.480 She's my mom.
00:13:56.040 She raised me.
00:13:56.680 Yes, but we're talking about sexual market value.
00:13:58.380 We're not talking about do I love my mother.
00:14:00.020 It's a totally different argument.
00:14:00.880 I get that, but where I come back is that what you're saying is basically what I put in a nutshell is contextual.
00:14:06.320 So what you're saying is that basically it's a woman who a man's worth willing to put a ring on. 0.72
00:14:13.100 So a man might be willing to put a ring on somebody that's 300 pounds.
00:14:17.720 No, man.
00:14:18.620 Listen.
00:14:20.140 I know guys, and I'm going to bring them to Pearl's show on Saturday, by the way, if you guys are going to watch.
00:14:23.980 I hope it's going to be amazing.
00:14:25.120 I know guys worth $100 million.
00:14:26.280 Like I was with one just the other day at my place and Henry was filming us having a conversation.
00:14:30.820 It's like, no dude, it's like I've made $100 million.
00:14:33.520 Now it's time to bag me a 300 pounder and my life is complete.
00:14:37.360 Zero men, not even one man is thinking that.
00:14:39.660 Do you know, I think then again, it's contextual because I can go to my place of heritage where I know a man who is incredibly rich and his woman is over 250 pounds and that's his wife.
00:14:51.480 And he parades her everywhere and he's very happy to do it.
00:14:55.120 And the concubines he has. 0.50
00:14:56.280 I mean, parades probably the right word.
00:14:57.380 Yeah.
00:14:57.960 And the concubines that he has are women who other men would deem high value.
00:15:02.580 How long have they been together?
00:15:03.780 15 years.
00:15:04.600 Okay.
00:15:04.880 Yeah.
00:15:05.100 But was he like that when he, like, was, was he rich then?
00:15:07.880 He was rich.
00:15:08.540 And he picked a fat chick. 1.00
00:15:10.080 And he's always picked women that are larger because that's his thing. 0.91
00:15:13.060 So again, it's contextual.
00:15:14.240 But that's not market value.
00:15:15.180 It's like, yeah, some, some guys like, you know, a shitty car that breaks down because they're into this vintage shitty car.
00:15:21.260 But that's not, that's not the market value.
00:15:23.700 That's just the guy, right?
00:15:24.800 You're applying group statistics to an individual, which is fine.
00:15:27.560 And I agree with your argument.
00:15:28.480 You're like, well, my mom is high value because she does a lot of good things for me.
00:15:31.240 You know, my kid, her kids, society, et cetera.
00:15:33.140 I get that.
00:15:34.040 Obviously in the context of the show, we're talking about sexual market value.
00:15:37.300 Right?
00:15:37.820 Now, if a guy likes a, if a guy likes a whale, let me say this.
00:15:41.160 That's a terrible strategy for a woman to implore in her life. 1.00
00:15:43.500 Like, well, some guys like me if I'm 300 pounds, it's like, yeah, but that's not maximizing for success.
00:15:49.400 Yeah, that's true.
00:15:49.960 That's your, at that point, you're just a disabled parking spot, right? 1.00
00:15:52.400 Like guys will park with you, but they'll check if anyone's looking first.
00:15:55.720 That's the point.
00:15:56.500 Would you, if you had, do you have kids?
00:15:59.020 Yeah, I've got kids.
00:15:59.740 Have you got a daughter?
00:16:00.580 Yeah, I've got two.
00:16:01.060 If you were going to give her advice, just generally, because if you've got a son, you tend to give your kids advice on how to grow up and be a good man.
00:16:08.880 Like, how, if you were to advise your daughter, your recommendation would probably be to, yeah, just get as fat as you like, because some man out there will love you.
00:16:18.120 You kind of, you want your child to kind of aim, you know?
00:16:23.300 Yeah, do you know what?
00:16:24.020 You've got the best shot of getting a good man.
00:16:26.460 I know my viewpoints are very different to most people.
00:16:29.240 But just generally.
00:16:30.800 Like, we could look at things holistically.
00:16:32.760 Like, of course we can.
00:16:33.460 We could look at things holistically and look at it, and at the end of the day, like.
00:16:36.040 Right, and we have to on a show.
00:16:37.500 Yeah.
00:16:37.660 Because, like, on a show, it's not about individuals.
00:16:40.080 Like, we're talking about society in general.
00:16:42.760 What do you think?
00:16:43.640 High value woman? 1.00
00:16:44.680 I definitely exist, yeah.
00:16:46.140 And from, like, listening to everybody, I'd list looks, body count probably important.
00:16:52.000 For me, intelligence, definitely high up there.
00:16:56.280 Loyalty is a big deal.
00:16:58.940 And nurturing, for sure.
00:17:01.380 If I would list it.
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