Two Men BATTLE OUT What High Value Means
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In this episode, we talk about what a high value woman is and how to look for one. We also talk about the traits that men are looking for in a woman and the traits a woman needs to have in order to be a good woman.
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thing as a high-value woman? If so, what does that look like? Start here, go around.
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I think there is a high-value woman because I know that men care about women's past and women
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care about a man's future. So, I think men do look for a high-value woman.
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So, what traits does she have? So, she's like, what, a virgin? You just said that they care
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about their past. Like, what is... Well, like, I can't really answer that because I feel like
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every man has its own... Okay. You don't think there's any general things? It's just, you don't
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know. Maybe, like, body count. I feel like some guys care about body count and what women
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do for a living and their mindsets and their goals in life. Okay. What do you think?
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I think there is high-value women. I think they have to have some traits. Like, they have to
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be motivated. They have to motivate me in some way. They also have to be family-orientated
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because I'm big on family. So, that's definitely high-value. And I will say... I don't know
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because some people have past and they have history, you know, but you can't really judge
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them from that. So, I don't know if that... You can't judge on their past? Yeah. It's like...
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Can I judge a man if he has a past of, like, prison?
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Uh... You can, but that person can't change, though. So, it's... Oh, I shouldn't?
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You want your daughter, like, your daughter, your sister, going out with a guy, got out of prison...
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Like, me, personally, if I meet the guy and I like him... Oh, wow.
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...in some way... I think that's bad advice. You think?
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Yeah, I think that is. Who here, guys? Your daughter, prison past, you're cool with? Anyone?
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Listen, if the dude was in prison from a less than a kid and you're like, but I like him,
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you might want to rethink that. But, obviously, that's, like, specific. You know what I mean?
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Like, if he was just in prison about anything else, then I'd probably give him a chance.
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But, like, in general, I don't really hold people from what they've done.
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Okay, so, for high-value women to you, body count doesn't matter. If it's a thousand, you're cool.
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Okay, so what? How many bodies she's got to be under?
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I'll say definitely to motivate me in some way.
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I'll say, because I'm a gym person, I'll say health.
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Is there a woman you think of when you think of a high-value woman?
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I wouldn't, like, choose a specific one right now.
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I think with high-value women, it can mean different things.
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I think if a woman's got respect, she's kind, she's honest, she's got, like, a business mentality,
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and she's hard-working, that, to me, shows she's a higher value because she's putting
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And I know a lot of girls that sit around at home all day, don't do nothing with their
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life, but then you see a lot of women that work their arses off, you know?
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And to me, that shows that they're trying to be good women, you know?
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It's like, you know how a guy talks about his shoe collection?
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And you're like, oh, that's nice, but I don't care.
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I think it's hard because everyone's got, like, a different vision in their head of how a
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So, okay, so you said she's got to have respect.
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Like, what does she have to do to be a high-value woman?
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Well, we all know a man likes a classy woman, right?
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Not all men, but we all know a man likes a classy woman.
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Not someone that shows their arse off on Instagram or, you know, oh, sorry, does that sort of
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So, in my head, a high-value woman to a man is someone that dresses appropriately and has
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I mean, my head is a bit frazzled right now, but...
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Because some people don't believe in it, so it's up to you.
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It has to exist, but it's completely different to what makes a high-value man.
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I think women judge a high-value man based on the things that we want and what we look for.
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So, a high-value woman has to be based on what men are looking for, which is going to be completely different.
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So, it would be younger women, 20 to 20, in shape, yeah, not got everything out on Instagram,
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and low-body count, wants kids, wants family, wants a husband, doesn't want to go out on girls' holidays,
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So, it's all very dependent on what you see at the end of the day.
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You could have a woman who is, or what society theme is, overweight, and a man might value that
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I believe that there are women who want to put out certain ways about them, and if that's
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And there are women who are going to do what they're going to do, and men will still idolize
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So, it depends on how someone will perceive that woman.
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And so, somebody might look at, I don't know, the queen and see she's high-value, because
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she's head of the monarchy, and she owns Windsor Castle and all the rest of it.
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Some of us look at the queen and think, I can't stand her.
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Whereas, somebody may look at somebody that lives within a council estate, and they may
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But you don't think there's general things that most men might look at, I don't know,
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Margot Robbie, Beyonce 20 years ago, and say, like, the high-value or good-looking.
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Like, you don't think there's general things that, like, men want?
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Somebody can, there's loads of people that are good-looking.
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I'm just wondering if it starts there, at least for guys.
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But for me, personally, looks doesn't necessarily then equate to high-value.
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I've seen women that are what people classify as tens, and their values are minus 10.
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So, at the end of the day, to me, it's contextual, very, very contextual.
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Like, I'm saying it's not looks alone, but, like, it would start there.
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Like, I don't think you can be, like, 300 pounds and be high-value as a girl.
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I know men that want 300-pound girls, and they deem them to be high-value.
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I think, usually, those guys can't get laid by anyone else.
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Because, you know, I don't see, you know, I just...
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I don't see the rich men, like, bringing the whales to functions, you know?
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So, very, very true, but then we're not looking at it from a men's point of view.
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We're looking at it from a women's point of view.
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So, the question you asked was, is what do people deem to be a high-value?
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So, I'm not looking as a high-value man looking as a high-value woman.
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I'm just looking at what a high-value woman is in my context.
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No, I was thinking of it from the men's point of view,
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because I'm just looking at, like, the most sought-after men tend to pick,
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So, if we're looking at it from that way, the most sought-after men,
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Although, some men have some really crazy fetishes.
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So, they may say that they don't want these women on the surface,
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but then what they're doing behind closed doors is they've got that type of woman.
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But he might deem that woman, so the high-value woman might be the one that he puts on a pedestal,
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but then he might deem the woman that he's sleeping with that's 300 pounds high-value as well,
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because she's given him what he needs at the time that he needs it.
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Yeah, but I would think you'd have, like, results to show.
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Like, you'd have, like, a ring or, like, a house.
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Yeah, they might, but I just, I don't really see them bringing the concubines out in public.
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Yeah, they don't bring those concubines, but those concubines get to live in the ivory tower.
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High-value women does exist because, like, the first time being on the set, so they're giving me some afternoon.
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So, high-value women is, like, a girl that got herself put together, like, that go out there every single day to work on what they love.
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But I think, yeah, I think, yeah, I think, yeah.
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It's like, with this, everyone here is a high-value woman.
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Like, because, like, there's women out there that work to separate themselves from the rest, which is why I can appreciate that, you know what I mean?
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But I believe, like, there is high-value women out there.
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There is women that really go out there and gets it.
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They're really putting the work to be to a higher level.
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Yeah, um, I guess, like, what you guys, most of you, not you, but are describing, it's just, like, it's very, like, a low bar.
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I pondered about this a little bit, too, because there's a lot of people that will ask, like, oh, you know, high-value men.
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So that's the other side of it is, does a high-value man exist, right?
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We can't be delusional and be like, everybody likes different things.
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Well, you know, if this girl's into this kink, then she's a high-value woman.
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It's like, is she high-value because you're into crapping in her mouth and she takes it?
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I can buy a sexual object, and if I can buy it, it's not going to be a lot of value in the marketplace because there's a lot of dudes that can buy it.
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That's an interesting question, and the answer is it's the market that determines the value.
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For people who don't know what that means, it's like, buy my house for a billion dollars.
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It's the willing number of buyers that are going to pay the maximum price, and the highest bidder usually wins.
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So the value has to be determined by the highest bidder.
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So a high-value woman would be a woman that is sought after by the highest bidder, the highest bidding man.
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Now, this is a really interesting question because this is – I actually had a really interesting discussion with a friend of mine about this.
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Because women are like, oh, a lot of guys want to sleep with me, and they DM me, so I'm a high-value woman.
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But that's a misnomer in the value marketplace, and there's a really easy answer for that, right?
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How many people in the world today can go pay cash and buy a Ferrari?
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How many people can save up for a little bit and rent a Ferrari for their wedding or their graduation?
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So women are like, oh, these dudes are hitting me.
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You know, a lot of guys can save up and rent a nice car for a day.
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So a high-value woman, by the definition of the market, is just what is the highest status or the highest value or most desired, because that's how men's value is marketed, you know?
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What is the highest-value man that is willing to give you what?
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It's the highest-value man that's willing to give you a ring.
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So if you can get dudes that want to hump you, but they don't want to give you a ring, you're not high-value.
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Yes, because I'm married for 10 years with four kids, and I know a lot of other dudes that are doing pretty darn well that are married to these women.
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But then it goes back to what I was saying before, so it's contextual.
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So it's like, I could say my mom's high-value, but my mom's done a lot of stuff that other people would have deemed to be high-value, but my mom's high-value because she's worth something to me.
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Yes, but we're talking about sexual market value.
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I get that, but where I come back is that what you're saying is basically what I put in a nutshell is contextual.
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So what you're saying is that basically it's a woman who a man's worth willing to put a ring on.
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So a man might be willing to put a ring on somebody that's 300 pounds.
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I know guys, and I'm going to bring them to Pearl's show on Saturday, by the way, if you guys are going to watch.
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Like I was with one just the other day at my place and Henry was filming us having a conversation.
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It's like, no dude, it's like I've made $100 million.
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Now it's time to bag me a 300 pounder and my life is complete.
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Do you know, I think then again, it's contextual because I can go to my place of heritage where I know a man who is incredibly rich and his woman is over 250 pounds and that's his wife.
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And he parades her everywhere and he's very happy to do it.
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And the concubines that he has are women who other men would deem high value.
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But was he like that when he, like, was, was he rich then?
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And he's always picked women that are larger because that's his thing.
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It's like, yeah, some, some guys like, you know, a shitty car that breaks down because they're into this vintage shitty car.
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You're applying group statistics to an individual, which is fine.
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You're like, well, my mom is high value because she does a lot of good things for me.
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You know, my kid, her kids, society, et cetera.
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Obviously in the context of the show, we're talking about sexual market value.
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Now, if a guy likes a, if a guy likes a whale, let me say this.
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That's a terrible strategy for a woman to implore in her life.
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Like, well, some guys like me if I'm 300 pounds, it's like, yeah, but that's not maximizing for success.
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That's your, at that point, you're just a disabled parking spot, right?
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Like guys will park with you, but they'll check if anyone's looking first.
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If you were going to give her advice, just generally, because if you've got a son, you tend to give your kids advice on how to grow up and be a good man.
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Like, how, if you were to advise your daughter, your recommendation would probably be to, yeah, just get as fat as you like, because some man out there will love you.
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You kind of, you want your child to kind of aim, you know?
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You've got the best shot of getting a good man.
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I know my viewpoints are very different to most people.
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We could look at things holistically and look at it, and at the end of the day, like.
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Because, like, on a show, it's not about individuals.
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And from, like, listening to everybody, I'd list looks, body count probably important.
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For me, intelligence, definitely high up there.
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