What Should Women Bring to Their Relationship
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss what women should bring to the table in 2023 and what a woman brings to a relationship. We also discuss what the average woman brings in a relationship and how a woman should stand her ground.
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um okay what what do women bring to the table in 2023 2023 women bring to the table
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let's say uh image communication boundaries wow boundaries yeah we all got them right
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no i think it's just women yeah boundaries it's either it's either women say that or a
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woman teaches a man to say that but the average woman comes with boundaries what is the average
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woman i'm asking i'm just asking 170 pounds what what high five four 170 pounds i don't know
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what that is in kgs uh average women brings um some sort of uh all right so social media let's say has
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changed what an average woman can bring and unfortunately what society not as a greater
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whole but people see what a woman can bring could be image could be beauty could be
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uh social group could be uh connections with people and that's what some may see it as okay
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but what it should bring i mean there is no should it's just women should not that should i mean that's
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okay woman just be herself and enjoy her her presence around individual around around should a woman have
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to do anything in a relationship not that she shouldn't want to know i didn't ask what she
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want i said should she you know how men should protect and provide should women have to do anything
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in a relationship support love and nurture and support yes stand ground and stand ground would be um
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um if you take your time to share or partake or come into an union with someone then yeah you agree on
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that okay so she should stay no no she shouldn't so she shouldn't stay no okay so should she do anything
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well you see honestly i i know we've been going i know we've been yeah we're at a back and forth right
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now the thing is i i was going to say i know we've been going at the women a lot throughout this show
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but really let's be like bro come on like this is the reason why a lot of women complain like men
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men need to like really figure their out and understand what their purpose is and be able to direct
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their women bro like literally you need to be able to answer a question like come on
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all right women should stand her ground know where she's at know that if that's the man that she's with
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that's the solemn man that she's with that he represents her and they represent each other
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and if they go on forth so be it if they want to have bicker and have problems on the way so be it
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they figure it out along the way whether they stay together or not so be it but
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there should be a minimum base of communication whether it is to understanding or misunderstanding
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okay i i don't feel like you answered my question of what women should bring
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to the table in 2023 or i said should women do anything bring anything to a relationship
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no nothing okay thank you for being honest all right
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should so what do average women bring to the table in 2023 i mean on my instagram the average
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woman is actually quite pretty like okay okay yeah um i mean that's all the same really like um
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to get like i invited laura to the to the podcast she came but to get to laura actually not
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even to get to laura i knew laura would come but even then i was asking like loads of girls
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um to come out and i put up my story it's all the same game like um i'll dm them hey come out
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um come to this podcast they say i'm too scary they do say you're scary yeah when they research it
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they say you're scary i'm very scary but it's fine like but then they'll go and this is game four guys
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um they'll be like hey how about let's meet up on the weekend so it's like and it's a big circle
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um i'll show that i'm having fun on the podcast same again like girls would message me back again
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and and it's the same again like date date date date yeah but looks that's it like and then i'll put
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them and then i'll put them on the on my profile store again is that your strategy is that your
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strategy is my strategy so women shouldn't do anything in a relationship look nice be nice
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like be kind be nice be kind be kind to your dude okay what do you think i will not get into details
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what they bring i'm just gonna say that whatever the average or i would say even a little bit above
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average woman brings is irrelevant to what a relationship needs so cannot really be something
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important if that makes sense no okay what do a relationship needs for from your perspective
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yeah so what what does the average woman bring and what would your ideal relationship have
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okay the average woman brings just like i would say not even count beauty just like herself no i think
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i think the average woman needs to bring culture standard moral off of upbringing if she had that
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opportunity to have it culture standard moral education recognition uh presentation but then again
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that's just as an individual now when you talk about marriage sheesh we're making a commitment with
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someone that as much as we got to know it ain't go you never know so you're expecting and you're coming to
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an agreement sure so for that saying i mean a wife should hold down her ground know that if so if someone
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writes to her dm say no i'm happily married or don't even respond or uh come and grab a bunch of things
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you know what um i'm just trying to think what she can bring and i can really not think of something
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important and to answer to your question what i would prefer if let's say i wanted to make a family
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and i wanted to have kids i would definitely look for a woman that she can be caring to my kids she can
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like protect them with me i'm gonna be the one who takes care of everything outside of the household
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but inside i want to know that she will be there she will teach them she will care for them she will
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nurture them you understand she will make them like she will grow them let's say so you want a
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woman that creates a safe home like for a nest if i wanted if i wanted yeah if i wanted a family
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that's what i would look for right now i'm literally not not looking for nothing just like focus on myself
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on my financial uh dependency on my business nothing else cares i don't care about nothing else
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but let's say ideally and maybe in the future okay i'm gonna read super chats and then we're
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gonna close out the show this is a fun chat won't you ask me okay king king what what does the average
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woman bring to the table and what would your ideal woman bring to the table i'll say the average woman
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brings problems because the reality is um the average woman is not like the woman that every man
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desires right she's just like yeah average so usually most women do problems but at least with the really
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hot ones you have something to look at and be like okay yeah it's worth it but then the problem is the
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average man brings the same problem so it's like okay what does she really bring but ideally what a
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woman should bring to relationship is respect um ability to follow and admiration and also um morals
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and if i may take uh like 10 seconds on the opposite side the average man just provides and that's like
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already enough well i think the average man doesn't provide average means average
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the average man the average man the average man doesn't provide the lifestyle that we want but
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the average man still yeah the average man still makes enough for a one-bedroom apartment in london
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the women just don't want to tough it out for a basic basic basic family life yeah he will
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he will provide all the time yeah uh 45 think about it 45 of men have jobs that run the infrastructure
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so those are needed and they are the provider in their families yeah the main well i mean a lot
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but i think there's one thing i think what he said about what king said about respect and and
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morals that works both ways we should all have that and if you have that it's a great foundation
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for a good relationship that's it again you're changing a bit of the question the question was
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about only about the average woman i actually think men are the ones that that bring morals to society
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not women actually yeah you know it's crazy feminism fought for us to do whatever we wanted and the
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majority have just become whores agreed agreed no i'm serious like she's right like a hundred a
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hundred years ago 85 percent of women were virgins on their wedding day 85 percent 100 years now going
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high school and you're not gonna find too many yeah yeah what percent of women are virgins on their
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wedding day today zero none i think we'll say that hey hey it's not zero it's four percent put some respect
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on our name but it's not global sorry that works both ways back in the day men didn't sleep with
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like however many who who values purity men or women i think everyone should a little no no no who
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values purity not should women men men men do you think women value pure men sure do you think women
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disqualify men for their lack of purity no no they like it do you think men will disqualify women for
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their lack of purity no depends on who you're talking to do you think men will disqualify women
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for their lack of purity yes or no yes so i think yes yes yes yes yes yes or no we live in london yes
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or no it's no some no i think no no no and also a lot of women nowadays they confuse like freedom
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or so-called freedom with they lose self self-respect well well so that's terrible well it's interesting
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because like women it's like they almost paint us as like morally superior to men but it's like
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literally the more freedom we've had the more selfish we've become isn't that crazy it's easy to
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slide down on the road where men when they had the most power they gave it to us because like
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society couldn't run without men they're in charge of the police they're in charge of everything
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that like makes society run and when they had the most power they gave it to us when we had the most power
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we win for ourselves we are selfish yeah yeah yeah you know seriously we are we are it's i know sorry
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girls because you hear i don't that you don't agree with that but we are yeah we are selfish there's a
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lot of good women that do good jobs too just saying just putting out there i have to support you know
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what's crazy i just did a poll with 30 000 people took yeah now would you say that a poll that 30 000
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people took can can gather like that would be reliable data i mean it's probably quite representative
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it's a fraction of a hundred thousand so okay so i asked what percent of women do you think are
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quality women today the answer is going to be scary so i i offered the lowest percent they could say is 10
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to 20 percent then they could do 20 to 40 then 40 to 60 then 80 to 100 i think i made it maybe made
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it up to like 60 plus i forgot how 74 percent of people said less than 20 percent so i don't even
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know if that's so when we have a conversation when we have a conversation we have to talk about the
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average and the general yeah we we know there's exceptions yeah but in all honesty i i've been
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thinking about this a lot and i don't claim to be like the perfect picture of feminine like obviously
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but i was thinking like what percent of women i've had hundreds of girls on the show
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what percent are like a true traditional woman that was raised to be a wife that believes in obeying
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her husband that was a virgin on her wedding day i i don't know any i can maybe think of one girl from
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my high school but it's like if you go to college that's putting your primary reproductive years you're
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putting your career first that automatically like puts you in the non-traditional category i'm not saying
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it's like everyone's fault right because this is what we're taught but it's like when you think about it
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it's like the average check like i can't even think of a traditional check
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like traditional women get married before 25. wow and like i said men bring morality to society because
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there's a reason why even in christianity um the bible says um a man should submit to god and a woman
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should submit to her husband it never says anything about the man submitting to the woman
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um but obviously modern day society everything has feminism has come told women that they are
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equal to men and all of that but that's that's that's a bit wrong because at the end of the day
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me as a woman i want to be led by a man i don't want to lead the man
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like where where's the point we are changing the roles i'm becoming the man and you're becoming the
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the woman yeah so this is the way that it should be even if we are in the modern times at the end of
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the day the man should be the one that is the man of the house not the woman yeah yeah but i mean that's
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what they teach us though they teach us happy wife happy life you hear it's cheaper to keep her right
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i just said that i i was married and i'm getting a divorce so i don't you you didn't see me coming
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in the discussion about the marriage too much because i didn't want to bring my my personal
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opinion right into a general opinion you get yeah because i wasn't talking about you right exactly i
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all my answers were not about me well in general maybe maybe from a personal point of view i was
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you know yeah sorry it's just every time i ask these questions like women always say like oh
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well me well me but it's like okay we're talking in general so it's it's funny because i've never i think
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in all the shows you're like one of the first girls that's come to that realization that it's like
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in general not you yeah because i gave my yeah yeah yeah yeah funny