JustPearlyThings - What Should Women Bring to Their Relationship

00:00:00.240 um okay what what do women bring to the table in 2023 2023 women bring to the table 1.00

00:00:10.560 let's see uh

00:00:14.880 let's say uh image communication boundaries wow boundaries yeah we all got them right

00:00:23.200 no i think it's just women yeah boundaries it's either it's either women say that or a 1.00

00:00:29.440 woman teaches a man to say that but the average woman comes with boundaries what is the average 1.00

00:00:35.360 woman i'm asking i'm just asking 170 pounds what what high five four 170 pounds i don't know

00:00:43.440 what that is in kgs uh average women brings um some sort of uh all right so social media let's say has 1.00

00:00:58.240 changed what an average woman can bring and unfortunately what society not as a greater 0.92

00:01:06.240 whole but people see what a woman can bring could be image could be beauty could be 1.00

00:01:13.440 uh social group could be uh connections with people and that's what some may see it as okay

00:01:22.960 but what it should bring i mean there is no should it's just women should not that should i mean that's 1.00

00:01:31.040 okay woman just be herself and enjoy her her presence around individual around around should a woman have 1.00

00:01:40.240 to do anything in a relationship not that she shouldn't want to know i didn't ask what she

00:01:46.400 want i said should she you know how men should protect and provide should women have to do anything

00:01:51.040 in a relationship support love and nurture and support yes stand ground and stand ground would be um

00:02:00.400 um if you take your time to share or partake or come into an union with someone then yeah you agree on

00:02:08.000 that okay so she should stay no no she shouldn't so she shouldn't stay no okay so should she do anything

00:02:20.080 well you see honestly i i know we've been going i know we've been yeah we're at a back and forth right

00:02:27.200 now the thing is i i was going to say i know we've been going at the women a lot throughout this show

00:02:30.880 but really let's be like bro come on like this is the reason why a lot of women complain like men 1.00

00:02:36.720 men need to like really figure their out and understand what their purpose is and be able to direct

00:02:43.440 their women bro like literally you need to be able to answer a question like come on 1.00

00:02:51.840 all right women should stand her ground know where she's at know that if that's the man that she's with 1.00

00:02:56.640 that's the solemn man that she's with that he represents her and they represent each other

00:03:00.400 and if they go on forth so be it if they want to have bicker and have problems on the way so be it

00:03:05.920 they figure it out along the way whether they stay together or not so be it but

00:03:10.640 there should be a minimum base of communication whether it is to understanding or misunderstanding

00:03:18.480 okay i i don't feel like you answered my question of what women should bring

00:03:23.040 to the table in 2023 or i said should women do anything bring anything to a relationship 1.00

00:03:32.320 no nothing okay thank you for being honest all right

00:03:35.920 should so what do average women bring to the table in 2023 i mean on my instagram the average 1.00

00:03:44.560 woman is actually quite pretty like okay okay yeah um i mean that's all the same really like um 0.96

00:03:54.000 to get like i invited laura to the to the podcast she came but to get to laura actually not

00:04:01.200 even to get to laura i knew laura would come but even then i was asking like loads of girls 0.97

00:04:05.920 um to come out and i put up my story it's all the same game like um i'll dm them hey come out

00:04:12.480 um come to this podcast they say i'm too scary they do say you're scary yeah when they research it

00:04:19.280 they say you're scary i'm very scary but it's fine like but then they'll go and this is game four guys

00:04:26.320 um they'll be like hey how about let's meet up on the weekend so it's like and it's a big circle

00:04:31.840 um i'll show that i'm having fun on the podcast same again like girls would message me back again

00:04:38.800 and and it's the same again like date date date date yeah but looks that's it like and then i'll put

00:04:45.120 them and then i'll put them on the on my profile store again is that your strategy is that your

00:04:52.160 strategy is my strategy so women shouldn't do anything in a relationship look nice be nice 1.00

00:04:59.760 like be kind be nice be kind be kind to your dude okay what do you think i will not get into details

00:05:07.840 what they bring i'm just gonna say that whatever the average or i would say even a little bit above

00:05:13.440 average woman brings is irrelevant to what a relationship needs so cannot really be something 1.00

00:05:21.520 important if that makes sense no okay what do a relationship needs for from your perspective

00:05:28.320 yeah so what what does the average woman bring and what would your ideal relationship have 1.00

00:05:33.440 okay the average woman brings just like i would say not even count beauty just like herself no i think 0.97

00:05:42.160 i think the average woman needs to bring culture standard moral off of upbringing if she had that 1.00

00:05:49.280 opportunity to have it culture standard moral education recognition uh presentation but then again

00:05:56.880 that's just as an individual now when you talk about marriage sheesh we're making a commitment with

00:06:06.720 someone that as much as we got to know it ain't go you never know so you're expecting and you're coming to

00:06:13.840 an agreement sure so for that saying i mean a wife should hold down her ground know that if so if someone 1.00

00:06:21.760 writes to her dm say no i'm happily married or don't even respond or uh come and grab a bunch of things

00:06:30.800 you know what um i'm just trying to think what she can bring and i can really not think of something

00:06:37.040 important and to answer to your question what i would prefer if let's say i wanted to make a family

00:06:43.680 and i wanted to have kids i would definitely look for a woman that she can be caring to my kids she can 1.00

00:06:50.560 like protect them with me i'm gonna be the one who takes care of everything outside of the household

00:06:56.080 but inside i want to know that she will be there she will teach them she will care for them she will

00:07:01.120 nurture them you understand she will make them like she will grow them let's say so you want a

00:07:06.800 woman that creates a safe home like for a nest if i wanted if i wanted yeah if i wanted a family 1.00

00:07:13.840 that's what i would look for right now i'm literally not not looking for nothing just like focus on myself

00:07:20.160 on my financial uh dependency on my business nothing else cares i don't care about nothing else

00:07:26.800 but let's say ideally and maybe in the future okay i'm gonna read super chats and then we're

00:07:32.640 gonna close out the show this is a fun chat won't you ask me okay king king what what does the average

00:07:40.320 woman bring to the table and what would your ideal woman bring to the table i'll say the average woman 1.00

00:07:45.920 brings problems because the reality is um the average woman is not like the woman that every man

00:07:58.160 desires right she's just like yeah average so usually most women do problems but at least with the really 1.00

00:08:05.520 hot ones you have something to look at and be like okay yeah it's worth it but then the problem is the

00:08:10.720 average man brings the same problem so it's like okay what does she really bring but ideally what a

00:08:15.760 woman should bring to relationship is respect um ability to follow and admiration and also um morals 0.77

00:08:28.960 and if i may take uh like 10 seconds on the opposite side the average man just provides and that's like

00:08:35.920 already enough well i think the average man doesn't provide average means average

00:08:41.600 the average man the average man the average man doesn't provide the lifestyle that we want but 0.98

00:08:47.040 the average man still yeah the average man still makes enough for a one-bedroom apartment in london

00:08:52.960 the women just don't want to tough it out for a basic basic basic family life yeah he will 1.00

00:08:58.560 he will provide all the time yeah uh 45 think about it 45 of men have jobs that run the infrastructure

00:09:05.280 so those are needed and they are the provider in their families yeah the main well i mean a lot

00:09:12.400 but i think there's one thing i think what he said about what king said about respect and and

00:09:17.840 morals that works both ways we should all have that and if you have that it's a great foundation

00:09:21.680 for a good relationship that's it again you're changing a bit of the question the question was

00:09:34.480 about only about the average woman i actually think men are the ones that that bring morals to society

00:09:40.960 not women actually yeah you know it's crazy feminism fought for us to do whatever we wanted and the 1.00

00:09:49.200 majority have just become whores agreed agreed no i'm serious like she's right like a hundred a 0.96

00:09:57.280 hundred years ago 85 percent of women were virgins on their wedding day 85 percent 100 years now going 0.57

00:10:04.560 high school and you're not gonna find too many yeah yeah what percent of women are virgins on their 1.00

00:10:09.120 wedding day today zero none i think we'll say that hey hey it's not zero it's four percent put some respect

00:10:17.280 on our name but it's not global sorry that works both ways back in the day men didn't sleep with

00:10:22.480 like however many who who values purity men or women i think everyone should a little no no no who

00:10:29.120 values purity not should women men men men do you think women value pure men sure do you think women 1.00

00:10:37.520 disqualify men for their lack of purity no no they like it do you think men will disqualify women for

00:10:44.160 their lack of purity no depends on who you're talking to do you think men will disqualify women 0.92

00:10:50.400 for their lack of purity yes or no yes so i think yes yes yes yes yes yes or no we live in london yes

00:10:58.480 or no it's no some no i think no no no and also a lot of women nowadays they confuse like freedom 1.00

00:11:05.040 or so-called freedom with they lose self self-respect well well so that's terrible well it's interesting

00:11:11.760 because like women it's like they almost paint us as like morally superior to men but it's like

00:11:17.280 literally the more freedom we've had the more selfish we've become isn't that crazy it's easy to

00:11:22.240 slide down on the road where men when they had the most power they gave it to us because like

00:11:28.720 society couldn't run without men they're in charge of the police they're in charge of everything

00:11:32.080 that like makes society run and when they had the most power they gave it to us when we had the most power

00:11:36.720 we win for ourselves we are selfish yeah yeah yeah you know seriously we are we are it's i know sorry

00:11:45.200 girls because you hear i don't that you don't agree with that but we are yeah we are selfish there's a

00:11:50.560 lot of good women that do good jobs too just saying just putting out there i have to support you know 0.99

00:11:55.120 what's crazy i just did a poll with 30 000 people took yeah now would you say that a poll that 30 000

00:12:01.440 people took can can gather like that would be reliable data i mean it's probably quite representative

00:12:07.120 it's a fraction of a hundred thousand so okay so i asked what percent of women do you think are 1.00

00:12:12.480 quality women today the answer is going to be scary so i i offered the lowest percent they could say is 10

00:12:19.760 to 20 percent then they could do 20 to 40 then 40 to 60 then 80 to 100 i think i made it maybe made

00:12:27.360 it up to like 60 plus i forgot how 74 percent of people said less than 20 percent so i don't even

00:12:33.760 know if that's so when we have a conversation when we have a conversation we have to talk about the

00:12:39.280 average and the general yeah we we know there's exceptions yeah but in all honesty i i've been

00:12:45.440 thinking about this a lot and i don't claim to be like the perfect picture of feminine like obviously

00:12:50.560 but i was thinking like what percent of women i've had hundreds of girls on the show 1.00

00:12:55.360 what percent are like a true traditional woman that was raised to be a wife that believes in obeying

00:12:59.920 her husband that was a virgin on her wedding day i i don't know any i can maybe think of one girl from

00:13:05.040 my high school but it's like if you go to college that's putting your primary reproductive years you're

00:13:11.840 putting your career first that automatically like puts you in the non-traditional category i'm not saying

00:13:16.400 it's like everyone's fault right because this is what we're taught but it's like when you think about it

00:13:22.400 it's like the average check like i can't even think of a traditional check

00:13:27.680 like traditional women get married before 25. wow and like i said men bring morality to society because

00:13:37.200 there's a reason why even in christianity um the bible says um a man should submit to god and a woman 0.96

00:13:43.840 should submit to her husband it never says anything about the man submitting to the woman 0.93

00:13:47.920 um but obviously modern day society everything has feminism has come told women that they are 1.00

00:13:54.720 equal to men and all of that but that's that's that's a bit wrong because at the end of the day

00:14:00.560 me as a woman i want to be led by a man i don't want to lead the man 0.99

00:14:04.960 like where where's the point we are changing the roles i'm becoming the man and you're becoming the

00:14:09.840 the woman yeah so this is the way that it should be even if we are in the modern times at the end of

00:14:16.960 the day the man should be the one that is the man of the house not the woman yeah yeah but i mean that's

00:14:22.960 what they teach us though they teach us happy wife happy life you hear it's cheaper to keep her right 0.93

00:14:28.720 i just said that i i was married and i'm getting a divorce so i don't you you didn't see me coming

00:14:36.480 in the discussion about the marriage too much because i didn't want to bring my my personal

00:14:44.480 opinion right into a general opinion you get yeah because i wasn't talking about you right exactly i

00:14:51.440 all my answers were not about me well in general maybe maybe from a personal point of view i was

00:14:58.240 you know yeah sorry it's just every time i ask these questions like women always say like oh 1.00

00:15:05.760 well me well me but it's like okay we're talking in general so it's it's funny because i've never i think

00:15:11.440 in all the shows you're like one of the first girls that's come to that realization that it's like

00:15:15.440 in general not you yeah because i gave my yeah yeah yeah yeah funny

JustPearlyThings - July 27, 2023

What Should Women Bring to Their Relationship

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