JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


When Hypergamy Back Fires


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Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

197.39359

Word count

1,858

Sentence count

200

Harmful content

Misogyny

45

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Hate speech

43

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss why women cheat on their husbands and why men cheat on them. We also talk about why women are the gatekeepers of sex and why they should be the only ones to choose who they have sex with.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 No, because if you're treating a girl properly, she's not. 0.99
00:00:03.060 I also think it's mental as well.
00:00:05.060 The reason women typically get cheated on is they shoot too high. 1.00
00:00:08.620 Man over here, ready to be fake.
00:00:11.020 I also, sorry.
00:00:12.340 I'm still cheating.
00:00:13.440 I think it's a mental thing.
00:00:15.200 No, because I'd say most men are unable to cheat.
00:00:18.880 I don't think you don't realize this because all you need to do.
00:00:21.660 No, you can just need to go below your level.
00:00:23.400 No, no, no, no.
00:00:24.300 If all the women are looking up, no one's looking down. 1.00
00:00:28.280 This is what you're not getting.
00:00:28.740 Men do because you're calling these girls hosely.
00:00:30.800 No, no, no.
00:00:31.960 You didn't pay attention to my diagram.
00:00:34.660 I wrote a whole diagram.
00:00:35.460 But how do you know someone's equal to you?
00:00:38.580 I'm on about a man.
00:00:39.520 I'm telling you, the ring, that's how.
00:00:41.700 Commitment, that's how.
00:00:42.600 All right, so what is the solution here for people that let... 0.71
00:00:44.740 Well, the solution here is...
00:00:47.140 We're done.
00:00:48.520 We're done.
00:00:50.500 You're not done.
00:00:50.900 Well, the solution here is...
00:00:52.400 Thank you.
00:00:53.400 The solution here is that for women not to sleep with anyone, 1.00
00:00:56.380 and then guys need to actually pick what they want
00:01:00.760 instead of saying, oh, what you just said.
00:01:04.540 What do most men want from women? 0.71
00:01:06.640 Men don't know what they want. 1.00
00:01:07.660 They want sex. 0.94
00:01:07.940 No, just please.
00:01:08.820 What do most men want from women? 0.71
00:01:09.740 Yes, they want sex. 0.99
00:01:10.200 And who controls it?
00:01:11.580 Yes, we do.
00:01:12.560 So you control what happens?
00:01:14.140 That's what I'm saying to you?
00:01:14.940 Yes.
00:01:15.380 I agree that women are the gatekeepers. 1.00
00:01:17.260 Of course.
00:01:17.620 But not all men are the same. 0.60
00:01:21.280 A man's still being married to one woman. 0.57
00:01:23.280 Because we want sex. 0.77
00:01:23.860 No.
00:01:24.160 Yeah, but that's only if he can.
00:01:25.200 That's only if he can.
00:01:26.360 You can have sex from anyone. 0.94
00:01:28.180 Most guys can't even.
00:01:29.900 But why do you want sex? 0.56
00:01:31.240 Apart from the fact that it's pleasurable and stuff.
00:01:32.840 Okay.
00:01:33.040 You want it because you get validation from it.
00:01:35.360 But if you are with a girl that you really like,
00:01:37.740 why do you need validation from the outside?
00:01:39.680 No, it just feels good.
00:01:40.260 Why do women need validation from Instagram? 1.00
00:01:44.400 Why do women need validation with a million wives? 1.00
00:01:47.680 Wait, wait, wait.
00:01:48.120 Let me ask all the ladies in the room a question, right? 1.00
00:01:50.540 Have you gotten attention from guys you had no interest in?
00:01:53.760 Yes or no?
00:01:54.420 That is different because it is uncontrollable.
00:01:57.840 Hold on.
00:01:58.200 Let me land.
00:01:58.840 Let me land.
00:01:59.240 Do we know that?
00:02:01.000 Hold on.
00:02:01.380 Do we know that some girls enjoy attention even from men that they're not interested in?
00:02:05.820 Yes or no?
00:02:06.740 Yeah.
00:02:07.240 Right.
00:02:07.860 So we know this.
00:02:08.860 Right.
00:02:08.980 So if we know, right, that women can enjoy attention from men that they're not interested 0.96
00:02:14.340 in, right, for men, replace attention with sex.
00:02:17.200 Yes.
00:02:17.680 Men can enjoy sex.
00:02:18.920 I'm sorry.
00:02:19.280 Having sexual intimacy with someone and crossing that boundary is completely different.
00:02:23.880 It's different for women. 1.00
00:02:25.380 It's not different for men. 0.93
00:02:26.600 It's not different for women.
00:02:27.840 It's different for women. 1.00
00:02:28.760 I understand.
00:02:29.440 No, because there is a thing called self-control.
00:02:31.980 Are you just cavemen then?
00:02:33.080 You can't control yourself.
00:02:34.280 What I'm saying is that you don't need to control yourself.
00:02:36.500 What I'm saying is I understand it's difficult to understand because you're looking at it
00:02:39.800 through a female lens. 0.99
00:02:40.720 But what I'm trying to articulate to you is that the same way that it can feel good to
00:02:44.700 get attention, because it gives you validation, right?
00:02:47.580 The same way it can feel good to get attention from guys you have no interest in.
00:02:51.220 The females should just take attention from everyone then because a man's going to feel 1.00
00:02:53.260 horny 24-7.
00:02:54.380 I would take these complaints seriously if all the women, the wives, if I could tell 1.00
00:03:12.400 the difference between wives and mothers and single women, I would take these complaints 1.00
00:03:16.880 seriously.
00:03:17.400 But I'm sorry, most women have open Instagrams. 1.00
00:03:21.000 Most women dress provocatively. 1.00
00:03:23.240 You cannot tell the difference between a wife and a mother and a single chick nowadays. 1.00
00:03:27.680 You see, no, you see 30, 40, no, you see 30, 40, no, you see 30, 40-year-old women. 0.99
00:03:32.560 It's the same thing.
00:03:33.740 It's how you perceive in that person.
00:03:35.500 And I'm telling you, I know this better than anybody because I have interviewed hundreds
00:03:40.720 of women on the show.
00:03:42.500 And I am telling you, no, and I, it's not a certain type when it's 600, 700, eight.
00:03:47.900 I've talked to more people than everybody in this room.
00:03:50.920 And I can't tell who the women on the couch that come in that have children and the ones 1.00
00:03:55.940 that don't, they look exactly the same.
00:03:58.360 And it used to be a time, it used to be a time where wives and mothers looked different 0.99
00:04:03.460 than the single chicks.
00:04:04.560 Because their men were loyal at that time.
00:04:06.600 Men aren't loyal now to girls.
00:04:07.860 You guys aren't listening because the only reason that you have men that aren't loyal
00:04:16.460 is because you're shooting too high.
00:04:18.600 There's a man on your level that will be faithful to you.
00:04:22.000 You just don't want it.
00:04:23.020 You just don't want the guy who's going to be faithful.
00:04:26.000 And that's the truth.
00:04:26.580 So we got to settle.
00:04:28.100 Guys on their level?
00:04:28.660 We got to settle.
00:04:30.240 I want to drop a little bit of knowledge on you guys.
00:04:32.620 There's something that a lot of people have failed to point out.
00:04:34.960 We keep talking about sex as if sex is what men used to pick wives.
00:04:38.760 Sex isn't what men used to pick wives. 0.98
00:04:40.800 The one thing men used to pick wives is something I know most of you men on this couch cannot
00:04:44.460 give to a man, which is submission. 0.51
00:04:47.020 Oh, to be submissive to a man.
00:04:48.880 I will be submissive to the right man.
00:04:51.240 Yeah, the right man.
00:04:51.960 There we go.
00:04:52.820 So if you're saying that women can't tell who's successful and who isn't, has any of you
00:05:00.140 like dated a homeless man.
00:05:01.480 Yeah, but guys lie though.
00:05:03.440 No, no, forget about that.
00:05:05.660 And have any of you guys date a homeless girl?
00:05:08.340 I don't get it.
00:05:08.880 I guarantee, I guarantee, I guarantee that the man somewhere that slept with a homeless 1.00
00:05:12.620 person, guaranteed.
00:05:13.340 Wait, actually, I have a question.
00:05:13.620 I have a question.
00:05:14.320 No, I guarantee.
00:05:14.860 Are you telling me that happened?
00:05:15.700 That's disgusting.
00:05:16.380 People sleep, people sleep with women in the trap. 0.99
00:05:18.140 I want to ask the guys.
00:05:19.240 I want to ask the guys.
00:05:20.680 All right, would you guys, would you guys wife a chick that was making minimum wage, but she 1.00
00:05:26.060 was a 22-year-old virgin?
00:05:27.860 That would be ideal.
00:05:28.860 Well, that's the difference.
00:05:31.160 That's why we do women. 1.00
00:05:31.780 I'm not out here looking for a virgin like that.
00:05:33.700 Because that's not what the woman brings to the table. 1.00
00:05:36.100 We don't know what the role did and manipulated into what you want.
00:05:39.300 I want to go with this.
00:05:40.580 Well, what do women bring to the table in 2023? 1.00
00:05:44.140 In 2023?
00:05:45.380 It depends what kind of women we're talking about. 1.00
00:05:47.560 No, I don't know.
00:05:47.880 The average woman, even good women in 2023, do they bring purity? 1.00
00:05:51.820 Are they virgins? 0.94
00:05:52.560 Yes or no?
00:05:53.620 Mostly no.
00:05:54.640 Okay, wait, we're just going to do yes or no.
00:05:56.460 Have they typically slept around or not slept around?
00:06:00.460 I would say yes.
00:06:01.380 Slept around.
00:06:02.060 Okay.
00:06:02.660 Do they bring youth?
00:06:03.500 The average age of first marriage is 31.
00:06:05.640 Do they bring youth?
00:06:07.180 Fertility?
00:06:08.540 Well, if it's 31, then no.
00:06:10.880 Okay, okay.
00:06:11.620 But that's because the whole system is messed up.
00:06:14.360 Wait, wait, wait, no.
00:06:15.140 The average woman has 1.4 children.
00:06:19.300 Does the average woman bring children? 1.00
00:06:23.340 Like 200 years ago, a guy could get a wife and get seven kids out of it. 0.84
00:06:30.560 Yeah, but who wants seven kids? 1.00
00:06:31.460 I think it's 1.4.
00:06:33.480 Why do we win a woman? 1.00
00:06:33.960 Yeah, because women are waiting so long and then we lose our eggs. 1.00
00:06:37.200 No, well, it's because women, again, we shoot too high. 1.00
00:06:40.180 We're waiting so long.
00:06:40.720 No.
00:06:42.180 But this is wrong because we're telling women to just settle for whatever we get. 0.99
00:06:46.940 How is that right?
00:06:47.680 How is that right?
00:06:48.260 We're not saying settle.
00:06:49.680 I'm saying get what you deserve.
00:06:51.060 And if you can't get the guy that you're sleeping with to commit to you.
00:06:53.900 So what does she deserve? 0.87
00:06:54.860 A homeless man?
00:06:55.460 I don't do get what she deserves.
00:06:56.220 No, no.
00:06:56.560 Are you saying that?
00:06:57.420 I don't know where you get this.
00:06:58.680 Okay, I'll give you an example.
00:06:59.980 You're a TV presenter, right?
00:07:01.720 Yeah.
00:07:01.840 That's why you said that earlier.
00:07:03.620 Okay.
00:07:03.760 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:04.120 So there is a girl that has a similar job to you. 1.00
00:07:06.820 She was 39 and she went viral this year saying she wouldn't date a bus driver.
00:07:11.980 Okay.
00:07:12.200 So a woman has a job talking into a microphone. 1.00
00:07:15.380 And I do this, right?
00:07:16.880 I don't think I'm better than a guy with an average job.
00:07:19.860 And she was snickering at the thought at 39 years old of dating a bus driver.
00:07:26.180 Is it really settling dating a bus driver when he marries her?
00:07:30.380 He probably doesn't get kids out of it, but he could marry a 22 year old jobless chick and 1.00
00:07:35.960 have a whole family.
00:07:37.420 So who's settling for him?
00:07:39.520 And this is the problem.
00:07:41.120 What?
00:07:41.660 It's personal.
00:07:42.500 It's her own choice.
00:07:44.560 It's her choice.
00:07:45.220 And it's depending on the lifestyle.
00:07:47.200 Well, you have to think women go after a lifestyle because that was how it was centuries back. 1.00
00:07:52.960 We would pick the eligible bachelor who could give us security.
00:07:56.680 But this is, but they always had lower, no, they had, no, they had, no, they had lower
00:08:00.900 standards of living.
00:08:02.440 Yeah.
00:08:02.700 No, no, no.
00:08:03.000 We've seen that.
00:08:03.880 We've seen women settle. 1.00
00:08:05.220 No, no, no.
00:08:05.900 I disagree.
00:08:06.520 No, no, no.
00:08:07.120 I disagree.
00:08:07.200 No, back then we fought.
00:08:09.040 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:08:11.560 And this is, this is how you guys spread propaganda.
00:08:14.440 That's very wrong.
00:08:15.300 The people, the women that went after high class men typically came from high class families 1.00
00:08:19.840 or they were very beautiful.
00:08:22.900 That was, those are the kind of women that got high class men. 1.00
00:08:25.180 The rest had to settle for the average Joe down the street and had to work on farms with 0.99
00:08:30.180 their husbands and build themselves to get into that upper class. 1.00
00:08:34.220 And I would argue it's not, it's not your choice for commitment.
00:08:37.460 It's your choice for sex, but not for commitment.
00:08:39.180 Yeah.
00:08:39.360 It's the guy's choice.
00:08:40.360 You have to convince him to commit to you.
00:08:42.320 You don't have to say yeah though.
00:08:43.680 So it's still fit.
00:08:44.180 Like we, we tell, we show our hand based on our language and even the worst, even the
00:08:55.420 word that she shouldn't have to settle when most women are overweight, most women aren't 1.00
00:08:59.920 virgins and most women that get married are old. 1.00
00:09:02.020 The idea that we're settling for the guys when really the guys are settling for us because
00:09:07.080 in 2023, modern women offer less than ever before. 0.99
00:09:11.460 Thank you.
00:09:12.500 Thank you.
00:09:12.700 Thank you.
00:09:14.640 Thank you.
00:09:21.020 Thank you.