JustPearlyThings - August 28, 2023


When Hypergamy Back Fires


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

197.39359

Word Count

1,858

Sentence Count

200

Hate Speech Sentences

43


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 No, because if you're treating a girl properly, she's not.
00:00:03.060 I also think it's mental as well.
00:00:05.060 The reason women typically get cheated on is they shoot too high.
00:00:08.620 Man over here, ready to be fake.
00:00:11.020 I also, sorry.
00:00:12.340 I'm still cheating.
00:00:13.440 I think it's a mental thing.
00:00:15.200 No, because I'd say most men are unable to cheat.
00:00:18.880 I don't think you don't realize this because all you need to do.
00:00:21.660 No, you can just need to go below your level.
00:00:23.400 No, no, no, no.
00:00:24.300 If all the women are looking up, no one's looking down.
00:00:28.280 This is what you're not getting.
00:00:28.740 Men do because you're calling these girls hosely.
00:00:30.800 No, no, no.
00:00:31.960 You didn't pay attention to my diagram.
00:00:34.660 I wrote a whole diagram.
00:00:35.460 But how do you know someone's equal to you?
00:00:38.580 I'm on about a man.
00:00:39.520 I'm telling you, the ring, that's how.
00:00:41.700 Commitment, that's how.
00:00:42.600 All right, so what is the solution here for people that let...
00:00:44.740 Well, the solution here is...
00:00:47.140 We're done.
00:00:48.520 We're done.
00:00:50.500 You're not done.
00:00:50.900 Well, the solution here is...
00:00:52.400 Thank you.
00:00:53.400 The solution here is that for women not to sleep with anyone,
00:00:56.380 and then guys need to actually pick what they want
00:01:00.760 instead of saying, oh, what you just said.
00:01:04.540 What do most men want from women?
00:01:06.640 Men don't know what they want.
00:01:07.660 They want sex.
00:01:07.940 No, just please.
00:01:08.820 What do most men want from women?
00:01:09.740 Yes, they want sex.
00:01:10.200 And who controls it?
00:01:11.580 Yes, we do.
00:01:12.560 So you control what happens?
00:01:14.140 That's what I'm saying to you?
00:01:14.940 Yes.
00:01:15.380 I agree that women are the gatekeepers.
00:01:17.260 Of course.
00:01:17.620 But not all men are the same.
00:01:21.280 A man's still being married to one woman.
00:01:23.280 Because we want sex.
00:01:23.860 No.
00:01:24.160 Yeah, but that's only if he can.
00:01:25.200 That's only if he can.
00:01:26.360 You can have sex from anyone.
00:01:28.180 Most guys can't even.
00:01:29.900 But why do you want sex?
00:01:31.240 Apart from the fact that it's pleasurable and stuff.
00:01:32.840 Okay.
00:01:33.040 You want it because you get validation from it.
00:01:35.360 But if you are with a girl that you really like,
00:01:37.740 why do you need validation from the outside?
00:01:39.680 No, it just feels good.
00:01:40.260 Why do women need validation from Instagram?
00:01:44.400 Why do women need validation with a million wives?
00:01:47.680 Wait, wait, wait.
00:01:48.120 Let me ask all the ladies in the room a question, right?
00:01:50.540 Have you gotten attention from guys you had no interest in?
00:01:53.760 Yes or no?
00:01:54.420 That is different because it is uncontrollable.
00:01:57.840 Hold on.
00:01:58.200 Let me land.
00:01:58.840 Let me land.
00:01:59.240 Do we know that?
00:02:01.000 Hold on.
00:02:01.380 Do we know that some girls enjoy attention even from men that they're not interested in?
00:02:05.820 Yes or no?
00:02:06.740 Yeah.
00:02:07.240 Right.
00:02:07.860 So we know this.
00:02:08.860 Right.
00:02:08.980 So if we know, right, that women can enjoy attention from men that they're not interested
00:02:14.340 in, right, for men, replace attention with sex.
00:02:17.200 Yes.
00:02:17.680 Men can enjoy sex.
00:02:18.920 I'm sorry.
00:02:19.280 Having sexual intimacy with someone and crossing that boundary is completely different.
00:02:23.880 It's different for women.
00:02:25.380 It's not different for men.
00:02:26.600 It's not different for women.
00:02:27.840 It's different for women.
00:02:28.760 I understand.
00:02:29.440 No, because there is a thing called self-control.
00:02:31.980 Are you just cavemen then?
00:02:33.080 You can't control yourself.
00:02:34.280 What I'm saying is that you don't need to control yourself.
00:02:36.500 What I'm saying is I understand it's difficult to understand because you're looking at it
00:02:39.800 through a female lens.
00:02:40.720 But what I'm trying to articulate to you is that the same way that it can feel good to
00:02:44.700 get attention, because it gives you validation, right?
00:02:47.580 The same way it can feel good to get attention from guys you have no interest in.
00:02:51.220 The females should just take attention from everyone then because a man's going to feel
00:02:53.260 horny 24-7.
00:02:54.380 I would take these complaints seriously if all the women, the wives, if I could tell
00:03:12.400 the difference between wives and mothers and single women, I would take these complaints
00:03:16.880 seriously.
00:03:17.400 But I'm sorry, most women have open Instagrams.
00:03:21.000 Most women dress provocatively.
00:03:23.240 You cannot tell the difference between a wife and a mother and a single chick nowadays.
00:03:27.680 You see, no, you see 30, 40, no, you see 30, 40, no, you see 30, 40-year-old women.
00:03:32.560 It's the same thing.
00:03:33.740 It's how you perceive in that person.
00:03:35.500 And I'm telling you, I know this better than anybody because I have interviewed hundreds
00:03:40.720 of women on the show.
00:03:42.500 And I am telling you, no, and I, it's not a certain type when it's 600, 700, eight.
00:03:47.900 I've talked to more people than everybody in this room.
00:03:50.920 And I can't tell who the women on the couch that come in that have children and the ones
00:03:55.940 that don't, they look exactly the same.
00:03:58.360 And it used to be a time, it used to be a time where wives and mothers looked different
00:04:03.460 than the single chicks.
00:04:04.560 Because their men were loyal at that time.
00:04:06.600 Men aren't loyal now to girls.
00:04:07.860 You guys aren't listening because the only reason that you have men that aren't loyal
00:04:16.460 is because you're shooting too high.
00:04:18.600 There's a man on your level that will be faithful to you.
00:04:22.000 You just don't want it.
00:04:23.020 You just don't want the guy who's going to be faithful.
00:04:26.000 And that's the truth.
00:04:26.580 So we got to settle.
00:04:28.100 Guys on their level?
00:04:28.660 We got to settle.
00:04:30.240 I want to drop a little bit of knowledge on you guys.
00:04:32.620 There's something that a lot of people have failed to point out.
00:04:34.960 We keep talking about sex as if sex is what men used to pick wives.
00:04:38.760 Sex isn't what men used to pick wives.
00:04:40.800 The one thing men used to pick wives is something I know most of you men on this couch cannot
00:04:44.460 give to a man, which is submission.
00:04:47.020 Oh, to be submissive to a man.
00:04:48.880 I will be submissive to the right man.
00:04:51.240 Yeah, the right man.
00:04:51.960 There we go.
00:04:52.820 So if you're saying that women can't tell who's successful and who isn't, has any of you
00:05:00.140 like dated a homeless man.
00:05:01.480 Yeah, but guys lie though.
00:05:03.440 No, no, forget about that.
00:05:05.660 And have any of you guys date a homeless girl?
00:05:08.340 I don't get it.
00:05:08.880 I guarantee, I guarantee, I guarantee that the man somewhere that slept with a homeless
00:05:12.620 person, guaranteed.
00:05:13.340 Wait, actually, I have a question.
00:05:13.620 I have a question.
00:05:14.320 No, I guarantee.
00:05:14.860 Are you telling me that happened?
00:05:15.700 That's disgusting.
00:05:16.380 People sleep, people sleep with women in the trap.
00:05:18.140 I want to ask the guys.
00:05:19.240 I want to ask the guys.
00:05:20.680 All right, would you guys, would you guys wife a chick that was making minimum wage, but she
00:05:26.060 was a 22-year-old virgin?
00:05:27.860 That would be ideal.
00:05:28.860 Well, that's the difference.
00:05:31.160 That's why we do women.
00:05:31.780 I'm not out here looking for a virgin like that.
00:05:33.700 Because that's not what the woman brings to the table.
00:05:36.100 We don't know what the role did and manipulated into what you want.
00:05:39.300 I want to go with this.
00:05:40.580 Well, what do women bring to the table in 2023?
00:05:44.140 In 2023?
00:05:45.380 It depends what kind of women we're talking about.
00:05:47.560 No, I don't know.
00:05:47.880 The average woman, even good women in 2023, do they bring purity?
00:05:51.820 Are they virgins?
00:05:52.560 Yes or no?
00:05:53.620 Mostly no.
00:05:54.640 Okay, wait, we're just going to do yes or no.
00:05:56.460 Have they typically slept around or not slept around?
00:06:00.460 I would say yes.
00:06:01.380 Slept around.
00:06:02.060 Okay.
00:06:02.660 Do they bring youth?
00:06:03.500 The average age of first marriage is 31.
00:06:05.640 Do they bring youth?
00:06:07.180 Fertility?
00:06:08.540 Well, if it's 31, then no.
00:06:10.880 Okay, okay.
00:06:11.620 But that's because the whole system is messed up.
00:06:14.360 Wait, wait, wait, no.
00:06:15.140 The average woman has 1.4 children.
00:06:19.300 Does the average woman bring children?
00:06:23.340 Like 200 years ago, a guy could get a wife and get seven kids out of it.
00:06:30.560 Yeah, but who wants seven kids?
00:06:31.460 I think it's 1.4.
00:06:33.480 Why do we win a woman?
00:06:33.960 Yeah, because women are waiting so long and then we lose our eggs.
00:06:37.200 No, well, it's because women, again, we shoot too high.
00:06:40.180 We're waiting so long.
00:06:40.720 No.
00:06:42.180 But this is wrong because we're telling women to just settle for whatever we get.
00:06:46.940 How is that right?
00:06:47.680 How is that right?
00:06:48.260 We're not saying settle.
00:06:49.680 I'm saying get what you deserve.
00:06:51.060 And if you can't get the guy that you're sleeping with to commit to you.
00:06:53.900 So what does she deserve?
00:06:54.860 A homeless man?
00:06:55.460 I don't do get what she deserves.
00:06:56.220 No, no.
00:06:56.560 Are you saying that?
00:06:57.420 I don't know where you get this.
00:06:58.680 Okay, I'll give you an example.
00:06:59.980 You're a TV presenter, right?
00:07:01.720 Yeah.
00:07:01.840 That's why you said that earlier.
00:07:03.620 Okay.
00:07:03.760 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:04.120 So there is a girl that has a similar job to you.
00:07:06.820 She was 39 and she went viral this year saying she wouldn't date a bus driver.
00:07:11.980 Okay.
00:07:12.200 So a woman has a job talking into a microphone.
00:07:15.380 And I do this, right?
00:07:16.880 I don't think I'm better than a guy with an average job.
00:07:19.860 And she was snickering at the thought at 39 years old of dating a bus driver.
00:07:26.180 Is it really settling dating a bus driver when he marries her?
00:07:30.380 He probably doesn't get kids out of it, but he could marry a 22 year old jobless chick and
00:07:35.960 have a whole family.
00:07:37.420 So who's settling for him?
00:07:39.520 And this is the problem.
00:07:41.120 What?
00:07:41.660 It's personal.
00:07:42.500 It's her own choice.
00:07:44.560 It's her choice.
00:07:45.220 And it's depending on the lifestyle.
00:07:47.200 Well, you have to think women go after a lifestyle because that was how it was centuries back.
00:07:52.960 We would pick the eligible bachelor who could give us security.
00:07:56.680 But this is, but they always had lower, no, they had, no, they had, no, they had lower
00:08:00.900 standards of living.
00:08:02.440 Yeah.
00:08:02.700 No, no, no.
00:08:03.000 We've seen that.
00:08:03.880 We've seen women settle.
00:08:05.220 No, no, no.
00:08:05.900 I disagree.
00:08:06.520 No, no, no.
00:08:07.120 I disagree.
00:08:07.200 No, back then we fought.
00:08:09.040 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:08:11.560 And this is, this is how you guys spread propaganda.
00:08:14.440 That's very wrong.
00:08:15.300 The people, the women that went after high class men typically came from high class families
00:08:19.840 or they were very beautiful.
00:08:22.900 That was, those are the kind of women that got high class men.
00:08:25.180 The rest had to settle for the average Joe down the street and had to work on farms with
00:08:30.180 their husbands and build themselves to get into that upper class.
00:08:34.220 And I would argue it's not, it's not your choice for commitment.
00:08:37.460 It's your choice for sex, but not for commitment.
00:08:39.180 Yeah.
00:08:39.360 It's the guy's choice.
00:08:40.360 You have to convince him to commit to you.
00:08:42.320 You don't have to say yeah though.
00:08:43.680 So it's still fit.
00:08:44.180 Like we, we tell, we show our hand based on our language and even the worst, even the
00:08:55.420 word that she shouldn't have to settle when most women are overweight, most women aren't
00:08:59.920 virgins and most women that get married are old.
00:09:02.020 The idea that we're settling for the guys when really the guys are settling for us because
00:09:07.080 in 2023, modern women offer less than ever before.
00:09:11.460 Thank you.
00:09:12.500 Thank you.
00:09:12.700 Thank you.
00:09:14.640 Thank you.
00:09:21.020 Thank you.