JustPearlyThings - When Modern Women Say 'I'm Healing'

00:00:00.000 there are two types of hoes though so basically no no no no and i'm not being i'm not being 1.00

00:00:05.600 disrespectful there are some people who have been through traumas and sex is there is their way of

00:00:12.720 coping so that's how they become a hole now if they're becoming a hole from mental traumas all

00:00:17.680 right i would like to i'd like to just add one thing what i'm hearing what i'm hearing here

00:00:21.280 right here wait wait is an excuse there are some people that if you if you read documents and all

00:00:38.960 that they get raped and all that they get oh say grape say great they get great uh-huh they get

00:00:46.080 graped and because i'm saying grape i'm forgetting but but they get great yeah so then they kind of 0.85

00:00:53.920 they feel depressed and they go through a lot of things and they don't they don't they don't respect

00:00:59.440 themselves and that's when that comes is this the exception or is it the rule no it's not it's not

00:01:05.920 except now there's another type of hole which they're they they know what they're doing they're

00:01:10.960 sleeping around and they're happy just to live but here's but here's the problem with even the first

00:01:14.880 so the world doesn't owe you understanding yeah like there's some there's some people that go

00:01:22.240 through that and don't make those choices and so if you if you choose to make those choices like

00:01:26.960 it's still the choice you made and you can't whine about that but pearly do you know what that's what

00:01:33.040 people underestimate but some people we all we all have different hearts we all grow up differently

00:01:38.240 we all go through different experiences but it's not and we don't know no but but as as human beings

00:01:44.560 as people we should be understanding and we should be fortunate you can be understanding and treat them

00:01:52.160 with respect and politely but that doesn't mean that other men have to date some people actually heal

00:01:58.320 some people when they get love and care you know before i have to be honest i have to be honest

00:02:03.920 wait before i started this show um i really thought healing meant something else i really thought when

00:02:10.080 women like healed they went to therapy but i just found healing is like another word for just sleeping 1.00

00:02:15.440 around it's like you sleep around the town and then you come back you come back you come back in

00:02:24.720 now and then they they write in their journals and they do some meditating guys guys guys stop stop

00:02:32.400 interrupting me stop stop they do some meditating and now they're healed no yes no i don't think

00:02:39.360 healing works i think healing works with actually self-reflecting challenging yourself and think

00:02:46.160 okay how can i how can okay i've done this this wasn't very nice and you self-reflect and you figure

00:02:51.200 out how you're going to heal how you're going to get through how you're going to treat a situation

00:02:56.080 differently next time i do agree with you there's there's learning from experience right um but it's

00:03:01.440 like how many times you got to have the same experience before you learn you know what i mean it's like

00:03:05.840 not one two three 20 30 40. by what i've seen i'm i don't know why but always stranger girls come 1.00

00:03:13.440 and talk to me and they tell me their whole lives and and what i find sad is and that's why i say like

00:03:20.480 it's so important for us as humans to be understanding because some people mentally they're not built like

00:03:28.240 i think that we should be less understanding yes no i think i think i think okay i think it's good

00:03:33.360 no no no i think it's good to be understanding when it comes to mental health but if it's too much

00:03:38.400 no i think that okay nowadays everybody's got a mental health everybody everyone's got anxiety

00:03:46.880 everyone's got yeah i remember i remember when oh you know what my least favorite word is now trauma

00:03:52.960 trauma trauma trauma used to be about war not your ex-boyfriend cheating on you three times that's not

00:03:58.400 trauma that's you but that's yeah that's what i say too but now now this is my trauma i've gone

00:04:03.680 through trauma because my ex-boyfriend like no it's supposed to be war because you took me back three

00:04:07.520 times so you're the kids yeah but i don't think i don't think i mean go ahead go ahead are you saying

00:04:13.360 most cases when people talk about relationship trauma they're only talking specifically about the

00:04:18.880 cheating no they're just hopefully not in the morning yeah it's it's it's always talking about

00:04:22.720 thanks the heartbreak no because you know what oh this is giving every giving no pause no pause giving

00:04:37.280 when you say when you say when you say when you say giving when you say giving okay one man up what

00:04:42.080 about woman up it's like it's like yeah it's always the man needs to be better it's like it's like

00:04:50.160 okay when you have trauma and it's not even from relationships who's more who's who's more

00:04:54.800 traditional men men make more than women at large for a lifetime men make more than women women way more

00:05:01.680 than men and they have higher body counts than men so so who needs to man have higher body counts than men

00:05:09.360 yes sorry sorry guys guys guys one person at a time here there's a lot over talking support

00:05:26.080 because at the end of the day so one person at a time let the moderator pick the person who's talking

00:05:30.320 thank you one out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year have one out

00:05:34.560 of three women are they virgins or haven't had sex in the past year i couldn't it's a bit both

00:05:47.600 i need to just say this like we you've heard stories where men have gloated about oh absolutely

00:05:53.600 250 women you would never hear a woman say that unless she's from only fans you know i'm sorry i've just

00:06:01.840 never experienced that conversation yeah because women are gonna brag about that stuff and one 1.00

00:06:08.320 percent but it goes back to a small percentage of men are having a lot of sex that's what he was saying 1.00

00:06:13.280 earlier so a small percentage of men they're the biggest whore you know they're man whores right 1.00

00:06:18.640 and so you're right there are a small percentage of men that are having more sex than women but by 1.00

00:06:23.280 and large women are having more sex than men i don't know i don't know that's scary i'm scared 0.67

00:06:30.640 nobody's the contraceptive pills i'm telling you it's all them it's all them products i don't be 0.99

00:06:35.120 i agree with her you know why because what she's saying i think is that the chances of a woman to get

00:06:40.480 more men and hiding it is measured than a man getting a woman and you know i say something please go on

00:06:46.880 sorry sorry carry on i'll say after i'll say after no because think about every woman here yeah 0.99

00:06:52.560 yeah think about think about your dms yeah think about now think about your dms yeah yeah now think

00:06:57.760 about if you really wanted to you could have at least well good looking women anyway not saying no 1.00

00:07:04.160 i'm you know what i mean you could you can have at least actually i'd like to kind of correct just one

00:07:08.000 thing one thing i'm gonna correct then you can finish um an average woman gets more matches on 1.00

00:07:12.640 dating apps than a top one person right this is what i was just about to say if you look at your dms

00:07:17.760 you know for a fact if you rang if you just rang someone who just said yeah come true

00:07:22.320 how many geezers could you have as many as you wanted exactly that's what i'm saying so realistically 0.99

00:07:28.720 women probably do have the more sex that we could do if we wanted to yeah but you don't know yeah but 1.00

00:07:34.000 what she's trying to say is that you don't actually know how many women they say it out loud 1.00

00:07:38.960 how many men that's what i'm saying but no i'm just i'm just agreeing with what she said because

00:07:42.480 it's the truth because realistically it's done it's the women it is it's literally when you think

00:07:48.240 about your dms because this is this crazy place it's a crazy place no one looks at the dms but it's

00:07:55.520 also if you if you if you walked if you walked into a bar and you just you stood in the bar and you said

00:07:59.920 i will every geezer here imagine how many would do imagine how many how many members they've done that

00:08:06.400 on youtube before so yeah so they have like a girl go up to guys and a guy go up to girls and it's

00:08:12.640 like over half the guys are like okay because she was a cute girl and they had a hot guy go up to 0.99

00:08:17.520 girls it was like 99 of them said no yeah exactly that's what that was what went so doesn't that

00:08:25.040 show the statistics of women trying to just keep themselves to themselves like because okay all women 0.94

00:08:32.640 i'd be like oh they don't want extra body counts no i i think i think it shows what's easier to get

00:08:38.880 like it's easier for women to get sex than men yeah so it's like men a man has to have something for

00:08:44.000 you to be interested in him like you're a pretty girl so it's like you're going to want him to have 0.67

00:08:48.160 a good job right definitely you want him to be taller than you i've been very spoiled yeah right so

00:08:53.440 i'm a picky person you want to so you are picky is earlier yeah okay so so you are you want them

00:09:01.520 you want them to be taller than you right oh yeah six foot okay okay okay what percent of men are

00:09:06.480 over six foot not many minimal what it's 15 wow so then let's let's say let's say wow yeah so let's say

00:09:15.280 now what percent wait wait what percent of men do you find attractive usually would you say

00:09:19.360 i like men that are taller than me i like to look up how tall are you so out of out of 10 men you

00:09:24.160 maybe maybe you'll find so if you're like the stats you'll find two attractive so out of the 15

00:09:29.920 you're going to find two out of the 10 that are over six foot attractive yeah and let's say let's say

00:09:34.560 one of them is in your income category that you look for and one isn't so you're looking for one percent

00:09:39.680 of men and most women most women are looking most women baby moms most women are looking for one 1.00

00:09:46.000 percent and you want them to have no kids right that's what i'm saying it's all a possibility

00:10:03.200 like i said i did use to date a very rich guy and he made me become very high um when we stopped dating

00:10:11.760 i was like oh my god how am i gonna get to right get this level how am i gonna know that's the

00:10:17.040 thing that's the thing statistically statistically you probably won't replace him statistically you

00:10:22.560 probably won't because he was rich i'm just saying my dms be popping yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah but

00:10:30.800 your dms might be popping but engagements count that's what counts

00:10:34.800 okay okay i i i've had like crazy messages but you you know come on it's a dm they don't count no no

00:10:49.680 no it don't count but obviously out of those dms one of them i mean i mean but that's i was like yes

00:10:57.760 that's my point that's what every girl thinks every girl's walking through life thinking they're 1.00

00:11:01.920 going to win the lottery and date this top one percent man he has to be over six foot he has

00:11:06.160 to make over 70k he has to be attractive he has to be what and but see this this is this is but this

00:11:12.320 is here here wait this is the problem that sounds nice it's it sounds nice and like and it's possible

00:11:18.160 but it's not probable it's probably not going to happen for every so so i'll tell you i'll tell you

00:11:22.000 another stat okay so big banks are investing in things like cat food wine because 50 of women are 1.00

00:11:28.240 projected to be single and childless over 30 so that means all the girls in this room half of us 1.00

00:11:32.720 will never have kids okay half of us will never get married so if you say oh just manifest it believe

00:11:38.080 it sounds nice and it's also like if you don't get married by 35 your odds of getting married and

00:11:42.320 having a long stable relationship ever it's very it's very low as many of you know i was just banned

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JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023

When Modern Women Say 'I'm Healing'

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