JustPearlyThings - August 07, 2023


When Simps Admit that they are simps


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Length

8 minutes

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209.8936

Word count

1,874

Sentence count

127

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Misogyny

34

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Toxicity

22

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Hate speech

24

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Summary

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What is the bare minimum from a man? What is a girl's bare minimum? What does a girl need to do to be considered a woman? How many times have you ever heard a woman say they have accepted the "bare minimum"?

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00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel. Today is day two of Carnival.
00:00:05.120 Yesterday I was not ready. That was my first festival. Oh my gosh, that was crazy.
00:00:10.380 But today we're going to be asking a variety of questions to the people on the streets here.
00:00:14.760 We're going to ask girls, rate themselves 1 to 10, see what they say.
00:00:17.920 10, always, always.
00:00:20.060 We're going to also be asking different questions about Andrew Tate and other hot topics right now.
00:00:26.320 We're going to be here so long, I just figured let's do a lot.
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00:00:49.960 Have you ever accepted the bare minimum from a guy?
00:00:53.500 Sadly, I have.
00:00:54.820 Have you ever heard the phrase accepting the bare minimum?
00:00:57.420 No.
00:00:57.900 Yes, I have.
00:00:59.260 Have you ever heard a woman say they've accepted the bare minimum? 1.00
00:01:03.060 It depends on what kind of woman I'm speaking to. 0.99
00:01:04.780 Normally I choose the sophisticated type, so I don't get that issue.
00:01:08.160 But yeah, sometimes.
00:01:10.380 What is the bare minimum?
00:01:11.680 The bare minimum is not the bare minimum because women's a diamond. 1.00
00:01:14.600 You never put a price on a woman, innit?
00:01:16.720 You get me? You have to treat them with their respect and give them their value and their worth, innit?
00:01:21.340 I feel like the bare minimum is a good morning text, a good night text, seeing how you are, speaking to me throughout the day.
00:01:28.120 Just stuff like that. Even planning dates is the bare minimum, no?
00:01:32.040 The bare minimum? A lame-ass man that's got nothing in his life and just feeds off you. 0.99
00:01:37.040 Hallelujah! Praise the Lord! 0.99
00:01:40.500 The bare minimum is like when a guy's not doing enough, he's only doing what he feels is needed.
00:01:46.200 So what is enough specifically?
00:01:48.380 So enough might be different from men, but females, it might not be the same thing.
00:01:53.000 Like if you get a good guy, he's going to know what a female wants. 0.99
00:01:55.440 So the bare minimum, it just depends on what kind of guy you're looking for, innit?
00:01:59.120 But with me, I'm a very nice guy, so I'm giving more than the bare minimum.
00:02:03.060 What do you think is the bare minimum from a girl? 1.00
00:02:05.680 Ooh! 0.96
00:02:07.740 Offering to pay, by accepting that you're not going to pay, and doing what you need to do to pleasure your partner. 0.95
00:02:14.260 So sex and offering to pay is the bare minimum? 0.64
00:02:16.640 The bare minimum. 0.98
00:02:17.440 Yeah.
00:02:18.060 Backrubs, innit?
00:02:19.020 Backrubs.
00:02:19.660 Backrubs, that's it.
00:02:21.060 Reciprocate.
00:02:22.020 What?
00:02:22.780 Reciprocate energy.
00:02:23.500 Like, the bare minimum I would do for you, do for me, no?
00:02:26.200 Yeah, it's the same.
00:02:26.980 Like, you've just got to reciprocate my energy.
00:02:28.640 If you ain't reciprocating them, what's the point?
00:02:30.980 Speaking about equality nowadays, yeah, treat me the same way you want me to treat you, no?
00:02:35.960 I think the bare minimum of the extreme respect for a woman is at least be caring.
00:02:39.720 I think those are kind of our nature.
00:02:41.780 Caring, attentive.
00:02:44.000 I think those kind of things are the bare minimum for us.
00:02:46.100 Yeah, the same thing.
00:02:47.120 Good morning text, good night text, planning dates.
00:02:50.480 Just making time for your significant other or the guy, yeah.
00:02:53.200 I feel like men and women's standards are equal.
00:02:55.720 Yeah.
00:02:56.160 Who do you think has higher standards, men or women? 0.71
00:02:58.360 Women have high standards for men. 1.00
00:03:00.060 Men, not me personally, but we'll fuck any girl. 1.00
00:03:03.060 They'll fuck anything. 1.00
00:03:03.920 Like, getting pussy's getting pussy, but girls, some girls are like that as well, but they 1.00
00:03:08.140 will have more of a higher standard. 1.00
00:03:09.980 Like, even relationship-wise, girls, they want a guy with money and he looks good, this 0.94
00:03:13.840 and that.
00:03:14.820 Sometimes a man just wants comfort, so he's no business, so.
00:03:17.580 Yeah, I mean, I'm the same, like, do you get it?
00:03:20.600 Like, some girls, they set unrealistic targets, like, but at the end of the day, if I'm giving 0.95
00:03:26.300 you my all, you have to give me your all back, 100%.
00:03:29.520 They're bare minimum for a girl, not giving me enough attention, talking to numerous guys 0.97
00:03:33.500 at once.
00:03:34.020 Yeah. 0.98
00:03:34.280 I'm just acting like a fool, but, you know, I don't go for that type of woman. 1.00
00:03:38.260 I like me a nice girl who knows where she's going in life, and yeah, man. 0.90
00:03:41.900 Yeah, the same thing, good morning text, good night text, planning dates, just making time
00:03:46.480 for your significant upper or the guy, yeah.
00:03:48.600 Side of that, what is the bare minimum from a woman? 1.00
00:03:51.440 I think hygiene's the most important thing, most important thing, and the next thing would
00:03:55.820 be communication and not to look at my phone.
00:03:58.980 What about, what about, like, cooking, cleaning?
00:04:00.740 Is that, should that be required in a relationship?
00:04:02.760 We're living in a 21st century, men should be able to cook for themselves, and I wouldn't 0.99
00:04:06.900 expect a woman to cook all the time, but because of how society's been set up, unless I'm going 1.00
00:04:12.720 to be on maternity, I'll cook, if you're on maternity, someone has to cook. 1.00
00:04:15.680 When she just does nothing, doesn't cook, doesn't clean, just sits there and expects, 1.00
00:04:19.800 expects, when you expect, when you expect, when he works, you shake his ass. 1.00
00:04:25.080 Do you think, you know how girls always say, I'm a queen, I deserve to be treated like a queen? 1.00
00:04:28.760 Can men say, I deserve to be treated like a queen?
00:04:30.880 Yeah, 100%, oh, 100%.
00:04:32.740 If you work all day, I cook your dinner.
00:04:35.760 Yeah, you work all day, you work your arse off, like, not going to the pub, but if you 0.95
00:04:39.780 work your arse off all day, I'll have your food on the table, I'll have your clothes cleaned, 0.97
00:04:44.740 I'll have it all ready for you. 0.98
00:04:46.240 Are you ironing?
00:04:47.400 Not ironing, no, I don't iron clothes.
00:04:49.620 No, no.
00:04:51.480 Tumble dryer.
00:04:52.460 No, tumble dryer, tumble dryer. 0.65
00:04:54.780 Oh yeah, yeah, you guys have tumble dryers. 0.98
00:04:56.560 Yeah, if you work your arse off, you're getting food, because I'm a big eater. 1.00
00:04:58.900 She has your shit ready, okay? 1.00
00:05:01.160 No ironing though, that's too far, that's too far. 0.99
00:05:04.620 Do we always hear women talk about how they should be treated like queens, but we never 0.99
00:05:08.120 hear men talk about how they should be treated like a king?
00:05:10.520 Because I think it goes back to the days of men being in charge, it's a man's world, but 0.98
00:05:14.540 I feel like now it's time for women to be appreciated.
00:05:17.840 As you know, the women won the Euros, so it shows that women have progressed so far, so
00:05:23.300 yeah, they should be treated like queens, they should. 0.87
00:05:24.820 Were you offering the same things you were expecting from him?
00:05:29.480 Well, I believe in princess treatment, so maybe not exactly, but yeah, not exactly.
00:05:36.760 Do you think men should require king treatment?
00:05:39.280 I mean, yeah, because we're all equal, so yeah, I guess.
00:05:43.300 Yeah.
00:05:43.880 No, it's just, it's a common complaint I hear from guys, it's like girls want princess,
00:05:49.120 they want to be treated like queens, but they're like, why don't we get to be treated like 0.99
00:05:51.760 kings?
00:05:52.160 Do you feel like that's a valid point?
00:05:54.180 No, it is very valid.
00:05:56.120 So, if you had a brother, what do you think he should require from a girl?
00:05:59.420 Ooh.
00:06:03.440 I think as girls, we don't think about it from their point of view a lot.
00:06:06.660 A hundred percent.
00:06:08.500 Okay, I have a very biased opinion, because I feel like the guy should be like the financial
00:06:12.480 lead.
00:06:13.620 Okay.
00:06:14.040 But then again, if my brother was with a girl, I would also want her to financially help 0.54
00:06:18.860 him too.
00:06:19.660 Yeah.
00:06:20.280 So, it's hard.
00:06:22.040 It is hard.
00:06:22.820 Do you think if a guy is paying for everything, he's entitled to sex whenever he wants?
00:06:28.240 Not exactly, but he is entitled to other things.
00:06:31.800 What do you mean?
00:06:32.920 Like, just effort.
00:06:34.020 Like, the girl should be putting in a lot of effort if the guy's up, if the guy's paying 1.00
00:06:38.420 for everything and giving her everything she wants.
00:06:41.680 So, what do you look at as effort?
00:06:43.420 Because a common complaint, this is just from the boys.
00:06:45.660 This is what they tell me.
00:06:46.880 They say, girls say they put in effort, but there's no, like, tangible thing they can say 0.96
00:06:50.780 that they do.
00:06:51.380 So, like, is that cooking every meal for him?
00:06:54.120 Cleaning for him?
00:06:55.060 Like, what does he get in return for paying all the bills?
00:06:57.940 I feel like cooking, wait, are we talking about marriage or relationship?
00:07:01.380 Because I feel like cooking is more wife duties, and a guy should expect that when he's married 1.00
00:07:05.980 to the girl, not when they're in a relationship.
00:07:08.340 But in a relationship, I should expect the girl, if he's financially helping her out, to give
00:07:13.160 a, like, good morning text, good morning calls, good night.
00:07:16.340 What?
00:07:17.100 Text, ask him how he's doing.
00:07:19.020 Be, like, his shoulder to lean on, to be fair.
00:07:21.340 Yeah.
00:07:21.740 Would you say that him spending money on you is husband duties and not boyfriend duties?
00:07:26.300 Oh! 0.60
00:07:29.140 Yes and no, because it depends on how much he's spending on you and what he's buying for
00:07:33.860 you and what he's paying for.
00:07:35.040 So, would you say it's fair to say he should expect you to cook and clean some of the time?
00:07:39.720 If he's going to spend money on you some of the time?
00:07:42.680 Because I think we just don't always think about it from their point of view.
00:07:45.600 You know what I mean?
00:07:46.120 Yeah, that is a very valid point.
00:07:47.780 I think I agree with that, you know?
00:07:50.000 Oh my gosh.
00:07:51.620 I've never thought about it like that.
00:07:53.320 So, yeah, what you're saying is valid.
00:07:55.120 Who do you think accepts the bare minimum more, men or women?
00:07:58.660 Women. 0.81
00:07:59.200 Women. 0.81
00:07:59.560 Because they care more, innit?
00:08:00.660 Like, guys, some guys are just giving out the bare minimum every day.
00:08:03.580 Women, women, I don't know. 1.00
00:08:04.200 I think we accept, because there's a lot of women out here that will say this and that, 1.00
00:08:08.680 but they ain't got much going on for them.
00:08:10.360 Like, a girl will say to you, oh, you need to drive while she's on the bus.
00:08:13.540 Uh-huh.
00:08:13.980 How does that work?
00:08:14.840 Do all women deserve respect? 1.00
00:08:17.140 Most women deserve their respect. 1.00
00:08:19.040 Not all women deserve, because some women know their value. 1.00
00:08:22.300 They have principles about themselves.
00:08:25.640 They have loyalty.
00:08:26.600 It's just, you know, it entangles from the impairment.
00:08:30.920 Do you think if a woman's sleeping around, she deserves to be courted and taken out on 1.00
00:08:34.500 nice dates?
00:08:35.660 No.
00:08:36.320 Have you heard the phrase, the bare minimum?
00:08:38.720 Many times.
00:08:39.820 What is the bare minimum for a woman? 1.00
00:08:41.920 I don't think there's a minimum.
00:08:43.140 I think everyone should play the part.
00:08:45.680 So, if I'm dating a woman, I don't expect her to come and say, oh, I'm going to pay for 1.00
00:08:51.180 dinner or whatever.
00:08:52.500 But if she invites me to dinner, I expect her to...
00:08:55.140 I expect her to...