JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023


Who's the Father of the Manosphere？


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14 minutes

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2,362

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1

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Misogyny

28

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7

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In this episode, we discuss the Red Pill and how to deal with ageism in the workplace and society in general. We talk about the impact it has on the way women are treated and how it affects the way we are viewed by men and society.

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00:00:00.000 I think fresh and fit because they've yeah they kind of like bring all the
00:00:04.440 girls and stuff and have like that conversation live oh and stuff so after
00:00:10.560 fresh and fit it was Sara Garvey because I actually wanted to like see what the
00:00:15.480 UK people got and through Sara Garvey
00:00:21.240 so that was my kind of like red pill journey so Kevin Samuels went back to
00:00:26.160 Rolod and fresh and fit and Sara and the comments are saying Patrice O'Neill I've
00:00:33.900 never watched Patrice O'Neill Tom like us oh someone commented about Patrice O'Neill
00:00:40.980 yeah that's the that's what the chat is saying because if you go back and listen
00:00:46.620 to his jokes they're hilarious but there's so much truth behind a lot of what he's
00:00:51.420 saying and it like resonates even to this day and it's like no he was making a
00:00:55.080 joke but down that does happen oh damn I think a lot of red pill were said 1.00
00:01:02.220 through jokes yeah that previously but you know you know Chris Rock used to do
00:01:06.900 there was a point where it turned right and like incels and those those like
00:01:12.900 really really far off the edge guys kind of quote unquote truth hurts and so one
00:01:22.260 thing I learned from Rolo Tomasi is I wish I'm gonna be honest guys I don't know
00:01:27.480 how to flash a graph on the screen while we're live I haven't figured it out yet
00:01:33.000 I wish I wish I could but Rolo Tomasi has a chart that goes through they call it do
00:01:39.060 you know what sexual market value is you guys know what that is it's it's
00:01:43.800 basically like your value in the marketplace so men are judged by money
00:01:49.260 muscles game frame women are judged by fertility youth and beauty basically and 1.00
00:01:56.400 something that I found out about was the wall have you ever heard of that yeah
00:02:04.320 don't even want to talk about it okay so our as women our primary agency is our 1.00
00:02:11.640 sexuality and how good we look that's why you see whenever there's a political
00:02:15.260 protest what do women do they take off their clothes yeah they get they always 1.00
00:02:20.660 get naked because that's the one way to get men's attention so if you want to get 1.00
00:02:25.040 powerful men's attention like women use their beauty to get there so we live to 1.00
00:02:33.680 be like 90s like odds are we'll all live to be 90 but our our peak like the way we
00:02:39.080 look is is between the ages of 18 and 28 the best men between yeah men between
00:02:45.140 the ages of 20 to 70 rate 22 23 and 24 year olds as the most attractive and so
00:02:53.240 at about 28 it's not an age but it's a mindset it is a subconscious
00:02:57.140 acknowledgement that we cannot compete in the same way we did when we were
00:03:01.400 younger so at about 28 29 mentally we compare where we were at 18 and just
00:03:08.140 realize that we're like we weren't as hot as we aren't as hot as we were hmm if
00:03:17.440 you send me the graph I can put it on oh really okay it's kind of like it's kind
00:03:22.420 of like the sports the sports player theory like how many does anyone plays
00:03:26.740 it's gonna be a point when you get to like 40 because you might have had it when
00:03:33.620 you were you might I had it when you were a kid but then you grow up and then you
00:03:37.120 you can't you can't exercise anymore and you lose it and then you think you
00:03:40.840 still have it but you get on the court and there's this young kid
00:03:43.420 yeah it's a circle of life it happens in lions happen to sports happens but I think do you know what was painful I think what um the older women get I think they don't like educating the younger women and telling them about 0.98
00:04:04.420 because only if they're single if the older women are single they look at them as 0.99
00:04:08.560 competition yeah that's true mothers will tell you that's true see like because 0.92
00:04:13.480 that's how I feel like how can women not know about the war but I think it does go
00:04:18.760 to what you're saying like only if they're single because probably they've hit the
00:04:22.180 one they tried they're still trying to compete with the younger women and you 1.00
00:04:25.920 know it's hard well it's a cope that's why you see these girls on tiktok I'm just as
00:04:31.740 hot as I was years ago like being single and childless and they're at 35 is the
00:04:36.860 best time to date like ageist fat phobic it's everyone trying to justify where
00:04:42.780 they're at did you guys see the video Abra and preach made a video a while back
00:04:49.920 back about this 50 year old model and she made like a she wrote like a piece 1.00
00:04:55.500 right and she was literally if you can read it it's her complaining about guys
00:05:01.200 not finding her as attractive at 50 as they did when she was 21 she's like I
00:05:08.760 walk into a place and no one turns around like they used to and it's like uh you
00:05:13.320 might yeah yeah still be attractive for a 50 year old yeah she's still what some and 1.00
00:05:19.860 she built a career off of her life yeah exactly now now it's a problem now it's a 1.00
00:05:25.260 problem like you weren't complaining when they were picking you over the old old
00:05:29.040 women mm-hmm you were that young woman that the old woman complained about at 1.00
00:05:33.180 some point I think with that then it's like for them especially when she was
00:05:37.980 talking about that it's a harder transition I guess you could say because you
00:05:43.080 know she's so used to that attention from her looks and now she's not obviously 0.96
00:05:47.160 she's not used to getting that so she's like she doesn't know how to cope with
00:05:51.420 that and try to understand like it's not how it used to be yeah it's 2022 yeah
00:06:01.020 there you go so can we is there a way we can put that on the other monitor so
00:06:05.820 they can see it yes we're gonna show you guys the Rolo Tomasi's famous chart how
00:06:13.200 do you want to see it basically so it shows basically when men and women hit
00:06:18.840 their peak in terms of sexual market value so when the most people want them
00:06:22.680 the opposite gender the audience should be able to see at home let me know if you
00:06:28.740 can I can show it on my laptop so you can show it yeah everyone at home can see
00:06:37.680 it okay yeah so so that is where so you see how much it drops at 30 because it's
00:06:51.120 because men are attracted to fertility so at 30 or for two or 90% of our eggs are
00:06:55.380 gone I'm a little hurt so Paul when you get the chance could you just talk us
00:07:05.160 through the chart from the standpoint oh yeah yeah hold on so basically this is
00:07:13.980 Rolo Tomasi made a chart talking about when men are the most attractive and when
00:07:20.880 women are the most attractive so they surveyed men between the ages of 20 and
00:07:24.900 70 and they found that women at the age of like 22 to 24 the most sexually
00:07:29.640 desirable so and they surveyed and it's based off of like dating app data and just
00:07:36.600 he said that he made this chart without any data just based on like common sense
00:07:40.320 and then over time like the data came to him and it basically fit what he
00:07:46.860 originally predicted but at the age of about 27 28 girls realize that oh shit my 0.71
00:07:53.100 agency is is going away fast because we stopped producing collagen in our skin
00:07:58.140 around 25 so yeah so and it's different it's different for every girl so I mean
00:08:04.740 some girls are in better shape so maybe their wall comes at like 32 33 some some 1.00
00:08:12.840 some girls are in worse shape so maybe their wall comes at 25 24 but the point is 1.00
00:08:18.780 girls realize we can't compete in the sexual marketplace the same way we used to so it's 1.00
00:08:24.240 basically find a man fast and the guys and basically before the age of 27 28 women were 1.00
00:08:31.200 looking for the alpha guy the best jeans the hot guy at the phone phone cannon party is what
00:08:36.600 Rolo uses to describe it so basically like the guy that's tall handsome like best jeans but maybe not
00:08:43.780 the best long-term provider maybe he can't keep a job maybe he wouldn't be a good dad maybe he's a
00:08:49.660 cheater whatever whatever it is and then at 27 28 our brain starts to change because we realize that
00:08:56.100 oh shit I need to get a guy that's gonna stick around so we'll pick a guy based on long-term security
00:09:03.400 but the problem is we're not as physically attracted to that guy at times so what girls will do
00:09:10.140 is they will marry the long-term security guy but still sleep with the the guy with the good genes 1.00
00:09:16.900 and men's peak is around 35 but the reason you see people get married around 28 29 is because that's
00:09:25.700 where the charts cross so if you see right here yeah that that's where you see people get married
00:09:33.080 because their sexual market value is about the same okay oh shit oh i got it i got it 0.70
00:09:39.200 um and it's funny that the female where they do cross the female sexual value is going down 1.00
00:09:47.840 and the man's sexual value is starting to steady go up steadily go up if if a guy fulfills his burden
00:09:54.680 of performance i will say i don't think most men's sexual market value goes up
00:09:58.840 the majority i i would say don't but for for some men yeah yeah and one of my friends was bolding
00:10:09.060 when a few of my friends are bolding early but he's in he's been in a long time long time relationship
00:10:14.620 for a long time so what was that they were bolding what's bolding going bold oh bold
00:10:20.640 he was bolding and it's one of the things where he was quite self-conscious about it
00:10:30.120 but he was been in a long-term relationship for a long time and they're still together i think
00:10:33.920 they probably get married but there's other guys that i know who's also bolding and it's just
00:10:40.920 raps for them i can't lie to you i can't lie to you because it's true not everyone hits that
00:10:47.440 because everyone wants to grind but not everyone hits the stride that they want to
00:10:51.560 life happens you know sometimes it takes you away sometimes and it's also women prefer men five to 0.99
00:10:59.520 seven years older really yeah yeah because we we like a guy that we can look up to it goes back to
00:11:07.500 the hypergamy thing but the thing that basically throws everything off okay is social media so and
00:11:15.860 i want to say it's like around 2010 when social media don't roast me in the chat if that's wrong
00:11:23.380 i don't remember when i i feel like it was when i was in around eighth grade well when social media
00:11:28.760 kind of like yeah yeah when it took off yeah i think you're right sometimes they'd be roasting me
00:11:34.260 i'm like i'm doing my best um so when that happened women's rate of depression like skyrocketed 1.00
00:11:42.160 and because i think women as women we compare to each other more and a lot of times we do that 0.89
00:11:48.000 in relationships and you see the rate of um like you you see an increase in women leaving
00:11:55.760 so basically grass is greener on the other side and yeah because social media has kind of made the world
00:12:04.180 smaller you know like you can be from you know london and you see a girl from new york or whatever
00:12:11.960 and if you've got the money like you can fly her over you get me so and it made girls think that 1.00
00:12:19.800 we're hotter than we are because i i i once i saw this i couldn't unsee it because i i started to like
00:12:27.120 objectively like rate people one to ten and kevin samuels had a scale that's like five six is
00:12:32.680 normal looking is five six is cute seven you can't use eight nine or ten is you could get a
00:12:39.300 modeling contract modeling people chase you down like like you walk down the street someone might
00:12:44.620 offer you a contract if you're in a big city something like that and i would start to like
00:12:48.340 objectively like look at the guys and look at the girls and look at the girl the guys that the girls
00:12:52.600 were rejecting and a lot of times i'm like just based off of facial symmetry i would say that she
00:12:58.660 is less attractive than him and she's still rejecting him and you see the the everything
00:13:08.080 a smaller and smaller and smaller percentage of men sleeping with more and more of the girls
00:13:13.360 and a rising number of men not having sex after the development of social media because basically
00:13:21.420 women keep wanting to date up and up and up and then on top of that there's a rising growing number 1.00
00:13:29.280 of single childless women and and so 50 i think i want to say it's over 50 percent of women over 30
00:13:37.440 are single and childless and it's growing it's getting bigger and bigger and bigger because women 1.00
00:13:42.940 don't want to settle they'd rather be alone than settle for a guy that they view as average but they
00:13:48.480 shouldn't the only reason they view him as average is because they've been sleeping with guys out of
00:13:52.860 their league because those guys would sleep with her but they'd never wife as many of you know i was 0.96
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