JustPearlyThings - Why AVERAGE CHICKS Have High Body Count

00:00:00.000 this girl did this whole show she did a whole show talking about she doesn't date the bad boy 0.53

00:00:04.820 anymore she only dates nice guys right only the nice guys and she's done with that and it's crazy

00:00:10.580 because after the show someone brought their friend and i didn't know the guy well like

00:00:15.500 he was just like like i think one of our recruiters brought him or something and this guy was um a

00:00:21.320 rapper who'd been to jail and she went home with him i mean i don't know i i don't know the guy

00:00:29.400 well at all i just can't imagine you know yeah but but but i am gonna play devil's advocate for

00:00:35.220 for today do men lie about hooking up with a girl when they didn't um i mean i don't see why you

00:00:44.320 would i guess some guys do but i just don't see the point like i mean they're definitely guys who

00:00:49.620 do but that's just like lower value behavior i didn't like why would you have to lie about that

00:00:53.960 sort of stuff i wouldn't even like speak about that kind of stuff you can want to keep it on

00:00:56.980 have you ever found a guy lying about that uh yeah i mean maybe like yeah maybe like i don't know

00:01:05.020 but no one you actually chill with no no one in your circle would do that yeah because if you get

00:01:11.700 found out your boy's gonna rip you up to tell the truth i could understand i understand this question

00:01:19.220 and how it correlates to women lying about um their partners and stuff but the here's the thing

00:01:25.360 in a way it's almost understandable for women to lie about their body count because at the end of 1.00

00:01:30.580 the day they have to repackage their past and sell it to some guy in the future do you know i'm saying

00:01:37.340 that that's the whole thing is that literally i was talking with one of my friends like this past week

00:01:42.740 a girl i was dating um a year ago uh because of my routine and stuff like that my schedule i never

00:01:49.600 really have time to go on dates so she just ubered me to her house um for stuff and then um had a cool

00:01:58.400 relationship whatever it was and we don't talk no more but i saw her with online with this other guy

00:02:04.880 and she looks like she's presenting herself as the wifey type they're going on dinners and whatnot 1.00

00:02:10.960 and i was scared for him because i didn't have to put in any of that work to get something from her

00:02:17.640 so that just made me understand that when it comes a certain time comes in a woman's life to where it's

00:02:23.520 like okay i have to repackage my past and just sell what i have now to the highest bidder so you can't let

00:02:31.180 the guy know that yeah i was ubering guys to my house when do you know i'm saying not when you want

00:02:37.560 him to give you dinner and steak and all that good stuff so it's a catch-22 it's really a catch-22

00:02:43.820 so i'm curious from the guys have you ever hooked up with a girl after she'd come from a date with

00:02:50.140 someone else definitely yeah yeah definitely why are you are you smiling have you ever done that

00:02:58.640 i'm just surprised that people do that i mean yeah you'd be surprised man you'd be surprised

00:03:06.260 do you guys know any girls that have done that most probably no no no they're mother teresas

00:03:14.580 they're nice women they don't have any bad friends or nothing 0.99

00:03:17.320 so who do you think has the highest body count average chicks cute chicks or hot chicks 1.00

00:03:25.740 i'd say hot i'd say average i'd say average why why debate because um it's just gonna like for men

00:03:38.460 the the bar for entry is lower you know so you don't have to do as much to um entertain them and

00:03:46.100 because those girls definitely aren't used to getting the influx of attention that ladies on the higher 1.00

00:03:53.340 end of you don't think average chicks get a ton of attention nowadays they get a ton of attention 1.00

00:03:58.760 but it might not be it might not be from a certain quality of man you know so so if her eight goes and

00:04:05.220 talks to a five she's going to be immediately more receptive where if her eight goes and talks to her 1.00

00:04:10.900 eight that the man's going to still have to work because that lady knows she's an eight because she's 1.00

00:04:16.040 used to life as an eight you don't say life has told her that she's an eight you know so when life

00:04:22.080 tells a lady that she's a five you know that she kind of has to work with that so yeah gotta give it

00:04:27.640 up sooner

00:04:28.080 look anytime you hear these like nightmare body count stories too these girls confessing it on tiktok 1.00

00:04:39.100 they're always like mid-looking girls yeah it's you never see like a gorgeous girl i mean like yeah i have

00:04:44.120 like a hundred body count you know it's always these mid girls and i think it's because there's 1.00

00:04:48.460 kind of an insecurity there about her looks and so in order to get a guy sooner she gives it up 1.00

00:04:54.320 sooner to get the validation if that makes sense are you switching your opinion yeah because i mean i

00:04:59.620 just would assume just because you're getting obviously so many options if you're a hot girl

00:05:04.120 it's like most dudes are cowards too most guys will look at most guys will look at a really hot girl

00:05:09.280 and look at an average girl and be like ah i'll just go for the average girl because 0.96

00:05:13.720 really i couldn't do that you're you're not an average guy no i'm very flattered it's true

00:05:17.700 most i would say i would say most guys are intimidated by beautiful women you know okay yeah do you know i 1.00

00:05:24.120 would actually switch based off that reasoning because it does make sense

00:05:26.680 what what do you guys think i mean i've got i've got an example i mean i have a friend um who's a

00:05:34.540 photographer and his body count it was just a random conversation he said it's it's above 100

00:05:40.300 so i mean okay fine you know yeah but at the same time yeah he he did say that you know if he doesn't

00:05:50.100 have a girlfriend at a time he will have at least five really average girls that are going to jump on 1.00

00:05:55.860 it just like that wow so yeah so average what do you think um i don't really have an opinion on

00:06:04.420 that question i guess average i don't know average chicks what do you think it makes sense what the 0.99

00:06:09.720 boys are saying yeah yeah for average so i was just i was trying to find the mattress thing and i found

00:06:15.020 like an ask for advice type thing you know so we're going to as a panel give this person advice

00:06:23.020 is sleeping with 11 guys at 17 too many yes i'm 17 wait wait wait i'm 17 and i've slept with 11

00:06:33.360 guys some of them have been my exes and some just friends and one-time things my first time was at

00:06:38.380 15 and i've never thought that body count matters but a few days ago one of my exes texted me and he

00:06:43.460 found out that i was friends with his current girlfriend and he was so angry at this he called 0.89

00:06:48.120 me a whore and an asshole and something asked like it's got a swear thing over it and chuck and how 0.96

00:06:57.400 convenient it was how convenient for him it was that i'm such a honestly i laughed it off at first but 1.00

00:07:04.560 that night and every night since all i've been doing is thinking about what he said and crying myself

00:07:10.520 to sleep at night i just need the honest truth is that too many guys it is yeah definitely for a lot

00:07:18.340 of guys it is too many guys the the first do you know who the top comment is aren't you scared of an

00:07:24.600 std um what would your advice be to a girl that did that go to church 0.89

00:07:32.040 yeah i would just say i just say chill out i think younger women need to remember the fact that 1.00

00:07:39.420 um i mean it's your choice and you know we're not your parents uh but at the same time you need to

00:07:45.860 remember about the fact that sex is not just um you know pleasure uh something fun to do it's actually

00:07:52.500 quite uh important to remember that you have something like oxytocin which helps you bond with

00:07:58.300 your partner um you know uh when you get married and you know that's better for the children and

00:08:03.300 the household later on and it's it's actually very very uh biological very scientifical in a sense and

00:08:10.980 you need to really look into that and see that you are losing this and the ability to bond with a man

00:08:18.260 and then later on create that um safe environment for children for yourself as a woman as well 1.00

00:08:24.400 if you sleep with too many guys you know and i think they they really young women should should 1.00

00:08:30.480 really get to know that fact because it's it's literally jarring i look at sometimes i look at

00:08:35.100 stories online and it's just you know yeah guys read those same stories and that's why we think all

00:08:41.540 girls are hoes even though they're not you know what i mean yeah so that that's just that's just what 1.00

00:08:46.500 would you tell her to do find jesus would you tell her to be celibate yeah i don't understand why 0.93

00:08:54.380 people are just so like have this sexual compulsion like you are you just so horny all the time that

00:09:00.920 you just need to go out there and just give yourself to the world i don't get it so what

00:09:06.440 she should be celibate for how long like what so she's 17 let's say she wants she wants to get 1.00

00:09:11.120 married i'd say just get like i don't know does she have a boyfriend like just get a boyfriend and 1.00

00:09:15.980 like try to keep it to like one person like if you really need to or maybe you know you could have

00:09:20.400 an issue as well you know like sexual issue maybe got to you know check it out maybe you have you

00:09:25.560 know higher demand for it for some reason maybe your testosterone levels are higher you know it's like

00:09:29.880 it could be anything but i i think you get a boyfriend and just like keep it to like one person

00:09:34.180 so you say get a boyfriend yeah what about you mld uh find jesus just find jesus find a law like

00:09:42.980 whichever religion will take you because you you need god in your life you know but it's just hard

00:09:48.580 it is hard like i don't know i think it's an i think you know it's sad to say this dope but uh it's

00:09:55.440 it's kind of like a joke to talk about daddy issues but i think a lot of these girls that 1.00

00:09:59.300 in my experience a lot of these girls that sleep around a lot they're looking for that male love that 1.00

00:10:05.540 their father never gave them and like and they put like a sexual spin on it and then you know

00:10:10.560 they're looking for this love that they can't get from men in sexual partners yeah my question for

00:10:17.300 this is where were your parents yeah exactly do you know what i mean like my parents would not like

00:10:21.440 there is no way like where like i just don't even know how would you hook up with 11 guys do your

00:10:27.940 your parents not know where you are yeah most of the time just broken households you know you know

00:10:32.360 what's crazy i knew someone in high school her mom let her bring guys over wow how crazy is that

00:10:37.520 single mom or married mom divorced mom there you go there's the answer dad ain't letting that happen 0.58

00:10:43.300 because dad knows what's going on in that guy's life you know yeah i'm gonna terrify every guy if

00:10:48.740 i have daughter oh my gosh yep can i say something i was just gonna say that i feel like um if she's

00:10:55.820 17 she's literally just became legal to have sex and none of my friends have been like that but people

00:11:01.700 that i've known that i've had like a lot of sex right when they're young um it's mostly because

00:11:06.400 because of like maybe they've been what's the word when a guy's what's the word when a guy's trying to

00:11:13.560 influence you to have sex with them persuade seduce pressure manipulate that's not the word though

00:11:17.800 pressure were they being groomed not groomed but i feel like i feel like i feel like we need to look 0.97

00:11:22.740 probably into like why that's happening how old the um guys because women are horny yeah yeah yeah 0.97

00:11:29.380 yeah but she's 17. yeah but we have songs like what yeah okay but but it's like if a guy robs a bank

00:11:34.660 at 17 he goes to jail like i don't understand this idea that somehow we don't know what we're doing

00:11:40.340 in my opinion i just think when you said where were her parents i do think that's true i just generally

00:11:44.260 think that she needs a female figure or just someone there that's able to talk to her and able to make her 0.96

00:11:49.300 understand the dangers and what she's doing um and also looking at looking at the guys that she's

00:11:54.340 sleeping with because they can't all be 17. like some of them could be over age some of them could

00:11:59.300 be influencing her right but they come but the common denominator is her not that yeah yeah

00:12:05.460 she's going out there she's not like like walking out the front door i'm like oops i slipped and

00:12:10.020 fell on it exactly it's consensual so she's looking for it she's not the wisest she's ever going to be

00:12:15.220 at 17. she's not wise she needs someone there like to help her i understand what you guys saying

00:12:20.420 it's 100 her fault it's 100 her problem but if a 17 year old generally came up to me and said

00:12:26.900 my body count is 11 instead of just straight away judging her i would really try and sit down with

00:12:30.820 her and try and understand like what the hell is going on because they she probably doesn't have 0.98

00:12:35.780 someone there around her she probably doesn't have a parental figure yeah that's what i was saying

00:12:39.060 earlier that it's like it's uh it's a symptom of something else yeah like yeah yeah but it's

00:12:44.820 interesting because it's like we don't usually have the same sympathy for guys in this situation

00:12:49.460 like if a guy you know commits a crime at 17 i don't really see the same sympathy we have for a

00:12:55.220 girl that sleeps around at 17. that's true i would feel the same sympathy but i do think that's true i

00:13:00.500 think with men um because we expect them to be a bit more switched on and a bit more i mean we wouldn't

00:13:05.700 have the same sympathy for them so if we expect men to be a little more switched on why do we say

00:13:11.140 that women are more mature if we if we assume that the men have more responsibility 0.72

JustPearlyThings - July 07, 2023

Why AVERAGE CHICKS Have High Body Count

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