Why Beyonce Is A Hypocrite
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships, the difference between men and women when it comes to cheating and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. We also discuss if it's cheating as a woman to post pictures on social media while in a romantic relationship.
Transcript
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You see, women cheat more, yeah, but see the men.
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The men are more willing to be more conducive to the cheating.
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So what it means is I will be more in a way to conduct myself
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for you not to get caught out and for our situation to keep evolving, right?
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So if I'm going to be a side Negro, what I would tend to do
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would be to save my number as something else in a girl's phone book.
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If a man rings up my phone, I'm not going to blow up her spot.
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I'm going to say, oh, no, no, bro, I'm her cousin or whatever it might well be.
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I'm going to – but girls, girls don't really give a shit.
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You see, once the jig is up, yeah, they're like, yeah, I told your girlfriend, yeah?
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I told your girlfriend about us, but men are more conducive.
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I've seen two girls go home in a taxi together.
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So we are generally more conducive to you guys not being caught.
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And if we're the side pieces, we tend to play that role better, I believe.
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Whereas women, they don't really give too much of a shit.
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They don't mind if men get caught when it comes to the cheating side of things.
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You know, when men do it, men will hold it down.
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I think it's got a lot to do with a man's confidence as well.
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When I was broke and I didn't look the way I did, I'll be honest, I was insecure.
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I didn't want my ex-girlfriends lingering around other guys because I knew they were better than me.
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But I've got to a position in my life by working on myself for two years without having a girlfriend,
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where I'm – I know, mate, I'm not God's gift, bro.
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So at the end of the day, I do know what I offer, and go ahead.
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I know what I offer, but it's not about what you offer.
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Do you guys think it's cheating as a girl to be posting pictures on Instagram while you're in a relationship?
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Because, okay, okay, do you think attention is to women as to sex is to men?
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You know, I mean, I think that – because we live in such a PC world at the moment.
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If a lady throws up some pictures of herself in a bikini, she knows what the purpose of it is.
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However, men don't need to be as sensitive to think that that is cheating.
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It's because, like, women's mating strategy from a biological perspective is to get attention from the highest value guy.
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That is getting attention from the – wait, wait, wait.
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So that is getting attention from the highest value guy.
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Where on the other hand, men's mating strategy is to screw as many people as possible.
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But when they get into a relationship, the men are expected to stop screwing as many people as possible.
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But the women are not expected to compromise on their mating strategy, which is seeking attention from high-value men and which is posting pictures on Instagram.
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Because you know damn well even if it's just your face, if you're a pretty girl, there are going to be, you know, high-value men interested.
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To your point, I've had an experience where I had a girl like one of my photographs slid in the DM, said hello, and immediately her boyfriend, the pressure that was on him in that relationship went up 10 times.
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Because a man who superseded his earning, his – different ways, not going to go anywhere because, you know, nothing against the guy.
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But she said afterwards when I met her because she dumped him, the pressure was on immediately.
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And when women are doing that, it is a for sale sign to a degree, not a proper, you know, but it is advertising, isn't it?
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But especially if it's a naked or semi-naked photograph, sorry.
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And the other thing women don't think about is, like, women will still go out to bars and clubs where all of the guys are trying to screw you.
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Men are – again, men, that's seeking attention from high-value men.
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The best guy that you can get where the men are still – like, the men are – this is why I come back so hard on cheating because we cheat in different ways.
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And so when men cheat, it's – like, we do the same thing.
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Like, we do the same things, just in a different way.
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That's why I asked at the very beginning, what do we mean by cheating?
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I think if we come up with a better definition that everyone's in agreement with –
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When you break it down like that, you are right.
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And women are – like, women are under the guise of, like, hey, I'm just posting a photograph.
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Under the guise of that, allowing them to explore their options.
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Whereas when men explore their options, we have to be a lot more deliberate.
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We're putting the fishing rod out and going, are you available?
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And if we get caught doing that, then we're caught red-handed.
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You see, like, on the internet, what they do is they put the pictures up all on Instagram.
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And then they'll come back and see what's been going.
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But it's like a girl will literally be going out with ass pictures on Instagram and she'll cry.
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Yeah, and the women act like – we act like we're so much better than the men.
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You have guys trying to screw you all the time.
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I just don't like – as women, we're just on our high horse like, oh, it's the worst thing in the world that he cheated.
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He's such a horrible person when we do it in a different way every single day.
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What is the actual thing that hurts with cheating for women?
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Because what I tend to hear – I say it like I've heard it a million times.
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What I've heard before is what did she have that I didn't have?
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I think that's the sort of thing which women say.
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And sometimes it's not actually about that, you know what I mean?
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It's not about what the woman has from what you don't have because Jay-Z cheated on Beyonce.
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And she's supposed to be the baddest in the game, right?
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But that was after two kids or whatever and all of a sudden, all the attention is on the kids.
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I'm just saying like when Beyonce and whoever – all these women are focusing in on the children
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and the man all of a sudden becomes, yeah, you're the last thing I'm thinking about today.
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Whereas before when you met each other, I was priority number one.
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And for men, especially if you're one of these high-value men who is earning all this money
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and changing this woman's life, that needs to continue.
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Or if you let your standards slip, there will be someone ready and waiting to replace you.
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Because we're not going to tell you because what we're going to say.
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Oh, by the way, fucking she was sliding into my DMs.
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And a lot of times the girls – like Beyonce – you think Beyonce didn't know?
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Like you think Beyonce didn't know she was getting cheated on?
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Like a lot of the girls in these arrangements, they already know.
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And then the women will come in and say they're doing the right thing by telling them
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or posting it online when it's like a lot of these girls just don't want to be –
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So like all of these single ladies and independent women bullshit.
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And this is why I go back to saying like a lot of men don't realize women are actually willing to work it out.
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If you're a brokie, as Andrew says, and you're cheated.
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If he's a brokie, you're only staying for so long.
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So if you meet a guy and he maybe doesn't have a shit figured out,
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he could start an OF at 31 and then, you know, make millions and then take care of you, you know?
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No, because I'd be with a guy where I'm still like trying to grow with him as well.
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Yeah, what I was saying is, see, like, if you've got Tom that works in Asda, yeah?
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Tom who works in Asda will cheat on you one time, yeah?
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But if you've got, you know, Kieran who works up in the city in the banking district and whatnot
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and he cheats on you, you might give him one or two more chances.
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So, like, we – but not in cheating, but we alter our standards to the other things
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I'll overlook the fact that you're a slob or that you, you know, you're disorganized
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or you're not actually – you can't cook for shit.
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I've been there where I've been like – but, you know.
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It does make you – and women do the same thing, but in different ways.
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Okay, would you rather – how many kids do you guys – I know some of you have kids.
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So, how much do you guys think it costs a year to raise the amount of kids you want?
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And you have to work 30 hours a week while being a mom.
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Guy B takes care of everything, but he steps out from time to time.
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But you don't ever have to work again, and you're done.
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I've been in relationships where it's been 60, 40 in my end, and I mean, we both be paying
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like 50, 50 on the bills, and I'll be cooking, cleaning, doing the washing, and I'll be doing
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I would, because I've been there, and I've done that.
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I mean, that's exactly what I was going to say.
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You're not going to have the same energy you do at 40.
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But at the same time, I do love what I do, and I love it with a passion regardless.
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So I would still want to, you know, some kind of control over me doing some kind of work.
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