Why Men Pay For Onlyfans
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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and long time co-worker, to talk about sex, porn and happiness. We talk about how porn is a turn-on for women, how men are easily manipulated by women and how we need to rewire our brains to be happier.
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Why do you think OnlyFans is such a turn on for people that people are making fortunes
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The majority of people, porn is free, but yet they're willing to spend $9.99 a month
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for the women with fucking two kids down the road who's getting their fanny out.
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Oh, it's because the one out of three men that are virgins are having sex in the past
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year, they're the ones buying and the way OnlyFans works is you get like a more personalized
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experience. So you might say, you know, you get to do, be a part of like, there's like
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levels, I think. I've never seen one, but this is just what I've heard. It's basically
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like, at this level, you get to message with me. And, you know, it's probably not even the
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girl messaging. You know, it's like all guys that are behind this shit. And then they might
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say like, at this level you get, it's like you're paying to be intimate with a woman and
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you're paying for like more personalized messaging or media or whatever it is. At this rate, you
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can get dinner with me. And so like the guys feel like they're, like they get that interest
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Do you think men are more easily manipulated from women because of a bit of fucking, like
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men are so easily aroused. Do you think that comes from the porn as well, though, for the
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20, 30 years, like all these free sites where people can watch all this shit and then
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somebody, you're a, say you're an engineer and you go to the women's house and you
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chat the door and she invites you in and she's, porn has mentally fucked with people's
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mind. Men are so easily, the majority of them, we're all perverts. When you fucking break
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it all down, we're all fucking... I think men have always, like, I just think...
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But do you know what I mean? Like, like, there's got to be some sort of self-control.
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Because they're talking about holding back your sperm and it makes you stronger, raises
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your testosterone, raises your energy levels. But there's so many sacred things from it
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as well, because as men, it's given life. Women give life. I believe women rule the world
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to a certain degree. They give birth. It's them that keeps the population going. Men do their
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their part. But it's the women who are fully in control from that side. But for men, it's
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just... There's so many different things you can look into from masturbating and how it darkens
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your energy and makes you depressed and rewards the brain. If people are sad, they just think
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they can go and fucking wank off to a freak. But not realising the extent it eventually has
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in their brain. Do you think we're just less educated on all this different shit that we've
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actually been taught? Because I question everything from a kid. And I just think we could be more
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educated on sexual energy exchange, understanding the brain and how we think and feeling. Can
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we rewire 30, 40 years of fucking misery and lies if you're in this planet 40 years? Do you
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think we're just not educated enough on certain things? And that's why suicide's high, relationships
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are breaking down, more people are cheating, more people are unhappy. Do you think it's just
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because we're not educated enough? No. To me, it all goes back to birth control. That's
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the number one. But do you think people were happier before that then? Probably. I think
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they were probably more fulfilled. I don't know if happier. Do you think you just accepted
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that life? Because back then, all you had was a house phone. You never had an Instagram.
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If I fell out with a girl, I could go on Instagram, get a girl, go on Tinder, go on Facebook, Twitter.
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You know what? I would say the top 20% of guys are probably pretty happy. I would say like top
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15 with their plus. I think Drake, I feel like he's doing okay.
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What is happiness to you? I think that's a good question. What's happiness? I mean, I think it's a
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feeling. I think life's more about duty than, I don't even know how to define happiness. I would
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just say like how you feel in a given day. So joy, maybe.
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It's not a 24-7 thing. You've got to work at it to get little busts. Doing podcasts, I love
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that. Just speaking to people, interacting, asking fucking mad questions, talking shit like,
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because it's interesting. Because people who are watching, everybody's on their own little
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journey. And for people to take the time and watch your stuff or watch my stuff, it's a
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privilege and it makes you feel good. Little short busts. But for me, it's never enough.
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I always want more. I always want to keep doing podcasts. I always want to keep raising the
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Yeah. And it is fun. But again, you can forget yourself. And that's good. That's when I forget
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myself doing these. It's like, you become free because nothing else fucking matters outside
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of this. It's once the cameras are off and the lights are out, you then back into this
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Matrix or game, whatever it is. Even The Matrix, people say it's a documentary. But the men who
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Oh, wow. I've never seen the movie. I've heard a lot about it in the room, but I've never actually
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Life is? I feel like life is just about people and having good relationships with people and
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doing things that you like. I feel like life's just like a game. It's a lot of games. And
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it's kind of a weird answer. But I feel like all the things that have made me really happy
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was playing a game and getting better at a game, whether it's volleyball or podcasting
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or even just traveling the world with my family is kind of a game. What can we go see next?
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And what's always made me feel the happiest is the relationships I've made along the way,
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playing these different games, whether it's doing stuff as a family or building something
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Do I trust? I would say overall, yeah. I mean, how do I put it? Not all men, right? I mean,
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being in the position I'm in, sometimes I get some weird messages and it freaks me out a little
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bit. But the thing about being a woman is if I was to walk alone and get attacked, I trust
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that like, if there was a group of men by me, someone would help me. And I think that's
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like a privilege of being a woman, because if you get beat up, you're kind of shit out
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I think it's human beings in general. We are good people. If there's catastrophes,
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if there's bad shit happens, our natural instinct is to help. We are good. We're just
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fucking confused. We just don't know what the fuck is going on. We think we've got it together.
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I thought having a podcast or making documentaries or making a bit of money, it would be a happier
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man, but it doesn't really change fuck all. You've still got to keep working on whatever
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Yeah. I mean, I think the joy is in the journey. I've, I've heard so many speeches
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where the guy was like talking about the saddest moment of his life was when he accomplished
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his goal. Cause he's like, what now? Like it's, it's fun when you're just chasing something,
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whether it's, you know, raising good kids or whether it's finding a wife or whatever,
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Yeah. You've got to have purpose. Yeah. A purpose to get up and go and get you out
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in bed in the morning. Cause you ain't got purpose, you ain't got shit. You're just going
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to feel sad, worthless. And that's why I think a lot of people are struggling in life because
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they don't have any purpose. They don't have any get up and go. I've got so many things to
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be thankful for and grateful for, but I fucking ain't because every morning you've got to
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kind of force yourself and my own personal experiences to get up and go make things happen
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instead of talking and because nobody fucking cares. I mean, you break it all down.
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That's so true because everyone will talk about what they're going to do, but like how many
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people go do it because I watched one of your videos is that when you were 15, you had your
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coach was at Marcus King that not groomed you, but it was kind of planting seeds in your head
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and then 18 put it on you. How does that affect you with men going older? Cause we've all got
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an agenda. Majority of men just want to fuck girls and move on. That's the bottom line.
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You've got to be honest. How does that then affect you? What've tried to find that really
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are you trying to find a relationship or love? Yeah. Yeah, I am.
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So does all trauma from the past affect that now? I guess it used to maybe, but I just like
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feel like in life there's always risk. I'm like, I can either be scared something bad's
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going to happen or I can just go forward assuming good intent and hope for the best and it might
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not work out, but like everything in life is risk. Um, that situation, I think it makes
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me look a little like closer at coaches. I would say more than like, you know what I'm
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saying? More than like relationships. Like I just look like, I think I'd be a little more
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cautious when I have like kids and stuff with which men or women, honestly, cause there's
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a lot of creepy women too that like which adults I allow around my kids, I would say, because
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it wasn't like I was, I don't know. I just feel like that was a different like context,
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you know, but again, I had that undercover, undercover pedophile on my podcast. He was a
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police officer who went undercover for 20 years to catch pedophiles. He pretended to be one
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to be friend. Oh, that's so interesting. Mad. I'll send you the link that, um, powerful.
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But what he says is, it's not just a case of them manipulating the kids first. What they
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do is go on dating websites, go on social media, manipulate the parents, be in the relationship
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for a year, two year, and then to get to the kids. Yeah, so it's not just a case of going
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like that man there, that people, it's not like, obviously he was with people who needed
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the fix then. Maybe go to the park or they used to smell kids' hair or some tried to grab
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the kids, but then he, there was other people who would go a year, two years, three years,
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become that kid's parent, manipulate everyone, and then eventually so.
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So, yo, that is, that's why, that's like why I always say that like single mothers that
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break up homes, cause they're not happy or selfish because you're putting like, I don't
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know what the status off the top of my head, but you're much more likely to be abused or
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sexually abused by someone's partner, like by like the new partner. So like, um, I don't
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know. I don't think that, that is so creepy, but I don't know. At the same time though,
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a lot of times they'll try to like victimize, like even me in that situation, it was pretty
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easy for me to, to say no and be like, ah, I'm good on that. Like, I feel like a lot of
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times the girls try to take accountability when they do say yes to that type of thing.
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Cause that happens all the time where like some dude, like a boss or whatever, like hits
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on a girl and they'll, and they'll, they'll go along with it and they'll be like, oh, I
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didn't know what I was doing. I'm like, um, I think, um.
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