JustPearlyThings - April 02, 2023


Why Men Pay For Onlyfans

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Drake
She Claims that Men Don’t like submissive She Tried To DEFEND Sex Workers And THIS HAPPENED

Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

186.03

Word count

2,147

Sentence count

162

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Toxicity

30

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Hate speech

11

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and long time co-worker, to talk about sex, porn and happiness. We talk about how porn is a turn-on for women, how men are easily manipulated by women and how we need to rewire our brains to be happier.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Why do you think OnlyFans is such a turn on for people that people are making fortunes
00:00:05.020 from it?
00:00:06.020 The majority of people, porn is free, but yet they're willing to spend $9.99 a month 1.00
00:00:09.500 for the women with fucking two kids down the road who's getting their fanny out. 1.00
00:00:13.760 Oh, it's because the one out of three men that are virgins are having sex in the past 1.00
00:00:17.940 year, they're the ones buying and the way OnlyFans works is you get like a more personalized
00:00:24.200 experience. So you might say, you know, you get to do, be a part of like, there's like
00:00:31.460 levels, I think. I've never seen one, but this is just what I've heard. It's basically
00:00:36.980 like, at this level, you get to message with me. And, you know, it's probably not even the
00:00:43.200 girl messaging. You know, it's like all guys that are behind this shit. And then they might 1.00
00:00:47.620 say like, at this level you get, it's like you're paying to be intimate with a woman and
00:00:52.560 you're paying for like more personalized messaging or media or whatever it is. At this rate, you
00:00:58.800 can get dinner with me. And so like the guys feel like they're, like they get that interest
00:01:04.220 from a woman that they've never gotten. 0.99
00:01:05.560 Do you think men are more easily manipulated from women because of a bit of fucking, like 1.00
00:01:13.560 men are so easily aroused. Do you think that comes from the porn as well, though, for the 1.00
00:01:19.560 20, 30 years, like all these free sites where people can watch all this shit and then 0.99
00:01:23.800 somebody, you're a, say you're an engineer and you go to the women's house and you 1.00
00:01:29.520 chat the door and she invites you in and she's, porn has mentally fucked with people's 1.00
00:01:34.320 mind. Men are so easily, the majority of them, we're all perverts. When you fucking break 1.00
00:01:39.560 it all down, we're all fucking... I think men have always, like, I just think... 0.99
00:01:42.800 But do you know what I mean? Like, like, there's got to be some sort of self-control.
00:01:45.800 Right.
00:01:46.800 Because they're talking about holding back your sperm and it makes you stronger, raises
00:01:51.900 your testosterone, raises your energy levels. But there's so many sacred things from it
00:01:57.280 as well, because as men, it's given life. Women give life. I believe women rule the world 0.98
00:02:02.560 to a certain degree. They give birth. It's them that keeps the population going. Men do their 0.97
00:02:06.560 their part. But it's the women who are fully in control from that side. But for men, it's 0.96
00:02:11.760 just... There's so many different things you can look into from masturbating and how it darkens 0.98
00:02:17.800 your energy and makes you depressed and rewards the brain. If people are sad, they just think 0.78
00:02:22.100 they can go and fucking wank off to a freak. But not realising the extent it eventually has 0.99
00:02:26.360 in their brain. Do you think we're just less educated on all this different shit that we've 0.99
00:02:33.200 actually been taught? Because I question everything from a kid. And I just think we could be more 0.99
00:02:39.280 educated on sexual energy exchange, understanding the brain and how we think and feeling. Can
00:02:45.200 we rewire 30, 40 years of fucking misery and lies if you're in this planet 40 years? Do you 1.00
00:02:50.400 think we're just not educated enough on certain things? And that's why suicide's high, relationships
00:02:56.200 are breaking down, more people are cheating, more people are unhappy. Do you think it's just
00:03:00.940 because we're not educated enough? No. To me, it all goes back to birth control. That's
00:03:09.700 the number one. But do you think people were happier before that then? Probably. I think
00:03:16.540 they were probably more fulfilled. I don't know if happier. Do you think you just accepted
00:03:21.020 that life? Because back then, all you had was a house phone. You never had an Instagram.
00:03:24.940 If I fell out with a girl, I could go on Instagram, get a girl, go on Tinder, go on Facebook, Twitter.
00:03:29.700 You know what? I would say the top 20% of guys are probably pretty happy. I would say like top
00:03:35.700 15 with their plus. I think Drake, I feel like he's doing okay.
00:03:39.700 What is happiness to you? I think that's a good question. What's happiness? I mean, I think it's a
00:03:50.060 feeling. I think life's more about duty than, I don't even know how to define happiness. I would
00:03:55.700 just say like how you feel in a given day. So joy, maybe.
00:04:00.820 It's not a 24-7 thing. You've got to work at it to get little busts. Doing podcasts, I love
00:04:06.820 that. Just speaking to people, interacting, asking fucking mad questions, talking shit like, 1.00
00:04:11.820 because it's interesting. Because people who are watching, everybody's on their own little 0.99
00:04:17.460 journey. And for people to take the time and watch your stuff or watch my stuff, it's a
00:04:22.020 privilege and it makes you feel good. Little short busts. But for me, it's never enough.
00:04:26.660 I always want more. I always want to keep doing podcasts. I always want to keep raising the
00:04:31.460 bar. And you'll have little-
00:04:32.460 It's fun.
00:04:33.460 Yeah. And it is fun. But again, you can forget yourself. And that's good. That's when I forget
00:04:39.400 myself doing these. It's like, you become free because nothing else fucking matters outside 0.98
00:04:44.140 of this. It's once the cameras are off and the lights are out, you then back into this 0.94
00:04:48.840 Matrix or game, whatever it is. Even The Matrix, people say it's a documentary. But the men who
00:04:54.600 produced The Matrix are both now transgender.
00:04:57.020 Oh, wow. I've never seen the movie. I've heard a lot about it in the room, but I've never actually
00:05:04.740 seen the movie.
00:05:05.740 What do you think life is?
00:05:07.780 Life is? I feel like life is just about people and having good relationships with people and
00:05:20.340 doing things that you like. I feel like life's just like a game. It's a lot of games. And
00:05:25.340 it's kind of a weird answer. But I feel like all the things that have made me really happy
00:05:30.660 was playing a game and getting better at a game, whether it's volleyball or podcasting
00:05:36.560 or even just traveling the world with my family is kind of a game. What can we go see next?
00:05:43.620 And what's always made me feel the happiest is the relationships I've made along the way,
00:05:48.280 playing these different games, whether it's doing stuff as a family or building something
00:05:55.320 cool.
00:05:56.320 Do you trust men?
00:05:57.320 Do I trust? I would say overall, yeah. I mean, how do I put it? Not all men, right? I mean, 0.98
00:06:07.600 being in the position I'm in, sometimes I get some weird messages and it freaks me out a little
00:06:12.700 bit. But the thing about being a woman is if I was to walk alone and get attacked, I trust
00:06:20.180 that like, if there was a group of men by me, someone would help me. And I think that's
00:06:24.620 like a privilege of being a woman, because if you get beat up, you're kind of shit out 0.99
00:06:27.760 of luck as a dude. 0.98
00:06:29.180 I think it's human beings in general. We are good people. If there's catastrophes,
00:06:34.180 if there's bad shit happens, our natural instinct is to help. We are good. We're just 0.98
00:06:39.700 fucking confused. We just don't know what the fuck is going on. We think we've got it together. 0.99
00:06:45.180 I thought having a podcast or making documentaries or making a bit of money, it would be a happier
00:06:52.180 man, but it doesn't really change fuck all. You've still got to keep working on whatever
00:06:56.180 it is you're working on.
00:06:57.180 Yeah. I mean, I think the joy is in the journey. I've, I've heard so many speeches
00:07:01.180 where the guy was like talking about the saddest moment of his life was when he accomplished
00:07:05.280 his goal. Cause he's like, what now? Like it's, it's fun when you're just chasing something,
00:07:11.620 whether it's, you know, raising good kids or whether it's finding a wife or whatever,
00:07:16.700 whatever your thing is.
00:07:17.700 Yeah. You've got to have purpose. Yeah. A purpose to get up and go and get you out
00:07:21.620 in bed in the morning. Cause you ain't got purpose, you ain't got shit. You're just going 1.00
00:07:25.140 to feel sad, worthless. And that's why I think a lot of people are struggling in life because
00:07:30.180 they don't have any purpose. They don't have any get up and go. I've got so many things to
00:07:34.400 be thankful for and grateful for, but I fucking ain't because every morning you've got to 0.91
00:07:41.160 kind of force yourself and my own personal experiences to get up and go make things happen 0.97
00:07:46.640 instead of talking and because nobody fucking cares. I mean, you break it all down.
00:07:51.480 That's so true because everyone will talk about what they're going to do, but like how many
00:07:57.680 people go do it because I watched one of your videos is that when you were 15, you had your
00:08:03.600 coach was at Marcus King that not groomed you, but it was kind of planting seeds in your head
00:08:08.600 and then 18 put it on you. How does that affect you with men going older? Cause we've all got
00:08:15.280 an agenda. Majority of men just want to fuck girls and move on. That's the bottom line. 1.00
00:08:19.400 You've got to be honest. How does that then affect you? What've tried to find that really
00:08:24.120 are you trying to find a relationship or love? Yeah. Yeah, I am.
00:08:27.760 So does all trauma from the past affect that now? I guess it used to maybe, but I just like
00:08:37.880 feel like in life there's always risk. I'm like, I can either be scared something bad's
00:08:43.440 going to happen or I can just go forward assuming good intent and hope for the best and it might
00:08:49.060 not work out, but like everything in life is risk. Um, that situation, I think it makes
00:08:55.980 me look a little like closer at coaches. I would say more than like, you know what I'm
00:09:00.480 saying? More than like relationships. Like I just look like, I think I'd be a little more
00:09:05.720 cautious when I have like kids and stuff with which men or women, honestly, cause there's 1.00
00:09:10.900 a lot of creepy women too that like which adults I allow around my kids, I would say, because 1.00
00:09:16.820 it wasn't like I was, I don't know. I just feel like that was a different like context,
00:09:21.860 you know, but again, I had that undercover, undercover pedophile on my podcast. He was a
00:09:28.940 police officer who went undercover for 20 years to catch pedophiles. He pretended to be one
00:09:35.060 to be friend. Oh, that's so interesting. Mad. I'll send you the link that, um, powerful.
00:09:40.360 But what he says is, it's not just a case of them manipulating the kids first. What they
00:09:45.680 do is go on dating websites, go on social media, manipulate the parents, be in the relationship
00:09:50.060 for a year, two year, and then to get to the kids. Yeah, so it's not just a case of going
00:09:58.400 like that man there, that people, it's not like, obviously he was with people who needed
00:10:02.780 the fix then. Maybe go to the park or they used to smell kids' hair or some tried to grab
00:10:08.400 the kids, but then he, there was other people who would go a year, two years, three years,
00:10:13.400 become that kid's parent, manipulate everyone, and then eventually so.
00:10:17.400 So, yo, that is, that's why, that's like why I always say that like single mothers that 0.96
00:10:25.620 break up homes, cause they're not happy or selfish because you're putting like, I don't
00:10:29.960 know what the status off the top of my head, but you're much more likely to be abused or
00:10:33.460 sexually abused by someone's partner, like by like the new partner. So like, um, I don't
00:10:40.220 know. I don't think that, that is so creepy, but I don't know. At the same time though,
00:10:46.700 a lot of times they'll try to like victimize, like even me in that situation, it was pretty
00:10:53.520 easy for me to, to say no and be like, ah, I'm good on that. Like, I feel like a lot of
00:10:58.920 times the girls try to take accountability when they do say yes to that type of thing. 1.00
00:11:02.580 Cause that happens all the time where like some dude, like a boss or whatever, like hits
00:11:08.680 on a girl and they'll, and they'll, they'll go along with it and they'll be like, oh, I
00:11:11.540 didn't know what I was doing. I'm like, um, I think, um.
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