JustPearlyThings - Why Modern Men Are Emotional

00:00:00.000 i was at a i still go to events and stuff and everybody's fine for an hour two hours 0.98

00:00:05.520 they change high-pitched grabbing just talking more shit and everybody thinks every man thinks 0.59

00:00:11.360 they're a gangster every man thinks he's 50 shades of gray but when you break it all down if you 0.98

00:00:16.000 actually sit with men in a room and just have a discussion you tend to see that i believe men are

00:00:21.200 becoming more sensitive than women yeah yeah well it's because women told them that's what we wanted 1.00

00:00:26.800 you know it's funny the only time women advocate for men is when it benefits us when they're 0.89

00:00:31.120 telling the like five percent of guys to be more emotionally available they don't really want that 0.96

00:00:35.120 they want like the five percent ten percent of guys that don't give a shit about them to be 0.96

00:00:40.000 emotionally available that's what they're saying but do most men need to be more emotionally 0.98

00:00:45.280 available no come on why do you think suicide rates higher with men um because men have harder lives 0.98

00:00:52.960 because they i don't know because men are told from an early age they ain't shit and if they 0.68

00:00:58.640 can't perform the world tells them quick so like there are men that don't even know what it's like 0.82

00:01:04.240 to be like the amount of offers that i've gotten in dm very weird here stop sending me them guys like

00:01:09.920 it's but it's it's like sad to me like i'll hear stories like i'm addicted to hookers because i've never

00:01:15.920 had a girl interested in me in my life ever i've never had a girl even like express interest in like

00:01:21.760 talking to me like they don't even and so yeah like like and i think men like imagine your life

00:01:30.720 if you'd never had a woman ever interested in talking to you would you really feel a lot of 0.99

00:01:34.400 purpose then a woman's not one to talk to you if you're fucking fucking hookers every night of the 1.00

00:01:39.440 week as well do you know what i mean like any man can like i believe any man can change any women can 1.00

00:01:46.000 obviously when we make changes the old habits and patterns are still there yeah like i still think

00:01:51.120 about drinking drugs and casinos yeah because there's always signs but it's not acting on it's

00:01:57.760 not having the same impulse you can make changes like for men who girls don't want to look at then 0.98

00:02:03.360 fucking make changes get yourself to the gym look after yourself a little bit more and 0.79

00:02:07.760 start believing a little bit more and whether the law of attraction you can visualize the perfect 0.99

00:02:13.440 women coming into your life this and that but if you're a low vibrational being if you're 1.00

00:02:18.080 fucking hookers if you're drinking if you're taking drugs if you're doing anything to an excess 1.00

00:02:24.000 you're not in a good place i believe everything's frequencies and energies and but again you can 1.00

00:02:30.960 fuck with your energy if you're doing bad things like even social media it's so fucking deluded 0.98

00:02:35.840 i crave it sometimes some like some comments a video that pops and then you feel good for 10 minutes 1.00

00:02:42.320 and then it's straight on trying to get the next one but it's confusing like there's just so much

00:02:47.360 out there like everybody's heads are 100 mile an hour i believe anyway but for men like

00:02:55.520 somebody said that the suicide rate in women's rising as well though the what the suicide for

00:03:00.240 women was rising oh yeah it's like i mean i think it's over women that make between 50 and 75 000 a year

00:03:09.040 and make over or like make over 50 000 and are over like 45 are the most depressed and lonely

00:03:16.800 and are single sorry do you think that's what it comes down to as well loneliness

00:03:21.280 because we go back to tribalism days i'm feeling part of a family or having someone to talk to that

00:03:26.560 there's just people just seem even if you walk along london nobody looks happy oh yeah i had this um

00:03:33.600 when i first got to london i had this tick tock series this was before i was big on red pill stuff

00:03:39.200 but i would be like i'm gonna say hi to like 10 people on the street in london and like see how

00:03:43.440 many say hi back because i just know i'm from chicago the midwest is a little bit more friendly

00:03:49.520 but here is it's funny i love london but i couldn't tell you one reason why i i really couldn't i think

00:03:56.160 i just built the show here so i like it but i couldn't not that one it's crazy and that in

00:04:02.160 scotland people are it's not like people aren't friendly i just think people are so caught in the

00:04:06.080 rat race here yeah things are so expensive they need to work extra hours they're drinking more coffee 1.00

00:04:11.920 every night every office workers are in the pub every night just drinking drinking drinking like

00:04:17.600 you're escaping from reality like i don't know what the life is whether it should be working 95 or

00:04:23.040 whether you should be in a public maybe i've got it wrong maybe i've made changes and i've done it

00:04:26.880 wrong i just know i feel better i just know i smile more i still know i'm full of i still know

00:04:32.480 i can manipulate people i still know i can talk just people working a nine to five and people drinking

00:04:39.440 and yeah i don't just do you ever feel confused what do you mean about what just life no no how was

00:04:47.520 your daily daily routine it's pretty good now child um oh my gosh it was so stressful when i

00:04:54.400 was building the show but i've like hired people now so i get to every day i just wake up get ready

00:05:00.080 for my show so let's talk about your show how many times do you do it a week three four times four

00:05:05.360 that's a lot yeah it is a lot but that's all i do now so i get to do it as a full i'm so grateful

00:05:12.000 honestly i think most people don't actually get to do something they love for money and i i think

00:05:19.200 it's really cool i get to do that and how there's some times you've got seven people eight people

00:05:23.840 nine people on your show but how do you manage that um so i did it all myself at first that was

00:05:29.040 the hardest part if you ever want to do a live show that that will be the biggest problem you will

00:05:33.440 have is getting guests that oh my god that was hell um i'm really good at it i will say flex but

00:05:42.160 um but i've always been that person that just knows people but yeah so now i have a recruiter do it

00:05:48.080 for me um and we're switching to an agency soon but when i started i just recruited through instagram

00:05:54.720 so i would just like look at who people followed and then like i started with my school and then i'd

00:05:59.120 like lift like a dude i would always go for the dudes that like i knew a lot of women liked and i 0.98

00:06:04.800 would look at who they followed because i was like they have to follow pretty girls and then boom 0.80

00:06:08.480 just message a million people and then eventually you get between four to eight i would say is what

00:06:15.600 i shoot for what's your biggest pod what's your biggest show like in terms of views um i think one

00:06:22.640 got like a hundred and thirty thousand views and what was that topic um broken women equals a broken 1.00

00:06:30.400 society and it was um i was arguing with some girls about body count um and they were saying and they

00:06:39.920 also believed in like the gender stuff or there there's some what do you think what's the average

00:06:46.400 body count for people like 25 just now do you know oh gosh i don't know it depends i mean

00:06:52.400 it depends where you go i think i think the cities would probably be higher the countries would

00:06:56.080 probably be lower it's meant to choose from less women if you're outside cities just less people to 1.00

00:07:02.400 be with yeah and it's where there's some communities like mormons or like uh westborough i watched a

00:07:10.320 documentary about mormons and they up there was a guy that kept what he believed he was a god yeah and

00:07:17.200 they had like fucking sector 70 waves i don't i i don't know i just know like i don't know i don't 0.95

00:07:24.800 know what the average body count is i ask people this on the streets all the time and i hear something 0.95

00:07:30.480 from like 10 to 40 in london for women yeah that's i ask people but i ask them 31 year olds because that's

00:07:39.680 the average age of first marriage in london or in the uk so on the streets and i think that's the most like

00:07:46.080 honest answers you'll get when you go on the streets asking like how many do you know i'm saying like

00:07:50.960 i think that's more honest than a survey because like i think women lie and so 0.99

00:07:57.200 like i i think the most honest you'll get yeah so i i would say between um 25

00:08:05.520 i don't know it's still a lot though isn't it for like i understand it's okay for many 0.81

00:08:13.200 fucking women can't this and that both are just as bad as each other but you should see 1.00

00:08:18.240 my dms from women what they say like it's fucking cringy like back in the day if i was drinking 1.00

00:08:23.840 drugs it would be the best thing ever but like a man if i fuck a bird i lose respect like i believe 0.99

00:08:29.680 every man does because if it's an easy chase to respect yeah because how can you respect someone 0.88

00:08:34.400 who's gave it up so easy yeah so then not want to do that with somebody else so it just becomes

00:08:39.920 done because i know people have been married if they've slept with each other the first day or the

00:08:44.000 first night but it's the men's the trust to try and trust and if your respect goes then how can you

00:08:50.560 want to be with that person yeah i don't know i mean my dad knocked my mom up pretty quick so

00:08:59.280 so i don't i don't know when they slept together but i don't think it took that long

00:09:04.000 i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to

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JustPearlyThings - April 03, 2023

Why Modern Men Are Emotional

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