JustPearlyThings - Why Modern Men Struggle With Women

00:00:00.000 I don't know.

00:00:00.600 I just did a video on this.

00:00:01.740 Corporate land is dominated by women. 1.00

00:00:03.820 It's done.

00:00:04.440 Phone it in.

00:00:05.080 I don't think the job space is even a viable market for men anymore.

00:00:09.520 I truly don't.

00:00:10.100 I think it's all dominated by women. 1.00

00:00:12.200 Corporations are headed in that direction.

00:00:14.280 But my point in stating that is that there's really only two sectors left of men,

00:00:21.200 in my opinion, who can even find a wife.

00:00:24.480 And this is controversial, but it's losers and the rich. 0.97

00:00:27.800 Losers have access to women because, in my opinion, there's a low anxiety. 1.00

00:00:35.020 You know what I mean? 0.97

00:00:36.740 There's a certain income spread right now that is very hard for men in the dating market.

00:00:41.780 And that spread, in my opinion, is between $140,000 to $250,000 a year income.

00:00:47.520 Those guys are invisible.

00:00:49.040 They're not rich, but they have the kind of jobs that are just hard enough

00:00:52.780 to where there's no women around. 1.00

00:00:54.300 So they're having such a tough time.

00:00:56.020 And a lot of these guys.

00:00:57.260 Computer geeks.

00:00:58.220 100%.

00:00:58.620 The tech guys.

00:00:59.520 And I have access to this market because these are the guys who follow me on Twitter.

00:01:03.380 And they all lament to me over and over again that as soon as they got on their feet

00:01:07.120 and got these higher-paying jobs, their dating market completely dried up.

00:01:10.780 It's drier than the Sahara.

00:01:11.640 They cannot find women. 0.99

00:01:12.740 When they were losers, they said they were cleaning up. 0.98

00:01:15.920 And I think it's because— 0.95

00:01:16.520 Are they going for higher-quality women now, though? 0.99

00:01:18.540 I think they are.

00:01:19.740 Oh, yeah.

00:01:20.100 But that's probably why.

00:01:21.160 That's probably why.

00:01:22.280 But I do think that in this culture that's inverted, the ambition of a man who works 0.54

00:01:28.660 out routinely, is super shredded, jacked, rich, it yells anxiety.

00:01:33.400 And I think that that is what's putting these women off. 1.00

00:01:36.580 Subliminally, I think that women like low-anxiety men, which is why I think the loser archetype, 1.00

00:01:42.020 for whatever reason, does do well in this kind of market.

00:01:44.440 Is it's only the loser if he's hot, though, right? 1.00

00:01:47.000 You're telling an ugly loser, just bitches? 1.00

00:01:49.420 That's true. 1.00

00:01:50.820 Oh, okay.

00:01:51.320 That's true.

00:01:52.260 But then they talk about how, like, gold diggers, and I'm like, how do you bash a gold digger?

00:01:58.020 In my eyes, that makes zero sense because you mean to tell me that a woman likes you for

00:02:02.300 something that you earned rather than the way that you were born?

00:02:04.800 Like, that's how it should be.

00:02:06.080 A woman should be into you based on what you've earned in this life. 1.00

00:02:09.560 So the whole women coming after your money— 0.99

00:02:11.020 Are they going to be loyal, though?

00:02:12.440 If you find a woman when you actually have a big bag, a high percentage of them are not

00:02:18.620 going to be loyal.

00:02:19.380 If you find a woman when you're broke, you bond together, you grow together, she's probably

00:02:24.540 not going to cheat on you when you have the bag.

00:02:26.340 But that's if you take the nerd route.

00:02:28.180 If you take the nerd route, like Elon—Elon's worth $230 billion, can't lock down a woman. 1.00

00:02:32.960 Still jerking off about Grimes. 0.97

00:02:35.580 True. 0.53

00:02:36.700 But I do think life experience is what bleeds over—look, and I've said this on Spaces before,

00:02:41.940 I do believe the single thing that a woman wants the most in a man subliminally, and 0.97

00:02:46.240 I've never heard anybody else say this but me, I think ultimately a woman wants to know

00:02:50.840 that she cannot fool or befuddle you.

00:02:54.220 She can't pull one over on you. 1.00

00:02:55.320 You see her coming a mile away, you put it in check, she has to know for sure she cannot

00:03:00.660 pull the wool over your eyes on anything.

00:03:02.060 You know when she's lying, you know when she's being sneaky, you just know.

00:03:04.920 You can telegraph it.

00:03:05.800 That only comes from life experience.

00:03:07.240 That doesn't come from business.

00:03:08.140 A lot of these rich crypto kids who are nerds who became very wealthy, they're struggling

00:03:12.740 because they skipped the life part.

00:03:15.640 You've got to be in the trenches as a man, suffering pain.

00:03:17.680 You've got to learn life.

00:03:19.380 You've got to get your heart broken a couple times.

00:03:20.860 That's the root of a man.

00:03:22.220 Once you kind of build that scar tissue and you have that experience, it translates over

00:03:27.140 and you become a gamer.

00:03:28.540 First you get played, then you become a player, correct?

00:03:31.340 100%.

00:03:31.740 Okay.

00:03:32.100 That seems logical.

00:03:34.100 Pearl, anything to say?

00:03:35.900 No, I agreed with him.

00:03:37.080 I would have said guidance, but it's like the same thing.

00:03:39.260 It's like the same thing.

00:03:40.020 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:03:40.420 It's like, no, because when you are looking at a guy, you kind of want to see, it's like,

00:03:44.520 can he guide me in that direction?

00:03:46.400 100%.

00:03:46.480 Yeah.

00:03:47.000 100%.

00:03:47.360 And I think a lot of these younger guys don't understand that you have to teach all the

00:03:51.160 time.

00:03:51.680 Like, being in a long-term relationship is the most, it's life on hardcore mode.

00:03:55.840 It is the hardest difficulty setting.

00:03:57.900 And especially, like, with us, like, a bunch of women, like, most women weren't raised

00:04:02.960 to be wives, right? 0.99

00:04:04.620 Like, even women that, like, came from two-parent households, it's like, what percent of men

00:04:09.240 lead relationships?

00:04:10.460 What percent of people have traditional relationships?

00:04:13.200 You know, there's an entire, and like, what, I think a third of people were born in single-parent

00:04:17.740 households now?

00:04:19.060 Yeah.

00:04:19.340 Depending on the demographics, much higher.

00:04:21.540 Yeah, yeah.

00:04:22.340 Depending on the demographics, much higher.

00:04:24.220 Yeah, but so that's what I mean when I say guidance, because half of guys don't even,

00:04:28.940 like, they don't even know that, you know?

00:04:31.140 No, they can't even get that part down at all.

00:04:33.760 Don't communicate, don't sit down, don't teach, you have to explain things.

00:04:37.060 The computer has done a lot to destroy men's ability to actually know how to talk to women.

00:04:44.620 100%.

00:04:45.060 I remember, you know, having get-togethers in Vegas, inviting a whole bunch of people, and

00:04:51.860 you would see women sitting at the bar and guys playing video games, and I'm like, you

00:04:58.880 know, I'm married and everything, so I can't really do anything, but I'm looking at these

00:05:02.420 women like, I'm sorry, I feel bad for you. 1.00

00:05:05.400 I don't know what else to tell you.

00:05:06.820 You know, playing video games when you have women around who are basically trying to, you 1.00

00:05:12.060 know, get to know you and stuff like that.

00:05:13.500 I think these guys don't know how to talk to women, and, you know, 10, 15 years ago,

00:05:20.900 I would have laughed at the idea of a coach that tells, you know, guys how to, you know,

00:05:26.160 get women.

00:05:26.720 I would have laughed at that hitch concept.

00:05:28.720 Now, it's a viable market.

00:05:31.040 Well, but yeah, we also lost community, I think.

00:05:34.600 You know what I mean?

00:05:35.020 Like, people used to have, like, friend groups, or you'd meet, like, the guy down the

00:05:38.020 hall.

00:05:38.260 You know your neighbors and stuff like that?

00:05:40.300 Yeah, yeah, that's what I mean, so, like, you know, maybe a guy that didn't know how

00:05:43.940 to talk to...

00:05:44.420 I hate my neighbor, by the way.

00:05:46.460 No, but, you know, like, I don't know any of the neighbors in my building, or in London.

00:05:51.220 Like, I don't know any of them.

00:05:52.220 I know all the neighbors that have a Trump sign in their front yard.

00:05:56.020 Those are the ones I go and I say, how you doing?

00:05:58.440 Those are the ones I want to break bread with. 1.00

00:06:01.260 And basically, what you have to understand is, a lot of people are very stupid. 1.00

00:06:07.620 I'm just going to flat out say it. 1.00

00:06:09.220 And it doesn't matter where you are in the world. 1.00

00:06:11.780 People are very ignorant. 0.96

00:06:13.920 And one of the biggest reasons is because people don't get breastfed anymore. 1.00

00:06:19.520 Fact.

00:06:20.340 When kids get breastfed, their IQs go up 9% to 10% higher.

00:06:26.200 So when the women actually stayed at home, when men were men, and they actually had enough 0.99

00:06:30.400 money to provide for the family, all of a sudden, these kids had higher IQs. 1.00

00:06:35.080 People wonder why all these people are stupid now. 1.00

00:06:37.100 No one's getting breastfed. 1.00

00:06:39.020 And then you have tenacious life forms like myself that can get half and half and still

00:06:43.000 turn out all right.

00:06:43.880 Oh, there you go, brother.

00:06:45.020 But you're the exception to the rule.

00:06:46.820 It's 100% true, though.

00:06:48.080 I think the breastfeeding thing is insane to me because how did Gerber's, like that is

00:06:52.940 the greatest marketing campaign ever. 0.99

00:06:54.360 How did Gerber's hijack the female amygdala and convince them that fucking Zog Slop is 1.00

00:07:05.140 more potent and powerful and nourishing than your own breast? 1.00

00:07:08.600 That's a marketing campaign.

00:07:10.000 Women got bamboozled in what, the 70s, 80s? 1.00

00:07:12.480 That's just completely...

00:07:14.260 Yeah, they completely abdicated their feminine instinct to Gerber's. 1.00

00:07:19.040 Yeah. 0.93

00:07:19.540 That makes zero fucking sense to me how the power and force is in play on that. 0.97

00:07:24.260 I mean, we pick husbands. 1.00

00:07:27.780 I'm sorry.

00:07:29.180 Your horoscope signs.

00:07:31.080 I mean, that's how I did it.

00:07:32.120 We look at magazines.

00:07:34.360 I think what you do is a little more complex than what the average chick does. 1.00

00:07:38.560 Oh, yeah.

00:07:39.240 I do numerology.

00:07:39.600 But, Pearl, that's a good point.

00:07:41.100 It's like, I'm just saying, like, this is, you know, not character, not like what...

00:07:47.600 It's...

00:07:48.280 It was amazing, Pearl.

00:07:49.440 When I first started getting into numerology astrology, I went to all the top numerologists,

00:07:54.940 all the top astrologers in 2002, and there was a common theme.

00:08:00.260 Woman divorced three, four times.

00:08:03.740 And I kept asking these women, if you're so good at astrology, why'd you get divorced three 1.00

00:08:09.000 or four times?

00:08:10.380 Oh, people grow apart.

00:08:12.560 You didn't see that coming?

00:08:14.140 And, you know, just to put it in perspective, I've been married for almost 20 years.

00:08:17.820 So, obviously, I knew what the hell I was doing.

00:08:20.080 But other people, they just don't.

00:08:22.080 I mean, you know, Malik, when it comes to your country, are men having similar issues like

00:08:28.260 they do in America?

00:08:29.180 They can't find a good woman? 1.00

00:08:30.820 I mean, obviously, you don't have that problem.

00:08:32.420 No, in Africa, traditionally, it's arranged, you know, so, like, by the time the woman 0.98

00:08:39.440 gets to the age of puberty, she's married off.

00:08:42.780 Settle her off like a cow? 1.00

00:08:43.980 So, it's not like, you know, any woman who's not married after that age is just whoring around, 0.99

00:08:50.060 you know?

00:08:50.780 So, wait a second.

00:08:51.520 If a woman isn't married, by what age? 1.00

00:08:54.640 20, 22?

00:08:55.740 Well, when she starts, you know, like, experiencing, you know, she can give birth.

00:09:01.040 Well, they can sometimes give birth at 13, 14.

00:09:04.000 What's that?

00:09:04.620 Yeah, so they're married off because... 0.58

00:09:05.780 At 13, 14?

00:09:06.900 No, I'm just saying that because, like, what it is, culturally over there, if a woman gives 0.99

00:09:11.740 birth, like she was saying that most women now are not virgins, you know?

00:09:17.780 They've been sleeping around, you know?

00:09:19.760 Yeah.

00:09:20.080 So, at the end of the day, you know, to get a good woman who hasn't been sleeping around, 1.00

00:09:25.240 you know, you have to catch them before they, you know, get going.

00:09:29.400 So, they get married off.

00:09:35.360 Do you think that's a superior system to what is going on here in America?

00:09:40.840 I think so, yes.

00:09:42.240 Less divorce?

00:09:43.780 And they don't get divorced because at that time, you know, at that age, she's not, you

00:09:48.300 know, corrupted.

00:09:50.100 She's going to go into the marriage, you know, ready for it. 0.97

00:09:54.620 Okay.

JustPearlyThings - August 31, 2023

Why Modern Men Struggle With Women

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