JustPearlyThings - Why Most Men Don't Want To Be MARRIED @ModernLifeDating

00:00:00.000 i think a divorce should be banished banished i think we should erase divorce do you know what

00:00:06.960 country it's illegal in i think before we do it we should give all the married people to be like 1.00

00:00:11.600 look here's your chance legally now to get out if you need to yeah amnesty right they didn't sign

00:00:17.960 up for that they thought they were at the easy divorce yeah so now anyone going forward knows

00:00:22.520 if you sign up for this contract you are stuck for life because there's a lot of people that

00:00:28.440 really don't believe in divorce and there are a lot of good women that want to get married and stay 1.00

00:00:32.840 married but the men are like well my friend married a good woman who wanted to get married and stay

00:00:39.440 married and she divorced him and took half so why should i trust you well i think the government

00:00:44.020 should force us to stay i disagree yeah so unless wait wait wait wait i need you to yeah unless

00:00:52.640 there's three reasons

00:00:55.760 okay addiction abuse and adultery and i still think you should try to be separated first

00:01:09.120 and then try to work it out yeah because there are success success stories of people that have

00:01:15.080 gotten through abuse addiction and adultery we never talk about those and i think first you should put

00:01:19.780 the kids first so that's my idea do you it's first hundred percent and what you disagree no no

00:01:25.780 no i agree i didn't know he was going to say that but but i was also going to say that if if a

00:01:29.540 woman's here in a man i don't think that should be because you should be going for a divorce if 1.00

00:01:32.980 your woman's in you like if you're a grown man and your woman's senior like come on bro boss up man

00:01:50.660 like you can't get divorced because woman's here and you're like i don't agree that she should be 1.00

00:01:53.700 hating you slip and counter but i also don't know this this is this is going to be controversial but

00:02:01.460 i also don't think a um a woman should divorce the man if he cheats as well i think if a woman cheats

00:02:06.340 that's far more good i agree ultra haram yeah i think cheating for a woman is a hundred times 0.54

00:02:12.980 completely different than cheating for a man faxes it's five thousand it's heavy yeah women can 1.00

00:02:18.340 disagree when a woman cheats she's trying to replace you when a man cheats she's just there 0.88

00:02:25.060 let me tell you something about let me tell you something when a guy when a guy cheats on a girl

00:02:29.940 nine times out of ten when he cheats on her there's some flaws in the woman he's cheating with 0.98

00:02:37.220 that his main girl has that this one doesn't have and that actually makes him like his main

00:02:43.300 girl more that's it's that's a controversial advice do you think he's actually flaws though

00:02:47.300 or do you just think he fancies like a bit of variety i mean like because you know the classic

00:02:51.940 thing you know you can have you can have steak at home but you just sometimes fancy mcdonald's no

00:02:55.620 no you do fancy mcdonald's but sometimes there's like a homeless person in the park doing a lot of

00:02:59.540 mcdonald's that you don't want to deal with mcdonald's do i no no but like what i'm trying to

00:03:03.860 say is that typically when a guy does cheat he doesn't leave for that one because the main woman

00:03:12.340 and listen to him from a man's perspective when he cheats okay the main girl actually gains more

00:03:20.420 value because he he is he decides this he's just satisfying she's just a pleb she's just there for 1.00

00:03:27.940 pleasure pump and dump sayonara and then the main girl has what he wants for the long term and a lot 1.00

00:03:36.500 of people it's an uncomfortable conversation to have right but hold on hold on your wife

00:03:41.940 just listen let me make my point let me make my point right a lot of guys when they do do that

00:03:48.180 they actually appreciate the main girl more and i know you don't want to hear that but that's a

00:03:52.180 that's a reality i think that's an opinion by by nature men we can argue over the over the

00:03:59.300 hills but the facts are by nature men are polygamous by nature women are not so having said that the

00:04:05.700 thing is women especially in the west they're not having it they're saying he's having me or nothing 0.99

00:04:09.460 so men are trying to fight their natural urges it's basically like a man saying to a woman when you

00:04:14.420 when you're on your period or when you're pregnant and your hormones are going all over the place i don't

00:04:18.020 want to hear you crying i don't want to see you cry don't kick off at me how unfair would that be to the

00:04:21.140 woman so you imagine a man saying to a woman i don't care if you're on your period don't care 0.97

00:04:24.340 about your hormones shut up don't cry don't be emotional don't get aggy with me but when a man's 0.85

00:04:28.100 got hormones and we act to them then it's a completely different thing you mean it's cheating

00:04:32.740 that doesn't compare to a pregnancy that's completely out of the way no no no no no i'm saying is when

00:04:36.260 you have hormones and a man has hormones you're allowed to because it's in us god made us like this 0.81

00:04:40.340 god made men polygamous by nature so you're telling me but where did you get that information from

00:04:44.900 how i'm sorry do you know how many there's a wait okay i'll give me an answer i'll give you an answer

00:04:49.300 you wanted you wanted the answer to this like this listen listen okay you're basically using the

00:04:54.260 information for you no no no no no listen to justify cheating if a man if a man's it can be absolutely

00:05:02.180 in love with his woman ready to die for it do anything for her still sleep with someone i'm thinking

00:05:05.460 in front of it if a woman's in love with her man she um the best lucky man in the world can come to

00:05:10.180 she'll repulse invisible yeah it's invisible but a man could be absolutely be started with

00:05:14.660 a woman and go fucking ugly bits because it just is men and women are not the same also they surveyed 0.95

00:05:20.980 cheaters they surveyed cheaters the majority of cheating is only one time so women are throwing 1.00

00:05:25.860 away marriages for a one-time thing yeah and then listen there's a book called sex by dawn as well

00:05:33.940 right and it talks and it talks about even the shape of a male penis you've seen a penis before right i'm 0.72

00:05:39.700 sure no okay you're you're a virgin too uh but the structure of the penis too is meant to push his 0.98

00:05:47.060 sperm in and then you know the outside mushroom the edge is to pull other men's sperm out right 1.00

00:05:54.180 because that's how we are set up biologically speaking it's it's in the book i just told you the

00:05:59.780 book sex at dawn who wrote the book dr christopher sorry it's okay dr christopher i mean if we're gonna

00:06:08.180 i mean if we're gonna go from a biological perspective like men would only pass on dna

00:06:12.740 when they impregnated like the most women because a lot of kids used to die during childbirth 1.00

00:06:18.420 sorry dr for christopher dr christopher ryan what about sperm wars though is that inspire is that

00:06:23.700 these doctors come up with also do you know what i'm saying is do you know what's interesting though it's

00:06:28.340 like if a guy fulfills his mating strategy which is like impregnating as many women as possible he's

00:06:34.340 shamed and like they're often said that's a bad thing but if a woman fulfills her mating strategy 1.00

00:06:38.980 by getting the best guy she possibly can like the richest tallest most handsome that's just 0.98

00:06:43.060 considered normal yeah i heard it expressed really well the other day by somebody on one of these shows

00:06:47.060 uh she said when men cheat it's just like they cheat when women cheat they mean it and that's the problem 0.98

00:06:53.140 and that's the problem isn't it a woman will never sleep with someone that she doesn't like 1.00

00:06:56.820 and if she's in love with her husband she will net she it's impossible for a woman to achieve she's in 1.00

00:06:59.940 love with her husband unless she's fundamentally broken patrice o'neil said it best cheating is for

00:07:05.460 women it's benefit i think it goes completely against the sanctity of marriage there are vows i'm being 0.98

00:07:14.340 facetious obviously

JustPearlyThings - June 21, 2023

Why Most Men Don't Want To Be MARRIED @ModernLifeDating

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