Why Most Men Don't Want To Be MARRIED @ModernLifeDating
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the controversial topic of divorce and cheating in the modern era. Do men cheat? Should women cheat? Is cheating even worse than cheating for a woman? What is the difference between cheating for women and cheating for men? Should a woman cheat if a man cheats? And should a man cheat when a woman cheats if she cheats.
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i think a divorce should be banished banished i think we should erase divorce do you know what
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country it's illegal in i think before we do it we should give all the married people to be like
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look here's your chance legally now to get out if you need to yeah amnesty right they didn't sign
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up for that they thought they were at the easy divorce yeah so now anyone going forward knows
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if you sign up for this contract you are stuck for life because there's a lot of people that
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really don't believe in divorce and there are a lot of good women that want to get married and stay
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married but the men are like well my friend married a good woman who wanted to get married and stay
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married and she divorced him and took half so why should i trust you well i think the government
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should force us to stay i disagree yeah so unless wait wait wait wait i need you to yeah unless
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okay addiction abuse and adultery and i still think you should try to be separated first
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and then try to work it out yeah because there are success success stories of people that have
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gotten through abuse addiction and adultery we never talk about those and i think first you should put
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the kids first so that's my idea do you it's first hundred percent and what you disagree no no
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no i agree i didn't know he was going to say that but but i was also going to say that if if a
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woman's here in a man i don't think that should be because you should be going for a divorce if
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your woman's in you like if you're a grown man and your woman's senior like come on bro boss up man
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like you can't get divorced because woman's here and you're like i don't agree that she should be
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hating you slip and counter but i also don't know this this is this is going to be controversial but
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i also don't think a um a woman should divorce the man if he cheats as well i think if a woman cheats
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that's far more good i agree ultra haram yeah i think cheating for a woman is a hundred times
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completely different than cheating for a man faxes it's five thousand it's heavy yeah women can
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disagree when a woman cheats she's trying to replace you when a man cheats she's just there
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let me tell you something about let me tell you something when a guy when a guy cheats on a girl
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nine times out of ten when he cheats on her there's some flaws in the woman he's cheating with
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that his main girl has that this one doesn't have and that actually makes him like his main
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girl more that's it's that's a controversial advice do you think he's actually flaws though
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or do you just think he fancies like a bit of variety i mean like because you know the classic
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thing you know you can have you can have steak at home but you just sometimes fancy mcdonald's no
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no you do fancy mcdonald's but sometimes there's like a homeless person in the park doing a lot of
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mcdonald's that you don't want to deal with mcdonald's do i no no but like what i'm trying to
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say is that typically when a guy does cheat he doesn't leave for that one because the main woman
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and listen to him from a man's perspective when he cheats okay the main girl actually gains more
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value because he he is he decides this he's just satisfying she's just a pleb she's just there for
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pleasure pump and dump sayonara and then the main girl has what he wants for the long term and a lot
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of people it's an uncomfortable conversation to have right but hold on hold on your wife
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just listen let me make my point let me make my point right a lot of guys when they do do that
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they actually appreciate the main girl more and i know you don't want to hear that but that's a
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that's a reality i think that's an opinion by by nature men we can argue over the over the
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hills but the facts are by nature men are polygamous by nature women are not so having said that the
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thing is women especially in the west they're not having it they're saying he's having me or nothing
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so men are trying to fight their natural urges it's basically like a man saying to a woman when you
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when you're on your period or when you're pregnant and your hormones are going all over the place i don't
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want to hear you crying i don't want to see you cry don't kick off at me how unfair would that be to the
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woman so you imagine a man saying to a woman i don't care if you're on your period don't care
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about your hormones shut up don't cry don't be emotional don't get aggy with me but when a man's
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got hormones and we act to them then it's a completely different thing you mean it's cheating
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that doesn't compare to a pregnancy that's completely out of the way no no no no no i'm saying is when
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you have hormones and a man has hormones you're allowed to because it's in us god made us like this
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god made men polygamous by nature so you're telling me but where did you get that information from
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how i'm sorry do you know how many there's a wait okay i'll give me an answer i'll give you an answer
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you wanted you wanted the answer to this like this listen listen okay you're basically using the
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information for you no no no no no listen to justify cheating if a man if a man's it can be absolutely
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in love with his woman ready to die for it do anything for her still sleep with someone i'm thinking
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in front of it if a woman's in love with her man she um the best lucky man in the world can come to
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she'll repulse invisible yeah it's invisible but a man could be absolutely be started with
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a woman and go fucking ugly bits because it just is men and women are not the same also they surveyed
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cheaters they surveyed cheaters the majority of cheating is only one time so women are throwing
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away marriages for a one-time thing yeah and then listen there's a book called sex by dawn as well
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right and it talks and it talks about even the shape of a male penis you've seen a penis before right i'm
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sure no okay you're you're a virgin too uh but the structure of the penis too is meant to push his
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sperm in and then you know the outside mushroom the edge is to pull other men's sperm out right
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because that's how we are set up biologically speaking it's it's in the book i just told you the
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book sex at dawn who wrote the book dr christopher sorry it's okay dr christopher i mean if we're gonna
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i mean if we're gonna go from a biological perspective like men would only pass on dna
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when they impregnated like the most women because a lot of kids used to die during childbirth
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sorry dr for christopher dr christopher ryan what about sperm wars though is that inspire is that
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these doctors come up with also do you know what i'm saying is do you know what's interesting though it's
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like if a guy fulfills his mating strategy which is like impregnating as many women as possible he's
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shamed and like they're often said that's a bad thing but if a woman fulfills her mating strategy
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by getting the best guy she possibly can like the richest tallest most handsome that's just
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considered normal yeah i heard it expressed really well the other day by somebody on one of these shows
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uh she said when men cheat it's just like they cheat when women cheat they mean it and that's the problem
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and that's the problem isn't it a woman will never sleep with someone that she doesn't like
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and if she's in love with her husband she will net she it's impossible for a woman to achieve she's in
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love with her husband unless she's fundamentally broken patrice o'neil said it best cheating is for
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women it's benefit i think it goes completely against the sanctity of marriage there are vows i'm being