Why Women Post Provocative Images On Social Media
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss instagram, cheating, sex, sex vs. beauty, and why women should or shouldn t be allowed to have an instagram in a relationship. Do you agree or disagree?
Transcript
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all right so since there's five of us in here we're going to do a vote and it's going to be
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really fun so we're going to vote on if this is acceptable in a relationship or unacceptable like
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what are we laughing about i don't get it okay so
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all right number one instagram is it okay for a girl to have an instagram in a relationship
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yeah all right raise your hand if you think yes
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yeah if she wants to i actually think it's unacceptable oh my god
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well i mean there's exceptions but if i think of a general rule
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instagram's the number one dating app so it's kind of interesting because okay now if we
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if we go off the premise i'm going to see if i can get you guys to my side we're going to do a vote
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here if we think of the premise that instagram that do we agree with the premise attention is to women
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as sex is to men do you agree with that or disagree okay why because you can get attention at home if
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you have a man yeah not every woman not every woman likes attention yeah so not every woman likes
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attention okay so you would pick sex over beauty so if you if you had to pick between um you get to
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look 21 forever or you get to have sex with whoever like the hottest guy on the planet forever what would
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you pick i'd have a sex really you pick sex oh yeah okay would you pick sex or beauty yeah because
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i feel like sex makes you feel beautiful makes you feel yeah well if you've got someone that thinks
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do you not agree no i pick beauty well no i wanna if i could look 22 forever one you can make money
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off of that two like two it's like yeah i would i would pick that over sex over like like sex with the
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hottest guy ever or beauty it depends if it's like how long you're having sex for like is that the same
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person you're having sex for for the rest of your life was that just i think it depends i think it
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depends on the person as well like if it's michael b jordan then yeah let's do it but if it's not then
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okay marsh chestnut okay um you guys think sex is to women as to attention or sex is to men as
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attention is to women i think it depends on the woman depends on the women yeah i think it's all women
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yeah this is just my my personal thoughts but okay i'll tell you why i think that when all right
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when a guy sleeps with a girl he gets some sort of validation right women don't get validation
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through sex we get validation through guys like finding us attractive through like being desired
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that's true that's why i think it's that's why i think it's different like when we post the picture
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on instagram that's us getting validation through being desired or when a man fucks a bunch of chicks
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that's him like feeling the most desired because he or you know maybe he screwed the hottest chick
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right it might for some guys it's just one but you guys get the idea that's why i think
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instagram is cheating because you're basically putting your beauty on display for other men
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but it's okay i can i can be overruled i can be over some women that put it on display for other
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women some some people want to show the kids like you know they want to show the family that the kids
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are around i i think if you look at most i think we could pull up you guys's instagram profiles and i
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think it'll probably look like a dating app a little bit we could we could do it it'll be fun
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if you want i don't think you should to be honest we could we could later later some bad bee pics
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you know um all right so all right we could we could anyone change their opinion or same opinion
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still acceptable or unacceptable acceptable acceptable all right i won't sway you today it's all right
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all right um no it makes sense going it makes you on my side now no instagram i don't think women
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should have an instagram wow all right well okay he's it depends on the instagram yeah that's
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what is it i mean if you had to pull up my wife's instagram it's there's nothing yeah
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i'm sure it's about her daily life or you know moments she wants to share shouldn't she want to tell
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you about her date like why does the world need to know it's probably just she's probably got a certain
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amount of friends in there that she wants to share her daily life with instead of putting
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can we make still validation though isn't it but what if it's for her business exactly yeah what if
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it's her business as well how much okay but it's not how much are women really making a month you know
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the average woman makes like 500 a month on only fans we can't even sell sex like most women don't
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make any money you know what i mean like if maybe she's a real business you know yeah if it's a real
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business but it's like uh do we but even then do you need to post your face no that's what your
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business is that's true what are you selling but then again yeah it depends you could be to selling
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products that's true you could be your brand but you can post other people you could be your brand
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you don't have to post yourself though yeah but you could be the brand or it could be homemade
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made stuff that you want to promote but you don't have to post yourself
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you could it could probably be okay i think if we're going to use kim kardashian that's like
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why women shouldn't have an instagram why because she sells sex literally she literally
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her brand is based on her sex tape like that's her life oh yeah wow and have you seen have you
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seen her instagram is that um look how much money she's made from that is women is is money worth her
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her kids mental health no not at all okay so so what has that led to for her does it seem like
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the outcomes for her children are going to be good when we got the one kid like dancing with ice spice
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depends if you're looking at a bank account or if you're looking at well it depends well it depends
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what matters to you yeah money money or mental health yeah like money or your values right
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because yeah she's a little bit i mean i i personally think they are quite a put together family
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obviously they have their no no my personal opinion on that family is each other no they don't they
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don't everyone in that family is a money pig like none of them people have anything substantial
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the only person that has something substantial is kylie and kendall none of them have anything
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that's grown from the mud all they do is stem off that woman's tape literally there's nothing else to
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them well and and they're all single mothers literally all of them i think caitlin's all right
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who's caitlin bruce bruce he was a man he used to be a man and now he's a woman oh you got the joke
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all right we got all right we got instagram okay um all right
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if you're clubbing with your partner no like alone clubbing alone no
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would never go depends what age you are as well yeah
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if you're young i had a chick on the show that was really confused why i said she shouldn't club with
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children anymore like she had kids i was like maybe it's time to spend out like not go to the club
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anymore yeah it depends what age you are but i think if you're a young mum all right so who says
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um acceptable who says yes oh wait i put this in the wrong one yes depending on
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what stage you are in your relationship stop women should stop going to the club
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yeah i'm asking is it cheating or not cheating like is it is it yes it's acceptable no it's not
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acceptable it's not all right so raise your hand if you think think no not acceptable
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traditional clubbing yeah like yeah i mean but bars and stuff you think it's acceptable or not
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acceptable to go to a bar if she's in a relationship no no no it's fine if it's a bar yeah bars and
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stuff yeah yeah depends what you're doing you could be going to your you could be going to your sister's
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birthday to a club though yeah you could be going to your sister's birthday to a club like
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where you're going to not go because you're in a relationship you could go to a bar yeah
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all right so since we approved instagram i want to know selfies yes is it is there like a type of
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selfie just uh you know face just like your face that's cool is it a pretty face though because if
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she's ugly she can post as much as she want that's fine she's she's gonna be with you right so she's
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gotta be a pretty girl i mean do you date ugly chicks i mean yeah man i don't judge oh wow you
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know okay let's say yeah she's she's a pretty chick yeah so selfies yes who says a selfie is okay
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mine i think selfies are good like they're okay kind of i'm in the middle with that one what do you
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think i'm gonna say no i'm gonna go hard no no selfies why because you're advertising your beauty
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why why do why do they gotta see you smile she'll only be smiling for your man you can't have nothing
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nice can you what if she's not smiling i mean yeah she's wearing the title neck and i just i just want
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to know like what what's the balaclava yeah like what is she gonna get out of like what is the point
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of posting it i'm not gonna lie it'll be better for a chick to post a selfie than a woman who has a
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fat ass fat boobs beautiful curves to post a full body pic she's gonna be more advertising well just
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because there's something worse it doesn't make the selfie good but what's wrong with the same
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that's like saying well i only did only fans not porn like no i don't think i don't think it matters to
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be fair it's like taking the question is what what what is the point of posting the selfie because yeah
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what you're not realizing is i can easily compare that to someone addicted to drugs like why are you
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posting the selfie just to get that dopamine hit of oh people like your picture wife validation
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she probably wants to show off that she she bought nice earrings she got her hair done or you know she
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got her makeup she got her makeup done still validation could be that but at the end of the day
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why is she showing it off to strangers but would it be better would it be better for a man to post a
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selfie is it necessarily we get less validation okay then so would it be better for a man to post a full
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body pic to obviously advertise his designer wear that that's what we're saying the same thing like
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it's an addiction if it's that if it's validation selling something like he's selling the clothes or
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he's selling like a fitness plan that's different but if you're just posting it just so that people
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can like it but this is the point like you used to get all that validation and attention from your
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man and not a million strangers like i used to watch like 1940s like wife tips and it was like oh get
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some makeup on before your husband gets home like have your hair done so so you're like ready to see
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him but now it's like women will get their makeup done for instagram but not their husband they'll look
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half like homeless but aren't we all seeking out validation not just women no i think that women seek
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out validation much more than men partially because we can but but i my opinion i think women like men seek
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sex so i that would the equivalent of that to me would be men having access to easy sex and taking
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it i think yeah they probably would like if you had that validation doesn't necessarily come from the
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opposite sex always like you could be um your friends could be like oh cool picture like do you mean
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um i think they could but i would say typically women post for attention from high status men
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that's that's my opinion typically it's a yeah i i think some women actually post for other women
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literally yeah i i think that's the equivalent of when women dress half naked and they say they
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do it for themselves but then i just don't really believe that's why i still have to ask like it's
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still to the same point what's the difference between the selfie and a full body pic if you get a
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girl who's got ass curves boobs and she takes a full body picture is she taking a selfie of just that she just
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like the face that she just yeah if you if you were gonna have a dating profile would you put a selfie
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on it yeah that's the point that's before i'm just showing myself because you're getting correct
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you're showing yourself and that's the whole point is you're getting validation from the opposite gender
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but i actually agree with the lady on the right i think women also post for other women yeah we do
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because yeah it's not even like it's not even just for the validation aspect it still ties back to men
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because it's kind of like a competition it still ties back to men but it's still like there's still
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that competition between women because women want to be able to post and have other women validate
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them and say yes you are beautiful right but then it still ties back to validation right the latest
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handbag or the latest shoes or the latest top and say oh what the name's got that you know right but
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it's yeah women too yeah but it's it's but he's right but it's all to compete for the guys