JustPearlyThings - Why Women Post Provocative Images On Social Media

00:00:00.000 all right so since there's five of us in here we're going to do a vote and it's going to be

00:00:04.080 really fun so we're going to vote on if this is acceptable in a relationship or unacceptable like

00:00:13.040 i think we're going to do yes

00:00:23.440 what are we laughing about i don't get it okay so

00:00:30.000 all right number one instagram is it okay for a girl to have an instagram in a relationship

00:00:37.600 yes yes yes

00:00:43.360 yeah all right raise your hand if you think yes

00:00:47.120 yeah if she wants to i actually think it's unacceptable oh my god 0.99

00:00:54.880 well i mean there's exceptions but if i think of a general rule

00:00:58.240 instagram's the number one dating app so it's kind of interesting because okay now if we

00:01:04.480 if we go off the premise i'm going to see if i can get you guys to my side we're going to do a vote

00:01:08.400 here if we think of the premise that instagram that do we agree with the premise attention is to women

00:01:16.080 as sex is to men do you agree with that or disagree okay why because you can get attention at home if

00:01:23.040 you have a man yeah not every woman not every woman likes attention yeah so not every woman likes

00:01:30.080 attention okay so you would pick sex over beauty so if you if you had to pick between um you get to 0.90

00:01:37.760 look 21 forever or you get to have sex with whoever like the hottest guy on the planet forever what would 1.00

00:01:43.040 you pick i'd have a sex really you pick sex oh yeah okay would you pick sex or beauty yeah because 0.99

00:01:48.560 i feel like sex makes you feel beautiful makes you feel yeah well if you've got someone that thinks 0.99

00:01:52.000 do you not agree no i pick beauty well no i wanna if i could look 22 forever one you can make money 0.65

00:01:59.680 off of that two like two it's like yeah i would i would pick that over sex over like like sex with the

00:02:05.920 hottest guy ever or beauty it depends if it's like how long you're having sex for like is that the same

00:02:12.240 person you're having sex for for the rest of your life was that just i think it depends i think it

00:02:16.400 depends on the person as well like if it's michael b jordan then yeah let's do it but if it's not then

00:02:21.680 okay marsh chestnut okay um you guys think sex is to women as to attention or sex is to men as

00:02:29.360 attention is to women i think it depends on the woman depends on the women yeah i think it's all women

00:02:35.920 yeah this is just my my personal thoughts but okay i'll tell you why i think that when all right

00:02:42.080 when a guy sleeps with a girl he gets some sort of validation right women don't get validation 1.00

00:02:47.440 through sex we get validation through guys like finding us attractive through like being desired

00:02:53.120 that's true that's why i think it's that's why i think it's different like when we post the picture 0.99

00:02:57.600 on instagram that's us getting validation through being desired or when a man fucks a bunch of chicks 0.99

00:03:04.560 that's him like feeling the most desired because he or you know maybe he screwed the hottest chick 0.93

00:03:09.280 right it might for some guys it's just one but you guys get the idea that's why i think

00:03:14.960 instagram is cheating because you're basically putting your beauty on display for other men

00:03:21.520 but it's okay i can i can be overruled i can be over some women that put it on display for other 0.61

00:03:26.240 women some some people want to show the kids like you know they want to show the family that the kids 1.00

00:03:30.960 are around i i think if you look at most i think we could pull up you guys's instagram profiles and i

00:03:36.960 think it'll probably look like a dating app a little bit we could we could do it it'll be fun

00:03:41.600 if you want i don't think you should to be honest we could we could later later some bad bee pics

00:03:50.160 you know um all right so all right we could we could anyone change their opinion or same opinion

00:03:56.960 still acceptable or unacceptable acceptable acceptable all right i won't sway you today it's all right

00:04:02.800 all right um no it makes sense going it makes you on my side now no instagram i don't think women 1.00

00:04:10.240 should have an instagram wow all right well okay he's it depends on the instagram yeah that's

00:04:14.960 what is it i mean if you had to pull up my wife's instagram it's there's nothing yeah

00:04:22.320 i'm sure it's about her daily life or you know moments she wants to share shouldn't she want to tell

00:04:27.040 you about her date like why does the world need to know it's probably just she's probably got a certain

00:04:31.440 amount of friends in there that she wants to share her daily life with instead of putting

00:04:35.360 can we make still validation though isn't it but what if it's for her business exactly yeah what if

00:04:39.440 it's her business as well how much okay but it's not how much are women really making a month you know 1.00

00:04:44.880 the average woman makes like 500 a month on only fans we can't even sell sex like most women don't 1.00

00:04:50.960 make any money you know what i mean like if maybe she's a real business you know yeah if it's a real 0.94

00:04:58.000 business but it's like uh do we but even then do you need to post your face no that's what your

00:05:04.480 business is that's true what are you selling but then again yeah it depends you could be to selling

00:05:09.840 products that's true you could be your brand but you can post other people you could be your brand

00:05:14.160 you don't have to post yourself though yeah but you could be the brand or it could be homemade

00:05:18.640 made stuff that you want to promote but you don't have to post yourself

00:05:22.000 you could it could probably be okay i think if we're going to use kim kardashian that's like 0.95

00:05:29.680 why women shouldn't have an instagram why because she sells sex literally she literally 1.00

00:05:34.720 her brand is based on her sex tape like that's her life oh yeah wow and have you seen have you 0.99

00:05:39.920 seen her instagram is that um look how much money she's made from that is women is is money worth her 1.00

00:05:46.480 her kids mental health no not at all okay so so what has that led to for her does it seem like

00:05:52.800 the outcomes for her children are going to be good when we got the one kid like dancing with ice spice

00:05:59.280 depends if you're looking at a bank account or if you're looking at well it depends well it depends

00:06:03.600 what matters to you yeah money money or mental health yeah like money or your values right

00:06:10.400 because yeah she's a little bit i mean i i personally think they are quite a put together family

00:06:15.440 obviously they have their no no my personal opinion on that family is each other no they don't they

00:06:22.560 don't everyone in that family is a money pig like none of them people have anything substantial

00:06:28.560 the only person that has something substantial is kylie and kendall none of them have anything 0.94

00:06:33.200 that's grown from the mud all they do is stem off that woman's tape literally there's nothing else to 0.97

00:06:39.280 them well and and they're all single mothers literally all of them i think caitlin's all right

00:06:46.320 there you go

00:06:48.560 who's caitlin bruce bruce he was a man he used to be a man and now he's a woman oh you got the joke

00:06:58.960 all right we got all right we got instagram okay um all right 0.63

00:07:04.880 clubbing

00:07:12.000 if you're clubbing with your partner no like alone clubbing alone no

00:07:16.640 would never go depends what age you are as well yeah

00:07:20.080 if you're young i had a chick on the show that was really confused why i said she shouldn't club with 1.00

00:07:24.960 children anymore like she had kids i was like maybe it's time to spend out like not go to the club

00:07:30.000 anymore yeah it depends what age you are but i think if you're a young mum all right so who says

00:07:34.240 um acceptable who says yes oh wait i put this in the wrong one yes depending on

00:07:40.880 what stage you are in your relationship stop women should stop going to the club 1.00

00:07:45.360 yeah i'm asking is it cheating or not cheating like is it is it yes it's acceptable no it's not

00:07:50.080 acceptable it's not all right so raise your hand if you think think no not acceptable

00:07:54.880 traditional clubbing yeah like yeah i mean but bars and stuff you think it's acceptable or not

00:08:01.200 acceptable to go to a bar if she's in a relationship no no no it's fine if it's a bar yeah bars and

00:08:07.520 stuff yeah yeah depends what you're doing you could be going to your you could be going to your sister's

00:08:11.360 birthday to a club though yeah you could be going to your sister's birthday to a club like

00:08:14.640 where you're going to not go because you're in a relationship you could go to a bar yeah

00:08:18.640 you lot stay at the restaurant and go home

00:08:21.200 all right so since we approved instagram i want to know selfies yes is it is there like a type of

00:08:31.440 selfie just uh you know face just like your face that's cool is it a pretty face though because if

00:08:38.560 she's ugly she can post as much as she want that's fine she's she's gonna be with you right so she's 1.00

00:08:44.240 gotta be a pretty girl i mean do you date ugly chicks i mean yeah man i don't judge oh wow you 1.00

00:08:50.560 know okay let's say yeah she's she's a pretty chick yeah so selfies yes who says a selfie is okay 0.96

00:08:56.720 mine i think selfies are good like they're okay kind of i'm in the middle with that one what do you

00:09:02.240 think i'm gonna say no i'm gonna go hard no no selfies why because you're advertising your beauty

00:09:08.880 why why do why do they gotta see you smile she'll only be smiling for your man you can't have nothing 1.00

00:09:14.720 nice can you what if she's not smiling i mean yeah she's wearing the title neck and i just i just want

00:09:21.680 to know like what what's the balaclava yeah like what is she gonna get out of like what is the point

00:09:26.080 of posting it i'm not gonna lie it'll be better for a chick to post a selfie than a woman who has a 1.00

00:09:32.000 fat ass fat boobs beautiful curves to post a full body pic she's gonna be more advertising well just 1.00

00:09:37.840 because there's something worse it doesn't make the selfie good but what's wrong with the same 0.99

00:09:43.920 that's like saying well i only did only fans not porn like no i don't think i don't think it matters to

00:09:49.920 be fair it's like taking the question is what what what is the point of posting the selfie because yeah

00:09:55.280 what you're not realizing is i can easily compare that to someone addicted to drugs like why are you

00:10:01.200 posting the selfie just to get that dopamine hit of oh people like your picture wife validation 1.00

00:10:06.640 she probably wants to show off that she she bought nice earrings she got her hair done or you know she 1.00

00:10:11.840 got her makeup she got her makeup done still validation could be that but at the end of the day

00:10:16.320 why is she showing it off to strangers but would it be better would it be better for a man to post a

00:10:20.560 selfie is it necessarily we get less validation okay then so would it be better for a man to post a full

00:10:26.400 body pic to obviously advertise his designer wear that that's what we're saying the same thing like

00:10:31.840 it's an addiction if it's that if it's validation selling something like he's selling the clothes or

00:10:37.200 he's selling like a fitness plan that's different but if you're just posting it just so that people

00:10:41.200 can like it but this is the point like you used to get all that validation and attention from your

00:10:46.320 man and not a million strangers like i used to watch like 1940s like wife tips and it was like oh get

00:10:53.200 some makeup on before your husband gets home like have your hair done so so you're like ready to see

00:10:58.640 him but now it's like women will get their makeup done for instagram but not their husband they'll look

00:11:03.440 half like homeless but aren't we all seeking out validation not just women no i think that women seek

00:11:09.520 out validation much more than men partially because we can but but i my opinion i think women like men seek 0.71

00:11:18.000 sex so i that would the equivalent of that to me would be men having access to easy sex and taking

00:11:23.760 it i think yeah they probably would like if you had that validation doesn't necessarily come from the

00:11:28.400 opposite sex always like you could be um your friends could be like oh cool picture like do you mean

00:11:36.080 um i think they could but i would say typically women post for attention from high status men 0.94

00:11:42.800 that's that's my opinion typically it's a yeah i i think some women actually post for other women 1.00

00:11:50.080 literally yeah i i think that's the equivalent of when women dress half naked and they say they 1.00

00:11:54.720 do it for themselves but then i just don't really believe that's why i still have to ask like it's

00:11:59.040 still to the same point what's the difference between the selfie and a full body pic if you get a 0.95

00:12:03.760 girl who's got ass curves boobs and she takes a full body picture is she taking a selfie of just that she just 1.00

00:12:11.680 like the face that she just yeah if you if you were gonna have a dating profile would you put a selfie 0.99

00:12:16.640 on it yeah that's the point that's before i'm just showing myself because you're getting correct

00:12:22.400 you're showing yourself and that's the whole point is you're getting validation from the opposite gender 0.98

00:12:28.240 but i actually agree with the lady on the right i think women also post for other women yeah we do 1.00

00:12:33.680 because yeah it's not even like it's not even just for the validation aspect it still ties back to men

00:12:39.040 because it's kind of like a competition it still ties back to men but it's still like there's still

00:12:46.080 that competition between women because women want to be able to post and have other women validate 1.00

00:12:50.720 them and say yes you are beautiful right but then it still ties back to validation right the latest

00:12:56.480 handbag or the latest shoes or the latest top and say oh what the name's got that you know right but

00:13:02.000 it's yeah women too yeah but it's it's but he's right but it's all to compete for the guys 1.00

00:13:06.960 so it still ties back to the mad

JustPearlyThings - August 26, 2023

Why Women Post Provocative Images On Social Media

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