JustPearlyThings - October 12, 2023


Will Smith Gets CUCKED By Tupac


Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

169.21329

Word count

1,340

Sentence count

97

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

7

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Summary

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Jada Pinkett Smith and Tupac Shakur have been married for 20 years and have a daughter together. Will and Jada have a son together named after their ex-boyfriend. Is it wrong for a woman to share a photo of her ex-husband with another man?

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00:00:00.000 So Jada Pickett is married to Will Smith. 0.99
00:00:02.500 Now, Will Smith is a guy that most women would deem pretty awesome, okay?
00:00:08.920 Pretty, pretty, you'd be pretty lucky to be with a guy like Will.
00:00:12.240 He's worth millions of dollars.
00:00:17.020 He is attractive.
00:00:18.700 He is tall.
00:00:20.220 He is rich.
00:00:21.640 And he has status.
00:00:23.620 He's one of the most loved actors of all time.
00:00:26.040 And, you know, men start to ask the question, if a guy like Will can't keep his wife happy,
00:00:32.360 what chance do I have?
00:00:34.860 So Jada dated Tupac back in the day.
00:00:38.580 They had, you know, they called it, I don't know, just like a love or whatever.
00:00:43.180 And Tupac, I mean, I don't, guys, I'm not a diehard Tupac fan.
00:00:47.500 I know people are very, very, like, defensive of him.
00:00:50.400 But, I mean, his lyrics were, of his songs were about some crazy stuff.
00:00:57.480 And, you know, he's a rapper.
00:00:59.200 So he's more of a bad boy archetype than Will.
00:01:02.160 We'll say that.
00:01:02.800 Where Will is kind of more of the family man.
00:01:05.540 And Jada, throughout their, you know, 20-year marriage, I really think speaks higher of Tupac
00:01:12.860 than her own husband.
00:01:13.700 Can you imagine being worth that much money, having that, being that good looking, having
00:01:19.800 that much status, and allowing your wife to talk higher of an ex-boyfriend than of you.
00:01:25.800 So Jada Smith shares a video of her and Tupac lip syncing to Will Smith's parents just don't
00:01:32.960 understand.
00:01:43.700 You know, so your wife, imagine, imagine, your wife is sharing a video of her, like,
00:01:52.720 flirting with another dude, you know, an ex-boyfriend.
00:01:55.880 Is that, is that appropriate?
00:01:57.860 And I've seen, guys, I've heard these horror stories.
00:02:01.160 Why do so many daughters know who their mother's ex-boyfriends were? 1.00
00:02:08.740 Why are you telling your kid about them?
00:02:10.780 I've even heard horror stories of men finding out their daughter or son was named after a
00:02:19.180 woman's ex-boyfriend.
00:02:21.660 Can you imagine?
00:02:23.940 Oh my.
00:02:25.600 Woo.
00:02:26.260 Woo.
00:02:26.600 Woo.
00:02:26.740 Woo.
00:02:26.920 And you wonder why marriage is such a dangerous institution for men. 0.66
00:02:31.720 I mean, what would a, what would, what would a divorce for Will Smith look like right now?
00:02:36.540 And even if he's single, what type of women are going to go after him typically? 0.99
00:02:42.000 I would say more predatory women. 1.00
00:02:44.120 I don't even know if a rich guy, like finding love is easier.
00:02:48.480 I don't even know if it is because really, I mean, the, the number of predatory chicks 0.98
00:02:54.680 that go after these guys, it's tough.
00:02:58.760 It's tough.
00:02:59.120 Sex is definitely easier for them.
00:03:00.840 Okay.
00:03:01.320 But I was curious on like Will's view on this.
00:03:05.440 So I found a clip of Will Smith talking about, he's actually jealous of the love Jada had
00:03:11.100 for Tupac.
00:03:11.940 Let's pull it up.
00:03:12.880 You ever jealous of the love Jada had for Tupac?
00:03:16.240 Oh yeah.
00:03:17.800 Oh my God.
00:03:19.460 That dude.
00:03:20.180 And you know, and that was in the, that was in the early days.
00:03:22.880 Yeah.
00:03:23.580 That was in the early days.
00:03:24.600 And it was like, that was a big regret for me too.
00:03:27.180 Cause I could never, I could never open up to interact with, with Pac, you know?
00:03:31.940 And cause we had a little bit of a thing, right?
00:03:33.840 Because, you know, you know, they grew up together and, you know, they loved each other, but they
00:03:38.900 never had that, you know, they never had a sexual relationship, but they had come into
00:03:43.320 that age where now that was a possibility.
00:03:45.640 And then Jada was with me, you know?
00:03:48.760 So, you know, Pac had a little thing on that, um, but she just loved him.
00:03:53.660 Like he was the image of perfection, but she was with the Fresh Prince, you know?
00:03:58.840 So that was a huge regret of mine.
00:04:01.160 I just didn't, I couldn't, I couldn't handle it.
00:04:03.460 You know, I would just, I was the soft rapper from Philly and he was Pac.
00:04:08.140 And how, and how sad is that?
00:04:09.860 This guy has accomplished all he's accomplished and he still can't live up to the ghosts of
00:04:15.880 her past.
00:04:16.400 You know, he, he's talking about how he's a soft rapper from Philly, a man, how much
00:04:21.500 is he worth?
00:04:22.020 Like $200 million, 300 million?
00:04:25.260 Like imagine, imagine.
00:04:27.900 Um, and you know, it's, you can almost see the conditioning where he kind of knows it's
00:04:35.140 not right where, you know, he's like, I couldn't open up to him.
00:04:38.960 I couldn't talk to him because men have like an innate gut feeling about stuff.
00:04:44.160 Women, we just, our emotions take us God knows wherever, but men have an innate, like, I don't
00:04:50.800 know, spidey senses about things, but women kind of manipulate them and try to get them 1.00
00:04:56.700 to not listen to their gut.
00:04:59.020 And that is the, that is the biggest, that is the, you cannot do that as a guy.
00:05:03.780 Because look at, now he's conditioned into thinking that he should have opened up to
00:05:07.900 Tupac more, that this behavior is okay.
00:05:11.140 People think I'm being dramatic when I say marriage can be a prison and a death sentence
00:05:15.240 for men.
00:05:15.980 But a lot of times men not having authority in their own household is a prison for them.
00:05:20.520 Um, and I found this clip, um, of Will Smith being filmed without his consent at home.
00:05:27.840 Um, and it really demonstrates that perfectly.
00:05:30.300 Let me show you.
00:05:31.520 You know, Sarah Perel is coming to the table.
00:05:34.140 She's going to be at the red table.
00:05:36.260 Would you say she has been instrumental in you and I redefining our relationship?
00:05:40.820 I would say, don't just start filming me without asking me if you could film me.
00:05:48.320 Sarah, come help us again, please.
00:05:50.800 I'm still dealing with foolishness.
00:05:52.980 Don't, no, no, she, yeah, cause she could, don't just. 0.96
00:05:56.020 Would you say that she helped us heal the hurts that we caused between one another?
00:06:01.500 My social media presence is my bread and butter.
00:06:04.420 Okay.
00:06:05.080 So you can't just use me for social media and not, you know, don't just start, bro, I'm
00:06:10.200 standing in my house.
00:06:11.640 Don't just start rolling.
00:06:13.560 Yeah.
00:06:14.080 So, so this guy is in his own home and is what, what, what would you do if you're an obedient
00:06:19.520 wife and you, you're filming your husband and he says to put it away.
00:06:23.780 Do you roll your eyes and say, oh my goodness, or do you say, okay.
00:06:28.380 And there's a whole generation of women that have the rings. 1.00
00:06:32.840 They look like a duck, quack like a duck, but they're not a duck.
00:06:36.160 And that's what I would describe the wives of today. 1.00
00:06:38.140 They look like wives, they might dress like wives, but they're not wives because it's 1.00
00:06:42.680 a mentality more than anything.
00:06:44.680 You know, and women, they'll sell these femininity courses, right. 1.00
00:06:48.040 Which make their looks better, how to dress better, whatever.
00:06:51.860 But, but they don't have the most important thing and life is long.
00:06:54.980 Um, you know, let, let's say we all live to be 80, 50 to 80.
00:07:00.600 Who, who's really got, who's really that good looking?
00:07:03.660 I mean, men or women, right.
00:07:04.980 I mean, the men hold out in their fifties, but like, come on guys.
00:07:08.960 Um, the most important thing is obedience and what they miss about femininity. 1.00
00:07:13.540 Actually, real, true femininity is serving the men in your life. 0.89
00:07:18.980 Okay.
00:07:19.640 I don't, don't shoot the messenger.
00:07:22.100 And I have a lot of empathy for, um, Jada's daughter, uh, Willow.
00:07:26.960 And Willow's just kind of, I mean, she's like doing the cross-dressing thing. 1.00
00:07:31.580 Uh, she was already in a throuple. 0.95
00:07:33.180 Like this woman was in a throuple relationship at 16.
00:07:36.380 And I'll tell you before all of the stuff with Will and Jada came out, I knew something
00:07:41.860 was wrong in that household because the kids were too messed up.
00:07:45.580 Something is off when the kids are this woke and liberal.
00:07:49.940 Maybe we could call her the woke wife. 0.84
00:07:51.680 Maybe that's actually a good, a good name for that archetype, the woke wife. 0.98