JustPearlyThings - May 08, 2023


Woman BLAMES Men for Divorce but GETS DESTROYED


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

224.80356

Word Count

2,632

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

33

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

In this episode, we discuss pro-choice vs. pro-life, abortion, and birth control in general. We discuss the statistics and statistics on abortion and contraception, and what we think about it. We also talk about what we believe about birth control, and why we think it should be legalized.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 okay wait i'm gonna let her go first no i was gonna say like with the whole
00:00:03.440 contraception my thing is a woman can only get pregnant once a year
00:00:06.800 a man can go forth and multiply different occasions in a year so why is
00:00:10.320 it for a woman to be on contraception why
00:00:12.400 i'm just saying in general why are women's the ones taking contraception
00:00:15.920 why can't it be the man that's unconscious but it takes two to tangle
00:00:18.720 no i know but it's a woman's choice at the end of the day
00:00:22.240 and like what paul's trying to explain as well like obviously
00:00:26.160 you look could be on contraception but it's your choice to have a child
00:00:29.680 with someone that you don't fully believe that you have a full-on future
00:00:33.280 but in the same time you're in a wrong long relationship right
00:00:36.880 and you decided to have a kid together but the things are not working out after
00:00:40.560 the baby for them but then my question is why don't you get married first
00:00:44.480 but okay so even the man should mention one of the comments but if you do get
00:00:48.560 married and how does that change anything
00:00:51.520 how does it change if you know but that's what i was going to say if i get
00:00:54.480 married and i have a child and he still decides that he
00:00:58.000 statistically he's stuck and he's still she's a day and he still wants to leave
00:01:02.480 me don't play with that you know but if you are married and that is the
00:01:08.000 situation and the person still decides to leave you
00:01:11.760 do you do you have a college degree you have a college do you have a college
00:01:15.200 degree yes okay so if you get married there's a
00:01:17.600 10 chance he'll leave there's a 90 chance you'll leave
00:01:21.120 so let like why don't we talk about the women first before we talk about
00:01:23.920 we say that statistic if you're if you have a if you're a woman and you have a
00:01:26.960 college degree there's a 90 if you get divorced there's a 90 chance you'll
00:01:30.560 leave only a 10 chance he'll leave the other way around is if it's just a
00:01:33.840 normal marriage there's only a 20 chance the male leaves and the leading
00:01:36.800 reasons that they leave it's abuse it's like uh infidelity and
00:01:42.160 something they're there and it's like being on draw it's really crazy because
00:01:45.600 again because again the contract is so bad for men when they leave they're only
00:01:49.600 leaving when it's extreme okay hold on but what happens when i have
00:01:55.520 taken all precautions and i have made sure that i'm safe
00:01:59.760 and it is the universe the galactic god however you want to make it
00:02:04.080 if it was meant to be for me to carry and bring forth that seed
00:02:07.360 what then what i don't know i've protected myself
00:02:11.200 giving you the condom i'm on birth control but i've still fall pregnant and
00:02:14.400 then he still decides to leave oh my god what happens then i i think that you're a
00:02:18.560 capper then because i just don't know i'm asking a question
00:02:22.880 let me answer the question then my gosh it's like okay
00:02:26.240 if you're gonna tell me you're gonna tell me all right so you don't believe in
00:02:29.760 abortion i'm also pro-life so we're on the same page i didn't say that
00:02:33.600 okay wait that was great okay okay so so if you're pro-choice then then you have
00:02:39.840 zero excuse because you believe in abortion but let's say you don't
00:02:43.200 i just have a hard time believing that you took all the precautions you tracked your
00:02:47.760 cycle and said i'm not ovulating today so i can have sex
00:02:51.040 oh i'm gonna make sure he wore a condom and i'm gonna make sure i have an iud with
00:02:55.440 a 99.5 percent rate of success i just don't believe it
00:03:00.640 okay so it can never happen no we could okay i i'm just it could be an extreme
00:03:06.400 exception sure okay but even if i'm pregnant off the morning after pill i was just that's
00:03:11.360 i know i know a few people that's got pregnant after the morning yeah well because they did
00:03:15.440 nothing and then took the pill after it's like why didn't you do that's like a hail mary
00:03:21.680 do we think the stripper that uh drake got pregnant just took all the precautions she's beautiful by the
00:03:26.480 you know what i mean she's um but you know what i mean if you see this drop me a message when
00:03:31.760 when drake's baby mama got pregnant like and she was a video dancer and all of that like she knew
00:03:36.880 fine well what she was doing i bet you if we track the data of accidental pregnancies with men who have
00:03:42.400 a higher income the graph goes like that yeah whereas bums who work in a dead-end jobs i bet you
00:03:47.680 there's very little accidental pregnancy i just don't believe there's any accidental pregnancy in 2023 i don't
00:03:52.800 believe it yeah i don't there's too many there's too many options especially with abortion y'all can
00:03:58.560 get abortion up to six months for free here serious yeah and you know it's crazy that babies have lived
00:04:04.160 before abortion is legal so like babies have survived like you guys have a legal past when like children
00:04:10.240 have survived which is kind of crazy but but yeah but most people most women are pro-choice so it's like
00:04:15.760 i'm pro-life i wouldn't do that but most women would so when abortion's legal women have a hundred
00:04:20.800 percent control of who's born men have zero control over that women have a hundred percent
00:04:25.040 control if they put a guy in child support men have zero control over that women have a hundred
00:04:29.600 percent control over putting a guy on alimony men have zero control over women women have um alimony is
00:04:36.960 marriage um women have a hundred percent control over if they could accuse a guy of abuse and take
00:04:45.840 him to family court and restrict him from seeing his kids for like two years until they get to court with
00:04:50.640 no evidence like she can literally make one call and do that bro we've got that's what i was
00:04:57.440 talking about earlier when i said you don't understand the risks that come that's why when
00:05:01.360 girls say this is the thing like you cannot no no offense to you but when girls say they were abused
00:05:06.160 you have to ask them did you file a criminal report because in a criminal court it actually is based off
00:05:11.360 of evidence where family court it's not and a lot of girls will cap and i've even seen like they've shown
00:05:16.640 me tech like text messages from the girl like plotting to accuse him of abuse i believe that
00:05:22.160 like they they literally planned it out vicious i guess i guess our disconnect then earlier was i was
00:05:27.120 just speaking from my heart but when you break it down like that my infamous salesman used to say men
00:05:31.680 lie women lie numbers don't lie so if the statistics are speaking you make a lot of money just just yeah
00:05:37.440 you don't right let's say you got married ish you got you got a divorce and that that girl who you got
00:05:42.320 divorced from you're now paying for all of her core fees right right so so she decides i'm gonna
00:05:48.480 fuck with this guy i'm gonna ring my lawyer every day for 31 days solid and at the end of that 31 days
00:05:54.400 that bill is going to you just because she decided to fuck with you and do you know what you can do
00:05:57.680 about it nothing and the other crazy thing like because you were talking about that you would date
00:06:01.760 a girl that does only fans or like any of the sexual stuff but if a girl if a girl slept with more
00:06:06.960 than like five to seven guys her ability to bond with men goes down significantly so it's like if she's
00:06:12.240 a virgin on her wedding night she has it depends on the study but like a 60 to 85 chance of a happy
00:06:17.840 marriage it's more than five it goes down to 20 to 25 percent i've seen it firsthand i've seen it
00:06:22.000 firsthand yeah and so it's like why is that a thing why no definitely i've seen it i've physically
00:06:27.280 experienced it with loads of men with if a guy if a girl's like her ability to bond with men switches
00:06:32.960 at about like five to seven men where it goes down like so if you were a virgin on your wedding night
00:06:37.120 you have a 60 to like 80 chance of being happily married in 10 years but after you sleep with
00:06:42.080 around five to seven men it goes down to like 20 to 25 percent and so it's like if a guy you've
00:06:48.080 learned it already the novelty's worn off you've experienced it yeah it makes sense but it's true
00:06:53.040 it's facts and it's the same thing women release a hormone when they have a kid with someone else
00:06:57.520 so it's like a guy that's in your position where you've done well financially it's like so that's why
00:07:03.120 i'm a bit of a conundrum no i kind of no i kind of look at you like you're crazy because i'm like
00:07:07.520 you have so much to lose and you're going into it and you're not taking into account any of the
00:07:11.840 risk factors like the high body count you're okay with the single mother you're okay with and i'm
00:07:16.880 like i'm just a good guy man but there's also a reason why i'm single i don't believe in marriage
00:07:22.080 and i don't want kids so oh you don't want kids no you don't believe in marriage no no i believe
00:07:27.360 in well if my mom's watching i believe in marriage i think it's the right thing to do but i just don't
00:07:30.960 want it and i'm not going to do it no because of all the aforementioned reasons it's too much of a
00:07:34.720 risk factor you know it's too much to lose but it's crazy because you're mr monogamy the whole
00:07:39.680 show yeah i am mr monogamous and it doesn't mean that you can't be monogamous outside of marriage
00:07:44.320 he's such a man what i say doesn't mean what i'm actually going to do yeah exactly exactly exactly
00:07:53.200 it's great just for other people yeah exactly he sucks me out it only took you two hours
00:07:59.280 but obviously you said earlier on obviously about um obviously with what you do the only
00:08:09.200 fan thing or whatever and you're saying you're making all this money which i brought i congratulate
00:08:12.880 i appreciate it but it's a thing where obviously you said that with the woman thing you don't really
00:08:18.880 want a lady what you mean in terms of that you said that oh i do i do in the future okay in the
00:08:24.960 future but but obviously you said because you look this good and all this stuff but obviously
00:08:29.200 when we get to a certain age and then obviously we're changing obviously we are going to want
00:08:32.880 that and then you're going to look back and say obviously i want 20 or 30 years old so i don't
00:08:36.480 look as good as i did before then obviously like i'm saying the standards are going to go a bit low
00:08:40.560 and then you're not going to settle down with what you wanted like what you initially want like now
00:08:45.360 but i'll tell you what for what i what what for what i'm deficient in physically i will compensate for
00:08:51.840 financially so if you've ever seen a guy who looks really ugly but he's got a banging 10 out of 10
00:08:56.800 girl he's got bread in his world so trust me i will have so much money that one woman would be
00:09:02.480 willing to do the men in black situation and forget that i was a person but you're making your income
00:09:07.120 from what you're doing now yeah from the way you look right now yeah it's not like obviously no
00:09:12.400 but obviously i've diversified i've got investments actually yeah cool yeah i understand i'm not that
00:09:16.320 silly i ain't gonna go on to that obviously it's only because you've only mentioned it of course
00:09:19.280 of course yeah it's in my focus yeah but no of course of course i'm thinking five years from now
00:09:23.920 yeah no that's good bro yeah yeah i thought another guy on oaf you could stay doing that
00:09:29.920 until you're like 40s i know one guy i know one guy he's 41 um i'm not gonna say his name because
00:09:35.120 he doesn't yeah but he's doing really well making 30 40k a month i've heard girls have like a shorter
00:09:40.560 yeah yeah yeah put it this way there's a niche for everyone i was trying to get him to do it before
00:09:45.680 we went live because i told him everyone get it out of your head that you need to have a six pack and be
00:09:50.480 tanned in all of this not no there is a market no no listen listen in the words in the wise words
00:09:56.320 of an irish colleague he said i can get buffer i can never get taller so i would change my six pack
00:10:01.280 for your height any day of the week so don't worry man that was a shame can do it not get viewed
00:10:05.040 differently but women do it oh you'd be surprised you'd be surprised you see what my family members
00:10:09.280 say about me i don't think if i if i do only fans i don't think i'm uh i'm gonna get married and
00:10:14.000 do you know i mean a guy's gonna look at me like you know that wife immaterial i don't think yeah but let's
00:10:19.600 face it you're not gonna see a guy who says he does i'm gonna think yes i'm gonna bring him home
00:10:23.840 to my mom no but you know what it is though yeah you see like you can do only fans yeah and i can
00:10:28.160 pretty much guarantee that you're not going to end up alone at the idea later on in your life because
00:10:33.840 girls don't know just being girls are looking like i can say to a girl i've had you know i've slept with
00:10:38.800 20 girls this year yeah and to be fair it's not going to be that much of a bad thing you know i mean
00:10:44.720 like a girl will take that on the chin i've got three baby mothers you know wow yeah free free for
00:10:49.520 free how many kids yeah three kids and three three yeah so wow and i'll tell a girl that and she'll
00:10:56.720 be like i'll be your fourth it's not a problem you know what i mean whereas for women sorry if a woman
00:11:02.240 say to me like oh i've got a free baby fathers i'm like okay you know what i mean the point that pearl
00:11:08.560 makes i think is that on average the data means that the cream rise at the top like the people in the
00:11:14.480 best circumstances and get the best partners and as much as we want to like say a lot of nice
00:11:19.120 things around here that's just reality isn't it as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock
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