JustPearlyThings - May 08, 2023


Woman BLAMES Men for Divorce but GETS DESTROYED


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11 minutes

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224.80356

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2,632

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2


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Transcript

00:00:00.000 okay wait i'm gonna let her go first no i was gonna say like with the whole
00:00:03.440 contraception my thing is a woman can only get pregnant once a year
00:00:06.800 a man can go forth and multiply different occasions in a year so why is
00:00:10.320 it for a woman to be on contraception why
00:00:12.400 i'm just saying in general why are women's the ones taking contraception
00:00:15.920 why can't it be the man that's unconscious but it takes two to tangle
00:00:18.720 no i know but it's a woman's choice at the end of the day
00:00:22.240 and like what paul's trying to explain as well like obviously
00:00:26.160 you look could be on contraception but it's your choice to have a child
00:00:29.680 with someone that you don't fully believe that you have a full-on future
00:00:33.280 but in the same time you're in a wrong long relationship right
00:00:36.880 and you decided to have a kid together but the things are not working out after
00:00:40.560 the baby for them but then my question is why don't you get married first
00:00:44.480 but okay so even the man should mention one of the comments but if you do get
00:00:48.560 married and how does that change anything
00:00:51.520 how does it change if you know but that's what i was going to say if i get
00:00:54.480 married and i have a child and he still decides that he
00:00:58.000 statistically he's stuck and he's still she's a day and he still wants to leave
00:01:02.480 me don't play with that you know but if you are married and that is the
00:01:08.000 situation and the person still decides to leave you
00:01:11.760 do you do you have a college degree you have a college do you have a college
00:01:15.200 degree yes okay so if you get married there's a
00:01:17.600 10 chance he'll leave there's a 90 chance you'll leave
00:01:21.120 so let like why don't we talk about the women first before we talk about
00:01:23.920 we say that statistic if you're if you have a if you're a woman and you have a
00:01:26.960 college degree there's a 90 if you get divorced there's a 90 chance you'll
00:01:30.560 leave only a 10 chance he'll leave the other way around is if it's just a
00:01:33.840 normal marriage there's only a 20 chance the male leaves and the leading
00:01:36.800 reasons that they leave it's abuse it's like uh infidelity and
00:01:42.160 something they're there and it's like being on draw it's really crazy because
00:01:45.600 again because again the contract is so bad for men when they leave they're only
00:01:49.600 leaving when it's extreme okay hold on but what happens when i have
00:01:55.520 taken all precautions and i have made sure that i'm safe
00:01:59.760 and it is the universe the galactic god however you want to make it
00:02:04.080 if it was meant to be for me to carry and bring forth that seed
00:02:07.360 what then what i don't know i've protected myself
00:02:11.200 giving you the condom i'm on birth control but i've still fall pregnant and
00:02:14.400 then he still decides to leave oh my god what happens then i i think that you're a
00:02:18.560 capper then because i just don't know i'm asking a question
00:02:22.880 let me answer the question then my gosh it's like okay
00:02:26.240 if you're gonna tell me you're gonna tell me all right so you don't believe in
00:02:29.760 abortion i'm also pro-life so we're on the same page i didn't say that
00:02:33.600 okay wait that was great okay okay so so if you're pro-choice then then you have
00:02:39.840 zero excuse because you believe in abortion but let's say you don't
00:02:43.200 i just have a hard time believing that you took all the precautions you tracked your
00:02:47.760 cycle and said i'm not ovulating today so i can have sex
00:02:51.040 oh i'm gonna make sure he wore a condom and i'm gonna make sure i have an iud with
00:02:55.440 a 99.5 percent rate of success i just don't believe it
00:03:00.640 okay so it can never happen no we could okay i i'm just it could be an extreme
00:03:06.400 exception sure okay but even if i'm pregnant off the morning after pill i was just that's
00:03:11.360 i know i know a few people that's got pregnant after the morning yeah well because they did
00:03:15.440 nothing and then took the pill after it's like why didn't you do that's like a hail mary
00:03:21.680 do we think the stripper that uh drake got pregnant just took all the precautions she's beautiful by the
00:03:26.480 you know what i mean she's um but you know what i mean if you see this drop me a message when
00:03:31.760 when drake's baby mama got pregnant like and she was a video dancer and all of that like she knew
00:03:36.880 fine well what she was doing i bet you if we track the data of accidental pregnancies with men who have
00:03:42.400 a higher income the graph goes like that yeah whereas bums who work in a dead-end jobs i bet you
00:03:47.680 there's very little accidental pregnancy i just don't believe there's any accidental pregnancy in 2023 i don't
00:03:52.800 believe it yeah i don't there's too many there's too many options especially with abortion y'all can
00:03:58.560 get abortion up to six months for free here serious yeah and you know it's crazy that babies have lived
00:04:04.160 before abortion is legal so like babies have survived like you guys have a legal past when like children
00:04:10.240 have survived which is kind of crazy but but yeah but most people most women are pro-choice so it's like
00:04:15.760 i'm pro-life i wouldn't do that but most women would so when abortion's legal women have a hundred
00:04:20.800 percent control of who's born men have zero control over that women have a hundred percent
00:04:25.040 control if they put a guy in child support men have zero control over that women have a hundred
00:04:29.600 percent control over putting a guy on alimony men have zero control over women women have um alimony is
00:04:36.960 marriage um women have a hundred percent control over if they could accuse a guy of abuse and take
00:04:45.840 him to family court and restrict him from seeing his kids for like two years until they get to court with
00:04:50.640 no evidence like she can literally make one call and do that bro we've got that's what i was
00:04:57.440 talking about earlier when i said you don't understand the risks that come that's why when
00:05:01.360 girls say this is the thing like you cannot no no offense to you but when girls say they were abused
00:05:06.160 you have to ask them did you file a criminal report because in a criminal court it actually is based off
00:05:11.360 of evidence where family court it's not and a lot of girls will cap and i've even seen like they've shown
00:05:16.640 me tech like text messages from the girl like plotting to accuse him of abuse i believe that
00:05:22.160 like they they literally planned it out vicious i guess i guess our disconnect then earlier was i was
00:05:27.120 just speaking from my heart but when you break it down like that my infamous salesman used to say men
00:05:31.680 lie women lie numbers don't lie so if the statistics are speaking you make a lot of money just just yeah
00:05:37.440 you don't right let's say you got married ish you got you got a divorce and that that girl who you got
00:05:42.320 divorced from you're now paying for all of her core fees right right so so she decides i'm gonna
00:05:48.480 fuck with this guy i'm gonna ring my lawyer every day for 31 days solid and at the end of that 31 days
00:05:54.400 that bill is going to you just because she decided to fuck with you and do you know what you can do
00:05:57.680 about it nothing and the other crazy thing like because you were talking about that you would date
00:06:01.760 a girl that does only fans or like any of the sexual stuff but if a girl if a girl slept with more
00:06:06.960 than like five to seven guys her ability to bond with men goes down significantly so it's like if she's
00:06:12.240 a virgin on her wedding night she has it depends on the study but like a 60 to 85 chance of a happy
00:06:17.840 marriage it's more than five it goes down to 20 to 25 percent i've seen it firsthand i've seen it
00:06:22.000 firsthand yeah and so it's like why is that a thing why no definitely i've seen it i've physically
00:06:27.280 experienced it with loads of men with if a guy if a girl's like her ability to bond with men switches
00:06:32.960 at about like five to seven men where it goes down like so if you were a virgin on your wedding night
00:06:37.120 you have a 60 to like 80 chance of being happily married in 10 years but after you sleep with
00:06:42.080 around five to seven men it goes down to like 20 to 25 percent and so it's like if a guy you've
00:06:48.080 learned it already the novelty's worn off you've experienced it yeah it makes sense but it's true
00:06:53.040 it's facts and it's the same thing women release a hormone when they have a kid with someone else
00:06:57.520 so it's like a guy that's in your position where you've done well financially it's like so that's why
00:07:03.120 i'm a bit of a conundrum no i kind of no i kind of look at you like you're crazy because i'm like
00:07:07.520 you have so much to lose and you're going into it and you're not taking into account any of the
00:07:11.840 risk factors like the high body count you're okay with the single mother you're okay with and i'm
00:07:16.880 like i'm just a good guy man but there's also a reason why i'm single i don't believe in marriage
00:07:22.080 and i don't want kids so oh you don't want kids no you don't believe in marriage no no i believe
00:07:27.360 in well if my mom's watching i believe in marriage i think it's the right thing to do but i just don't
00:07:30.960 want it and i'm not going to do it no because of all the aforementioned reasons it's too much of a
00:07:34.720 risk factor you know it's too much to lose but it's crazy because you're mr monogamy the whole
00:07:39.680 show yeah i am mr monogamous and it doesn't mean that you can't be monogamous outside of marriage
00:07:44.320 he's such a man what i say doesn't mean what i'm actually going to do yeah exactly exactly exactly
00:07:53.200 it's great just for other people yeah exactly he sucks me out it only took you two hours
00:07:59.280 but obviously you said earlier on obviously about um obviously with what you do the only
00:08:09.200 fan thing or whatever and you're saying you're making all this money which i brought i congratulate
00:08:12.880 i appreciate it but it's a thing where obviously you said that with the woman thing you don't really
00:08:18.880 want a lady what you mean in terms of that you said that oh i do i do in the future okay in the
00:08:24.960 future but but obviously you said because you look this good and all this stuff but obviously
00:08:29.200 when we get to a certain age and then obviously we're changing obviously we are going to want
00:08:32.880 that and then you're going to look back and say obviously i want 20 or 30 years old so i don't
00:08:36.480 look as good as i did before then obviously like i'm saying the standards are going to go a bit low
00:08:40.560 and then you're not going to settle down with what you wanted like what you initially want like now
00:08:45.360 but i'll tell you what for what i what what for what i'm deficient in physically i will compensate for
00:08:51.840 financially so if you've ever seen a guy who looks really ugly but he's got a banging 10 out of 10
00:08:56.800 girl he's got bread in his world so trust me i will have so much money that one woman would be
00:09:02.480 willing to do the men in black situation and forget that i was a person but you're making your income
00:09:07.120 from what you're doing now yeah from the way you look right now yeah it's not like obviously no
00:09:12.400 but obviously i've diversified i've got investments actually yeah cool yeah i understand i'm not that
00:09:16.320 silly i ain't gonna go on to that obviously it's only because you've only mentioned it of course
00:09:19.280 of course yeah it's in my focus yeah but no of course of course i'm thinking five years from now
00:09:23.920 yeah no that's good bro yeah yeah i thought another guy on oaf you could stay doing that
00:09:29.920 until you're like 40s i know one guy i know one guy he's 41 um i'm not gonna say his name because
00:09:35.120 he doesn't yeah but he's doing really well making 30 40k a month i've heard girls have like a shorter
00:09:40.560 yeah yeah yeah put it this way there's a niche for everyone i was trying to get him to do it before
00:09:45.680 we went live because i told him everyone get it out of your head that you need to have a six pack and be
00:09:50.480 tanned in all of this not no there is a market no no listen listen in the words in the wise words
00:09:56.320 of an irish colleague he said i can get buffer i can never get taller so i would change my six pack
00:10:01.280 for your height any day of the week so don't worry man that was a shame can do it not get viewed
00:10:05.040 differently but women do it oh you'd be surprised you'd be surprised you see what my family members
00:10:09.280 say about me i don't think if i if i do only fans i don't think i'm uh i'm gonna get married and
00:10:14.000 do you know i mean a guy's gonna look at me like you know that wife immaterial i don't think yeah but let's
00:10:19.600 face it you're not gonna see a guy who says he does i'm gonna think yes i'm gonna bring him home
00:10:23.840 to my mom no but you know what it is though yeah you see like you can do only fans yeah and i can
00:10:28.160 pretty much guarantee that you're not going to end up alone at the idea later on in your life because
00:10:33.840 girls don't know just being girls are looking like i can say to a girl i've had you know i've slept with
00:10:38.800 20 girls this year yeah and to be fair it's not going to be that much of a bad thing you know i mean
00:10:44.720 like a girl will take that on the chin i've got three baby mothers you know wow yeah free free for
00:10:49.520 free how many kids yeah three kids and three three yeah so wow and i'll tell a girl that and she'll
00:10:56.720 be like i'll be your fourth it's not a problem you know what i mean whereas for women sorry if a woman
00:11:02.240 say to me like oh i've got a free baby fathers i'm like okay you know what i mean the point that pearl
00:11:08.560 makes i think is that on average the data means that the cream rise at the top like the people in the
00:11:14.480 best circumstances and get the best partners and as much as we want to like say a lot of nice
00:11:19.120 things around here that's just reality isn't it as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock
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