JustPearlyThings - May 12, 2023


Woman Claims That Men DON'T Know What They Want


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Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

202.39507

Word Count

2,276

Sentence Count

276

Misogynist Sentences

36

Hate Speech Sentences

29


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Can a man know a good woman from a bad woman without experiencing a lot of women?
00:00:06.880 Not really.
00:00:07.880 Okay, so in order to identify, he has to what?
00:00:12.680 I would suggest that in his 20s, he dates as many women as he can.
00:00:17.340 That's what, okay.
00:00:19.320 So how many women should he date?
00:00:23.560 As much as you can.
00:00:24.640 Yeah, as much as you can.
00:00:26.640 I'm not saying sleep with all of them.
00:00:28.920 Some guys have given numbers.
00:00:30.000 So date as many women as possible to tell the difference.
00:00:36.580 Because again, remember, I just want to remind everybody the stats.
00:00:39.680 One out of three women has an STD.
00:00:41.800 One out of three women has had an abortion.
00:00:44.480 38% of women or of kids are born into single parent homes,
00:00:48.760 meaning 38% of the next generation has never seen a functioning marriage.
00:00:54.640 Average child, first child is before the average age of first marriage.
00:00:58.400 So their first kid, 26, first marriage, 30.
00:01:01.820 Half of marriages will end in divorce.
00:01:04.000 Average number of partners for a woman is between four and eight.
00:01:08.200 And that's self-reported.
00:01:10.660 So, you know, take that with a grain of salt.
00:01:12.380 But women have a 20% chance of being in a happy marriage if they have slept with more than five people.
00:01:17.100 So, yeah.
00:01:19.720 And if men get divorced, they can be financially ruined and their kids can be taken from them.
00:01:25.620 70% of women are overweight.
00:01:27.300 So basically there's a lot riding on them picking the right woman.
00:01:30.000 So I'm trying to give them a foolproof plan.
00:01:33.040 That makes sense.
00:01:33.640 There's a book that I read called Sex at Dawn.
00:01:36.500 And in this book they were making a case basically for polyamory and polyamorous relationships,
00:01:42.700 which I don't resonate with personally.
00:01:44.600 But I was trying to convince myself because everyone else seems to think that's a good idea except for me.
00:01:48.520 So I thought, well, I've got to read this book.
00:01:49.660 But at the end of the book they had a very interesting fact about the olfactory sense, right?
00:01:54.940 Your nose.
00:01:55.560 Like actually we sniff each other out.
00:01:57.780 A woman can tell if a man will complement her differences genetically.
00:02:03.580 I've heard that, yeah.
00:02:04.780 But a woman actually can't if she's taking birth control.
00:02:08.120 Oh.
00:02:08.960 It's disabled.
00:02:10.020 But a man can actually sniff her out.
00:02:12.660 He can genetically identify through his olfactory sense, through his nose, whether or not she'll complement his genetic weaknesses.
00:02:21.140 So how does he know?
00:02:22.080 What does he have to smell for?
00:02:23.260 I don't know.
00:02:23.860 That's a good question.
00:02:24.840 I wish I knew.
00:02:26.080 But apparently it's like a deep, very primal thing about this attraction.
00:02:29.860 So maybe make sure she's not on birth control.
00:02:32.020 Yes.
00:02:32.380 Right?
00:02:32.800 For example.
00:02:33.920 Not on birth control.
00:02:35.880 I think that works both ways.
00:02:37.200 I wonder what percent.
00:02:38.740 Hold on.
00:02:39.260 I just want to look up because I'm curious.
00:02:41.120 What percent of women are on birth control?
00:02:45.660 Also, who here is on birth control?
00:02:47.320 Raise your hand.
00:02:48.320 No one?
00:02:48.760 Not anymore.
00:02:49.880 I mean, clearly one out of three are having abortions.
00:02:52.140 I'm like, it can't be that high.
00:02:55.160 The majority.
00:02:57.500 Oh, 90% of women have used contraceptives throughout their reproductive years and have used more than one in their lifetime.
00:03:05.560 76%.
00:03:06.540 Wow.
00:03:07.760 Okay.
00:03:08.360 We just have a good room, I guess.
00:03:09.580 I'm going to add that to my stats.
00:03:11.700 Okay.
00:03:13.380 Sorry.
00:03:13.920 Can I just add one more thing that came to my mind?
00:03:17.160 Ask her about the family.
00:03:18.860 You know, sometimes I do understand that not all of the parents can stay together.
00:03:23.140 Of course, there are special situations.
00:03:26.380 But just see how she talks about her family.
00:03:29.940 What is her relationship like with her family?
00:03:32.260 And her dad, too.
00:03:33.680 I don't agree with her dad.
00:03:34.920 Nah.
00:03:35.140 I don't believe in that.
00:03:36.560 So, if a girl, even if a girl is not on good terms with her dad, but she disrespects him by talking trash to a guy, that's not a girl that you should marry.
00:03:46.560 Honestly.
00:03:46.960 And if I don't think you can disagree with this, because there's no...
00:03:52.820 But even if you haven't got a great relationship with your father's absent, it doesn't mean that the woman is going to be a wreck.
00:04:00.520 It's not necessarily true.
00:04:01.660 I'm saying that by saying she shouldn't trash him.
00:04:04.240 Well, yeah, but why do we have the phrase daddy issues if it doesn't mean anything?
00:04:08.840 But most people...
00:04:09.740 Well, not...
00:04:10.000 Okay.
00:04:10.900 A lot of people that have daddy issues, and we don't know who they are.
00:04:13.660 I'm one of them, but I'm not a disrespectful person to men.
00:04:16.180 Like, I'm not.
00:04:16.880 Well, yeah, we're not talking about you, but in general, like...
00:04:19.860 It's your dad, no matter what.
00:04:21.380 Like, I think if you've never seen a healthy relationship, how would you know how to do it?
00:04:25.700 Exactly.
00:04:26.320 Like, if I've never seen anyone ride a bike, how would I learn to ride a bike?
00:04:29.300 I feel like it's common sense.
00:04:30.880 I feel like it's, like, morality.
00:04:33.080 If it was common, then why do half of relationships end in divorce?
00:04:36.940 And why is the older generation known for being so unhappy in their marriages?
00:04:40.680 Because men pick women based off the surface.
00:04:43.760 They don't actually get to find a deeper meaning to why...
00:04:47.020 If women swipe right on dating apps, which is the most superficial, only 5% of the time,
00:04:51.120 and men swipe right 50% of the time, who's more superficial?
00:04:53.920 Men or women?
00:04:55.000 Women.
00:04:55.740 But most women are hoes.
00:04:57.260 For real.
00:04:57.820 No, for real, for real.
00:04:58.560 They are.
00:04:59.400 No, that's incorrect.
00:05:01.880 One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:05:03.960 I feel like a lot of women sleep around.
00:05:05.720 One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:05:08.920 Wow.
00:05:09.700 I think a lot of women sleep around and...
00:05:11.820 So, I'll tell you.
00:05:12.480 Yeah, a lot of women do sleep around.
00:05:14.100 I do think that.
00:05:15.640 So, what?
00:05:16.140 So, you're saying we're the same set of men?
00:05:16.940 Yeah, so it's like 20% of men are fucking all the girls, essentially, in their 20s.
00:05:20.760 And then when women hit 30, they'll expand it.
00:05:23.280 Like, basically, like, women typically go for looks in their 20s.
00:05:26.800 Women pick...
00:05:27.480 Like, when women...
00:05:27.960 This is the first time in history where women have been the sexual selectors.
00:05:32.040 So, like, pick...
00:05:32.740 Historically, think about it.
00:05:33.760 You had to get along with the dude or you die.
00:05:35.980 Yeah.
00:05:36.080 Like, they would pick you.
00:05:37.240 You wouldn't pick them.
00:05:38.020 But now, this is the first time where women have been 100% in control of reproduction because
00:05:42.440 we have birth control.
00:05:43.340 We're in control of abortion.
00:05:44.740 So, we are 100% in control of who's born.
00:05:46.980 And it's funny because the more freedom women get, the more we screw the same people in our
00:05:51.140 prime, which is, like, 22 to 24.
00:05:53.340 They surveyed men between, like, 20 and 80.
00:05:55.560 And they said, when do you find women most attractive?
00:05:57.520 It's, like, roughly 22 to 24.
00:05:59.180 All the ages think that.
00:06:00.800 So, when women have the most choice, it's interesting because we pick non-monogamy.
00:06:05.860 And we tend to go for looks.
00:06:08.900 And women react out of emotion.
00:06:10.540 Yeah.
00:06:10.800 Solely out of emotion a lot of the time.
00:06:12.500 Right.
00:06:12.600 Which is why you see so many women sleeping with so many men.
00:06:15.540 Mm-hmm.
00:06:16.380 And making decisions on the spot that aren't responsible, like abortion.
00:06:20.180 Yeah.
00:06:20.400 So, if the majority of women are going for men that's not monogamous, then why do they
00:06:23.960 fight for a man to be monogamous?
00:06:26.480 I mean, I think they want him to be, but...
00:06:28.320 So, they want to change the man, basically.
00:06:30.300 They see a man...
00:06:30.960 They want to say...
00:06:31.840 They're going for the top 20% or whatever, which they know is...
00:06:35.860 They can tell that he gets a lot of girls or whatever.
00:06:37.660 Yeah.
00:06:38.560 So, they want to try and lock down that one man, so you don't...
00:06:41.060 Yeah.
00:06:41.640 Okay.
00:06:42.140 I mean, I think that's like every girl's, you know...
00:06:44.780 A dream.
00:06:45.160 Has a...
00:06:45.640 You know, what Cinderella was sitting at home and the prince like came and picked her out
00:06:50.440 of all the princesses.
00:06:51.180 Exactly.
00:06:51.840 They want to say, I was the one who changed him.
00:06:54.580 They've been selling us this dream forever.
00:06:56.560 Exactly.
00:06:58.060 Exactly.
00:07:00.280 So, what do you think of that?
00:07:01.900 Does that change your perspective a little bit?
00:07:03.460 Um...
00:07:04.460 Not really...
00:07:06.360 Kind of.
00:07:06.740 Not really.
00:07:07.240 No.
00:07:07.560 Okay.
00:07:07.760 Why...
00:07:08.120 What does it not change?
00:07:09.600 I just still think that men are looking for things they don't have themselves.
00:07:16.740 They don't have the minerals for the things that they want in the women, so they just pick
00:07:19.800 women based off looks.
00:07:21.100 They don't know what they want anyway.
00:07:22.320 They think they know what they want, but they haven't even got the minerals anyway.
00:07:25.440 Is it possible that women don't have what they want?
00:07:28.360 Absolutely.
00:07:29.200 Right.
00:07:29.840 Absolutely.
00:07:30.160 So, how would they pick it if the dating pool has, like, one out of every three women's
00:07:33.760 had an abortion, one out of every three women has an STD, like, 38, 40% grew up without
00:07:40.000 a dad, so they don't have that model.
00:07:41.560 Like, how would they...
00:07:43.120 Where...
00:07:43.560 How would they know?
00:07:44.400 Yeah.
00:07:44.660 Who a good woman is?
00:07:45.840 Yeah.
00:07:46.060 Like, they've never...
00:07:47.080 Like, what percent of men have, like, even seen a true traditional woman?
00:07:50.380 I don't think...
00:07:50.920 Yeah.
00:07:51.680 Do you know any women with, like, recipe books?
00:07:53.540 Only the high...
00:07:56.140 Only celebrities.
00:07:57.340 Nice.
00:07:57.620 Nice, too.
00:07:58.440 But only, like, the upper-class, high-celebrity profile people.
00:08:01.960 Yeah.
00:08:02.400 And these two now.
00:08:03.600 Okay.
00:08:04.040 My whole...
00:08:04.960 And my whole family.
00:08:06.420 And then when I go there, they're like, oh, so modern, you know?
00:08:10.240 Everyone still cooks the same meals and...
00:08:13.300 But, so I'm just curious.
00:08:15.660 Like, when you're hearing these stats, like, assuming I'm telling you the truth, you don't
00:08:19.560 think, like, it puts more of the promiscuity on women because we're only sleeping
00:08:23.500 with 20% of men.
00:08:25.520 So, like, that means 80% of us are sleeping with 20% of men.
00:08:29.380 Wow.
00:08:32.400 That's techy.
00:08:33.700 Like, okay, I'll give you an example.
00:08:35.080 How tall was your last boyfriend?
00:08:37.680 6'1".
00:08:38.400 Okay.
00:08:38.880 What percent of men do you think are 6'1"?
00:08:40.660 Maybe, like...
00:08:44.720 It's not...
00:08:45.940 30%?
00:08:47.660 10%.
00:08:48.160 10%.
00:08:49.020 So, you had a top...
00:08:51.640 How much money did he make?
00:08:53.460 Well, he had his own houses and a business.
00:08:55.560 He sells cars.
00:08:56.340 Okay.
00:08:57.160 So, roughly, how much do you think he made?
00:09:00.200 I didn't...
00:09:01.020 She don't know that.
00:09:01.780 Yeah, I'm not one to...
00:09:03.220 The man ain't telling you that.
00:09:04.320 Yeah.
00:09:05.080 But he owned a house.
00:09:05.720 I know about his business and, you know, and...
00:09:07.800 I don't know the figures.
00:09:09.540 In London?
00:09:10.460 In Essex.
00:09:11.340 In Essex.
00:09:12.020 Yeah.
00:09:12.600 Okay.
00:09:13.020 So, if he owned a house, he probably made at least, like, 60, 70, I guess.
00:09:17.340 Who knows?
00:09:17.660 He had a nice range.
00:09:18.520 Okay.
00:09:18.860 So, he's probably...
00:09:20.320 I'm guessing, right?
00:09:21.220 I don't actually know.
00:09:22.340 You guys would know London prices more than me.
00:09:24.460 But he's probably still top 20% of income.
00:09:26.820 Probably, because buying a house in Essex is cheap.
00:09:29.680 Yeah.
00:09:30.220 Okay.
00:09:30.720 So, top 20%.
00:09:31.760 So, you had a guy top 10% height, top 20% income.
00:09:35.520 Was he attractive?
00:09:36.620 Was he good looking?
00:09:37.160 Yeah, he was.
00:09:37.720 Yeah.
00:09:38.040 So, in women...
00:09:39.040 So, you know, women, we find 80% of men is ugly.
00:09:42.360 So, if you find him attractive, that means he's top 20%.
00:09:45.140 Right.
00:09:45.640 You should call him.
00:09:46.760 Is he still single?
00:09:47.320 No, he's been trying to hulher at me, to be honest.
00:09:49.100 I'm going to have to block him.
00:09:50.880 So, why not...
00:09:52.420 Because he's not the one for me.
00:09:54.140 What is the one?
00:09:55.320 So, it seems like he has a good job.
00:09:56.740 He's not the one for me.
00:09:57.520 He's attractive and tall.
00:09:58.700 It doesn't matter.
00:09:59.300 His personal...
00:09:59.940 I think that's the daddy issue.
00:10:01.040 No, no, no, it's not.
00:10:02.280 I'm very smart, trust me.
00:10:03.400 Like, he was wearing a mask when we first met.
00:10:06.120 And then his true colors came out.
00:10:07.580 And I saw in certain behaviors that he was portraying.
00:10:10.240 What true colors?
00:10:11.440 So, like, you know, he was very aggressive sometimes.
00:10:14.700 And he...
00:10:15.480 I felt like his moral...
00:10:16.760 What do you mean aggressive?
00:10:17.640 Did he hit you?
00:10:19.180 No, he didn't hit me, no.
00:10:20.540 Okay, so he didn't hit you.
00:10:21.140 Well, he pushed me.
00:10:22.420 He shoved me very hard.
00:10:23.840 And it was for a very pathetic reason.
00:10:25.720 And he's a liar.
00:10:26.460 Did you shove him at all?
00:10:27.600 No.
00:10:27.860 Or he was just one-sided?
00:10:28.780 No, I don't like to be aggressive.
00:10:29.780 I don't believe in that shit no more.
00:10:31.140 I've grown up, you know?
00:10:32.080 Okay, so he shoved you one time and then you died.
00:10:34.080 Yeah, and it was very...
00:10:35.080 And it was petty.
00:10:35.720 And he lied at the time as well.
00:10:36.880 And I knew he was lying about picking up his kids when he wasn't...
00:10:40.260 He changed his story.
00:10:41.820 Like, I'm very observant when people speak.
00:10:43.020 He lied about picking up his kids?
00:10:44.340 So, I spent a couple days with him.
00:10:45.940 And I was supposed to say the last day.
00:10:47.600 And all of a sudden, he's got to go and pick up his kids.
00:10:49.920 But you're lying.
00:10:51.140 And so, it's like, you're making me feel like you don't want me to stay anymore.
00:10:55.060 So, and then that happened, then we broke up, and now he wants me back.
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