JustPearlyThings - July 27, 2023


Woman Does The Unthinkable On Pearl's Show

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Jesus Christ
Modern Women Don't Understand The Concept Of MARRIAGE Modern Man Claimed to be FAITHFUL

Episode Stats


Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

181.17

Word count

2,068

Sentence count

—

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

sentences flagged

Toxicity

3

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, we talk about divorce and what it means to be in a bad situation and how to deal with it. We also talk about why it s better to separate than stay in the same situation and what to look out for in a marriage.

Transcript

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00:00:00.720 why would you not put time into the outcome that you would prefer
00:00:05.120 because at the end of the day a relationship is not going to last longer than my career
00:00:09.920 right now so i don't want to like i've put time and energy into relationships about a marriage
00:00:13.920 no in a marriage but i want to be solidified your husband i could you know you could meet
00:00:18.800 your husband that could last 50 years that's longer than any career but let's be serious who's
00:00:23.280 who's doing that now it's very unlikely it's based on what though like just looking at your
00:00:30.720 parents no i mean like what what what are the outcomes of your relationships based on
00:00:36.720 who determines the outcomes of your relationships like yeah you'll set yourself and that yeah it's
00:00:41.760 like an equal party you know what percent chance are you do you have a college degree uh university
00:00:47.120 yeah did you know are you are you in it or no no okay what percent chance do you think you have
00:00:52.560 of being left if you got married left yeah like he would leave he would divorce you
00:00:58.160 i have no idea 20 percent women leave 80 percent of the time roughly roughly is does that not say
00:01:05.200 something about how men are in marriages there i think it says something about women we're quitters
00:01:10.400 i don't think we're quitters like at what point is it enough because it's like would you like why
00:01:16.320 keep yourself in a bad situation that's just like excruciating like it's like having a bad friend
00:01:20.720 like if your friend is just like a complete awesome not giving you weight people accept more
00:01:24.640 from their friends who they know for years than their like boyfriend you know do you know what i
00:01:28.640 can think of a really good reason children okay kids yeah because okay when kids are involved it's
00:01:35.120 a bit different assuming it's not abuse or assuming it's not abuse or cheating right is there what what
00:01:40.640 good reason would there be to leave but you're not you're not contributing anything to the woman's life
00:01:45.920 like you're just there if what if he has a job right most most guys are working somewhere he's
00:01:51.920 contributing in the second income so then you're like great roommates and but it's like okay you can
00:01:56.880 have a roommate what about what about protection from what the crackheads down the street it's like
00:02:05.120 i've been living this to crackers my whole life i haven't had a man come to fed me for but it's like
00:02:09.120 this whole thing about like protection i'm like what like but i could hear it in your voice you
00:02:14.240 really don't see any value like it doesn't seem like you you see the value of like just having a
00:02:18.800 man around i don't think like direction leadership um but in certain areas i think men can teach you
00:02:26.400 certain things and it's nice but again because i'm young i haven't experienced every man in this world so
00:02:31.440 i can't like say for sure but it's just if you're just wasting time i don't see why stay in a bad situation
00:02:37.600 are your parents still together no no who did you who did you stay with your mom or your dad well
00:02:43.120 yeah my mom because my dad's in the states in this oh okay when did they get divorced they weren't
00:02:48.000 married oh they were never married yeah that says something no because i've just it's just a thing of
00:02:53.520 like but i've seen their relationship and that's why i have a certain outlook outlook on how things are
00:03:00.800 and i'm just like do you think your childhood would have been easier if they were together 100 and i
00:03:06.560 tell them all the time i'm like you guys every time they fight because they still fight to this
00:03:09.920 day i'm like guys you're grown adults like let's be so serious now mom you could have done this because
00:03:15.600 i even like i agree with you there's certain things that women do and like sometimes you know they do 1.00
00:03:19.760 play victim and i'm like you need to say responsibility you did this thing wrong that is why dad reacted in
00:03:24.880 this way dad you did this that's why mom added that why like there's a lot of issues that can be solved
00:03:31.920 in marriages but one person when it's like the stubbornness and so it's just like do you even
00:03:36.800 want to be happy it's like it's so interesting because it's like you see the value that you would
00:03:42.240 have had if you had both parents in the house about happy parents there's no that i would have hated to
00:03:47.040 be in a household where the way my mom and dad shout on the phone if that was in real life
00:03:53.200 bruh that would have been the hell most people like who i think like who have parents who have done
00:03:58.480 divorce it is better separated than just fighting in the household do you think it's a better plan
00:04:03.840 to just figure out how to get along do you think that's a choice if you can try but if you've tried
00:04:08.080 multiple times and again you're not seeing a result then how many times like then you're not you're not
00:04:14.240 choosing to have the the piece that you want because how are you trying if if it's not working do you
00:04:22.560 get like if you if both if you genuinely want peace and you're trying it should work like okay if me and
00:04:29.040 you were living together right and we were arguing every day it's a choice to argue back yeah someone
00:04:34.480 can't argue if you're not if you're saying like responding you know what sweetie you're right like
00:04:38.960 you know it's like it like sometimes i feel like if people just got married and just stayed married
00:04:46.160 thick and thin other than divorce adultery and what's the third addiction that's it you don't
00:04:53.360 think like i feel like people wouldn't have as bad of fights because they would know there's no getting
00:04:58.000 out of this i mean that's what marriage should be it's supposed to be but unfortunately marriage has
00:05:03.120 been misconstrued in the new age and it's like do we even know what proper marriage is supposed to look
00:05:09.920 like anymore i don't think and i feel like self-awareness is really important because if you're not
00:05:15.120 aware of how you could react if someone says something if you like then things would be so
00:05:21.600 much easier like if you know that you can control yourself in certain situations with your partner
00:05:26.160 or your husband being in the room it would be so much easier do you think it's important to have
00:05:30.800 examples of married couples you can look up to 100 every all the romantic guys i've met who are my
00:05:36.880 friends their parents are married and i'm like when i hear them talk about their parents like why don't
00:05:41.680 you date them the romantic guys that are your friends because they're because they're my friends
00:05:45.280 that's i'm not i'm physically attracted to them and it's it's annoying because you're not you're not
00:05:49.520 physically attracted to them no because i'm like i love you so much as a person but like i just can't
00:05:54.400 i wouldn't be able to go there with you that makes me feel like you're the one yeah but it's like your
00:05:57.840 your friends like having friends like that is great because like you know your friends will always be
00:06:01.360 there for you and i probably like if you have great friends i think they won't they won't well be
00:06:06.640 there yeah that's good just wait the guys wait till they get a girlfriend poof that they genuinely love
00:06:17.600 that they genuinely love yeah i mean when you it's like your age and you're in school yeah men and women
00:06:23.360 can be friends a bit but it's like honestly when people start getting into serious relationships that
00:06:29.120 the guys are going to go away they're not really your friends i mean call them right now ask them
00:06:32.960 to sleep with you see what they say yeah they will definitely say it will no do it do it i could not
00:06:38.640 call that one because you know they'd say what no would they say yes or no i it depends which one
00:06:44.640 i called what what out of how many how many because you know which one's kind of how many guy friends
00:06:50.080 do you have um a few like a few two five no more well it depends because like friend friend or like
00:06:58.400 because that's what industry friend friend friend like
00:07:04.400 i would say like four or five four okay let's let's take five out of the five how many do you
00:07:08.560 think would sleep with you undoubtedly one one can you call one of the four now and ask that would be
00:07:17.280 so awkward come on you could it's on stream so you could you could send it to them after and just say
00:07:22.400 that i said to do it you could send it to them after and you know you know it'll be cool like you could
00:07:27.920 show them this you big youtuber bullied me into doing it oh my god if i did and so just say just
00:07:35.360 say hey can i text them or do i have to because they're probably see if they want to like do something
00:07:41.840 tonight see if they want to do something right gosh that's crazy sorry what do you pay your time
00:07:50.240 mm-hmm uh a couple years
00:07:55.840 wait what should i even text them um say guys put in the chat what she should text them yeah
00:08:01.760 um say
00:08:09.120 you should call them call them and say
00:08:14.560 where do you live do you live by yourself you live with my mom with your mom that's why i get
00:08:19.440 caught look so hard i'm moving out there you should say you should say your mom's not home
00:08:23.520 i'm a little tipsy do you want to have some fun
00:08:32.560 probably be like what and then they're going to think you're kidding and you have to be like no
00:08:35.680 no i'm serious like did us or why haven't we ever dated something like that okay phone speaker
00:08:42.240 phone speaker jesus christ i don't even know you'll pick up
00:08:53.520 hey adrian um hey um i'm basically like gonna be home alone later did you want to come over
00:09:11.840 i mean i would i would love to but i actually got things to do on a cart now
00:09:18.000 really tomorrow are you busy tomorrow tomorrow is saturday yes yes no i can link up with you tomorrow
00:09:27.920 but like link up link up
00:09:36.320 no like like back in the day
00:09:38.560 no not like that
00:09:44.400 but how come
00:09:48.640 why why
00:09:57.360 is it because we're friends
00:10:00.720 it's because we're friends
00:10:02.800 how do you do
00:10:03.280 but you don't want to do anything with me
00:10:09.440 or you do
00:10:10.880 how how am i going to do anything with you
00:10:13.920 if it's like i want to
00:10:18.720 but i want to
00:10:24.160 okay all right thank you 0.98
00:10:26.720 but if if you win the new car you're going to do something that's friends and shit 0.96
00:10:31.280 okay 0.98
00:10:31.600 100%
00:10:32.560 oh okay
00:10:33.120 100% i'll be more than happy to go out with you any other time
00:10:37.040 okay
00:10:37.440 whatever you want
00:10:38.160 i appreciate you
00:10:40.480 yeah i appreciate you but i agree
00:10:42.080 oh all right well go enjoy your evening
00:10:46.320 all right bye
00:10:48.160 take care bye
00:10:48.960 yeah see i told you
00:10:51.200 that's the first one we've ever had
00:10:53.120 my friends are good i have good guys but people don't believe me like i know
00:10:57.600 i know
00:10:59.280 that's what i'm saying like
00:11:00.160 that's so good
00:11:00.880 yeah when you oh my god i walked in at the right time
00:11:04.320 i need to even be like what does the chat say what does the chat say
00:11:07.120 oh they can't what they can't believe it's about what a mandy clyde said that did you know
00:11:12.560 you're coming on or no no no no no no okay i want to see
00:11:16.960 i've been thinking let's go because otherwise he would have been like oh how
00:11:19.920 he curved her so hard you can send her you can send him the stream if you want