JustPearlyThings - March 17, 2023


Woman Embarrasses Herself In 4K


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

212.56696

Word Count

2,553

Sentence Count

251

Misogynist Sentences

28

Hate Speech Sentences

16


Summary

In this episode, I sit down with my friend Tully to talk about what it means to be a woman in today's society and why men don't care as much as they used to. We also talk about why men care more about money than they do about women.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Let's get to, um, let's do 1-11-25, Tully, you see that?
00:00:05.460 In that same block?
00:00:06.580 Yeah, I got you.
00:00:07.280 Okay.
00:00:09.820 Generally speaking, do you think dudes care about ambition and financial success in a woman?
00:00:14.760 Do you think they find that attractive?
00:00:16.440 Yes.
00:00:17.280 Okay.
00:00:17.880 Do you think it's, like, a high priority for men?
00:00:24.540 Um, probably less successful than, like, them, but, like, still successful.
00:00:29.520 Okay.
00:00:30.700 Um, I think that, I mean, I get, okay, we're generalizing, so I'm not going to say depends.
00:00:37.480 I mean, it seems as if in today's society, things are kind of shifting.
00:00:42.260 It's kind of going from, like, oh, the man provides all the money to, I feel like it's
00:00:46.240 kind of getting a little bit closer to being equal.
00:00:48.680 I mean, I would hope.
00:00:50.840 So, I would say, yes, they do value that, because, obviously, you want an ambitious woman.
00:00:55.760 You want a woman that can stand her own.
00:00:57.860 Let's stop at last.
00:00:59.060 The both of us need a barf bag.
00:01:00.380 Um, so, this is the delusion, right?
00:01:03.460 Like, and I, this is something that I even had internalized for so much of my life, that,
00:01:08.480 like, being this independent woman was going to be valued in some way.
00:01:12.320 And it's really hard for women to absorb, that guys just don't care.
00:01:15.920 They don't care at all.
00:01:17.220 I will, I will say, okay, if a guy does care, he doesn't have a job.
00:01:22.900 Yeah.
00:01:23.540 He's looking to lean on you.
00:01:24.820 He's looking to live off of you, girl.
00:01:27.340 He's got, he might say he's got a job.
00:01:29.480 He don't, he don't.
00:01:30.660 The only other time I've heard a guy say that he cares is because, um, he felt like because
00:01:37.300 he was so successful, it's better to have a girl that has something to lose.
00:01:41.440 So, like, she couldn't go on the internet and, like, da-da-da-da-da, or she couldn't.
00:01:45.860 So, but that's not being attracted to it.
00:01:48.020 It's just, like, guys are risk versus reward.
00:01:50.300 Right.
00:01:50.580 You know, so they're like, how can I mitigate this risk?
00:01:53.140 Right.
00:01:53.360 How can I, but it's not like, oh, her job, like, Oprah's so hot.
00:01:57.540 Right.
00:01:57.860 You know, they don't care.
00:01:59.020 They're like, butt, boobs, skinny, yes.
00:02:01.680 Yeah.
00:02:02.140 What do you make of the equality statement about, like, her saying, oh, you know, I think,
00:02:07.740 you know, equality is, is, is hip now.
00:02:10.080 And, like, I would hope guys would want this because there's equality.
00:02:13.420 I feel like this, this desire that women have for, like, select, what I call selective equality.
00:02:19.020 It's like they want, they want things to be equal when it's convenient.
00:02:21.400 And then when it's not convenient, they want the upper hand.
00:02:24.300 And there's, like, a lack of self-awareness in that area.
00:02:26.660 We just want to live in la-la land and just do anything and have no consequences forever.
00:02:32.640 But it's not too much to ask.
00:02:35.360 It's like equality till the check comes.
00:02:36.800 Yeah.
00:02:37.000 Or at the restaurant, equality till, you know, you're walking down a dark alley and someone's
00:02:41.300 got to beat that guy up.
00:02:42.480 You're not jumping in with your boxing gloves, honey.
00:02:44.360 Oh, no.
00:02:44.920 You know, you're hiding behind some guy.
00:02:47.120 Oh, no.
00:02:47.540 So it's interesting because, you know, and I think what, what's been really fascinating
00:02:53.400 for me going through this journey, and you've been obviously been in this space longer than
00:02:57.020 I have, but just not only do you notice, like, a lack of self-awareness in women, but you
00:03:02.240 acknowledge a lack of self-awareness in yourself to some level.
00:03:05.840 Oh, yeah.
00:03:06.520 It's like a self-analysis.
00:03:07.780 I didn't say, I'm not special.
00:03:08.840 Right?
00:03:09.320 I'm not a unicorn.
00:03:10.280 Stop simping in the chat.
00:03:11.420 I'm not special.
00:03:14.740 I saw you say something the other day about the chat, how you didn't, you didn't want
00:03:17.380 to get a check mark, and they keep throwing you out of the chat.
00:03:19.220 Is that, did you say something?
00:03:20.280 Yes, because I don't, okay, I don't know how to get a check mark on YouTube or Instagram
00:03:24.340 or Twitter.
00:03:25.080 Oh, I think Twitter, you pay eight bucks a month.
00:03:27.000 Sorry, Elon Cook.
00:03:28.400 And, and I just don't care.
00:03:30.880 So I keep doing it in chats, and they're like, get rid of this fake, just pearly things
00:03:36.040 account.
00:03:36.240 And I'm like, it's me, it's me, you've got one million subs, and they're like, they think
00:03:41.500 you're an imposter, just pearly.
00:03:44.020 I love it.
00:03:44.640 Yeah, Coach Greg Adams threw me out the other day, or his, his mods, they blocked me.
00:03:48.760 I was like, I'm blocked?
00:03:50.280 And it wasn't just a temp, it was like a lifetime block.
00:03:53.520 Oh, man.
00:03:54.180 I was like.
00:03:54.740 You got to get your check mark, so everybody knows it's you.
00:03:56.720 I don't know how to get it, but I just don't care enough to figure it out.
00:04:00.060 I love that you have a million subs, and you don't care enough to get the check mark.
00:04:03.840 That's like, that makes me like you more.
00:04:06.660 You know what's funny?
00:04:07.560 I didn't even get my 100K plaque.
00:04:09.600 I was like, they can see it on my YouTube channel.
00:04:12.080 Like, why would I get it?
00:04:13.300 Like a plaque?
00:04:14.020 I didn't know that.
00:04:14.640 Yeah.
00:04:15.060 Oh, you know I'm going to get mine, Deli.
00:04:16.480 Yeah.
00:04:17.000 You know it.
00:04:17.520 I guess, I guess I get one on a million too, but I'm like, I mean.
00:04:21.320 You know what, you get, girlfriend, you get your million plaque.
00:04:23.400 That's like an Emmy.
00:04:24.400 You get that, and you display it.
00:04:25.980 Maybe I'll get it.
00:04:26.300 Maybe I'll get it.
00:04:26.940 You display it like an Oscar.
00:04:28.660 All right, we have one more from this, and then I want to go to the chat.
00:04:32.640 So let's go to 242.35, and then I'm going to go to chat, and then we're going to get
00:04:37.360 to the fat shaming tweet.
00:04:40.040 It's awesome.
00:04:40.900 Okay.
00:04:43.020 I want to add a little bit to this.
00:04:45.100 I don't think we're trying to say that men don't have struggles, but I think the problem
00:04:49.580 is that women also have struggles, and those struggles need to be taken as seriously as
00:04:53.900 men's struggles.
00:04:54.740 Well, yeah, of course.
00:04:56.700 In society, it just sucks that as women, our struggles aren't taken as seriously.
00:05:02.300 And a lot has changed, but it's still not.
00:05:04.500 We just need a freeze frame.
00:05:06.160 Let's pause that.
00:05:06.840 If somebody just has a freeze frame on my face and yours in the reaction, it was like,
00:05:11.140 how do you say that women, how do you verbalize as a female that women's struggles are not
00:05:17.480 taken as seriously as men's in 2023?
00:05:20.640 Oh my, all we hear about is women's struggles.
00:05:24.480 Oh my, like we have march.
00:05:26.040 Every time women whine, there's a march.
00:05:28.380 There's a slut march.
00:05:29.560 There's a, who do you think, all the teachers, this is more political, but all the teachers
00:05:35.580 that were marching, it's not the men, it's the women.
00:05:37.980 We just march and they're like, listen to us, our problems, blah, blah, blah.
00:05:42.900 Because they're talking about things that don't exist, like the pay gap.
00:05:45.860 They're talking about, well, they're talking about abortion.
00:05:48.260 Oh, that was the other one.
00:05:49.340 They love to talk about abortion as if it's not another living thing growing inside a woman's
00:05:53.900 body.
00:05:54.200 They love to dismiss that.
00:05:55.080 Yeah, we're going to get to some politics at the end.
00:05:56.420 I'm going to suck you in in some way.
00:05:58.140 But that's the brainwashing, though.
00:06:00.620 Because they've been told, the reality is that these women have been told that women's
00:06:05.460 issues aren't taken as seriously.
00:06:06.980 And rather than take a minute to actually think about it and say, well, wait, like what
00:06:11.400 you just said, there's a women's march.
00:06:13.080 There's a, there's a, you don't have, where's the men's march?
00:06:15.320 If there was a men's march, by the way, there would be massive societal outrage.
00:06:20.340 It would be like, oh my God, what, why are these men doing this?
00:06:23.900 This is so misogynistic.
00:06:25.640 It would be the end.
00:06:26.640 I bet you never heard of men's rights activists.
00:06:29.020 Like, I mean, I hadn't before I'd been in this space.
00:06:31.840 It's like, oh, whining, whining.
00:06:35.300 Poor me.
00:06:36.460 Boo, freaking who.
00:06:37.420 I'm a woman.
00:06:39.200 It's unbelievable.
00:06:39.700 And it's what's interesting to me about it is that in the same breath as it's the boo-hoo,
00:06:43.540 it's like, oh my God, I'm this, I'm that, but I'm also an empowered, independent woman
00:06:48.460 who doesn't need a man.
00:06:49.540 How do you reconcile?
00:06:51.240 I'm an empowered, independent woman who doesn't need a man and I'm going to whine all the time.
00:06:55.140 Everything is, the world is against me.
00:06:56.980 Everyone's against me.
00:06:58.020 Somebody help me.
00:06:58.920 It's just, it's like, pick one, honey.
00:07:01.440 Yeah.
00:07:01.860 Yeah.
00:07:02.260 And the half the time these empowered, independent women make $35,000 a year at Tesco.
00:07:08.160 So it's just like, are you empowered?
00:07:11.660 Yeah, that's, I see, we had a conversation about that last time, but the CEOs, you were
00:07:16.760 like, there aren't that many CEOs, Judd.
00:07:18.360 No, it's a small percentage.
00:07:19.720 It's a small percentage.
00:07:20.620 So most girls are just average chicks saying they're boss babes.
00:07:26.180 Boss babe at McDonald's.
00:07:27.860 All right, let's move to the chat.
00:07:28.960 I work in human resources.
00:07:30.140 What does that even mean half the time?
00:07:31.860 What do these people do?
00:07:32.880 Every human resource person I meet, I'm like, what do you do?
00:07:35.320 Did you see a Twitter when Elon fired all the people doing nothing?
00:07:38.840 It was mostly the women.
00:07:39.660 Yeah, and if they did stay there Asian, come on.
00:07:44.520 Did you see the picture where it was like all the people left and it was all guys?
00:07:48.060 It was a room full of guys?
00:07:48.860 Yeah, it was, no, it was one or two Indian chicks and my dad owns a software company.
00:07:52.960 I'm like, that is on point.
00:07:53.980 Oh, is that what he does?
00:07:54.840 Yeah, yeah.
00:07:55.800 And so it's, it's like if he does have women work for him, they typically are more Asian.
00:08:00.700 They just, they just work hard in that culture in India.
00:08:02.980 They do.
00:08:03.360 Yeah.
00:08:03.640 They do work hard.
00:08:04.140 I have a lot of respect for that culture.
00:08:06.140 Hard work.
00:08:06.740 Yeah.
00:08:07.520 Okay.
00:08:07.780 Let's get to the chat.
00:08:08.600 Do we have a bunch?
00:08:09.140 Yeah.
00:08:09.740 Okay, let's do them.
00:08:10.620 The first question is for Pearl.
00:08:12.700 Pearl was a Muslim lady crazier than they actually showed her to be.
00:08:15.620 She claims they made her out to look crazy.
00:08:17.880 Jed, I wish you were on that panel.
00:08:19.240 Wait, what Muslim lady?
00:08:20.960 I'm assuming she's talking about the panel.
00:08:22.960 Was there a Muslim chick?
00:08:23.600 Oh, on the vice panel.
00:08:25.160 Who was Muslim?
00:08:26.160 I didn't see anyone with the, was it the, it might have been the woman on the bottom
00:08:29.260 left they're talking about, but I'm not 100% sure.
00:08:32.120 I thought she said something about culture related to, I could be wrong though.
00:08:38.000 Okay.
00:08:38.240 I'll tell you one thing.
00:08:39.220 They did the libs a service.
00:08:41.300 I promise to God they were 10 times crazier in person.
00:08:44.720 I heard that everybody's asking for the full video footage to be released.
00:08:47.920 I hope they do.
00:08:49.280 I hope they release all of it.
00:08:51.620 I have no qualms with that.
00:08:53.980 And they're saying you were crazy and you're saying they were crazy.
00:08:56.520 So everybody, let's, the only solution, but there's a reason why aren't they really,
00:08:59.560 see, you couldn't have been, the conservatives couldn't have been crazier because then they
00:09:04.080 would have released the footage.
00:09:05.020 It's got to be the other side that they got to protect.
00:09:08.160 Look at it.
00:09:08.920 I mean, I would say the footage, they actually did an okay job of showing both sides.
00:09:14.620 My only qualm was you cut out the freak outs, like the girl in the front and that fricking
00:09:20.780 Eli, that dude had these like freak outs and Eli, he looked at me and was like, call me
00:09:27.200 a man.
00:09:28.020 And I, or it was, it was either to me or it was to Sydney.
00:09:30.840 I don't remember who, but I remember I was this close to being like, you're a dude, but
00:09:35.300 I, well, it is a man.
00:09:37.220 It is.
00:09:38.240 It is.
00:09:38.600 I'm so tired of these he, she's with mental disorders.
00:09:41.400 It's like, I, it's like, you guys want me to reason with crazy people and the more
00:09:45.860 I'm on liberalism is a disease and you guys are all crazy with mental disorders.
00:09:50.680 Liberalism is a, it is a disease, a disease of the mind.
00:09:53.740 How do I get on the view?
00:09:54.600 I want to go on the view.
00:09:55.300 Let me talk to her.
00:09:56.040 You're dying to go on the view just once.
00:09:57.460 I know what I was thinking this morning.
00:10:00.180 I was thinking, can you imagine Andrew Tate on the view for those ladies?
00:10:02.840 Come on.
00:10:03.600 Tell me you wouldn't pay for that.
00:10:05.060 That would be the, I mean, it would blow.
00:10:06.840 Oh man.
00:10:07.760 Can you imagine a full episode of that?
00:10:09.220 Okay.
00:10:09.380 Deli, I know you're waiting.
00:10:10.120 The view ladies, you're invited on my show.
00:10:12.380 I don't think.
00:10:12.720 They're not coming on your show.
00:10:14.220 You're invited.
00:10:15.140 You're invited.
00:10:15.860 We'll fly you out.
00:10:16.760 You'd be shouted down too.
00:10:17.960 You'd be, forget it.
00:10:18.660 Your mic would be cut.
00:10:19.060 Look at it.
00:10:19.520 They could, they could shout down at me and I, I just give them the mic.
00:10:23.240 Okay, crazy.
00:10:24.300 You're like, I'm going to cut that clip.
00:10:25.860 Just shout me down to cut that clip.
00:10:27.180 It'll be unedited.
00:10:28.160 Yeah.
00:10:28.800 I like crazy talk.
00:10:30.380 Yeah.
00:10:30.660 That's what I did when I went on.
00:10:32.120 Go ahead.
00:10:32.840 All right.
00:10:33.180 We have a $10 from Brock.
00:10:34.760 He said, my favorite two ladies with common sense in a world where nothing makes sense.
00:10:38.960 Keep up the good work you do.
00:10:40.540 And Pearl, you need to go in on Hafiz next time as he's very condescending towards you.
00:10:44.880 Oh, people were saying that in the chat.
00:10:47.240 They were mad about that.
00:10:48.820 Yeah.
00:10:49.700 That was, that was a, that was like the worst day.
00:10:52.180 I almost had a, that was like the worst day.
00:10:54.540 I had Hafiz on here, but like early on.
00:10:56.900 Yeah.
00:10:57.300 And the chat was so, they were like, get him off.
00:10:59.320 Get him.
00:10:59.500 I couldn't believe it.
00:11:00.260 I was like, wow.
00:11:01.080 I like Hafiz.
00:11:02.020 It's something like personal.
00:11:03.160 I just don't think he maybe is aware of how condescending he can be.
00:11:06.960 Um, I mean, I think like when you start to go personal and you compare me to porn stars,
00:11:11.760 OnlyFans models and Derek Jackson, I think that's, it just is like kind of below the
00:11:15.840 belt where it's like, I don't go in and say, like, talk about your personal life.
00:11:21.780 That's dirty.
00:11:22.180 Yeah.
00:11:22.720 So he played dirty.
00:11:24.740 Okay.
00:11:25.420 There was another one, a couple more actually.
00:11:27.860 Yeah.
00:11:27.960 Um, two-bit user said, Western woman are like McDonald's over 1 billion served.
00:11:33.800 Pearl, get, get Sydney on your show.
00:11:36.180 You handled half feel, half feels better on valutainment than ever before.
00:11:40.940 There you go.
00:11:41.780 Yeah.
00:11:41.980 We've reached out to Sydney, by the way, audience, just so you know.
00:11:44.420 As many of you know, I was just banned on Tik Tok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:11:50.540 on this platform.
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