JustPearlyThings - Woman Insinuates That Men Should ENDURE S3XLESS Marriages

00:00:00.000 it's more common one way though so you're married right which means for better and worse yeah right

00:00:05.220 to death you part you've done all the the vows so you've entered a contract with each other so

00:00:10.040 ideally no one should be cheating everyone should be loving each other and giving to each other what

00:00:15.120 should a guy do if he if his wife won't sleep with him have a conversation say hey what's going on 1.00

00:00:19.480 let's sort this out because um there's got to be something that's not quite right maybe she's just

00:00:24.620 freaking tired if she's got five kids like this uh example over here you know what i mean i don't 0.95

00:00:28.860 know but like well should he get tired and then just stop paying the bills stop working no no no

00:00:34.420 what i'm saying is when when there's a when wait when there's a uh like a an issue whether it's

00:00:41.940 from the guy or the girl or whoever whatever they should work it out together they're they're a

00:00:46.660 community i'm saying she is not sleeping with him like she's refusing but why give me reason like

00:00:53.240 give me a reason and if she's like no no no then he has like he technically yes because he if he

00:00:59.580 still is desiring that he has a sexual drive and she doesn't then why not if so if she can't provide 0.98

00:01:04.880 it then you know but but i think they need to have a conversation before he just says oh well forget you

00:01:10.720 what can we do to sort this out if it's still not working they usually do okay they'll usually have a

00:01:16.400 conversation and she still just won't do it well if she's like that then if she doesn't have any 1.00

00:01:21.120 reason she deserves it that's what i'm saying yeah but come on but he should what do you think

00:01:26.740 was gonna happen yeah exactly but breakup before like i think yeah but you know if he gets to the

00:01:32.560 point that you talk talk talk it means the relationship is dead you know so there's no point

00:01:36.440 to moving on with cheating or without cheating i think it's a bit tough when she's gonna take half 1.00

00:01:40.440 your shit in your kids a lot of guys stay for the kids not for the kids i see a lot for them 0.99

00:01:45.940 apparently women um lose about 35 percent of their wealth when they leave divorce men are the ones that 1.00

00:01:53.940 get richer they get child well i mean typically men are the one that but the reason is because

00:01:58.560 i'll tell you why the reason is because women are bad with money we spend more even though we make 1.00

00:02:02.840 less that's why we get less less wealthy when we leave but it's funny because we still get more

00:02:06.940 money because we get child support payments 90 percent of the time but isn't that because they

00:02:10.760 predominantly live with the mother yeah and it's sad because the reason is like they they punish men

00:02:17.040 for doing the right thing we want fathers that work and then they'll punish the fathers that work the

00:02:21.360 court is very very one-sided of course but i think in order to raise kids you need to be emotionally

00:02:26.960 there as well you can't just have one parent being doing all their emotional labor well i'm i don't one

00:02:32.580 we'd have to define emotional labor and two that's why 50 50 custody would make sense or if we're

00:02:37.520 really if we're really going to go off what's best for the kids single father homes fare far better 0.91

00:02:42.800 than single mother homes or just the family don't don't don't get kids if you don't want to have 0.98

00:02:48.200 family and does the money even go to the kid but wow i think that's one thing that shouldn't even

00:02:56.780 be a topic like it doesn't matter where the money goes that's just it should go to the kid

00:03:01.300 it should always go to the kid a hundred thousand million percent to the kid obviously there's some

00:03:06.800 bad situations where women do abuse the system but we can't ignore the fact that you know this was 1.00

00:03:12.600 created for this or well i mean we can have the reasons but i'm saying look at the outcomes

00:03:17.840 and the outcomes is more single mother homes every problem in society is really it goes back to single

00:03:24.660 mother homes like um i spoke to a guy that works at the homeless shelter down the street i said what

00:03:29.640 why are these people homeless what's the number one reason single mother homes you look they're more 1.00

00:03:33.720 likely to run away from home they're more likely to have mental problems half the kids that you see

00:03:38.480 shooting up a schooler but you have to tell them most of guys don't want to stay with the kids and they

00:03:43.940 mostly say and the second and the other thing is that on court like i said because my parents got

00:03:48.180 divorced i was nine years old and the judge had to ask me and my siblings who do you want to stay with

00:03:53.340 and they would take it from a child right so most of guys be honest if you get divorced

00:03:59.700 and you have to say like would you prefer to stay with the kids or you think the reason

00:04:05.740 i'm asking i'm saying the reason that men don't fight for i've done i've interviewed so many men that

00:04:11.660 are in the process of getting divorced and fighting for their kids the reason they don't fight for it

00:04:15.920 is because the system is so stacked against them it is very very unfair yeah it is i've talked to men

00:04:22.440 that literally had had text messages of the woman trying to get him to hit her so she was saying i

00:04:28.640 want to get him to hit her so i can claim abuse take off your headphones and and so it's like guys

00:04:35.200 don't want to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to not get their kid the deadbeat dad thing it's a

00:04:39.480 myth i really don't believe it but you're talking like about someone that has money right many guys

00:04:44.720 don't have money at all right so it's not just financial financial and that's why a lot of the

00:04:50.900 men that don't have money don't fight because they don't want to spend hundreds of thousands of

00:04:54.840 dollars just to not get their kids lawyers will advise them against it and another thing i want to

00:04:59.500 add because you asked something a question yeah is depends who is the woman for example and why is 1.00

00:05:05.180 the reason we we get divorced who is the woman and then i will also decide if i want to fight or not

00:05:10.560 because as a father which i'm not but thinking i would like the best for the kid yeah so if the

00:05:17.520 mother was capable and it was potentially my fault or some her fault but she's still capable of being

00:05:22.860 a mother i wouldn't really fight you know makes sense it's hard work it's hard work looking out the

00:05:29.720 kids but if she was a good woman then you would let the kids stay with her i would in any case 1.00

00:05:37.240 let the kids stay with you unless it's a really good reason not to well and the point is they

00:05:42.180 don't have a choice women get custody 90 of the time they do not have a choice so unless the woman's 1.00

00:05:48.340 bad right like it has bad sort of intentions or doesn't always neglect i'm saying i'm saying it

00:05:54.200 doesn't really matter because the courts are so one-sided like like a girl so if you're in a 1.00

00:05:59.740 relationship with a guy and you make one phone call you can get him kicked out of the house for a

00:06:03.280 year before you go to trial then you go to trial and what they'll tell you is oh why haven't you

00:06:06.820 been in the kid's life for a year and the problem is she can get a restraining order so if she tries 0.99

00:06:11.320 to if he tries to see the kid he gets arrested and then he gets punished in court they're like why

00:06:16.900 haven't you been in the kid's life and if they're like working now if they're not even working and

00:06:22.260 they're spending time with the kids would be called a bitch by not working it's it's so funny because 0.98

00:06:27.500 we want men that protect and provide and then if they do it they're punished in court it's like 0.66

00:06:32.460 they can't win that is it's very hard they'll say oh he spent more she spent more time with the kid

00:06:39.260 but if they cared about the kid why wouldn't they go off through off of the statistics that single

00:06:43.840 father homes go far far fair better than single mother homes 1.00

00:06:46.940 men really really suffer you know in the situations and women don't really understand it but they have 0.99

00:06:57.000 really difficult time i'm not saying from experience but from what i see it's like woman have a 1.00

00:07:02.400 lot of control now in this western society when it comes to this matter and in the uk you get a

00:07:09.100 free lawyer if you accuse a guy of abuse if he's been arrested you get a free lawyer so women have 1.00

00:07:13.840 like incentive to accuse men of abuse and you can kind of see what's real and what's not by looking

00:07:18.620 at who's who has um pressed criminal charges and it's less than 10 the lawyer still works for the

00:07:24.160 government he doesn't privately work for you unless you pay him what the lawyer works he's a solicitor

00:07:31.720 he's a public defender yeah like they say in the states he doesn't work for you in your favor so

00:07:37.280 he'll go based off jurors based on and the other issue too is their number one client is from the

00:07:43.260 women's shelters so if they if they win too many cases for the men it kind of backfires because then 1.00

00:07:48.120 they don't get clients from the women's shelters it's like a whole money it's really crazy i'm doing a

00:07:52.960 whole documentary on it it's so insane in comparison to like uk and u.s i mean it's or just in general

00:07:59.800 like nation like well i'm focusing more on the uk because it's like it's it's definitely i would say

00:08:05.360 worse here across the board but the u.s it kind of depends on the state you're in um and i've heard

00:08:11.920 ireland is like worse than here but yeah i'm doing it mostly in the uk with a couple stories from the u.s

00:08:18.520 um i forgot what question we were even asking it's about cheating oh oh okay way too far

00:08:27.240 oh i remember um so you what no no it was the cheating i think if uh if you don't sleep with

00:08:35.180 your husband oh yeah yeah yes that's the one so so what you you agreed with me right that if a girl 0.99

00:08:41.380 gets cheated on because she doesn't have any reason yeah like if she doesn't have any reason and she 1.00

00:08:46.400 doesn't offer to her husband yeah what the husband needs as well what would be a good reason for a 1.00

00:08:51.480 woman not to sleep with her husband what would be a good reason for a woman not to sleep with her 1.00

00:08:59.520 husband that she just gave her birth she doesn't love him anymore that's a good reason that is a good 1.00

00:09:05.400 reason oh if she doesn't love him anymore well then she should be with him right yeah no she should 1.00

00:09:10.560 be with him but we don't know why she's not being there isn't that a bit subjective

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JustPearlyThings - July 25, 2023

Woman Insinuates That Men Should ENDURE S3XLESS Marriages

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