Woman Insinuates That Men Should ENDURE S3XLESS Marriages
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Summary
In this episode we discuss cheating, divorce, child support and custody issues in the divorce court system. We also discuss why divorce is such a problem in society and why the court system is the way it is. We discuss the reasons why men and women should get divorced and why women should stay with their kids.
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it's more common one way though so you're married right which means for better and worse yeah right
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to death you part you've done all the the vows so you've entered a contract with each other so
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ideally no one should be cheating everyone should be loving each other and giving to each other what
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should a guy do if he if his wife won't sleep with him have a conversation say hey what's going on
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let's sort this out because um there's got to be something that's not quite right maybe she's just
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freaking tired if she's got five kids like this uh example over here you know what i mean i don't
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know but like well should he get tired and then just stop paying the bills stop working no no no
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what i'm saying is when when there's a when wait when there's a uh like a an issue whether it's
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from the guy or the girl or whoever whatever they should work it out together they're they're a
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community i'm saying she is not sleeping with him like she's refusing but why give me reason like
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give me a reason and if she's like no no no then he has like he technically yes because he if he
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still is desiring that he has a sexual drive and she doesn't then why not if so if she can't provide
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it then you know but but i think they need to have a conversation before he just says oh well forget you
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what can we do to sort this out if it's still not working they usually do okay they'll usually have a
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conversation and she still just won't do it well if she's like that then if she doesn't have any
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reason she deserves it that's what i'm saying yeah but come on but he should what do you think
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was gonna happen yeah exactly but breakup before like i think yeah but you know if he gets to the
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point that you talk talk talk it means the relationship is dead you know so there's no point
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to moving on with cheating or without cheating i think it's a bit tough when she's gonna take half
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your shit in your kids a lot of guys stay for the kids not for the kids i see a lot for them
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apparently women um lose about 35 percent of their wealth when they leave divorce men are the ones that
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get richer they get child well i mean typically men are the one that but the reason is because
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i'll tell you why the reason is because women are bad with money we spend more even though we make
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less that's why we get less less wealthy when we leave but it's funny because we still get more
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money because we get child support payments 90 percent of the time but isn't that because they
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predominantly live with the mother yeah and it's sad because the reason is like they they punish men
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for doing the right thing we want fathers that work and then they'll punish the fathers that work the
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court is very very one-sided of course but i think in order to raise kids you need to be emotionally
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there as well you can't just have one parent being doing all their emotional labor well i'm i don't one
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we'd have to define emotional labor and two that's why 50 50 custody would make sense or if we're
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really if we're really going to go off what's best for the kids single father homes fare far better
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than single mother homes or just the family don't don't don't get kids if you don't want to have
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family and does the money even go to the kid but wow i think that's one thing that shouldn't even
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be a topic like it doesn't matter where the money goes that's just it should go to the kid
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it should always go to the kid a hundred thousand million percent to the kid obviously there's some
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bad situations where women do abuse the system but we can't ignore the fact that you know this was
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created for this or well i mean we can have the reasons but i'm saying look at the outcomes
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and the outcomes is more single mother homes every problem in society is really it goes back to single
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mother homes like um i spoke to a guy that works at the homeless shelter down the street i said what
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why are these people homeless what's the number one reason single mother homes you look they're more
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likely to run away from home they're more likely to have mental problems half the kids that you see
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shooting up a schooler but you have to tell them most of guys don't want to stay with the kids and they
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mostly say and the second and the other thing is that on court like i said because my parents got
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divorced i was nine years old and the judge had to ask me and my siblings who do you want to stay with
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and they would take it from a child right so most of guys be honest if you get divorced
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and you have to say like would you prefer to stay with the kids or you think the reason
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i'm asking i'm saying the reason that men don't fight for i've done i've interviewed so many men that
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are in the process of getting divorced and fighting for their kids the reason they don't fight for it
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is because the system is so stacked against them it is very very unfair yeah it is i've talked to men
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that literally had had text messages of the woman trying to get him to hit her so she was saying i
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want to get him to hit her so i can claim abuse take off your headphones and and so it's like guys
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don't want to spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to not get their kid the deadbeat dad thing it's a
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myth i really don't believe it but you're talking like about someone that has money right many guys
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don't have money at all right so it's not just financial financial and that's why a lot of the
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men that don't have money don't fight because they don't want to spend hundreds of thousands of
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dollars just to not get their kids lawyers will advise them against it and another thing i want to
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add because you asked something a question yeah is depends who is the woman for example and why is
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the reason we we get divorced who is the woman and then i will also decide if i want to fight or not
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because as a father which i'm not but thinking i would like the best for the kid yeah so if the
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mother was capable and it was potentially my fault or some her fault but she's still capable of being
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a mother i wouldn't really fight you know makes sense it's hard work it's hard work looking out the
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kids but if she was a good woman then you would let the kids stay with her i would in any case
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let the kids stay with you unless it's a really good reason not to well and the point is they
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don't have a choice women get custody 90 of the time they do not have a choice so unless the woman's
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bad right like it has bad sort of intentions or doesn't always neglect i'm saying i'm saying it
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doesn't really matter because the courts are so one-sided like like a girl so if you're in a
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relationship with a guy and you make one phone call you can get him kicked out of the house for a
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year before you go to trial then you go to trial and what they'll tell you is oh why haven't you
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been in the kid's life for a year and the problem is she can get a restraining order so if she tries
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to if he tries to see the kid he gets arrested and then he gets punished in court they're like why
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haven't you been in the kid's life and if they're like working now if they're not even working and
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they're spending time with the kids would be called a bitch by not working it's it's so funny because
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we want men that protect and provide and then if they do it they're punished in court it's like
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they can't win that is it's very hard they'll say oh he spent more she spent more time with the kid
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but if they cared about the kid why wouldn't they go off through off of the statistics that single
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father homes go far far fair better than single mother homes
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men really really suffer you know in the situations and women don't really understand it but they have
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really difficult time i'm not saying from experience but from what i see it's like woman have a
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lot of control now in this western society when it comes to this matter and in the uk you get a
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free lawyer if you accuse a guy of abuse if he's been arrested you get a free lawyer so women have
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like incentive to accuse men of abuse and you can kind of see what's real and what's not by looking
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at who's who has um pressed criminal charges and it's less than 10 the lawyer still works for the
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government he doesn't privately work for you unless you pay him what the lawyer works he's a solicitor
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he's a public defender yeah like they say in the states he doesn't work for you in your favor so
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he'll go based off jurors based on and the other issue too is their number one client is from the
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women's shelters so if they if they win too many cases for the men it kind of backfires because then
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they don't get clients from the women's shelters it's like a whole money it's really crazy i'm doing a
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whole documentary on it it's so insane in comparison to like uk and u.s i mean it's or just in general
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like nation like well i'm focusing more on the uk because it's like it's it's definitely i would say
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worse here across the board but the u.s it kind of depends on the state you're in um and i've heard
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ireland is like worse than here but yeah i'm doing it mostly in the uk with a couple stories from the u.s
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um i forgot what question we were even asking it's about cheating oh oh okay way too far
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oh i remember um so you what no no it was the cheating i think if uh if you don't sleep with
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your husband oh yeah yeah yes that's the one so so what you you agreed with me right that if a girl
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gets cheated on because she doesn't have any reason yeah like if she doesn't have any reason and she
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doesn't offer to her husband yeah what the husband needs as well what would be a good reason for a
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woman not to sleep with her husband what would be a good reason for a woman not to sleep with her
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husband that she just gave her birth she doesn't love him anymore that's a good reason that is a good
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reason oh if she doesn't love him anymore well then she should be with him right yeah no she should
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be with him but we don't know why she's not being there isn't that a bit subjective