JustPearlyThings - May 13, 2023


Woman Reveals Why Post Wall Women Give HORRIBLE Advice

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Jason Derulo Chris Brown Pearl Drake
Single Mother Recounting Divorce Decision Pearl BREAKS DOWN Why Men Avoid Post Wall Women

Episode Stats


Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

223.84

Word count

1,746

Sentence count

140

Harmful content

Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

8

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friends, Pearl and Penelope, to talk about what it means to grow up in a fatherless household. We talk about how important it is to have a father figure in your life and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Yeah. And I also, I fell into the boss babe culture for a long time when I was obese and I, and then I started losing weight, but I was still in the boss babe culture. I was like, oh, I don't need a man. Like I'm fine. And it was when I had the daddy issues when I wasn't, I didn't have a good relationship with my father. And it wasn't until I healed my relationship with my father that I was like, oh, okay. I actually, you know, it's really important that I don't have to work like a man. I was so stressed. I was so anxious all the time. And then I just let it go. It's like, I don't need to do that. My future husband will provide for me. My future husband will do these. And I'll fall into my feminine
00:00:29.980 roles. I will cook. I will clean. I will take care of the kids. I'll take care of the house like that. And I'll, I'll garden. What did you do? Did you quit your job? No, I just, okay. I was just curious. I just, I flipped two houses last year and I was like, I don't want to do this anymore. So I just decided to stop doing it. That's cool. It was a miracle though. Really? Yeah. No, because I was the boss, right? I had to be the provider. I had to be everything. And you didn't have that example. And I think that's another part of where all the good women have gone inside of this independence, inside of this confusion.
00:00:59.980 It's fatherless families. And like Pearl was saying earlier, if you don't have the example, how are you supposed to know? And you haven't had the example Penelope. So it's a miracle. Purely. Purely. Yeah, no, it is. And it was like growing up with you as my mom, like you played both roles, the dad and the mom. And so that was very interesting because I grew up thinking, oh, I don't need men. Like men are terrible. And I even thought my dad's father was terrible, but now he's like my best friend.
00:01:22.100 And I think where the good women are going is they think that it's a bad thing to be feminine. I think that the mindset of women today feel like, if I'm like that.
00:01:30.980 And now if you're feminine and traditional online, people are like, you're, you know, you're not a feminist. You hate women. You are terrible. You are a disgraced society. You should go die. And it's like, wait, wait, what? 0.98
00:01:39.980 Like women are the most beautiful things on the planet. They create human beings. Men cannot create human beings. So why are women putting women down? Well, I think it's probably because women want women to fail and see them. 1.00
00:01:51.120 I think it's because we're not supposed to be competing with our moms generation. Because the thing is, like, if you have a 45 year old and you have like a 25 year old girl, it's like a lot of times the guys you might want are the same age.
00:02:04.120 Because women, like 45, tend to want guys like, it's like five to seven years younger, where women 25 want guys five to seven years older, this crossover. And I think bitter older women that don't want you to win will tell you the wrong information. 1.00
00:02:19.020 And it's because like, if they're, if they're being a hoe, right? Like, what's the worst feeling when you take a test and you fail? What's the worst feeling when everyone else succeeded? Right. But if you turn around and they say, I failed too. It's like, you feel a little bit better. 1.00
00:02:32.300 So it's like these women want other people to be miserable in their negative decisions. 1.00
00:02:36.580 It's true. And I've lost hundreds of people because of it, because of succeeding in my relationship and having a healthy relationship with my father.
00:02:42.600 People dislike me because of that. And it's like, why do you hate me for having a healthy relationship with my family?
00:02:47.800 Am I, am I, am I, am I good?
00:02:48.940 So would you, would you say?
00:02:49.840 And especially on life, they don't want you to win.
00:02:52.160 No.
00:02:52.360 They want you to fail. 1.00
00:02:53.640 They want you to be divorced, miserable, sad, fat, on your phone, on TikTok, dying. 0.96
00:02:58.560 So would you say that this is like technically just a woman's problem then because it's women that it's not technically men that put down women, you know, it's women that put down women. 0.99
00:03:07.360 The women trying to be men hurt or hurting the, the, the feminine, not, not the feminine, the beta men, right? 0.89
00:03:12.940 They're that, that's hurting beta men.
00:03:14.400 That's why we have beta men is because of the masculine woman. 1.00
00:03:17.100 Well, I think it becomes a problem because you have 80% of women screwing 20% of men. 1.00
00:03:21.960 So then women don't respect the average guy. 1.00
00:03:24.080 I did a show the other day and like most women said they wouldn't date a bus driver, but they're above a bus driver, average chicks. 1.00
00:03:30.520 And it's why you have average chicks saying they're at the level of a celebrity, no offense, but like, it's like you have average chicks thinking they're, they're so great when it's like, literally you are average, you're average looking, you're an average mindset. 0.79
00:03:42.120 Most people are average and men will accept this, but women won't. 1.00
00:03:45.500 It's like an insult for us to be normal.
00:03:47.980 So then you, you won't see normal women dating normal men. 0.98
00:03:51.060 But do you feel like that, that is because social media has a lot to play for it.
00:03:54.680 They feel like there's a lot more.
00:03:55.800 I think it's social, I think it's social media and dating apps.
00:03:59.220 They feel like they've got more accessibility to higher people.
00:04:02.540 I mean, they do like, because the issue nowadays, cause this is what made me think about this.
00:04:07.620 I'm like, how would you find a good woman? 1.00
00:04:09.060 And I was thinking about this and I made a chart and I had like the body count of a woman on one hand, and I had the looks of a woman on a one hand. 0.71
00:04:17.340 And so I was like a woman that's eight to 10 with a high or a low body count.
00:04:22.020 Good luck keeping her.
00:04:23.200 Do you know what the list is going to be for a girl that that's like that hot with like, like the competition is crazy.
00:04:28.500 And so it's like, you could be dating a woman and if there's high competition for her, Drake could slide in your girl's DMs or maybe it's not Drake.
00:04:37.140 It's the town, whoever.
00:04:38.560 Right.
00:04:39.240 And then I was thinking about it and I was like, unless a guy sleeps with a lot of women, how is he going to know the difference between a woman that's been out with everybody and a girl that does it, has it?
00:04:47.980 They never do.
00:04:48.680 They can't.
00:04:49.780 No, they can't know unless they've been with a lot of girls.
00:04:52.360 And I'm like, it's kind of unfortunate because it's like the only solution for the men seems to be to sleep around, which I don't think is, you know, great for society.
00:05:01.660 But it's like it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping. 1.00
00:05:04.760 Do you think that men should have more than one woman? 0.98
00:05:08.460 I think that it's silly to date certain men and expect monogamy.
00:05:15.180 So I think it's silly to date, say, Jason Derulo, Chris Brown.
00:05:18.840 These are extreme examples, but there are certain men that it's very silly to expect it because he's never been monogamous and they never will be.
00:05:26.640 I think monogamy in general is better for a society.
00:05:29.600 Forget the higher.
00:05:30.840 I'm even talking on average men, normal men on a day to day, because obviously you said earlier on that there's more women on the earth than men.
00:05:38.900 Yeah.
00:05:39.120 So on average, how we are naturally, do you think that the average man should have one woman?
00:05:44.360 I think that it's better for society if monogamy is better because you get like a growing, having a lot of sexless men like usually causes society to collapse.
00:05:58.320 So I think monogamy is better by and large, but I think that a certain percentage of men are always going to be non-monogamous.
00:06:03.520 And that's kind of the way it's been the last like two million years because 85 percent, it's like the last, I don't want to say how long it's been like this because I don't remember off the top of my head.
00:06:13.400 But I know like historically they always, it seems like all of society has been non-monogamous because 17 men reproduced for every one, 17 women reproduced for every one man like 8,000 years ago.
00:06:27.000 And on top of that, there's like two women have always reproduced for every one man, but it's actually, or 40 percent of men have never reproduced, or 40 percent of men, I'm sorry, I'm butchering this, but the 85 percent of, like 85 percent of society has generally been monogamous where the top 15 percent of men have just been like slaying.
00:06:45.000 Is it?
00:06:45.560 Yeah.
00:06:46.100 Well, okay, because you do a lot of stats here, but I know a lot of average men out here that's probably not on these stats doing the same thing.
00:06:53.500 And when I say a lot, I'm talking, if you're just talking average men in London, obviously London, I don't know about America and that.
00:07:00.060 Average in what?
00:07:01.000 In sleeping with a lot of women.
00:07:03.000 No, like average looks, average money, would you say?
00:07:06.140 Average looks, average job.
00:07:09.040 I can even give you examples of a few average men that are big in weight and just got normal jobs that aren't dealing with a lot of women across the board.
00:07:18.580 Well, there's a couple things. 0.70
00:07:20.200 So, I mean, typically, again, like there's been studies on dating apps and in person where women find 80 percent of men is ugly.
00:07:28.340 Not okay, not average. 0.75
00:07:29.760 They think ugly. 0.97
00:07:30.920 He is unattractive.
00:07:31.960 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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