JustPearlyThings - Women Act ONLY On Their Feelings

00:00:00.000 who who for you as a woman who's a positive uh role model as a woman that's well known

00:00:06.860 who do you look at as a woman that's successful and and has the lifestyle you want and the family 0.99

00:00:13.240 you want and the marriage you want who who do you look up to as a woman what are you starting 0.98

00:00:16.540 over here i think that's really hard because you really you don't really know people's life you

00:00:21.540 really you're not with them day to day i mean what looks good on instagram and what looks good

00:00:26.100 when they're in an interview is one thing but what's actually going on behind closed door is

00:00:30.420 very totally different like everybody wants a happy relationship right no one goes into it saying i

00:00:35.860 want a terrible relationship i want to argue at least once a week i want to do even though that's

00:00:39.740 the reality those things are going to happen but it's how you handle those disagreements how you 0.99

00:00:44.240 handle those arguments are you want to call them a bitch-ass nigger or are you going to say something 1.00

00:00:48.240 like you know what my apologies you know whatever the case may be so i don't think that i don't look 0.99

00:00:54.560 up to anybody because i do i realize that i don't know people's real relationship and i and i always

00:01:00.860 that's why i always ask like the question like will you obey your husband because that really kind of 0.99

00:01:05.480 tells you where someone's mindset's at like could he tell you to shut the fuck could he could he 1.00

00:01:09.520 no but that's that's wrong it's like like he said shut the fuck up if he is a boss-ass nigga 1.00

00:01:14.920 well you ever heard that this is just no because it's like it's like okay you know a guy it says in 0.99

00:01:24.920 the bible that your husband's supposed to love you right and he doesn't say love you when you're being

00:01:29.300 a perfect feminine woman most of us most women today we're not perfect feminine women yet we ask

00:01:34.660 the men to be these perfect leaders and we'll only obey them when they're leading perfectly they're not

00:01:39.180 always going to lead perfectly life is long but but the question is like and then and then we get 0.96

00:01:44.500 these like church it's so stupid they they put propaganda in the church in the early 1900s to 0.96

00:01:50.320 influence women that's why you have all these single women in churches basically saying that like you can 1.00

00:01:54.240 only submit to your husband's authority when he follows god but then that puts the woman deciding 1.00

00:01:59.400 when he's following god and when he's not following god but it's like men have given us a lot of grace

00:02:03.500 but we have no grace for men i was gonna say i do um look up to jada and will believe it or not

00:02:10.240 i want to meet them i'm manifesting it i think that they are so fucking cool because they're open 0.66

00:02:17.220 enough to understand that sometimes you might have attractions to other people and it's okay to make

00:02:22.800 these types of relationships as long as you stay partners together if i ever did get married i would

00:02:28.040 never want to get a divorce even if we lived separately and what about you i don't particularly

00:02:35.020 have a like a celebrity or anything that i'm looking up to but just anybody like in your life

00:02:40.600 like maybe your grandmother or something uh um yeah i don't really have anybody that anyone else

00:02:49.780 i think denzel and his wife seem to have a pretty healthy relationship but i don't know

00:02:54.360 everything sure sure sure but i'm like i'm talking about a woman a woman but i love how like they're

00:02:58.620 into charity how they like how they're into charity how they like want to like build together

00:03:04.400 how they're looked at like in another platform i would love to be at that kind of status i love

00:03:10.400 the the relationship and the camaraderie that they have with each other i think that's very

00:03:15.180 admirable but again i don't know everything sure it could be fucking horrible so my point is is 0.94

00:03:20.120 there's not a figure out there installing positive messages to to women i mean beyonce i'm an

00:03:28.160 independent i'm an it's like

00:03:29.620 that's my point you started off you're telling all these women to be independent and you've been 1.00

00:03:47.100 married she's the biggest clown woman and he was fucking her when she was underage 1.00

00:03:51.760 or you know although halo was a good one you know 1.00

00:03:57.420 well here's the thing even like a relationship is when you go to work there's rules right there's

00:04:09.160 things that you sign off to when you get employed to say i will not do a b c d e f and g that's the

00:04:17.320 same but when i don't think people value that when they're in a relationship because they don't look

00:04:22.460 at it as a job or a contract but it actually is it's things in there you're going to tell your man

00:04:27.760 don't hit me don't cuss at me or whatever your boundaries aren't the things that make you feel

00:04:32.320 uncomfortable and something you know what else is really interesting um who who here is in a

00:04:36.980 relationship raise your hand almost there three okay it's it's interesting because i can't i can't

00:04:43.860 oh my god i don't know what she's saying but it's interesting because i can't tell the difference

00:04:49.160 between women in a relationship and not in a relationship in this room based on like how 1.00

00:04:53.360 provocatively like you guys are dressed yeah gotcha and there used to be a time where like

00:04:57.540 when when you got married it's like i can't even tell the difference between the wives and the mothers

00:05:01.700 and the young women that are single and signaling but you know you're funny but wait a minute let me just

00:05:06.400 cut you off because i just told her i said i wore a t-shirt here because i thought there would be a

00:05:12.180 bunch of men here but when i found out it was majority women in the room i took my shirt off 0.99

00:05:17.000 she took her shirt off for me 1.00

00:05:18.700 do you know what's interesting about the way you guys you know what's interesting the way you guys

00:05:31.920 process information is you process it very personal where it's like about you and i'm not talking about

00:05:36.760 any of you individually but i'm just saying as a group like i can i walk down the street 0.89

00:05:42.360 and i'll see women holding the hands of a guy dressed like a hooker i'll see wives and mothers

00:05:47.720 on instagram dressed like thirst traps and it's like where are we as women in society if i can't 0.58

00:05:53.700 tell the difference i just think it's just too it's 2023 like if my if my if i was yeah the guy that

00:06:00.920 i'm dating said to me hey when you are not with me or i don't like that you dress like that then i

00:06:06.920 would change but but the thing is if there's not an issue there's but but the thing is like men will

00:06:11.860 study us to figure out what we want and then adjust accordingly like they'll be like okay like they

00:06:16.220 don't like it when women don't like when we do this this and that i think we do that to some type 1.00

00:06:20.540 of realm not really i mean come on do you think we'd start by being in shape like that's the one

00:06:25.000 i've been showing up but so you're you're already processing information as you but i'm saying as a

00:06:31.900 group 70 percent of us are overweight so let me say something though they're the guys who are the 1.00

00:06:36.820 most in shape the buffest most fucking cut up dudes like fat bitches yeah to fuck they don't marry 1.00

00:06:43.660 but even if you're skinny look at there's always some there's always going to be someone there's 1.00

00:06:53.800 always going to be and see like it's like the personal attacks that's what they're always going

00:06:57.240 to she said the 600 pound white people are married look it's sometimes sometimes but it's never 1.00

00:07:03.040 it's never it's never to the men that you want they're always these dorky ass dudes okay 0.99

00:07:09.160 okay okay i'm gonna say this even if you're skinny it doesn't mean that like all of a sudden a guy's 0.98

00:07:14.420 gonna fall in love with you and be right to you or nothing like you're talking like no it doesn't 0.99

00:07:19.200 make it easier i am fucking hot as shit i don't give a fuck what anybody has to say and i still deal 1.00

00:07:24.420 with the shit because a guy's gonna do what the fuck he wants to do because he wants to um i never 0.99

00:07:30.440 said that right remember and i'm not going to okay okay okay okay is this is this guy hot 1.00

00:07:36.200 can i see is he hot no i don't know

00:07:39.060 his girlfriend is super attractive because he's a high-valued man and he wants a fit feminine

00:07:58.800 attractive woman he paid 38 billion dollars to get a divorce to be with a latina news reporter who looks 1.00

00:08:05.160 like a model and is waiting for him to die so he can get rich hold on high-value men want fit feminine 1.00

00:08:11.120 attractive women so when you say well i know guys yeah i know guys too that'll be with a woman that's 1.00

00:08:17.720 overweight or obese but the point is the guy the guys that most women go after this guy's not 0.71

00:08:23.340 attractive right he was at 7-eleven with a name check that said jeff bezos on it you wouldn't take a

00:08:29.440 look you know what a lot of women go after this guy why because status yeah because he has money 1.00

00:08:35.100 resources resources yeah that's my point so when you talk to these guys we're all the high-value men

00:08:40.320 they're with the pretty girls they're the guys that have the yacht in monaco and the girl's 19 21 years

00:08:45.720 old and she's got a brain of a box of rocks she's not smart well and it's like if women didn't know 1.00

00:08:51.180 this it's like we spend thousands of dollars on bbls boob jobs to look younger like it's like women 1.00

00:08:57.920 will spend money to look younger smaller tighter they'll go to personal trainers and then say that

00:09:03.620 men don't like what they like 1.00

00:09:04.960 this is why like even though i don't agree with you and i feel like a lot of you the shit you say 1.00

00:09:11.660 it's stupid i still like you because like you're stupid but i like you no but like you really do 1.00

00:09:19.120 like say a lot of shit that i do agree with and like people tell me i'm a confused ass republican 1.00

00:09:23.740 all the time they're like you believe in capital punishment and fucking abortion and all this shit 0.99

00:09:28.200 i'm like yeah but you know i'm um i'm not republican uh you know it's like you know just some 1.00

00:09:34.580 shit like that you know women shouldn't vote yeah you better stop i'm tired of her somebody get her 1.00

00:09:40.300 mute her oh we gonna get her on me we gonna get her on bingo and we gonna mute her anyways 1.00

00:09:45.420 it's so it's so funny we'll have this whole convo and like i think by the end it's like i'm showing

00:09:52.960 why we shouldn't vote it's like because we can't even we're arguing about is water wet do men like

00:10:00.520 thin checks right let's talk about let me ask you a question you don't have to expose this or not

00:10:06.360 yes did you all vote in the last election nope nope i'm not gonna vote the next one either yeah 0.91

00:10:12.560 did y'all did y'all vote for did y'all vote for obama yeah i didn't yeah why why because he's black 0.79

00:10:18.840 that's my point no i did not i did not vote because he's black i did not vote because he's black 0.57

00:10:24.900 i voted because i don't want somebody to run my country that wants to grab my question i have a 0.72

00:10:30.300 question oh my god okay wait wait wait wait wait wait you shouldn't think about the emotional part

00:10:34.260 when you're yeah voting yeah you need to think about what that person can bring to the table

00:10:38.680 and that's one thing what can i just say that my my grandpa always told me vote for what you need

00:10:45.520 don't vote for what other people okay watch watch this first of all he's not black he's biracial he is

00:10:51.020 black and white but second of all second of all i have a dream that one day my children

00:10:58.340 okay were you judged by their character not the color of their skin so you're voting for him

00:11:03.820 because he was black but that was my feeling you didn't vote for him based on facts and that's the

00:11:09.100 point i said that because i know a lot that's the typical answer so everybody normally says that 0.77

00:11:15.320 however in the black community when you have black grandparents black mother black father

00:11:20.520 etc etc they tell you they explain to you about obama it wasn't just it was somebody who you

00:11:25.800 could relate to finally but it wasn't just about his skin color because we also voted for clinton 0.98

00:11:30.820 we also voted for clinton's black he had a blow job in the office okay um white guys do that all day 0.99

00:11:37.260 don't don't play with me i'm a vip host out here i know here's the thing 1.00

00:11:40.840 white guys do what get blow jobs in their fucking office all day every day 1.00

00:11:47.340 i think if 90 percent of men went to work and were offered a blow job you don't think they would 1.00

00:12:02.980 take it girl he said he said he said of course he was black he got a blow job in the office i said 0.99

00:12:09.040 no that's all guys that's what i want to say it was a joke it was a joke right clinton's black right 1.00

00:12:14.500 there you go that's what i was talking about i'm not on that shit at all 1.00

00:12:25.500 now y'all may hate women but y'all hate black people but now the black community 1.00

00:12:29.760 black community the black community woke up now they're going republican 0.99

00:12:33.440 a lot a lot but anyways go ahead that's true that's very and hispanics yeah that's very true

00:12:39.240 if you were moderate back in the day or like like you're more republican now well remember

00:12:44.660 the black party was republican from the beginning as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok

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JustPearlyThings - October 12, 2023

Women Act ONLY On Their Feelings

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