JustPearlyThings - Women Are DELUSIONAL

00:00:00.000 what percent of women did you say were on welfare it's like 90 90 percent are on some form of

00:00:05.680 assistance it's like it's not like we're building brick and is that women with children or without

00:00:10.640 children because i need to know the stats before i know exactly what i'm talking about 30 of women 1.00

00:00:14.960 who've got kids are on welfare at the moment but that's not actually the contribution is kids

00:00:21.120 it's not choice having having boys having a mother having male children is their contribution because 0.91

00:00:29.040 mozart has to be born i gotta say like i gotta ask because you you've got a podcast you're doing

00:00:41.520 this you're achieving your dreams and chasing your career the boys are talking about the fact that

00:00:45.760 they don't want women to work but you wouldn't have this happiness it would probably it would 1.00

00:00:50.080 probably be a red flag to certain guys a lot of got most guys they get intimidated i wouldn't say

00:00:55.920 intimidation i just don't think it's useful okay wait wait so it's not useful to them it's not

00:01:04.480 my podcast is like a hobby to me it's fun i enjoy it but it's not the end-all be-all imagine if one

00:01:10.160 of these boys came in and said you're not allowed to do it ever and you weren't allowed to do it from

00:01:14.480 the get-go or volleyball because you have to stay at home that's two of your like major things that

00:01:19.680 have like i've heard you talk before you talk so passionately about it no i mean i love it it's

00:01:25.920 fun i love it but at the end of the day it's about your family before you i mean and for the right

00:01:29.920 guy she probably would where's the right guy where are they i mean honestly it's not it's not a case of

00:01:39.040 these these conversations are always kind of put in the context trying to put in this context of like

00:01:42.640 the man forcing the woman to do something and like you can't do this and you can't do that it's not

00:01:46.800 it should be natural it should be a natural decision like hey baby like i want to look after

00:01:51.200 you like yeah i want you to to take care of our kids yeah i've got it don't worry but relax i'll take

00:01:57.840 care i'll take care of it like that many women or men there's not that many men who are financially

00:02:02.560 capable of doing that again we go back to the point i was making before why do you think why do you

00:02:11.440 but but also but also like i said i also said this earlier there's a lot of muslim

00:02:15.520 families in this very country that get by on the minimum wage with a lot of kids and it's a one 0.99

00:02:20.800 income household they like pearl said the women are perfectly happy to reduce their what what was 0.99

00:02:27.520 the phrase used like lifestyle lifestyle down a lifestyle bingo because they because they value

00:02:33.600 being a mother and raising a family over the the happiness the fleeting happiness of their lifestyle

00:02:39.200 of a or a certain lifestyle but my question is i'm sure if you ask these women if they were able to have 1.00

00:02:43.760 extra income in the family home and still be able to look after their family they're not going to

00:02:47.360 turn around yeah but i think that's i think that's a thing that is a very rare scenario like so for

00:02:53.680 example like pearl right so pearl runs an online business so pearl realistically could still do this 0.98

00:02:58.320 show and have a kid right i agree but she probably wouldn't be able to work like seven days a week 1.00

00:03:02.480 right she probably do a couple days a week or whatever so that is entirely possible yeah but that is not 0.86

00:03:06.800 that is very very rare circumstance for most people most people most people work nine to five jobs where they

00:03:11.200 have to be in a physical location it's very so why isn't it ideal for us as men and women to come

00:03:15.120 together and say why can't we find a compromise for both of us to be happy you have an individual

00:03:18.960 that is at home that is the compromise you just go back to the perfect family i don't know i think

00:03:23.760 that sounds like the compromise and the other thing the other thing they don't talk about is um i had

00:03:27.600 a girl on our show she was a virgin okay she she knows how to cook her own food she um what else could 1.00

00:03:35.360 she do she every like she had her own cookbook she could make food from scratch she could grow her own food 1.00

00:03:40.480 i'm telling you this girl is not having a hard time finding men that want to provide for her 1.00

00:03:47.440 so when you have those skills especially in the west what percent of women have that so so a lot of 1.00

00:03:53.920 times we'll complain that oh there aren't enough traditional men but are we traditional women so it's

00:03:59.360 like we can't really whine that we can't get a guy to take care of all the bills when we don't have

00:04:04.000 those skills that's what i was gonna say phil that's like we you you have to go first right i mean you

00:04:09.520 as an individual not not i'm not saying men or women i'm saying you have to use the individual

00:04:14.400 have to go first you have to understand what you want right so for example i know that i want

00:04:18.640 traditional women relatively right so to me that means all right cool i'm stepping up i'm being the

00:04:24.000 provider i'm going to take care of things right i look after the bills whatever whatever happens

00:04:28.000 she doesn't have to work anymore she can stay at home house taking care of me cool but that's me 1.00

00:04:32.640 being a traditional man i'll provide and i'll protect for her right but i've accepted that

00:04:36.560 i need to go first to find the women i want to find and now lo and behold i am finding those kind 0.99

00:04:41.600 of women right but you have to go first everyone needs to go first i really agree with that because 1.00

00:04:48.080 the problem these days is everyone's waiting for someone to show me what you have if i can show you

00:04:52.560 what i have or what i know that's the problem if all of us are going to sit back and say are you

00:04:56.640 traditional man are you no one's gonna move and we're just gonna just i actually i feel like i

00:05:01.600 that happened to me i got my house two years ago and i remember being like oh it's just me

00:05:06.640 like i want to know to be traditional i want to know that if i had a family right now if i had

00:05:11.440 i want to know all those things but it became a thing that made sense to me versus when i was 22.

00:05:18.400 i didn't have that example growing up my mum was a working mum so yes she taught me how to cook

00:05:23.120 yes she taught me certain things but it wasn't like you have to do this because the only kind 0.98

00:05:26.320 of man you're going to get it's a culture it's a culture thing like but when i did move out and

00:05:30.160 i was alone i was like oh shit well i can't expect a man to do this if i can't provide this i would 0.62

00:05:35.200 love to be at home and be able to cook listen i could never have a man around my house and not cook 0.96

00:05:39.680 like that's that's something that again my mum would never let me have a guest period not just a man 0.99

00:05:45.520 so it's like certain values become more important to you when you want those things if i didn't want i

00:05:51.680 i didn't want a family i didn't want children at 20. but now i do so those things are a priority to me

00:05:57.520 and i see it in the men that i meet now like a lot of men they're not necessarily traditional but

00:06:02.080 they have the values that i care about and if a man wants a woman that can cook let's just discuss 1.00

00:06:06.480 discuss that and we'll figure it out but i just think to kind of like you have to be traditional

00:06:11.840 in this way that's the only way that that will make me happy and you have to be i just in what world

00:06:16.640 like if we're talking about modern dating generally it doesn't exist as a good example that we can see

00:06:24.000 every day today like we don't see it day today but my point is it's because of women's choices 1.00

00:06:29.120 so i mean most women will likely get modern outcomes and that's true that's true and i'm not here to

00:06:35.360 begrudge anyone if you want to do that do that but it's like don't complain that you can't have a

00:06:40.480 traditional man if you if you don't have traditional skills yeah i don't particularly want a traditional man

00:06:45.440 i i would like certain things but i think i provide the other set like the polarized opposite

00:06:50.400 you know if i want a man to do this but i i can do this then but do i want a so like traditional

00:06:55.360 man so that i play the tradition no i don't i i would do what you want would you be okay with a

00:06:59.760 guy that makes uh what do you make roughly 50 60 a lot more than that was very not pretty let's say

00:07:06.800 let's say 100 let's just let's just say let's say you make a hundred i'm not trying to

00:07:10.640 you cool with a guy that makes 50. no okay but see that why if you're okay with the modern outcome

00:07:18.880 but it's not about the modern outcome it's i choose to work really hard and i want a man that

00:07:22.720 also values to work really hard and if you wanted me to cook that's lovely i'll finish work at this

00:07:26.240 time and i'll go home and cook for you babe like i i don't get the i don't get why i have to be one or

00:07:31.600 the other can't i have both and want both because we can want what we want but it's like again we have

00:07:36.880 this laundry list but like the men that make a lot of money tend to want women with traditional

00:07:40.960 skills and then i would compromise then again i guess to if i genuinely couldn't find a man that

00:07:46.560 you know whatever he could provide x then to a certain degree i would say do you know he doesn't

00:07:51.440 have to earn the same amount as me or he doesn't have to have whatever but there's certain things

00:07:55.200 that i do care about so i would compromise yeah i would but i i don't think that i would give up

00:08:00.400 what i care about and the job that i have found for myself that i love so much that i'd hope my partner

00:08:06.240 would care what's your minimum for salary for a guy i've never done this i've not done a minimum

00:08:11.840 situation um uh and honestly i wrote a list the other day of like i've never done it never done

00:08:20.160 it and my friend was like just write a list and then at least you could be understanding of what

00:08:23.920 you want not one thing on there said anything about money it just said i want him to have drive

00:08:29.200 i want him to have like ambition but then it's like you might as well say money because that's what

00:08:35.600 that's what drive and ambition equates to i don't know i understand that you might be a struggling

00:08:40.000 artist yeah that's a no for me how did i know that's something she would say but i'm saying

00:08:48.800 like it's almost like it's tough i would love to say a minimum of like 80 grand that's what i would

00:08:53.680 say okay what what percent of men do you think make 80 no not a lot and it's it's horrible because then i

00:08:58.240 start going fuck do i have to whereas if you lose your job now you will get so many men that are earning more 0.94

00:09:03.520 than that so that's the privilege privilege well i'm saying but you're common i do these shows all 1.00

00:09:09.040 the time like it's usually 70 grand 65 and up i'm only only only ever say that because i do myself

00:09:16.720 wait so but it doesn't matter okay that's the same okay stop stop okay it doesn't matter because men

00:09:22.880 don't value that they don't care about your money and i'm saying this i do i do well for for a 26 year 0.98

00:09:28.000 old at the pod they don't give a shit it doesn't matter to them so saying but i want that because i have 0.96

00:09:32.560 this it doesn't mean anything to them and i'm and when you you're asking for a guy that makes 80k 0.99

00:09:36.960 that's the top i think 10 percent of men in england and then the question is are you in the top 10 percent

00:09:41.360 of women right financially no for what men look for in women so young fertile um attractive so i i work 0.72

00:09:52.640 at a lot of events really good events really high-end events and uh i speak to a lot of people because

00:09:59.520 i'm friendly i love people they're great and this has never ever been uttered to me ever

00:10:06.960 because they're trying to sleep with you no no no they're not because i was in my marriage 0.51

00:10:12.000 oh they don't care

00:10:17.920 whichever way we want to twist it you're an attractive girl when are going to try to sleep

00:10:21.280 with you i don't identify as an attractive girl

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JustPearlyThings - March 23, 2023

Women Are DELUSIONAL

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