JustPearlyThings - Women Are PROGRAMMED To Believe THIS

00:00:00.000 i actually saw something on tiktok um a man he went to go see his daughter i think him and his

00:00:06.960 partner split up and they've been in like arguments for like months or whatever and he went to the

00:00:13.360 house and she attacked him and she he called the police on her and they arrested him yeah i mean

00:00:21.840 because men are automatically the aggressors that happens a lot not really as well like if you call

00:00:26.720 about someone a woman abusing you they'll they assume you're the one abusing so it's like it's 0.56

00:00:31.680 in their like terms of like that it's how they're trained um yeah and australia is also another place

00:00:38.320 where they're considering um giving boys vasectomies i feel like what these things yeah so they say they

00:00:45.920 say instead of birth control and condoms and all this stuff that since men have you know more sperm 0.97

00:00:50.720 that boys should just have beef have forced vasectomies in school that's the dumbest thing 0.94

00:00:55.600 and they talk about my body my choice but they never talk about um men don't have the right to 0.96

00:01:00.160 choose when it comes to selective service in the us so they're they're forced to be drafted if we

00:01:05.760 ever went into a war situation they have no choice over their body but um i would like to point out um

00:01:11.520 just for people who like the way i look at things it's how how i process what she's saying is you

00:01:17.680 notice like she keeps on mentioning this alleyway kind of scenario you think it's kind of interesting

00:01:22.240 that in the media when people kind of portray rape it's normally in the alleyway great oh

00:01:28.640 portray this kind of stuff it's normally in the alleyway anyway in a secluded place

00:01:35.600 it's programmed isn't it it's scary people watch these same videos especially the feminists they 1.00

00:01:40.720 watch these same videos they get these same narratives and then in real life they act like

00:01:45.520 they live in alleyways and that this is like a scenario that actually happens but it is yeah but the thing is

00:01:50.640 you're mo you're most likely to get great not in an alleyway by somebody that you know of course 0.96

00:01:54.960 yeah your partner or honest right so what so why the alleyway analogy is what is what you're saying

00:02:00.160 it's because she i think she lives where she lives

00:02:05.600 you're 32 and yeah so you can't pick somewhere that's not down an alleyway is there not a cost of

00:02:11.440 living crisis do you honestly think it's that easy to pick up and move you could move into a cheaper

00:02:16.720 area outside of the city there's always solutions to that and i say that's okay you're telling me

00:02:22.320 the only houses that you could live in are down dark alleyways my my flat my flat is not um down

00:02:29.120 a dark alleyway to get to eat you can walk down and anyway that's the way it is i can take you there

00:02:34.160 and show you if you want all of london there is nowhere i don't even know that is okay in all of

00:02:38.640 wherever you live in whatever town you live in the only places that you could pick to live you have

00:02:44.400 to go down dark alleyways what is this how does that make any sense it doesn't that's why what

00:02:51.280 do you mean so every time as a woman we buy a house we've got to scope the area to check if there's

00:02:55.600 anyway yeah if i live but why don't men just stop stalking okay okay if i i i live i i live here there's

00:03:02.320 no there's no guy that lives here and one of my requirements when looking at apartments was i need

00:03:07.600 a front desk person because i i want security because i don't want to be in a dangerous situation

00:03:13.280 um sorry i put off saying it because i'd imagine i'm in council so i didn't have a say where i got

00:03:17.680 but do you know do you know what you just said which is very interesting you said why don't guys

00:03:20.800 stop stalking yeah right you know society doesn't you know yeah exactly you know because one ends in

00:03:28.080 violence hang on hang on people get told not to do things all the time we get told not to steal we get

00:03:32.560 told not to murder and we get told not to great we get told to do a lot of things people still do it so

00:03:37.360 because we know people still do it right now it's time for you as a person to take to take it on

00:03:43.360 yourself to say if i know people do this let me put myself in a position where i'm most least likely

00:03:50.640 to have that affect me because people out there still like i've got a car should i have a car without

00:03:56.720 an alarm and a mobilizer no no but i can say people shouldn't steal cars of course i should say people

00:04:01.760 shouldn't steal cars but they do so i've now got to protect myself from the people that do steal cars

00:04:07.440 so this is one of the things about um self-agency and being like accountability for yourself and

00:04:12.320 i'm not saying that people should not or people should be grapes and people should be essayed but

00:04:17.120 i'm saying there are situations in their scenarios like pearl was saying that you can put yourself

00:04:21.360 in or not put yourself in to make that more likely to happen to you so do you do anything to

00:04:27.120 prevent like of course i switch up the way i walk home there's so to walk back into my estate there's

00:04:33.360 two alleyways or it would be like a 45 minute walk around the whole way okay i switch up my routine

00:04:39.040 every time i walk i've been watching crime documentaries from a long uh young age no no no

00:04:44.240 but that's the truth that's the truth though isn't it it's just what is is true but you know so

00:04:50.160 everything goes of course but it's not just it's not just women being killed by men but the thing is

00:04:53.920 that i find when i watch these documentaries where women are being killed by men is that there was

00:04:58.720 numerous numerous numerous numerous chances to nip it in the bud or put him away for life before it

00:05:03.760 got to the chance they killed someone can i ask you something that's literally with like every murder

00:05:07.200 every every situation yeah of course so so why is it like just just why we were talking about that

00:05:13.520 that's the same with every crime it should be the same with every crime you should get you should

00:05:16.320 get a sentence that that reflects the crime and you shouldn't be allowed to go out and recommit

00:05:19.760 i think i was gonna ask you something you said you watch a lot of um crime crime stuff i kind of

00:05:24.480 feel like you're kind of feeding into it you're feeding into the the trauma you're feeding into

00:05:30.640 the paranoia instead of taking accountability okay there's certain things you you you have a choice

00:05:34.880 on what you're putting into your unconscious yeah yeah you also have a choice of where you walk and

00:05:39.280 where you go i've also got you know a few more friends who take precautions you know they send their

00:05:43.760 live location they avoid certain places they stay on the phone to me or they they just don't go home

00:05:50.240 at a certain time i do understand that not everybody has the same form of a you know advantages or

00:05:56.640 whatever but there are things that you can do to adapt to this situation and when i look at you and

00:06:02.240 i listen to you like i keep on saying this is all a case of you not bridging but you know broadening

00:06:08.480 your horizons in terms of understanding we all know that people do bad things in different situations

00:06:14.160 but what are you doing to prevent that and protect yourself without having a hatred for that one

00:06:20.160 particular thing and like do you think that's like this is the reason why i'm having this conversation

00:06:26.320 the reason why we're doing this in a great area because i think that that's psychology that you have

00:06:31.360 is becoming more and more prevalent men are just being seen as automatic predators but they're just

00:06:36.240 being seen as automatic bad guy and it's like not a good one no but there's a reason but you need

00:06:42.880 men though but it's i never said i never said we didn't know i'm not saying i'm saying society needs

00:06:48.000 men so to paint men in a bad light consistently and continuously what it's going to do to men is

00:06:55.280 at some point men are gonna be like oh well if you see us as such bad people you know what you 0.98

00:06:59.600 lot do it yourself it's like good men built the world for us and you're shitting on them as a thank you 0.54

00:07:04.240 right do you think can i ask you a question do you look around the world as like in terms of 0.98

00:07:08.800 wars that are happening the abortion rights that have been taken away from women that over in

00:07:12.800 afghanistan with with their girls not allowed to go to schools and they're being married off

00:07:17.120 do you honestly think the world is a nice place to live right now i think that the world is we have

00:07:22.320 the lowest poverty rate ever in human history but that doesn't in the west in the west we are not

00:07:27.600 oppressed at all yeah not at all as a woman we have every single right you could possibly want

00:07:34.480 the thing is do you think the world is best is a good place yeah i think it's better than it was 500

00:07:39.760 years ago of course but i still don't mean it's good yeah but it's better than it was 500 years

00:07:45.440 i think the world is a great place to live i don't understand that question do you think the world is 0.69

00:07:49.120 a good place because oh because pearl said that our men created this world for us and i'm shitting on it 0.97

00:07:53.600 that's oh oh and so your question was the world sucks i'm i'm saying you were i mean you have more 0.95

00:08:00.160 safety than ever than women ever did like living being a single woman is a privilege yeah like you 0.99

00:08:06.880 historically could not do that because you would need to be protected from other men or other predators

00:08:14.000 right yeah and so men built this world where they're the police officers or the firemen they build the

00:08:19.760 buildings they're the engineers they're the plumbers they're the electricians 95 plus and as a thank

00:08:26.640 you you you call them all predators um you could not live the way you live without without men because

00:08:33.520 if you call the police it's gonna be a man most of the time you you want a woman turning up when you're 1.00

00:08:39.760 in trouble um i i um i don't have any faith in the police no i wouldn't call them unless it was like

00:08:46.960 desperate like i genuinely thought my life was going to end in seconds well it depends situational

00:08:52.960 um i don't know someone's breaking into your house what are you doing oh i suppose in those cases but

00:08:59.280 when it in certain things in certain your life is in danger who are you calling i don't trust them

00:09:04.400 okay who are you i will have to call them but i don't trust them doesn't seem like you trust many

00:09:08.720 people um i don't see why people do if i'm honest i don't look around and see much not joy in the

00:09:15.600 world there's plenty of joy in the world there is i'm not going to see her and say there isn't however

00:09:19.760 there's there's a massive problem when it comes to certain things classes and racism misogyny homophobia 0.96

00:09:25.040 they're all interlinked they're all shitting i don't think it's all profitable i don't think they're 0.98

00:09:29.520 all problems i think i think you go on tick tock and you watch videos no i've got a brain and i open my 0.99

00:09:35.280 eyes and i see what's around me complaining about the same things so for example homophobia homosexual 0.82

00:09:40.960 people are like two percent of the population okay so what does that mean that they don't need

00:09:44.800 protecting so the idea that this is like some massive problem is like what they don't matter on the first

00:09:50.160 to start off they're literally like a minority of a minority that's true and then on top of that 0.99

00:09:55.360 gay men do you think they're all predators as well my one of my best mates is gay one of my best 0.93

00:10:00.720 things is gay and you think he's a predator but he he's why would he be a predator yeah no i 0.97

00:10:07.280 understand what you're saying but to other men but i'm talking i'm talking about that as as a woman 0.90

00:10:11.680 do you see what i mean like in terms of again like i can't say all men but this is the thing that i think

00:10:16.400 i think i wish i would could rewind myself because i would love to know what you was coming up with

00:10:20.160 now because i've explained myself numerous times what i should have said to your question when you said

00:10:24.080 do i see men as predators what i should have said is situational okay so maybe if we go from then

00:10:29.520 then then it's a different thing so in a certain situation like i've explained i i would see all

00:10:34.480 men as a predator a hundred percent yes in certain situations i would see it i found that more women 1.00

00:10:45.200 i think more women are predators than men honestly i do i do street interviews at night 0.55

00:10:49.520 and i'm much more afraid of getting attacked by a woman than a man because if anything if i'm attacked

00:10:54.480 by a dude another dude will come help me i i've the only time i've ever been scared of getting like

00:10:59.280 punched or had someone attack me it was a woman that's that's fair that's your experience mine 0.99

00:11:03.120 would be a man so they're they were going to come from different angles aren't we as many of you know

00:11:07.520 i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to

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JustPearlyThings - June 09, 2023

Women Are PROGRAMMED To Believe THIS

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