Women Are PROGRAMMED To Believe THIS
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about rape culture in the UK and how it affects the way we grow up. We also discuss the dangers of living in the city and the lack of security in the suburbs, and how to protect yourself from crime.
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i actually saw something on tiktok um a man he went to go see his daughter i think him and his
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partner split up and they've been in like arguments for like months or whatever and he went to the
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house and she attacked him and she he called the police on her and they arrested him yeah i mean
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because men are automatically the aggressors that happens a lot not really as well like if you call
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about someone a woman abusing you they'll they assume you're the one abusing so it's like it's
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in their like terms of like that it's how they're trained um yeah and australia is also another place
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where they're considering um giving boys vasectomies i feel like what these things yeah so they say they
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say instead of birth control and condoms and all this stuff that since men have you know more sperm
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that boys should just have beef have forced vasectomies in school that's the dumbest thing
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and they talk about my body my choice but they never talk about um men don't have the right to
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choose when it comes to selective service in the us so they're they're forced to be drafted if we
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ever went into a war situation they have no choice over their body but um i would like to point out um
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just for people who like the way i look at things it's how how i process what she's saying is you
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notice like she keeps on mentioning this alleyway kind of scenario you think it's kind of interesting
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that in the media when people kind of portray rape it's normally in the alleyway great oh
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portray this kind of stuff it's normally in the alleyway anyway in a secluded place
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it's programmed isn't it it's scary people watch these same videos especially the feminists they
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watch these same videos they get these same narratives and then in real life they act like
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they live in alleyways and that this is like a scenario that actually happens but it is yeah but the thing is
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you're mo you're most likely to get great not in an alleyway by somebody that you know of course
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yeah your partner or honest right so what so why the alleyway analogy is what is what you're saying
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it's because she i think she lives where she lives
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you're 32 and yeah so you can't pick somewhere that's not down an alleyway is there not a cost of
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living crisis do you honestly think it's that easy to pick up and move you could move into a cheaper
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area outside of the city there's always solutions to that and i say that's okay you're telling me
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the only houses that you could live in are down dark alleyways my my flat my flat is not um down
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a dark alleyway to get to eat you can walk down and anyway that's the way it is i can take you there
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and show you if you want all of london there is nowhere i don't even know that is okay in all of
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wherever you live in whatever town you live in the only places that you could pick to live you have
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to go down dark alleyways what is this how does that make any sense it doesn't that's why what
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do you mean so every time as a woman we buy a house we've got to scope the area to check if there's
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anyway yeah if i live but why don't men just stop stalking okay okay if i i i live i i live here there's
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no there's no guy that lives here and one of my requirements when looking at apartments was i need
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a front desk person because i i want security because i don't want to be in a dangerous situation
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um sorry i put off saying it because i'd imagine i'm in council so i didn't have a say where i got
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but do you know do you know what you just said which is very interesting you said why don't guys
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stop stalking yeah right you know society doesn't you know yeah exactly you know because one ends in
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violence hang on hang on people get told not to do things all the time we get told not to steal we get
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told not to murder and we get told not to great we get told to do a lot of things people still do it so
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because we know people still do it right now it's time for you as a person to take to take it on
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yourself to say if i know people do this let me put myself in a position where i'm most least likely
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to have that affect me because people out there still like i've got a car should i have a car without
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an alarm and a mobilizer no no but i can say people shouldn't steal cars of course i should say people
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shouldn't steal cars but they do so i've now got to protect myself from the people that do steal cars
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so this is one of the things about um self-agency and being like accountability for yourself and
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i'm not saying that people should not or people should be grapes and people should be essayed but
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i'm saying there are situations in their scenarios like pearl was saying that you can put yourself
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in or not put yourself in to make that more likely to happen to you so do you do anything to
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prevent like of course i switch up the way i walk home there's so to walk back into my estate there's
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two alleyways or it would be like a 45 minute walk around the whole way okay i switch up my routine
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every time i walk i've been watching crime documentaries from a long uh young age no no no
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but that's the truth that's the truth though isn't it it's just what is is true but you know so
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everything goes of course but it's not just it's not just women being killed by men but the thing is
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that i find when i watch these documentaries where women are being killed by men is that there was
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numerous numerous numerous numerous chances to nip it in the bud or put him away for life before it
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got to the chance they killed someone can i ask you something that's literally with like every murder
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every every situation yeah of course so so why is it like just just why we were talking about that
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that's the same with every crime it should be the same with every crime you should get you should
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get a sentence that that reflects the crime and you shouldn't be allowed to go out and recommit
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i think i was gonna ask you something you said you watch a lot of um crime crime stuff i kind of
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feel like you're kind of feeding into it you're feeding into the the trauma you're feeding into
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the paranoia instead of taking accountability okay there's certain things you you you have a choice
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on what you're putting into your unconscious yeah yeah you also have a choice of where you walk and
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where you go i've also got you know a few more friends who take precautions you know they send their
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live location they avoid certain places they stay on the phone to me or they they just don't go home
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at a certain time i do understand that not everybody has the same form of a you know advantages or
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whatever but there are things that you can do to adapt to this situation and when i look at you and
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i listen to you like i keep on saying this is all a case of you not bridging but you know broadening
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your horizons in terms of understanding we all know that people do bad things in different situations
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but what are you doing to prevent that and protect yourself without having a hatred for that one
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particular thing and like do you think that's like this is the reason why i'm having this conversation
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the reason why we're doing this in a great area because i think that that's psychology that you have
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is becoming more and more prevalent men are just being seen as automatic predators but they're just
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being seen as automatic bad guy and it's like not a good one no but there's a reason but you need
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men though but it's i never said i never said we didn't know i'm not saying i'm saying society needs
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men so to paint men in a bad light consistently and continuously what it's going to do to men is
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at some point men are gonna be like oh well if you see us as such bad people you know what you
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lot do it yourself it's like good men built the world for us and you're shitting on them as a thank you
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right do you think can i ask you a question do you look around the world as like in terms of
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wars that are happening the abortion rights that have been taken away from women that over in
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afghanistan with with their girls not allowed to go to schools and they're being married off
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do you honestly think the world is a nice place to live right now i think that the world is we have
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the lowest poverty rate ever in human history but that doesn't in the west in the west we are not
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oppressed at all yeah not at all as a woman we have every single right you could possibly want
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the thing is do you think the world is best is a good place yeah i think it's better than it was 500
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years ago of course but i still don't mean it's good yeah but it's better than it was 500 years
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i think the world is a great place to live i don't understand that question do you think the world is
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a good place because oh because pearl said that our men created this world for us and i'm shitting on it
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that's oh oh and so your question was the world sucks i'm i'm saying you were i mean you have more
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safety than ever than women ever did like living being a single woman is a privilege yeah like you
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historically could not do that because you would need to be protected from other men or other predators
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right yeah and so men built this world where they're the police officers or the firemen they build the
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buildings they're the engineers they're the plumbers they're the electricians 95 plus and as a thank
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you you you call them all predators um you could not live the way you live without without men because
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if you call the police it's gonna be a man most of the time you you want a woman turning up when you're
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in trouble um i i um i don't have any faith in the police no i wouldn't call them unless it was like
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desperate like i genuinely thought my life was going to end in seconds well it depends situational
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um i don't know someone's breaking into your house what are you doing oh i suppose in those cases but
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when it in certain things in certain your life is in danger who are you calling i don't trust them
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okay who are you i will have to call them but i don't trust them doesn't seem like you trust many
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people um i don't see why people do if i'm honest i don't look around and see much not joy in the
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world there's plenty of joy in the world there is i'm not going to see her and say there isn't however
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there's there's a massive problem when it comes to certain things classes and racism misogyny homophobia
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they're all interlinked they're all shitting i don't think it's all profitable i don't think they're
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all problems i think i think you go on tick tock and you watch videos no i've got a brain and i open my
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eyes and i see what's around me complaining about the same things so for example homophobia homosexual
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people are like two percent of the population okay so what does that mean that they don't need
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protecting so the idea that this is like some massive problem is like what they don't matter on the first
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to start off they're literally like a minority of a minority that's true and then on top of that
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gay men do you think they're all predators as well my one of my best mates is gay one of my best
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things is gay and you think he's a predator but he he's why would he be a predator yeah no i
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understand what you're saying but to other men but i'm talking i'm talking about that as as a woman
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do you see what i mean like in terms of again like i can't say all men but this is the thing that i think
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i think i wish i would could rewind myself because i would love to know what you was coming up with
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now because i've explained myself numerous times what i should have said to your question when you said
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do i see men as predators what i should have said is situational okay so maybe if we go from then
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then then it's a different thing so in a certain situation like i've explained i i would see all
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men as a predator a hundred percent yes in certain situations i would see it i found that more women
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i think more women are predators than men honestly i do i do street interviews at night
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and i'm much more afraid of getting attacked by a woman than a man because if anything if i'm attacked
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by a dude another dude will come help me i i've the only time i've ever been scared of getting like
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punched or had someone attack me it was a woman that's that's fair that's your experience mine
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would be a man so they're they were going to come from different angles aren't we as many of you know
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i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to
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