JustPearlyThings - April 01, 2023


Women CREATE Unrealistic EXPECTATION


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8 minutes

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Word count

1,679

Sentence count

155

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Misogyny

23

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Toxicity

24

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21

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In this episode, we discuss the lack of accountability from men and how they should be held accountable for their actions. We also talk about the role of women in society, and why they are not responsible for their own actions.

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00:00:00.000 Can I can I? Oh, sorry. Yeah, I just wanted to say one thing. I know a lot of our conversation is focused in on accountability for women. But at least like I said earlier, like if you're a dude and you're unaccountable out here, I have I'm not sorry for you. Like, I'm not sorry for you. I don't care at all. And guess what? The world doesn't care. The world doesn't care if you fail and then you don't pick up the pieces. The world doesn't care if she cheated on you and you didn't improve on yourself. The world doesn't care if you're scared of failure. The world doesn't care.
00:00:30.000 The world doesn't care. They will never care. You have to be a man within your own right, within your own masculinity to pick up the pieces, solution for yourself, to create the life that you want. The world doesn't care. They care about women. They don't care about us. All right. So work on yourself and continue.
00:00:49.100 Keys to the game. Keys to the game.
00:00:53.560 What happened to your British accent just now?
00:00:55.720 You said an American just now.
00:00:57.460 They got real American.
00:00:58.860 No, because Sarah wants to come to the USA. What's up, IG?
00:01:02.260 I got you.
00:01:02.860 I'll be there, man. I'll be there, man.
00:01:04.360 Hey, that was good. He's good.
00:01:07.700 Okay, so question. Who created unrealistic dating expectations we have today? Where did it come from?
00:01:15.900 Oh, that's a good question.
00:01:17.460 Women. 0.81
00:01:18.080 Women. 0.81
00:01:18.500 I mean, let's not pretend.
00:01:19.400 I mean, what happens is women will go through trauma, make poor decisions and what they do instead of changing and growing, they will say, well, I have to level up and I have to pick, I have to, they add more standards to what they're, the men that they choose. 0.93
00:01:35.080 Instead of saying something's wrong with me, I need to take accountability and the choices that I've made, they will turn around and say, no, the men need to jump through higher hoops.
00:01:45.840 Now, I come now with more trauma, baggage, probably kids and everything else, but these men still, I'm now, as I age, I'm getting better like fine wine.
00:01:56.920 I'm getting better like wine.
00:01:58.700 And so they think that they keep raising these standards and men across the board, almost every man I talk to, they, for a woman whose mind is right, they will lower looks.
00:02:10.240 They will lower in every category.
00:02:12.380 I have yet to meet a woman out the bag that will say that they will lower their standards to get a certain type of quality. 1.00
00:02:19.640 The only time a woman lowers her standards in terms of looks and character and all of this stuff that they claim is when he has money. 1.00
00:02:27.020 I'm going to offer a different perspective.
00:02:28.720 I'm going to play devil's advocate.
00:02:30.300 Yeah, I was about to.
00:02:31.380 And the thing is, is that like, if you look at patriarchal regimes across our world right now, women can't create anything without a man.
00:02:38.620 Yeah.
00:02:39.020 Nothing.
00:02:40.140 They can't create anything.
00:02:41.520 They can't just step out of nowhere and just create feminism. 1.00
00:02:44.360 Feminism has to be supplanted by men. 1.00
00:02:46.880 It has to be.
00:02:48.420 And defended.
00:02:49.040 But what percent of men partook in making those laws versus what percent of women participated in it? 0.91
00:02:55.780 Listen, I think a lot of men.
00:02:57.520 The 1% made it. 0.99
00:02:58.100 I think, listen, at the end of the day, things get shifted and changed due to money and men wanting vagina. 1.00
00:03:05.320 That's why they say pussy runs the world. 1.00
00:03:06.700 Because of simp-ass men that can't control their goddamn eggplant. 1.00
00:03:11.180 Shit don't change in here without men. 1.00
00:03:13.960 Shit will never change in those other patriarchal regimes unless men allow it to. 1.00
00:03:17.740 Can I tell you, all the inventions that make women's lives easier now were created by men. 1.00
00:03:21.880 You goddamn right. 0.96
00:03:22.440 Tampons were created by a man. 0.98
00:03:24.080 Uh-oh.
00:03:24.640 Hats.
00:03:24.920 Women can vote because of men. 0.99
00:03:26.980 No.
00:03:27.460 Actually, because men joined that.
00:03:29.560 And so a lot of times we'll say that men are this way, men are that.
00:03:32.440 But they never give voice to the men that actually created things and joined, you know, with women to help create things.
00:03:40.000 So it's like they just throw men and men don't have a desire to put women down.
00:03:45.040 Like they don't even think of us in that way.
00:03:47.740 Like they feel good.
00:03:48.760 They have.
00:03:50.300 Let's talk about it.
00:03:51.260 So they don't have like, I think women have this idea that men just are thinking about how they can.
00:03:57.240 They can, you know, oppress us and do all this to us when every, every, even the C-section created by a man to save women's lives. 0.88
00:04:07.800 If you actually go through history, the majority of things that actually benefit women today that we take for granted and the same women will blame a man for getting pregnant,
00:04:18.760 but another man created the C-section so you and your baby wouldn't lose their life.
00:04:23.600 And so we don't think of these things, but we, I don't know.
00:04:27.000 It's just emotional talk.
00:04:28.440 We just say men are just men are the blame for everything.
00:04:32.040 Let's just put it out there.
00:04:33.320 To kind of answer your question, right.
00:04:35.640 To throw a different caveat in there, right.
00:04:38.620 Rich simp men changed the game.
00:04:42.940 When men decided that they've got a load of money in their pocket and they decided to start flying women out and they decided to start paying for everything for women because they had it. 0.82
00:04:53.360 What did, what did Lil Wayne said?
00:04:54.720 It ain't tricking if you got it.
00:04:56.520 Yeah, it is.
00:04:57.380 That's what he said, right.
00:04:58.880 He said, it's not tricking if you got it.
00:05:00.120 So these rich rappers who were still simps, but they had a lot of money started to change the game because a lot of women started to go to these concerts, go to these rappers and these rappers would pay for everything. 1.00
00:05:09.860 They'd fly them out.
00:05:10.800 They'd do all of this kind of stuff.
00:05:12.000 And then those women started to think, oh, yeah. 1.00
00:05:15.940 Okay.
00:05:16.280 Well, so-and-so flew me out.
00:05:18.000 So-and-so gave me money.
00:05:19.320 So-and-so done that for me.
00:05:20.600 And so rich simp men also had a hand in the market.
00:05:23.140 Do you know it wasn't the rappers?
00:05:24.740 It was the R&B singers.
00:05:26.120 Well, them too.
00:05:26.920 Whoever they are.
00:05:27.360 The R&B started it.
00:05:27.920 The R&B started it.
00:05:29.280 The R&B started it.
00:05:31.220 Do you think it's really simping if he gets sex out of it?
00:05:35.440 Yeah.
00:05:35.700 It depends how it's done.
00:05:36.720 You know what I mean?
00:05:37.380 Like, is it really simping to Drake?
00:05:39.180 Hey, listen.
00:05:39.660 If money is nothing to Drake, and he spends money to fly a girl out, the money is nothing 0.99
00:05:47.600 to him, and he gets sex with this girl he wanted to have sex with. 0.99
00:05:50.260 Yeah, because plenty of- 0.99
00:05:51.120 And I still think it starts with the women, because they have to accept it. 1.00
00:05:54.380 There's plenty of simps that get pity viscous innards. 1.00
00:05:57.380 Yeah, but people like Drake who have money, he might have game, right?
00:06:03.980 But when you've got money, you don't necessarily need game.
00:06:05.900 You've just got money, right?
00:06:07.300 So a poor guy who's got no money-
00:06:09.180 I said it was Rich Simps who did it, and I said, is he really a simp if he's flying
00:06:12.840 her out?
00:06:13.720 You know?
00:06:14.140 Yeah, I would say he was.
00:06:16.580 I would say he was.
00:06:17.760 Like, there's nothing to me, no matter how much money I've got, that's going to say,
00:06:21.120 oh, yeah, let me fly her out. 1.00
00:06:22.060 Why would you fly a vagina out when there's vagina right there? 1.00
00:06:25.500 Like, for what? 1.00
00:06:26.160 He wanted that vagina. 1.00
00:06:27.140 He wanted that specific one. 1.00
00:06:29.280 Men have a- 0.99
00:06:30.220 To me, if you're a billionaire, or a hundred millionaire, what is the cost of a flight to you?
00:06:36.060 It's nothing.
00:06:36.400 But the thing is-
00:06:37.500 And if you said, if all you had to do was tell your PA, hey, I want this girl at this
00:06:42.020 time, like, pull the money on my credit card, it's nothing to him.
00:06:44.980 But it's spoiling the market.
00:06:46.960 But that's what I said, it's spoiling the market.
00:06:48.700 So those guys, types of guys, they spoil the market.
00:06:52.780 That's what he did.
00:06:53.400 You mean the 5% women who blame men. 0.59
00:06:55.640 But that's still-
00:06:55.660 But that's 5%-
00:06:56.320 That's like blaming the 5%- 1.00
00:06:57.920 How many are rappers?
00:06:59.800 How many?
00:07:00.220 I can't hear you guys.
00:07:00.960 Go on.
00:07:01.660 No, go on.
00:07:02.120 I can't.
00:07:02.340 I just can't hear you.
00:07:03.020 How many are rappers?
00:07:04.360 I feel like that's the same argument to say, well, it's these 5% of guys.
00:07:09.140 And it's not even 5% of guys who are rappers.
00:07:10.860 It's a very small handful of guys who are rappers who actually do that.
00:07:15.020 I would-
00:07:15.380 It expands beyond that.
00:07:16.760 But it's still a small percent.
00:07:18.300 And why do we say that they spoil the market instead of the women spoil themselves? 1.00
00:07:22.400 Like, they didn't- 1.00
00:07:23.320 He didn't spoil shit. 1.00
00:07:24.560 She spoiled herself. 1.00
00:07:25.680 Bars! 1.00
00:07:26.880 Freestyle, Perl.
00:07:28.200 Freestyle.
00:07:28.920 I think the word simp gets thrown around without, like, a tangible definition.
00:07:34.220 So, like, personally, I don't think that if you're a billionaire and you fly a checkout,
00:07:37.740 or even a millionaire, you fly a checkout with, like, a, you know, $150-
00:07:40.860 to get round-trip on spirit. 0.97
00:07:42.160 That don't make you know goddamn Seth at all. 0.98
00:07:44.920 Okay? 0.97
00:07:45.620 And you're not even tricking either.
00:07:47.400 The average date nowadays in America, right?
00:07:52.540 About $150 if you want to take us out to somewhere nice to impress.
00:07:58.060 How you know?
00:07:58.300 This your game.
00:07:59.340 Y'all, ladies, be scared. 0.85
00:08:01.480 I mean, most of them, too.
00:08:02.540 You know what I'm saying?
00:08:03.180 He doesn't need to go anywhere.
00:08:04.340 He's in Atlanta.
00:08:04.880 Right?
00:08:05.860 I just got doxed.
00:08:06.640 She doxed you. 0.97
00:08:07.560 I'm not a use time.
00:08:08.860 Jesus.
00:08:09.220 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:08:16.280 on this platform.
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