Women Don't See The PROBLEM In This
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between female and male friends and how we should balance them. Is it okay for females to have male friends? Is it ok for males to have female friends? and is it okay to have more than one female friend?
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best friend with someone you have to tell them everything you won't say you know everything and
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that's the new like age like you should be best friends with your partner but in the old days
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your husband was at war you'd be home with the kids and then he would go out with his boy like
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i think men need male friends to hang out with i don't think we're meant to be their best okay okay
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and this is coming from someone you know i was a bit of a tomboy but it's like you know i just
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don't think men want to talk to you in the way they talk to other men we don't that makes sense
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they don't but men need male time and females need female time yeah and i don't really want to like
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talk to my my husband or my boyfriend about the same things i'm talking about a girl's night like
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it's just it'll be awkward it doesn't work it doesn't you know okay okay i'm like i don't
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believe what becky diane and deborah did and then he's like i don't care
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it kind of works we're at least we're at least with the girls they're interested yeah but then
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he's not your best friend because he doesn't have the same level of interest into the things that you
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do but there is a man that would be interested in what becky did i don't want the guy that's
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interested in women things like that's a feminine man i know i mean i i i pluck my eyebrows does that
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make me feminine i cry you know i get a haircut twice a week i'm gonna i'm gonna answer um yeah you
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know i do think you have a little bit of a feminine energy like just talking to you
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you know okay i i do i do get a little bit that's fine and i think like if you're crying all the time
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i do think you're more feminine than a guy that doesn't cry all the time trust me but why is it
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not okay for men to cry that's because women don't respect it women think you're a punk when you cry
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did i say it was not okay i mean you can do it but i think like as women we want a strong leader
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and like what we call our husband like our rock that we want we want to lean on right we don't
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want a guy that's crying all the time is is the president of the country like is trump when he
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was in office crying on stage you know you don't want that but equally a lot of women need to realize
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that you're not like the president too you're the first lady i'm president do you know what i mean and
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that like his analogies go that works quite well i think there's like we need to be different and
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that's actually a complement to each other and we need to work together in that way and i feel like
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as much as i hear what he's saying like being close is a great thing but we are different and
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we need to like come together in a different way so you kind of need to balance each other yeah yeah
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she's gonna fill in my flaws and i'm gonna fill in like yeah i think my best friend i think we
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read too deeply into it i meant someone that you trust you love someone who you you are happy to be in
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their presence and you know it doesn't feel like a chore i understand what you mean but of course we're
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not going to sit down and play xbox one and so i get it that's what no one would expect i would as
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well like yeah i was a bit of a tomboy i was a breakdown there's nothing worse than a girl trying
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to play playstation watch the girls being better than you guys you're taking away from my excellence
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right now okay i'm great at this girls you might be um say if you girls yeah are your partner's best
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friend yeah is it okay for your partner to have other lady friends is it okay for us to have
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more no it's rude to answer a question with a question
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i would it's difficult it's difficult one um before i would have said yes but i watched a
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what's that harvey weinstein no it was a guy i watched recently oh yeah yeah steve harvey
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yeah steve harvey and he was just saying something like um when male and females are friends it's
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because the woman hasn't allowed him in yet yeah i saw that video she had the slightest chance that he
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could go through that gap he would yeah and for me i was just like hmm that's very interesting do you
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girls agree with that or disagree yeah i agree 100 do you girls have male friends then i
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i do have i have male friends i have male friends and they know where they stand but they still they
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may know they stand but they they you know if you if you if you said to them you gave them the green
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light you know the greener if my partner wasn't happy with me having male friends i would happily
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you know cut them off would you all of you would you cut all the male friends off for the month um no
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it depends because i mean you're if you're telling me to cut off my friends
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but then but then you're still being able to have your female friends then no but if it's something
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that we're both willing to do yes if we're both willing to do it i don't see a problem with that
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but if it's a case of yeah you're my woman uh you can't talk to this person no
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i personally don't believe there's nothing so there's no such thing as a male best friend
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towards a female because i feel like every every guy would know what he wants and if he did put it
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on the plate and say i know if you a female did put on the plate for that guy and say like you know
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what i'm fed up on my guy that he's been peeing me off a bit like he's come around and show his
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intentions when i was one of my first girlfriends she convinced me it's not like that and you know when
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you're young and impressionable you're willing to like let things go because you really love her and
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all of that and then the minute we broke up he was in there he was dying everything i was like
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i'm never gonna allow this again ever it's the way it works i mean i was at a club last night
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yeah and i spoke to um this guy that used to be friends with one of my ex-girlfriends
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and even he said to me he was like you know when you used to go out with danielle i used to love her
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off you know i'm like oh word yeah he's like yeah man i used to proper love her off and i'm like this
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is this is exactly what i mean we can't really trust ourselves what if the girl's not attractive
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though if the girl's not attractive yeah what do you mean that's a good she could have a male
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friend yeah but he might not be the same level of service do you you know i mean you see like all
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the pretty girls they're like oh yeah my male best friend he'll pick me up any time of the night
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and all this kind of stuff you're gonna get certain um privileges from being that that good
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looking friend yeah you know i mean whereas if if i mean i've got what if it's a gay friend
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again if it's a gay best friend because i've had those that one's cool yeah so you're cool with him
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seeing her butt naked slapping her yeah no no no slapping her beauty but actually he can
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that's different i know i'm sorry someone pretend that was gay just because he wanted to go on her pants
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yeah and this ah this is what i was going to say so you can't even trust me before but you see um
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women cheat more yeah but see the men the men are more willing to be more conducive to the cheating
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so what's that mean so what it means is i will i will be more in a way to conduct myself for you not
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to get caught out and for our situation to keep evolving right so if i'm going to be a side negro
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yeah what i would tend to do would be to save my number as something else in a girl's phone book
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if if a man rings up my phone i'm not going to blow up her spot i'm going to say oh no no bro i'm
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i'm a cousin or like whatever it might well be i'm gonna but girls girls don't really give a
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shit you see once the jig is up yeah but yeah i told your girlfriend yeah you know what i mean
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i told your girlfriend about arsenal but men are more conducive we'll try and hold it down i've
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seen two girls go home in a taxi together wasn't it wasn't a good situation you know what i mean
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so we we are generally more conducive to you guys not being caught and if we're if we're the side
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pieces we tend to play that role better i believe whereas women they don't really give too much of a
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shit they they don't mind if men get caught when it comes to the cheating side of things that's what i
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think you know when when men do it men i think it's got a lot to do with a man's confidence as
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well when i was broke and i didn't look the way i did i'll be honest i was insecure i didn't want
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my ex-girlfriends lingering around other guys because i knew they were better than me but i've
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got to a position in my life by working on myself for two years without having a girlfriend where
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i'm i know mate i'm not god's gift bro just look at my height no no you i know i'm enough i know
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what's gift thank you so much i'll give you that 10 pound so at the end of the day i do know what
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i offer and um go ahead have as many male friends as you know that's true bro but we do have to we
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still have them in security i know what i offer but it's not about this question as many of you know
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