JustPearlyThings - October 24, 2023


Women Get BLAMED For Every Kind of Abuse in The Society


Episode Stats

Length

38 minutes

Words per Minute

196.58194

Word Count

7,561

Sentence Count

74

Misogynist Sentences

106

Hate Speech Sentences

95


Summary

In this episode, we talk about abuse in the home and how it affects our children. We also talk about how we can stop being victims of abuse in our own homes and how we should change the culture to make sure our children are protected.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Yeah, and so it's like when you have a mom that's like slept with the entire town
00:00:05.820 You know now they're gonna go to school and get bullied. Now your mom's a whore. Yeah, sure. Yep
00:00:11.620 You disagree? No, I agree. I was you switched your opinion. No, no, it's not it's not switch
00:00:16.500 It's just that everyone could do whatever they want. Yeah, but I don't think that
00:00:20.640 There's gonna be a big enough movement to change things. Yeah, so you you've accepted me out
00:00:25.380 You've accepted you just get depressed about I just think cuz it's so generalized as well
00:00:28.800 It's just gonna get worse. It's a bit nihilistic approach an approach for me, but well, I think at some point men will kind of
00:00:38.060 I think at some point men will take power back from women
00:00:42.240 I think social media is just gonna get worse and worse. Yeah, there's nothing worse than what's going on right now
00:00:49.320 None of you can lie. There's nothing worse than what's going on right now. Like you are right
00:00:54.040 We should really and truly protect the kids because at the end of the day like everyone in this room
00:00:58.800 We are road models to a child
00:01:00.800 Regardless, but it's if there's nothing worse than why it is right now
00:01:04.960 Like you can't do anything worse than what's going on. Yeah, but how can you change it?
00:01:09.340 I have a couple things I got I got I got some solutions for you
00:01:13.720 So I say one we got to get rid of no-fault divorce once you get married. You're stuck for life
00:01:19.840 Yeah, yes, I think that's number depends. I think no I think I'll give you an out
00:01:24.500 I'll give you one out and I'll give you an out for abuse if he's beating your ass
00:01:28.780 Okay, but I none of this like money like money abuse
00:01:34.060 Okay, that's certain people would just say oh this is what's happening
00:01:38.420 Oh, I know that's the women lie all the time about it
00:01:41.140 So so but what I would do is one I would I would make it so if she falsely accuses you she goes to jail
00:01:48.020 And it would be really harsh. So what about emotional abuse because you know, I don't I don't believe in emotional abuse
00:01:53.980 No, I don't believe in that. Oh, yeah, I think I think emotional
00:01:58.800 No, I think I think women emotionally abuse man. I don't think men emotionally
00:02:02.520 You don't believe in manipulation
00:02:04.520 No, I think I think all of these are just words that women make up to make themselves victims
00:02:09.720 So when the
00:02:11.720 And that's why we mentioned them both
00:02:12.720 What if you woke up every morning and your husband looked at you and said you look disgusting
00:02:18.080 Well, then I'd say I'd say how can I improve?
00:02:21.000 And then what if he says you can't?
00:02:23.000 Right? What do you do then?
00:02:25.000 Well, then I'd say I think I think that sometimes we just want to make ourselves victim like what is that gonna do?
00:02:30.680 So would you kind of say like all right then cool
00:02:35.080 Except for abuse like let's just put abuse in another category because that's separate
00:02:40.160 So would you say like for example the woman has to like
00:02:44.720 be already like
00:02:46.720 Acceptable like make herself acceptable for the man such as if she was fat, you know fats falling out everywhere like a bag of potatoes
00:02:53.600 Yeah, I think she would have to hit the gym. Yes, or possibly even get surgery to die on the table
00:02:58.340 Like would you say that's the extent a woman will have to go to to get surgery?
00:03:02.240 Okay, I think I think that we should start with the treadmill. Yeah, that's okay. Okay. Yeah, I think if you tell us salad
00:03:11.720 The wife is cooking steak and macaroni and cheese for her man, so she's never really gonna give it she can eat the salad, though
00:03:17.420 Yeah
00:03:19.420 But that's still the woman lowering herself. Yeah, she's gonna meet the man's
00:03:25.640 Self-improvement is a must man or woman. Yeah, it's a must but this but there's an emotional abuse way
00:03:32.360 Someone's making you feel like you don't want to live then you're gonna stay with that person
00:03:36.160 How can nobody I just think nobody can make me feel anything? I think women got to stop that strong
00:03:42.560 I think no, I think I think women I know because women are addicted to being victims look at every movie on TV
00:03:51.240 I agree with you, but like we just have a society that never tells us the truth
00:03:54.820 And like we look in every TV show every Taylor Swift song. It's you are a victim poor you
00:03:59.360 Yeah, like at some point Taylor Swift. I want an album. It was me. I am the problem
00:04:05.060 That's where that's where lead it. That's where well, like I was saying earlier
00:04:08.580 Leadership comes back in because if you have a strong man in the house. That's that's
00:04:13.880 Representing leadership and he's putting installing strength and installing yeah, but he's gonna tell you the truth and you're still not gonna like it
00:04:20.860 But then you know, no, no, no, she'll say she was emotionally abused. Yeah, but then
00:04:25.820 But then there's just
00:04:27.820 Someone just blatantly taking the piss and just knowing that you're not strong
00:04:31.240 I can't lie to you. It all stems from the beginning though like
00:04:34.780 Everyone has to pick their piece of shit and I think I work with it
00:04:39.800 And you have to work with it because realistically realistically in a way
00:04:44.800 You know a piece of shit and a piece of shit together is a big part of shit. So
00:04:48.760 So let's just live in a view
00:04:50.360 Well, why is it always assumed that he's the piece of shit? Maybe you're the piece of shit
00:04:54.040 No, because
00:04:56.040 Realistically, there's some traits that you yourself
00:04:58.520 I'm gonna have to water down. Yeah, so much the piece of shit. Yeah, so well
00:05:05.080 Everyone's got problems, right?
00:05:07.080 So everyone has problems. But so so I just think I think that a lot of times women want to like say
00:05:13.160 Oh, the man didn't lead but usually this is just what I find
00:05:16.840 I really think men naturally do lead when they have women that follow
00:05:21.400 That don't give them help. Yeah, but then but that's the thing not every man
00:05:25.080 I mean, it's nice to find the ones that do lead
00:05:27.400 But there's a lot of men that don't know how to lead and that's due to like maybe their upbringing
00:05:32.600 Would you give them the opportunity there?
00:05:34.520 I have a question, but who raised those men, right? That's what I'm saying. Sometimes they don't sometimes
00:05:38.440 They're men
00:05:39.400 Yeah, right
00:05:39.960 But sometimes they're not raised correctly or raised in a two-parent home where you need a man and a woman
00:05:44.840 And that's the problem because women keep leaving and they have no respect for you've got men that don't respect women in the first
00:05:50.360 Well, why why would they why would they when their mom left right?
00:05:54.040 That's what I mean
00:05:54.760 So it all goes back down to the leadership once you've got good
00:05:57.320 No, it goes back to the women's choices
00:05:59.960 Fair enough
00:06:00.600 No, I feel like there's a lot of aspects to why
00:06:04.520 I feel personally
00:06:06.200 I feel like for men who can't lead a woman or even his family
00:06:11.080 I feel like there's a lot of like background issues that go into that
00:06:14.760 However, where I have to where I have to actually step into this and be like
00:06:19.640 You have to you have to also be strong for the man
00:06:21.880 You have to also be there for the man if your man is weak, which you as a married person
00:06:27.480 If you feel like you're weak in certain aspects, for example, you're sick
00:06:30.600 Your woman's gonna look after you if you feel like, you know
00:06:33.640 You've not met my wife
00:06:36.920 She leaves me to it
00:06:38.200 Fair enough
00:06:39.000 But in certain circumstances like if you if you feel like you're weak in a relationship
00:06:45.720 That person should be able to nurture you and you should be able to do the same thing for the other person
00:06:50.200 A lot of women don't submit nowadays and that's the truth. There's a lot of women
00:06:54.440 Especially this generation everything that's going on with social media like he said a lot of women do not know how to submit
00:06:59.080 Do you know how to submit?
00:07:01.480 I think I definitely do now. I think when I was
00:07:03.960 16, 17, I don't think I knew how to submit, but now
00:07:08.280 That's what I want to submit. So he tells you he tells you delete your Instagram. Are you doing it?
00:07:12.600 Yeah, absolutely doesn't mean that much to me. Okay. I mean
00:07:15.880 I like I love my Instagram and I you know that's where I network and do my music and stuff
00:07:21.720 But if I was with somebody that I felt that secure with and happy with and we're building a life together
00:07:28.520 And I ask him to do something he doesn't mind
00:07:31.480 Why not?
00:07:32.200 Well, I think I think the issue that that I get into or I see a lot as women think we submit
00:07:37.880 But it's really conditional submission because it's only when he's leading perfectly
00:07:42.760 No, but that was perfect. Yeah, but that's but like when you're saying earlier. Oh, he stopped leading
00:07:47.640 You know, it's like is he only supposed to love you when you're being perfect?
00:07:52.360 It's not even just about love. It's about it's about there's a lot of things
00:07:55.880 There's a lot of aspects into having a relationship and it's about trust if you're waking up happy if you're waking up unhappy every day
00:08:02.680 Then I don't see why you should hear me. Yeah, I think your happiness doesn't matter
00:08:08.280 Of course. No, I don't think it matters at all. I think we've told us women. Yeah, I know. I know shock
00:08:19.000 So so I think we live in a society that's very self-centered and everything's about us
00:08:23.800 And I think especially women we've gotten a ton of attention from the time
00:08:27.560 We were like 14 15 years old when we got on social media, you know
00:08:31.800 Um, or whenever right because we got facebook we got and so you're immediately given all this attention from men, right?
00:08:39.000 And I think this has kind of made us brainwashed to think we're more important than we are
00:08:43.320 We're more special than we are and I think we think our opinion matters more than it does
00:08:47.960 I'm not saying our opinion doesn't matter at all
00:08:50.520 But I I don't think I think couples that really made it 50 60 years. They weren't concerned about happiness
00:08:57.080 I think they were concerned about duty and playing your role. Yeah, but now we've been told it's about me me me and my happiness
00:09:03.720 And I think that should be last especially when you got kids. I feel like that is due now
00:09:09.400 Because if you look at it social media has given so many people a voice
00:09:12.920 I feel like social media is definitely a bigger part to play in it and I also have to blame disney because
00:09:18.520 Cinderella snow white yeah
00:09:22.040 We all know how it's gone. It's been pushing our faces to have that fairy tale, but I feel like
00:09:27.000 Where we where we go wrong is
00:09:29.480 Realistically everyone deserves happiness. Why would you want to be in a situation where it's a shit show?
00:09:34.200 Like well, I think I think a lot of times women don't even know what makes us happy and I know I know seriously
00:09:40.280 Because we think very short term, so we'll go for that top guy
00:09:44.920 Right and is getting pumped and dumped a couple you know by the top guys really going to make us happy
00:09:50.680 Like think about it the last hundred years. We've had more choice than ever
00:09:54.200 We could do anything we want and we have chosen to be whores
00:09:57.240 As a group a hundred years ago 85 percent of us were virgins on our wedding days
00:10:02.440 Think about that a hundred years ago
00:10:04.520 Even even let's just say the women were liars right and let's double the amount
00:10:08.200 Like let's make it from 15 to 30 percent
00:10:10.120 That's still two out of three now waited till they were married got married young stayed married
00:10:13.480 And so it's like what what has us choosing done for us for our happiness when we follow our hearts
00:10:19.880 It's like we're led to destruction
00:10:21.960 But then you have to remember why women
00:10:25.560 Were eight wet wet were so much like
00:10:29.400 You have to remember why women so much had to like fight for their rights in certain in certain situations not every situation
00:10:35.800 So so in certain situations
00:10:37.560 No, i'll tell you it's all propaganda
00:10:39.560 They like funded the schools and like the women's studies department and basically rewrite history and there's like history
00:10:45.320 There's like articles of them doing this
00:10:47.480 They basically say
00:10:48.840 We're gonna speak for the women at the time, but the women of the time can't speak for themselves
00:10:52.840 So for example the anti um
00:10:55.560 the
00:10:57.560 Suffragettes which is the women that were like fighting to vote
00:11:01.480 Really weren't popular they weren't liked people thought they were crazy and they even wrote at the time
00:11:06.440 I don't think we get like it's gonna be tough for us to convince women to get out of the home
00:11:11.160 And the anti and they planned bombings they planned assassinations like these women that are like painted as heroes like fighting for our rights
00:11:18.360 They really weren't
00:11:19.960 They weren't the people you think if you actually read like the writings at the time the anti-suffragettes was like a bigger movement than the suffragettes
00:11:28.520 So but yeah, it's it's that's but see the reason you think that is because of the propaganda
00:11:33.880 It's like they put like women were just so easy to influence
00:11:37.560 It's so crazy and everyone's catering to us
00:11:40.280 So the the companies are trying to sell us something all the time
00:11:44.200 So typically what the companies will do is sell us that we can be young forever
00:11:48.600 That's like that's like typically women are the biggest market realistically because we consume
00:11:54.040 Yeah, and like the education they like sell they they sell us a lot of majors that just make us victims or we can like
00:12:00.600 Psychoanalyze men like we love psychology and like psychiatry and like women's study
00:12:07.560 And education you know
00:12:10.840 I don't know I don't know what it is
00:12:13.080 And then on top of that the politicians are all catering to us too
00:12:17.560 And the men are trying to sleep with us so they don't really tell us the truth either like he's saying he's gonna wife a hoe you know offense
00:12:23.080 But
00:12:26.760 Yeah for the night, but if you're looking for a wife tomorrow, you're probably not
00:12:30.200 You're not even gonna look at those
00:12:31.880 Or if you had the choice you'd pick a chick that was more pure
00:12:36.200 Your wife yeah, yeah, exactly, but like what they don't discriminate
00:12:41.160 So okay, if you were gonna have a child with someone you wouldn't I would I would choose the best of the bunch
00:12:46.280 Yeah, I agree with you. Yeah, me personally. Yeah, what what would you be happy to bring home to show mom?
00:12:53.480 To show mom or your grandma or like someone dearest to you like
00:12:58.120 Someone that ticks all the boxes excited deemed great good
00:13:05.480 Right, okay. Yeah, so what like what?
00:13:09.400 Oh, someone that's just got
00:13:11.400 Someone that's like family orientated a homebody
00:13:13.560 Someone that goes to the gyms into fitness, but also a hoe, but also a hoe, you can get all of those things
00:13:21.560 No, no, no, no, no, you said who would I like to bring home, yeah, okay
00:13:25.240 Yeah, I'd like to bring home someone with the the attributes that society would be good
00:13:30.200 So if she had all those things, yeah, but you knew she'd kind of been around a little bit or whatever
00:13:35.240 Yeah, would you just forget all of that and say this is a good woman?
00:13:38.600 Um, we just gel depends on if she's been with my friends or not
00:13:42.200 Okay, she hasn't been with your friends
00:13:46.200 That's that's what I like because a lot of men will be childish and be like
00:13:49.720 Oh, I could never be with her because she did this in her past and she did that in her past
00:13:53.320 As they should. Oh, that's actually one of my solutions is I think men should only get married to virgins
00:13:58.760 Oh, wow, I
00:14:00.760 You find the virgins
00:14:02.760 No, no, no, no, hear me out, hear me out, okay, let me, let me pitch this to you
00:14:06.760 That's the next t-shirt
00:14:08.760 Let me pitch it to you, let me pitch it to you
00:14:10.760 Let me pitch it to you
00:14:12.760 Now, you know, I'd like to say as, you know, a non-virgin, you know what I mean, I'm 26
00:14:18.760 I'm 26
00:14:20.760 This wouldn't even benefit me, but I really think it would benefit society
00:14:24.760 Okay, virgins have a 70 to 80 percent chance of a happy marriage
00:14:28.760 Now what happens when the marriages break down? What happens?
00:14:32.760 Um, there's more criminals
00:14:34.760 There's more people, there's more kids that run away from home
00:14:38.760 There's more criminals
00:14:40.760 Yeah, yeah, most criminals are from single mother homes
00:14:42.760 Okay, yeah, there's most people in mental institutions, single mother homes, school shooters, single, every like problem
00:14:48.760 The homeless single mother homes
00:14:50.760 It's really in single father homes don't have the same effect, okay?
00:14:54.760 So, so
00:14:56.760 When a woman has zero partners, she has 70 to 80 percent chance of being happy after 10 years
00:15:02.760 If you've slept with five men
00:15:04.760 Which the consensus from the men is most women have slept with five men
00:15:08.760 You know, the women will fight me tooth and nail on this
00:15:11.760 But when I talk to the men, they're like, yeah, all these chicks, it's at least five
00:15:14.760 Like they're like five is like a virgin now
00:15:17.760 That's what they, you know, that's what the guys are telling
00:15:19.760 Would you guys agree or disagree?
00:15:20.760 Yeah, yeah, definitely
00:15:21.760 Okay, they're like, they're like four, that's amazing
00:15:23.760 Like, and so, um, when you get to five, it goes down to a 20 to 30 percent chance of being happy
00:15:30.760 So now he's entering a contract where the woman can take everything
00:15:35.760 She can take your kids, she can take your house
00:15:37.760 And she could take half of your money pretty much at any time
00:15:40.760 And she could falsely accuse you of abuse and then go to court
00:15:43.760 Like it's really the odds are really stacked against them in court
00:15:46.760 And so this is really risky, right?
00:15:47.760 He could work his whole life just to have his wife take his shit
00:15:50.760 And then his kids are gonna be messed up too
00:15:53.760 So I just, as a guy, like, I think that he, they should just not make children with non-virgins
00:16:00.760 And just throw all the non-virgins away
00:16:03.760 Until the next generation of women are like, I want to get married
00:16:07.760 And it seems like that's the only way to get married
00:16:10.760 And I think we would learn, you know
00:16:12.760 And then maybe a couple non-virgins will like make it through
00:16:16.760 Do you know what I mean?
00:16:17.760 Like a couple non-virgins will be like, alright, I'm gonna work really hard
00:16:20.760 And just worship the ground he walks on
00:16:23.760 And then they might get in, you know what I mean?
00:16:25.760 But like, I think women, we just don't appreciate men
00:16:28.760 Unless we have to work for them
00:16:30.760 And I think the problem is now we just get them for doing nothing
00:16:33.760 And I think the men should like raise their standards
00:16:36.760 And I think that would fix a lot, not everything
00:16:38.760 But I think that's step one
00:16:40.760 So take away our vote, get rid of no-fault divorce and only marry virgins
00:16:45.760 You're welcome
00:16:46.760 Then there's gonna be a lot of single women out there
00:16:49.760 I do think men should raise their standards though
00:16:51.760 There's gonna be a lot of single women out there
00:16:53.760 And more or less
00:16:54.760 Based on our own choices
00:16:56.760 But as well, there's gonna be a lot of us running to the sperm banks
00:16:59.760 And that's gonna also develop a lot of single kids
00:17:01.760 Oh, I think that women should be banned from sperm banks
00:17:05.760 Yeah, I think, I think, yeah, this is another thing
00:17:08.760 I think we can go if we have like, okay, if you have fertility issues with a husband
00:17:12.760 Yeah, that makes sense
00:17:13.760 But if you're not married
00:17:14.760 Like, why are you choosing single motherhood?
00:17:16.760 Yeah
00:17:17.760 That's just selfish
00:17:18.760 You should be banned
00:17:19.760 So all these single women that wanna run to the sperm banks
00:17:22.760 Instead of dating an average guy
00:17:25.760 The one at the bottom
00:17:26.760 Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's like
00:17:27.760 The one at the bottom's waiting for you
00:17:29.760 He's waiting to have five kids
00:17:30.760 I think women
00:17:31.760 He's a really nice guy
00:17:32.760 He's a nice guy
00:17:33.760 He's a nice guy
00:17:34.760 Yeah, I just think we have too many options
00:17:36.760 And I just think society will be better if we had some consequence
00:17:40.760 I think at least the top two guys
00:17:43.760 Like, if Brad Pitt said I want a virgin tomorrow
00:17:46.760 He could get one
00:17:47.760 Like, sure
00:17:48.760 And so if you told the like
00:17:49.760 They'd have to make one
00:17:50.760 You know, like
00:17:51.760 Obviously a guy at the
00:17:52.760 Well, what?
00:17:53.760 They'd have to make one in a lab somewhere
00:17:55.760 All the women start that way
00:17:57.760 He'd just have to wait like five years for the next round of 22 year olds
00:18:01.760 Yeah, so I agree with you
00:18:03.760 I think
00:18:04.760 But like these women, you know
00:18:05.760 Made the bed
00:18:06.760 Lie in it
00:18:07.760 And you know
00:18:08.760 I think
00:18:09.760 If you don't want that outcome
00:18:10.760 Learn what men want
00:18:11.760 Work really hard
00:18:12.760 And some
00:18:13.760 You'll get someone
00:18:14.760 Yeah, one of them
00:18:15.760 But I think the majority
00:18:16.760 Gotta wait for the virgins
00:18:18.760 You know what?
00:18:19.760 What do you think?
00:18:20.760 Because this must be so crazy to you
00:18:22.760 Like as someone who's married
00:18:23.760 What do you think?
00:18:25.760 Um
00:18:26.760 I was cool with it
00:18:31.760 I'm
00:18:32.760 I'm not
00:18:34.760 I'm not
00:18:35.760 Not necessarily need a virgin
00:18:37.760 Fair enough
00:18:38.760 It'd be a perk though, right?
00:18:42.760 It'd be like
00:18:43.760 Yeah
00:18:44.760 Yeah
00:18:45.760 I mean if they got crazy high body count then
00:18:47.760 Yeah
00:18:48.760 I'm not
00:18:49.760 I'm not down for that
00:18:50.760 But
00:18:51.760 Yeah
00:18:52.760 But what if she was like
00:18:53.760 Super hot though
00:18:54.760 You gotta learn something somewhere
00:18:55.760 What if she was like
00:18:56.760 Super hot though
00:18:57.760 No
00:18:58.760 And she was your type
00:19:00.760 And you lot got on
00:19:01.760 Really well
00:19:02.760 Nah
00:19:03.760 Still no
00:19:04.760 Just cause of the body count
00:19:05.760 Yeah
00:19:06.760 Okay
00:19:07.760 Well what's he gonna do with like
00:19:08.760 The kids?
00:19:09.760 The kids?
00:19:10.760 Yeah like you want a whore raising the kids?
00:19:12.760 Well maybe she changes her ways
00:19:14.760 Halfway through
00:19:15.760 Like a whore housewife
00:19:17.760 Yeah
00:19:18.760 Do women
00:19:19.760 It's possible though
00:19:20.760 Yeah
00:19:21.760 Okay
00:19:22.760 Do women
00:19:23.760 Typically
00:19:24.760 Change for the better?
00:19:26.760 Yes
00:19:27.760 They say they do
00:19:29.760 I don't know
00:19:30.760 I mean
00:19:31.760 It's hard for a leopard to change his spots
00:19:33.760 I just think
00:19:34.760 Who self improves more?
00:19:35.760 Men or women?
00:19:36.760 Men
00:19:37.760 Like women
00:19:38.760 Whenever I hear this like healing stuff
00:19:40.760 It's like nothing
00:19:41.760 Yeah
00:19:42.760 No offense
00:19:43.760 Like I focused on
00:19:44.760 Like men's self improvements
00:19:45.760 Like I went to the gym
00:19:46.760 I made more money
00:19:47.760 Women's like
00:19:48.760 I focused on myself
00:19:49.760 No offense
00:19:50.760 It's true
00:19:51.760 Self improvement
00:19:52.760 I went to the gym
00:19:53.760 I made more money
00:19:54.760 Yeah but it's like
00:19:55.760 It's like
00:19:56.760 By focusing on yourself
00:19:57.760 You become a worse like partner
00:19:58.760 For someone
00:19:59.760 Yeah
00:20:00.760 I don't think so
00:20:01.760 Yeah
00:20:02.760 I mean
00:20:03.760 I think relationships
00:20:04.760 And that's what I believe
00:20:05.760 You attract where you are
00:20:06.760 So if you focus on God
00:20:07.760 You focus on your home
00:20:09.760 You focus on your money
00:20:10.760 You focus on your body
00:20:11.760 You focus on your spirit
00:20:12.760 Your mind
00:20:13.760 You're gonna attract someone
00:20:14.760 That focuses on the same things
00:20:15.760 Do selfish women typically make good wives?
00:20:17.760 Um
00:20:19.760 No
00:20:20.760 Because you have to be an unselfish person
00:20:21.760 To be
00:20:22.760 Right
00:20:23.760 So what do you think would benefit
00:20:24.760 The household's crazy
00:20:25.760 What do you think to be a wife
00:20:26.760 Would benefit us more
00:20:27.760 To focus on herself
00:20:28.760 Or focus on others?
00:20:29.760 Um
00:20:30.760 To focus on others
00:20:31.760 But I mean you have to have that time
00:20:32.760 Where you know yourself
00:20:34.760 Because if you don't know yourself
00:20:35.760 You can become actually very lost
00:20:36.760 Inside the household
00:20:37.760 What do you
00:20:38.760 I'll be so honest with you
00:20:39.760 As someone who has been single for a while
00:20:42.760 I would definitely say
00:20:43.760 It's not about focusing on yourself
00:20:45.760 I feel like it would be more like
00:20:47.760 Appreciative
00:20:48.760 And learning more from the people around you
00:20:50.760 Which is like friends and family
00:20:51.760 Like
00:20:52.760 You can
00:20:53.760 You can actually
00:20:54.760 Like
00:20:55.760 Without being in a relationship
00:20:56.760 You can actually give them more time as well
00:20:57.760 To kind of learn more
00:20:58.760 And also hitting the gym
00:21:00.760 You know
00:21:01.760 Leveling up
00:21:02.760 Having you know
00:21:03.760 More qualifications on your about
00:21:04.760 Bettering yourself
00:21:05.760 Yeah
00:21:06.760 That's it
00:21:07.760 When I mean like bettering yourself
00:21:08.760 When you are
00:21:09.760 You know fulfilled within yourself
00:21:10.760 You attract
00:21:11.760 Better
00:21:12.760 Yeah
00:21:13.760 That's what I find anyway
00:21:14.760 You attract more
00:21:15.760 You want more
00:21:16.760 You love more
00:21:17.760 So
00:21:18.760 I think when you love more
00:21:19.760 You get more love back
00:21:20.760 So
00:21:21.760 But then
00:21:22.760 It depends
00:21:23.760 Because if you are someone
00:21:24.760 Who is going to like
00:21:25.760 Be single and stay at home
00:21:27.760 Or you know
00:21:28.760 As Pearl said
00:21:29.760 Be more selfish
00:21:30.760 Oh no
00:21:31.760 Single life is
00:21:32.760 No it's not nice
00:21:33.760 Like everyone knows
00:21:34.760 It's not nice
00:21:35.760 Like everyone knows
00:21:36.760 But obviously
00:21:37.760 You are going to have so much focus on yourself
00:21:38.760 When somebody comes in
00:21:39.760 You know
00:21:40.760 You are never going to really see
00:21:41.760 What's good for you
00:21:42.760 In that situation
00:21:43.760 You are never going to really see
00:21:44.760 How much that person
00:21:45.760 Just wants you as a person
00:21:47.760 Will come into your life
00:21:48.760 And actually do something for you
00:21:50.760 Yeah
00:21:51.760 I mean I totally agree
00:21:52.760 I think
00:21:53.760 You always need to
00:21:54.760 Keep learning more
00:21:55.760 You always need to
00:21:56.760 Surround yourself with good people
00:21:57.760 I couldn't imagine my life
00:21:59.760 Without
00:22:00.760 You know
00:22:01.760 Having a family
00:22:02.760 Without having my kids
00:22:03.760 I could never
00:22:04.760 They go away for like a day or two
00:22:05.760 And I'm going crazy
00:22:06.760 Because I'm not used to that
00:22:07.760 So definitely
00:22:08.760 A family
00:22:09.760 Home is
00:22:10.760 A must
00:22:11.760 For me
00:22:12.760 Personally
00:22:13.760 You lot sound like an Instagram
00:22:14.760 Motivation page
00:22:15.760 Don't push it
00:22:16.760 I might just make one
00:22:17.760 Alright
00:22:19.760 I'm going to read
00:22:20.760 We got another
00:22:21.760 Hundred dollar super chat
00:22:23.760 Thank you Thane
00:22:24.760 Okay
00:22:25.760 Thane Matra
00:22:26.760 He's back
00:22:27.760 He says
00:22:29.760 When men have the most options
00:22:30.760 And resources
00:22:31.760 Between 27 to 43
00:22:33.760 They marry
00:22:34.760 When women have the most options
00:22:36.760 Like youth and fertility
00:22:38.760 They opt for the outside
00:22:40.760 Nuff said
00:22:41.760 Abdi Castillas
00:22:42.760 Pearl I love your shirt
00:22:44.760 Cool dating hat
00:22:45.760 Now the hack
00:22:46.760 Now the women will come to me
00:22:47.760 Yes guys
00:22:48.760 If you just want to be a ladies man
00:22:50.760 You want the women to just
00:22:52.760 Come up to you
00:22:53.760 And talk to you all the time
00:22:54.760 These shirts
00:22:55.760 It's in
00:22:56.760 I don't have them in white
00:22:57.760 I just have them in black
00:22:58.760 But they're in
00:22:59.760 They're in the description
00:23:00.760 It's
00:23:01.760 The audacity network
00:23:03.760 Dot store
00:23:04.760 That's the audacity network
00:23:05.760 Dot store
00:23:06.760 Get you a woman shouldn't vote shirt
00:23:08.760 We have gotten too many rights
00:23:09.760 We've gotten out of control
00:23:11.760 We need to take them away
00:23:13.760 We need to start repealing our rights
00:23:15.760 Driving is next
00:23:16.760 I think we'll do women shouldn't drive
00:23:18.760 Next
00:23:19.760 Now
00:23:20.760 Creation Muse
00:23:21.760 It all starts
00:23:22.760 In high school
00:23:23.760 The guys have
00:23:24.760 No real money
00:23:25.760 But are popular
00:23:26.760 Are attractive
00:23:27.760 It's not that women are dating the same guy
00:23:28.760 It's the fact that they are dating the same types of guys
00:23:31.760 The honest a-hole
00:23:32.760 A leader has to have the
00:23:34.760 Oh I read that one already
00:23:35.760 Prager's
00:23:36.760 It was alleged that Lucy Letby killed the baby
00:23:39.760 For her doctor's boyfriend's attention
00:23:42.760 For her doctor boyfriend's attention
00:23:43.760 Enough
00:23:44.760 Oh my god
00:23:45.760 Oh yeah that's the recent case
00:23:46.760 I'm gonna
00:23:47.760 Yeah we're gonna talk about that
00:23:48.760 Nath Step RTV
00:23:49.760 The truth is that biologically women are only loyal to their feelings
00:23:54.760 Where men are loyal to responsibility
00:23:56.760 So that's why they can cheat or leave so easily
00:23:59.760 Yeah what do you guys think that Lucy Letby
00:24:01.760 Was killing literally killing children for attention
00:24:05.760 I think that's disgusting like
00:24:08.760 It's something that
00:24:09.760 The bigger picture is like
00:24:10.760 It's something that should never have been swept underneath the rug
00:24:13.760 Like fair enough doctors do kill people by accident sometimes
00:24:17.760 By giving them wrong medication or
00:24:19.760 You know diagnosing them or something
00:24:21.760 But realistically like
00:24:23.760 Why would you not want to take somebody else's health
00:24:27.760 So much more seriously
00:24:29.760 And sweep that underneath the rug
00:24:31.760 Seven's just too much
00:24:33.760 That's what I was gonna say
00:24:34.760 How did that go on for so long?
00:24:35.760 For so long?
00:24:36.760 I think because she was a woman
00:24:38.760 No I don't think it is
00:24:39.760 And she looked all sweet and innocent
00:24:40.760 Yeah
00:24:41.760 It's the eyes like
00:24:42.760 She just looks so innocent
00:24:43.760 No I know
00:24:44.760 That's it
00:24:45.760 She probably did more for the hospital as well
00:24:47.760 Someone said she looked like my cousin
00:24:49.760 I was like god damn it
00:24:51.760 I was like god damn it guys
00:24:53.760 Can someone fill me in?
00:24:54.760 I don't know what's your name
00:24:55.760 Oh there is a woman who
00:24:57.760 Her name was Lucy Letby
00:24:59.760 And she got arrested for killing seven children
00:25:02.760 Or babies
00:25:03.760 Yeah she was a nurse
00:25:04.760 All at the same time?
00:25:05.760 No it was over the course of a couple years
00:25:07.760 But they found out she was dating a doctor
00:25:09.760 Like a married doctor
00:25:11.760 And they think she was killing the babies to get his attention
00:25:14.760 How?
00:25:15.760 She injected them with like something
00:25:17.760 Okay
00:25:18.760 Yeah it was like the wrong
00:25:19.760 And it was for his attention?
00:25:20.760 Yeah
00:25:21.760 What kind of attention?
00:25:22.760 Because he would like help her with them
00:25:24.760 When they would go down south or whatever
00:25:26.760 Oh
00:25:27.760 Yeah
00:25:29.760 Yeah
00:25:30.760 No but I think social media has made us insane
00:25:33.760 Yeah especially because we pay more attention to it
00:25:36.760 Yeah well I think it's like we're all just so addicted to it
00:25:39.760 And it's like when the social media
00:25:41.760 And I really think there's going to be women with a lot of mental health issues in like 10 years
00:25:46.760 Because I think when the attention like they're less attractive they get older
00:25:50.760 And it's like when the attention starts to go I just think a lot of women are going to go nuts
00:25:54.760 I think that's how we see life though
00:25:55.760 We see other people's lives
00:25:57.760 We see snippets of happiness
00:25:58.760 And that's what we kind of chase
00:26:00.760 And that's not how everyone's life is
00:26:02.760 Yeah we've got to learn to live in the moment more
00:26:04.760 And just spend days off for social media completely
00:26:07.760 And just appreciate what you have like your family, your home, you know the small things
00:26:11.760 I think everyone needs therapy
00:26:14.760 Yeah that's true
00:26:15.760 Oh no I think that makes you worse
00:26:17.760 No I feel like
00:26:19.760 I feel like
00:26:20.760 I disagree with you
00:26:21.760 I felt the best cause of action for this is just the throw away you found
00:26:25.760 Well I actually
00:26:27.760 You better ask
00:26:28.760 Well this one
00:26:29.760 This actually this wouldn't help me personally
00:26:31.760 But sometimes I'm like
00:26:32.760 If you had a brick knock you right now
00:26:34.760 You would be so much better
00:26:35.760 No hear me out hear me out
00:26:36.760 Ban women
00:26:37.760 Exactly
00:26:38.760 Ban women off of social media
00:26:39.760 It makes us too crazy
00:26:41.760 I think the men can kind of handle it
00:26:42.760 Is this the next t-shirt?
00:26:43.760 What?
00:26:44.760 Is this the next t-shirt?
00:26:45.760 Well you know I don't want to push this one too much
00:26:47.760 I make money off of it
00:26:49.760 But I was like you know
00:26:51.760 I think that might be a net good
00:26:53.760 But I was like we would find a way back on
00:26:55.760 You can keep us off
00:26:56.760 But okay therapy
00:26:58.760 You think it's a good thing?
00:27:00.760 Yes
00:27:01.760 Yes it's definitely changed my view on life
00:27:04.760 Okay
00:27:05.760 Why how?
00:27:06.760 I've had a really rough upbringing
00:27:09.760 Abusive background
00:27:11.760 Dad used to beat me
00:27:12.760 My mom was an alcoholic
00:27:14.760 Um
00:27:15.760 And I had like six years of therapy
00:27:16.760 And
00:27:17.760 I always used to see
00:27:19.760 My glasses like
00:27:20.760 Half empty
00:27:21.760 Rather than half full
00:27:23.760 So what did you see before
00:27:25.760 Like what was the difference between you
00:27:26.760 Six years
00:27:27.760 Like
00:27:28.760 It's hard to explain it
00:27:29.760 But I used to see everything as black and white
00:27:31.760 Like the world was just black and white
00:27:33.760 And now it's sort of got its color back
00:27:35.760 So now I can see things
00:27:38.760 In a positive light
00:27:40.760 Which is
00:27:41.760 It was really difficult before
00:27:42.760 And um
00:27:43.760 You know like when you tell people
00:27:45.760 That they just don't get it until they experience it
00:27:47.760 Um
00:27:48.760 Which is like depression and
00:27:50.760 Just sadness
00:27:51.760 Just general sadness
00:27:52.760 Um but
00:27:53.760 I think
00:27:54.760 Therapy helped me understand why things happen
00:27:56.760 And
00:27:57.760 How things happen
00:27:59.760 So the whys and the whys
00:28:01.760 So all the questions that I've got
00:28:02.760 Over the six years of therapy
00:28:04.760 Really helped me understand who I am
00:28:07.760 Who my
00:28:08.760 Uh
00:28:09.760 My
00:28:10.760 My parents are
00:28:11.760 Um
00:28:12.760 Why they did the things they did
00:28:13.760 And why
00:28:14.760 I am
00:28:15.760 Why I am
00:28:16.760 And why I make decisions
00:28:17.760 So there was loads of questions answered
00:28:19.760 Which
00:28:20.760 Which
00:28:21.760 Now help me navigate
00:28:22.760 Moving forward in life
00:28:24.760 Just
00:28:25.760 Just day to day things
00:28:26.760 Yeah
00:28:27.760 Just I can now understand
00:28:29.760 Why everything is happening
00:28:30.760 And I can change it actively
00:28:32.760 If I want to
00:28:34.760 Therapy literally saved my life
00:28:36.760 Yeah
00:28:37.760 Well
00:28:38.760 Same
00:28:39.760 I saved my life too
00:28:40.760 What was your experience?
00:28:41.760 So
00:28:42.760 Um
00:28:43.760 I went through about a depression
00:28:44.760 Um
00:28:45.760 Actually sort of earlier this year
00:28:46.760 Bring the mic up
00:28:47.760 Um
00:28:48.760 And
00:28:49.760 Yeah
00:28:50.760 I made an attempt on my life
00:28:52.760 Oh wow
00:28:53.760 From there I went into therapy
00:28:54.760 And
00:28:55.760 Um
00:28:56.760 Yeah
00:28:57.760 Changed the way I see things
00:28:58.760 Changed the way I am
00:28:59.760 Yeah
00:29:00.760 Yeah
00:29:01.760 Yeah
00:29:02.760 It's not a competition
00:29:03.760 But I've made like six attempts on my life
00:29:04.760 Yeah
00:29:05.760 Oh wow
00:29:06.760 Yeah
00:29:07.760 So
00:29:08.760 If it is competition you win
00:29:09.760 So
00:29:10.760 Thank you
00:29:11.760 I'll tell you
00:29:12.760 I'll tell you why I don't believe in therapy
00:29:14.760 Now
00:29:15.760 I think there's an individual
00:29:16.760 Have you had it
00:29:17.760 Yeah
00:29:18.760 And I thought it was stupid
00:29:19.760 How long did you do it for?
00:29:20.760 Like a couple sessions
00:29:21.760 And I was like
00:29:22.760 It was stupid
00:29:23.760 Exactly
00:29:24.760 No no
00:29:25.760 I'll tell you guys
00:29:26.760 Let me explain why
00:29:27.760 Please
00:29:28.760 And then you can rebuttal
00:29:29.760 So
00:29:30.760 If you look into the history of psychology
00:29:32.760 It was started by some of these big families
00:29:34.760 Um
00:29:35.760 And I really think it's just usually a way to make men more feminine
00:29:39.760 And teach them how to communicate like women in general
00:29:42.760 And I think you can see this because 90% of therapists are women
00:29:46.760 And I actually went to school for psychology
00:29:49.760 And those bitches are crazy
00:29:50.760 I'm like if these are the women that are telling everyone how to think
00:29:53.760 Oh my god
00:29:54.760 Now I do think there's individual therapists that are good
00:29:57.760 Usually men
00:29:58.760 I don't think it's like
00:29:59.760 I just think women don't look to solve problems
00:30:01.760 They look to like hear you and listen to you
00:30:05.760 But not necessarily solve problems
00:30:07.760 So the therapists that I do think are good are typically men
00:30:10.760 Not typically women
00:30:12.760 Which is only 10% of therapists
00:30:14.760 So
00:30:15.760 And usually what I find is that
00:30:18.760 Especially chicks will go to therapists for years
00:30:21.760 And then learn all these like think everybody's a narcissist
00:30:24.760 Think everyone's toxic in their life
00:30:26.760 And I really think therapy has replaced what used to be a strong family structure
00:30:30.760 Because you used to be able to go to like someone in your household
00:30:34.760 In order to like fix problems
00:30:36.760 But the issue is we have such a fucked up like family structure right now that people don't have families to go to
00:30:41.760 And they go to a stranger instead
00:30:43.760 And I think it would be better if we could go to families instead of go outside of it
00:30:48.760 Okay
00:30:49.760 But you do know like there's different types of therapies like there's speak therapy
00:30:53.760 There's music therapy like there's different forms of that which could help
00:30:58.760 I think there's individual instance
00:31:01.760 I think male therapists are decent
00:31:03.760 Like I think I think
00:31:04.760 I think some of my best therapists have been male
00:31:06.760 Yeah, I just I just find that women are most of like most therapists
00:31:10.760 It's like 90% are women
00:31:11.760 And I just don't think women look to solve problems
00:31:14.760 Yeah
00:31:15.760 They just look to like listen
00:31:16.760 Which is fine, but I just think that it doesn't
00:31:20.760 But like you said like if you don't have that family
00:31:22.760 Correct
00:31:23.760 Unit
00:31:24.760 Yeah
00:31:25.760 Who do you turn to?
00:31:26.760 Do you know what I mean?
00:31:27.760 But now I'm more open to speak to friends
00:31:29.760 I'm more open to speak to
00:31:30.760 I can speak to strangers about how what I've been through
00:31:33.760 Yeah
00:31:34.760 Because you've spoke to a therapist
00:31:36.760 Yeah, it helped me open up to people and things
00:31:40.760 But you see that's like a more feminine trait
00:31:42.760 And that's why I say I think therapy like typically makes men into women
00:31:46.760 More feminine because
00:31:47.760 Because either that will be dead
00:31:49.760 You know I'm not saying it doesn't help in some instances
00:31:52.760 Yeah
00:31:53.760 So you know I'm not trying to like knock your story or anything
00:31:55.760 No, no, no, no, I'm fine
00:31:56.760 But I've just I've just found that like
00:31:58.760 I think that therapy tells men to emote like women
00:32:02.760 Because typically like women are the ones that need to talk about their problems to feel better
00:32:07.760 Yeah
00:32:08.760 Where men don't you know they'll like fight it out or like you know just in general right
00:32:12.760 You think that that's good?
00:32:13.760 I think that making someone into something they're not is bad
00:32:18.760 And I think making men into women is bad
00:32:20.760 And we've always been told that the feminine way to do things is good
00:32:23.760 Okay
00:32:24.760 So I would like to add typically I would say instead of therapy what people should seek out is mentorship
00:32:31.760 So you want someone that would teach you how to attack problems in life
00:32:36.760 And how to build on positive steps each day
00:32:40.760 So the reason why a lot of people fall into depression is usually for a few reasons
00:32:44.760 One things are not going right in their life or they don't have direction
00:32:48.760 That is usually the reason why people fall into depression
00:32:50.760 So if you have someone that can show you steps okay you know what today go to the gym
00:32:54.760 Even when you don't feel like going to the gym still do it they push you you go
00:32:58.760 Over time you tend to build up small wins and then with each small win you build up character
00:33:04.760 Yeah
00:33:05.760 So this is the thing a lot of men these days fall into the trap of going to therapy when you should actually be
00:33:10.760 Seeking mental
00:33:12.760 Yeah
00:33:13.760 Because as men we get our source of strength and our source of motivation from actually building things
00:33:20.760 Making um little successes here and there
00:33:24.760 So you can't just sit in a room and be talking about your feelings and expect that
00:33:28.760 I mean it could help it could work for some people
00:33:30.760 Yeah a lot of people it doesn't actually work
00:33:32.760 Yeah
00:33:33.760 I think it's better for people if not just even men both men and women to focus on
00:33:37.760 Doing things day by day and getting small wins and that way you can come out of anything
00:33:42.760 That's true
00:33:43.760 Yeah
00:33:44.760 I actually think this right here would help more people than therapy
00:33:50.760 Now this is just my personal opinion okay so this is just Pearl's thought
00:33:55.760 I think the natural order of the world okay
00:33:58.760 God
00:33:59.760 Men
00:34:02.760 Women
00:34:04.760 Children
00:34:07.760 All right, so for those that couldn't hear god men women children
00:34:14.760 I think most of the time when evil happens or family dysfunction happens it's because women think they're equal to men
00:34:21.760 So I think typically it's the women trying to impose their will on men and a lot of people with the daddy issues actually have mommy issues because the mom
00:34:30.760 Women it's like our our violence is social destruction. So a lot of people hate the dad
00:34:36.760 But it's really the mom and usually when the family's out of order it's because of the mom
00:34:41.760 Typically because the mom either didn't listen to the dad she didn't respect the dad or
00:34:47.760 She
00:34:49.760 Or she socially like she told the kids that the dad was bad
00:34:53.760 That's what I think most of the time I'm not saying like this doesn't happen to there's evil men there's evil women
00:34:59.760 But if I had to just go on a balance of probabilities
00:35:02.760 That's that's what I think when there's like family dysfunction and you can always tell when there's family dysfunction based on the children
00:35:08.760 So like an example I'll give you guys will and Jada Smith, right? I knew remember
00:35:13.760 I'll give you an example right you guys do you remember when they're a power couple and everyone loved them?
00:35:19.760 Yeah, I knew they were messed up because their kids were so messed up like why is willow and like whatever their names are they're dressing like the opposite
00:35:27.760 Jen like that's not normal right from like a true like I mean I'm pro like traditionalism so
00:35:33.760 I I think that's like a bad thing right and so I knew they're a messed up and so what what's the problem with that family dynamic?
00:35:40.760 Jada thinks she's equal to will and she's constantly imposing her will on on will and will listens to his wife
00:35:48.760 No, seriously, do you guys do you guys think that like will's idea was to do the open marriage? No, no, no
00:35:54.760 It was hers right because it was correct
00:35:56.760 Like what happened in the what happened in the Garden of Eve?
00:35:58.760 Like like Adam Eve had everything and she wasn't happy and Adam listened to his wife and I think that's what we're seeing in society is women will have everything
00:36:07.760 They're not happy and then they listen and then the men listen to their wives and I think you know when women have the most choice
00:36:15.760 Unfortunately, we make poor decisions, you know again in the last hundred years
00:36:20.760 We've all chosen to be whore, you know, and we you know, it's like everyone's and I do just I do the show so much
00:36:26.200 It's like everyone's got a toxic ex-boyfriend everyone, you know
00:36:30.600 You know everyone's dated a guy that's cheated and it's like it we just don't we're we just are very loyal to our feelings
00:36:36.900 So it doesn't mean we're like bad people. It's just kind of how we are. We're loyal to our feelings
00:36:41.080 We're men. I think men naturally and this is this is out there, okay
00:36:45.560 I think men naturally have God inside of them now again
00:36:48.860 I'm a Catholic and the reason I think this is because when men
00:36:52.800 Act bet too bad other men police them or when women act bad other women encourage it, right?
00:36:59.700 So when women get fat, we say you're so beautiful. You're a queen, right? When women are whores
00:37:04.340 We say don't slut shame, but when men do drugs and they become drug addicts other men say no don't do that
00:37:10.060 Don't live your and that they'll even admit that's wrong and you shouldn't live your life like that
00:37:14.040 So I think men just are naturally better people than women. I know. I know this is like a crazy thought
00:37:19.800 But yeah, I think I think I and I think knowing women and female and female nature
00:37:25.440 Helps society more because it kind of explains our behavior a little bit better
00:37:29.820 And I think most of the time women that impose their will on men
00:37:33.980 That's when you get the kids being messed up and you can always see if a family dynamic is good based on the children
00:37:40.160 Yeah, that's that's my therapy. That's pearls therapy
00:37:47.780 Completely agree really great. Yeah, I thought this is so wild. I've never had a room agree with that
00:37:52.660 You seem like you disagree a little bit. No, no, no, no. Yeah, I agree
00:37:56.600 So men are better people than women
00:37:58.600 To an extent
00:37:59.600 I think they're stronger people than women
00:38:01.600 I think men are stronger as I said and it goes back down to men leading when when women allow men to lead
00:38:08.780 Yeah, when men lead you can see it in the children as many of you know
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