JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023


Women Have CHANGED

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Steve Harvey
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Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

205.03

Word count

1,765

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

10

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the age difference between older women and younger women in the dating game and how it affects women of all ages. Do you have a woman in your life who is older than you? Have you ever been in competition with a younger woman? Do you feel like the older women in your circle are competing with you for your love? Are you jealous of other women because they are older? Are they jealous of younger women because you are younger than them? What does it mean to be an older woman? How does it feel to be a woman of your age?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 do you have anybody a woman an older woman who says i love you the only thing i want is the best
00:00:07.180 for you they're not in competition they're not trying to put negativity they want to hear what
00:00:11.160 you have to say they want to meet him love on him and actually get the real thing do you have
00:00:15.140 any woman in your life like that that's older okay so this is a failure maggie what we talked 0.99
00:00:21.320 about just on her podcast we did yesterday older women we have failed younger women like her i'm
00:00:28.680 41 you just you're about to turn 21 yeah like we're a 20 year difference you know like mothers as well
00:00:35.340 i sometimes feel like mothers in competition with their daughters yeah we just talked about do you
00:00:41.920 feel as though and i don't want to put your mother on the spot or anything you can talk in general but
00:00:45.340 do you find like with your friends or your experience that the moms they put like a competition they don't
00:00:51.500 want you to win because they failed yeah yeah definitely and and they and they will talk you
00:00:56.840 into failure right don't don't worry about it they will console you though right but but they'll
00:01:01.440 talk you into failure and then once you fail they'll be like oh it's okay baby and like i said
00:01:05.200 it's for it's a if in my personal point of view it's for competition about men because the same man
00:01:10.020 that is going for the 21 year old that will sleep 21 year old he will sleep with you too melanie
00:01:14.280 right and misery loves company it's like when you when you fail a test what what's the best feeling
00:01:21.120 in the world when you turn to someone and they're like i failed too if you're the only one in the
00:01:27.060 class that failed or the only one in your circle that failed i actually noticed it on tiktok like
00:01:32.000 it would there was a group of like moms and they did like the mom content and then one gets divorced 1.00
00:01:38.140 and the other gets divorced and the other gets to it's like the whole damn friend group and it's just 0.97
00:01:42.180 like misery really loves company they don't want to be alone in their bad decisions single women keep 1.00
00:01:47.040 single women single right right if the older women have not kept their own relationship together 0.99
00:01:52.320 then it's really hard to wish that uh blessing on someone else so i think you have to be very
00:01:57.880 selective and find someone that is in a relationship that you actually admire and they're secure in that
00:02:03.660 relationship i think if you're trying to get advice from older single women that's where it can 0.89
00:02:08.400 really go but sometimes married women as well because how many married women do we know wish they could 1.00
00:02:13.620 be back in the streets right they're miserable in their marriage i know so many who are just like
00:02:19.000 they see the glamour of being flown to dubai and they don't know they're getting flown these single
00:02:24.640 ones getting flown to dubai because they're laying down with a camel they're getting flown and blown no
00:02:28.920 no no they're flown and blown that is what is going on they're actually selling but we don't because
00:02:34.440 what happens is younger guys that you may be what's the oldest guy you've dated well this is my
00:02:40.340 well second boyfriend and he's 23 okay yeah so he's not that much older yeah but that same 23 year
00:02:47.380 old will try to will sleep with and go after someone my age is he serious this happens every day
00:02:56.160 but i say to myself like so what happens is these older women will feel like okay well that little 1.00
00:03:02.380 20 something year old she can't do nothing for you boo let's come over here and i'm gonna do this i'm
00:03:06.480 gonna put it on you she's not grown she's immature this is how these older women are thinking these 1.00
00:03:11.840 cougars and so they see you as competition instead of loving on you and wanting you to win or they'll
00:03:17.340 use shaming language like calling the dude a pedo when it's just like no he just likes younger women 0.57
00:03:23.020 yeah it's and but when they were younger he's creepy i don't know a single older woman who when she was
00:03:29.640 younger did not date an older guy but once they get older it's like oh i was naive then i didn't know
00:03:34.980 and all this other stuff so like yeah i dated an older guy but it's it it really was abusive and i'm
00:03:40.820 just thinking to myself were you really abused dating an older guy financial abuse right right they feel
00:03:49.020 that way and and and that's why i wanted to talk to her because i said as a younger woman like
00:03:53.660 you know this is our whole conversation maggie we were talking about this yesterday about older
00:04:00.240 women are competing for the same men they don't realize that the older women think because these 1.00
00:04:06.000 men will your boyfriend i'm not saying he is but your boyfriend will sleep with a woman who's older 0.99
00:04:11.320 and so they think they're in competition with you and they have to prove this but they should have
00:04:15.500 been out the game a long time ago you can see in the tick tock videos right when you see like
00:04:19.700 mother and daughters right and the mother looks quite young and she's trying to do the tick tock 0.61
00:04:23.720 and they're all they're all dancing together that's your competition right there and it's like
00:04:27.860 the mother's trying to keep up with her yes but on the flip side men like mtr men like myself right
00:04:34.100 we may be older we're trying to give younger men the game we're trying to say look young guys this is
00:04:38.620 what you do this is what you don't do right with this older guys what i've realized that older guys
00:04:44.180 don't mind giving younger guys a game they won't they don't mind telling them where they went wrong
00:04:47.860 well i don't mind telling a younger guy where i went wrong do you know what i mean well and
00:04:51.880 generally generally dudes uh if you're in competition of another with another dude usually it's more
00:04:57.640 brute strength fruit uh you know in competition physically or downright the fighting status
00:05:04.780 financials uh generally women compete utilizing manipulation innuendo uh reputation destruction 1.00
00:05:11.880 um not giving you the keys to whatever it is that you're trying to do right because women 1.00
00:05:16.740 don't generally fight just based off of right like physical power s but there's other things
00:05:22.660 that they do wonder right women aren't holding each other accountable but it also sounds like we
00:05:27.520 aren't holding men accountable right that they are able to go and do these things with multiple women 0.99
00:05:32.180 and attract to that right so why are we so why is that our standard i have a question so um are you
00:05:38.260 aware that one one in three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year
00:05:41.820 yes given the weight that women date and things like that yep what percent of men do you think 0.79
00:05:46.580 are sexually active and sleeping with multiple women
00:05:48.780 i think it's like 30 or 40 or something like that it's it it's like it's five to ten percent yeah so
00:05:59.180 it's like you're gonna put five to ten percent of men's decisions on all of all on all of men
00:06:05.300 when really it's like 80 percent of women that are sleeping with them amen that's it so i'm saying
00:06:10.300 women need to take the accountability right so so it's who's it more on women for sure that's what 1.00
00:06:15.140 i was posing that women aren't holding women accountable but the men the five to ten percent
00:06:19.620 of men that are doing that they're doing it with all of the 87 percent and we aren't holding them
00:06:23.900 accountable either but why should they because the women are throwing themselves right like drake 1.00
00:06:28.440 like what these girls are these girls are waiting well back to the question wrong is wrong right so 1.00
00:06:34.060 no wait hold on no no no no no no no no no no no no no we need to hold the other people accountable too
00:06:37.940 but but how are you listen you can't hold men wrong for developing themselves to be as best as what
00:06:44.940 they positively and ultimately can be and then they get all of this coochie thrown at them okay
00:06:49.660 baby the concept the concept of groupie is a strictly female term it's not it on the flip side 0.96
00:06:57.200 right so like i i think like listen at the end of the day there's a whole media engine put into place
00:07:03.220 to hold men accountable i don't want no scrubs scrub is a guy they get no love from me hanging on the
00:07:10.540 passenger side of a mess right trying to holler at me come on come on and on top of that on the flip side
00:07:18.260 they got the women singing about being misindependent i don't cook i don't clean all of these things 0.97
00:07:22.580 that don't hold them accountable for being a good marriageable wife that's my thing i get these 1.00
00:07:27.800 questions all day women though are actually wives or want to be wise but they're telling us like i 1.00
00:07:35.180 don't cook i don't clean i'm for the street city girls the city girls are talking about we're
00:07:39.800 independent but then you're so desperate for a man they want the benefits of being modern and not the
00:07:45.080 consequences of being modern they want the benefits of being modern and the benefits of
00:07:49.380 being conservative or traditional at the same damn time while a whole media engine is had been 0.98
00:07:54.980 holding men accountable since tv was tv since love connection was on the goddamn tv screen and all up 0.96
00:08:02.460 until today the music the tv not youtube because we hold them accountable over here 0.94
00:08:08.960 and every other forms of media the movies the disney they've they've been holding guys accountable
00:08:14.460 since the beginning of time the talk shows shout out to steve harvey shout out to the derrick jacksons
00:08:18.940 yeah i've been holding guys as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized
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