JustPearlyThings - Women INCREASE Their STANDARDS For THIS

00:00:00.000 oh god damn it pearl we were cool no edits 0.96

00:00:04.200 indirect anyway uh case in point um i just don't think that it's necessarily um i understand your 0.97

00:00:12.840 point my g but i don't think it's necessarily a simp stuff to me simp is pediatolizing a woman 1.00

00:00:18.000 uh thinking that she is the prize without her proving anything right like just thinking that

00:00:22.600 you just owe her the world diamonds and pearls she deserves this and she hasn't proved what

00:00:27.560 we should be spoiled you should you should simp again it's pediatolizing it doesn't necessarily

00:00:34.580 mean paying for a a trip for her to come over here and slob on my knob like 1.00

00:00:39.660 they're in the uk like we're too proper for this slob on the knob shit what is these americans doing 0.99

00:00:52.280 come on we're from atlanta don't play there's too many americans no actually i do not um 0.99

00:01:01.080 uh oh i relate to that slow us down maggie yeah i would just offer that and i guess i would ask

00:01:06.000 the question so the women that are in this group that are getting food out are they the same pool 1.00

00:01:12.900 of women that would date an average man it goes back to that 80 20 are they there's always going 1.00

00:01:18.700 to be you know the man with a lot of money the woman that he's going to want to you know pick

00:01:23.380 for this day of the week but we're talking about everyday average like i can't take you on a date

00:01:29.680 because you have ridiculous expectations is it that same group i think i think average women have

00:01:36.020 because average women are accessed by those top percent of men right um those average women can get 1.00

00:01:43.300 sex by those top percent of men because those top percent of men don't feel any way to have sex

00:01:49.280 with a woman who's a two to a woman who's a 10 right so what it does is that it spoils the market 1.00

00:01:54.660 because these women who are fives think that they deserve what the 10 gets right because they were 1.00

00:02:00.800 accessed by a 10 by a top tier man they were accessed by him and then now she runs around thinking

00:02:06.840 oh those average dudes are they're weak they're whack it's like no that's who you are they set their

00:02:12.320 new barometer because a man will sleep with you um who is higher up you think that that's your new 1.00

00:02:18.180 set point like a lot of women will raise their standard well now because this man slept with me 1.00

00:02:22.960 he just was an f boy he was playing around but now i can attain that type of man as a husband as who

00:02:28.460 will wife me you can't and they actually will start to get run through by these men or try to and they

00:02:33.340 will put down average men who are on their level and look look at them as lower and the reality is that

00:02:39.680 causes you to lose i mean even this whole conversation is not to put women down it is

00:02:44.820 not to it's to say listen there are guys who are up at this level they are sleeping with you girl

00:02:49.940 but they are not going to wife you they're sleeping with you because it's easy to do you should be 1.00

00:02:54.780 upset with them not us for telling you the truth but they you raise your standard to something that's

00:03:00.860 not you will never get the results that you want and then we want you to get the results so i'm

00:03:05.580 i have a question um for the older women on the panel um when do you think women start to lower 1.00

00:03:14.280 their standards if ever at what age i didn't want to believe it when i heard kevin samuels say 60

00:03:21.940 because i thought that was so far off but i really do believe because we have this thing you know black

00:03:28.120 don't crack or whatever i'm still 47 in three years i'll be half 100 i should move differently than

00:03:35.080 someone that's 27 so i would say women mistakenly think i can still compete in that arena so i 0.90

00:03:43.680 shouldn't have to settle and then you end up in your 50s and 60s alone and then you say okay i'll just

00:03:50.780 be happy to have anyone she's she's telling the truth so i'm 41 and this is the reality i i have

00:03:57.400 young guys i mean like young like ballers nba like guys who are like early 20s who will hit me up want

00:04:07.100 to take me out and all of this and a lot of women who still can carry a little bit as they get older 1.00

00:04:13.740 they're still in shape they're getting hit up by these young guys and you think you still have it

00:04:18.980 because these guys will want to sleep with you they'll even take you out there i mean they'll even 1.00

00:04:23.560 buy you something to do well they're not going to marry you and a lot of women just like the glamour 1.00

00:04:28.620 of it and they feel like they still got it and they don't realize these guys are just using you

00:04:33.820 for easy sex and so because they're sleeping with you and they're attracted to you that translates in

00:04:41.760 your mind that i got it like i'm still in the game i know women who are like 50 and older who 1.00

00:04:49.460 actually look amazing like no lie like i know these women i have women in my family who look 1.00

00:04:55.520 this way and if they wanted to most of my family are married but if they wanted to they they could

00:05:01.860 attract they're 50 they can attract a 30 year old guy and so it is not until they hit where it starts

00:05:08.640 to crack and and guys are just like man 60 they can't do that that's six that's six but to hurt

00:05:16.620 even if a guy wanted to i was just gonna say they can attract him but they can't keep him and

00:05:21.680 ultimately that's what we want at the end of the day we're not just supposed to be out here

00:05:25.620 floating around from man to man we are supposed to be tethered and attached and belong to someone

00:05:30.820 and i think that's normal and that's natural we just have to do a better job of making the distinction

00:05:35.660 between attention and intention that's right sexual sexual it's sexual attraction versus

00:05:44.080 relationship intention and a lot of women cannot tell the difference so i'm curious you said you're

00:05:49.060 21 yeah would you say what they're talking about do you see that with your friends where they'll

00:05:54.000 sleep with someone that's out of their league or that someone famous will dm them yeah and you know

00:05:58.300 it happens it's happened to me but because i know they're rappers footballers basketball players

00:06:04.440 i'm just not into that because i know that they're not going to be available to me so but my

00:06:10.860 friends on the other hand they're more yeah will they um fly out to someone where they don't know

00:06:16.600 yeah i'm i'm curious and you don't have to say this if you don't want to how many guys has a girl

00:06:22.720 your age slept with usually like not you but just in general um

00:06:26.800 now around 15 oh my god are you 21 yet no next month yeah so she's not even 21 yet guys and you

00:06:38.820 would say the average i'm not saying you because me personally it's only been one but yeah but girls

00:06:44.740 your age it's like 15 to 20 yeah plus and how many how many did were they in relationships with

00:06:51.040 none it's mainly situationships now so you know shout out to feminism and would you would you agree 1.00

00:06:58.820 that it's like mostly the same guys that they're all sleeping with yeah but then every time someone

00:07:04.520 does them wrong like they start catching feelings this guy's like okay well i don't want a relationship

00:07:09.700 with you they're like okay i'm gonna up my standards wow and then to where why do i love

00:07:16.460 her so much guys she's so pretty too thank you sorry go keep talking sorry she is so cute yeah they um

00:07:22.120 they up their standards and when there's someone that like maybe a rapper footballer messages them

00:07:28.960 they're just like they hop on it and then it's like a cycle the same thing happens where that guy just

00:07:34.520 doesn't want her for what she wants and do most of the time do the men tell the women up front that

00:07:40.980 they're not looking for anything yeah but they still believe that i can change it yeah yo feminism

00:07:47.180 have sold women a false bill of goods false bill of goods would you agree that it's mostly on the

00:07:53.720 women then because the guy said up front what they're looking for yeah and why did you make a 1.00

00:07:58.880 different choice what what made you be in a relationship when a lot of your friends are in the streets

00:08:03.540 because i just i you know i'm very traditional i want marriage and i just don't i'm just not into

00:08:12.580 the whole rapper scene i'm very private i like to keep myself to myself so i'm just not not into it

00:08:18.720 y'all older women we have to protect their protect her i feel like you're like my daughter i feel like

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JustPearlyThings - April 01, 2023

Women INCREASE Their STANDARDS For THIS

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