Women INCREASE Their STANDARDS For THIS
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Summary
In this episode, the guys talk about the women that are getting food out of the dating pool and the women who are getting sex out of it. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? What is the difference between an average woman and a top tier woman? What does it mean to be a good woman in today's society?
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indirect anyway uh case in point um i just don't think that it's necessarily um i understand your
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point my g but i don't think it's necessarily a simp stuff to me simp is pediatolizing a woman
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uh thinking that she is the prize without her proving anything right like just thinking that
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you just owe her the world diamonds and pearls she deserves this and she hasn't proved what
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we should be spoiled you should you should simp again it's pediatolizing it doesn't necessarily
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mean paying for a a trip for her to come over here and slob on my knob like
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they're in the uk like we're too proper for this slob on the knob shit what is these americans doing
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come on we're from atlanta don't play there's too many americans no actually i do not um
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uh oh i relate to that slow us down maggie yeah i would just offer that and i guess i would ask
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the question so the women that are in this group that are getting food out are they the same pool
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of women that would date an average man it goes back to that 80 20 are they there's always going
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to be you know the man with a lot of money the woman that he's going to want to you know pick
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for this day of the week but we're talking about everyday average like i can't take you on a date
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because you have ridiculous expectations is it that same group i think i think average women have
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because average women are accessed by those top percent of men right um those average women can get
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sex by those top percent of men because those top percent of men don't feel any way to have sex
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with a woman who's a two to a woman who's a 10 right so what it does is that it spoils the market
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because these women who are fives think that they deserve what the 10 gets right because they were
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accessed by a 10 by a top tier man they were accessed by him and then now she runs around thinking
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oh those average dudes are they're weak they're whack it's like no that's who you are they set their
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new barometer because a man will sleep with you um who is higher up you think that that's your new
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set point like a lot of women will raise their standard well now because this man slept with me
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he just was an f boy he was playing around but now i can attain that type of man as a husband as who
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will wife me you can't and they actually will start to get run through by these men or try to and they
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will put down average men who are on their level and look look at them as lower and the reality is that
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causes you to lose i mean even this whole conversation is not to put women down it is
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not to it's to say listen there are guys who are up at this level they are sleeping with you girl
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but they are not going to wife you they're sleeping with you because it's easy to do you should be
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upset with them not us for telling you the truth but they you raise your standard to something that's
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not you will never get the results that you want and then we want you to get the results so i'm
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i have a question um for the older women on the panel um when do you think women start to lower
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their standards if ever at what age i didn't want to believe it when i heard kevin samuels say 60
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because i thought that was so far off but i really do believe because we have this thing you know black
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don't crack or whatever i'm still 47 in three years i'll be half 100 i should move differently than
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someone that's 27 so i would say women mistakenly think i can still compete in that arena so i
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shouldn't have to settle and then you end up in your 50s and 60s alone and then you say okay i'll just
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be happy to have anyone she's she's telling the truth so i'm 41 and this is the reality i i have
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young guys i mean like young like ballers nba like guys who are like early 20s who will hit me up want
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to take me out and all of this and a lot of women who still can carry a little bit as they get older
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they're still in shape they're getting hit up by these young guys and you think you still have it
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because these guys will want to sleep with you they'll even take you out there i mean they'll even
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buy you something to do well they're not going to marry you and a lot of women just like the glamour
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of it and they feel like they still got it and they don't realize these guys are just using you
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for easy sex and so because they're sleeping with you and they're attracted to you that translates in
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your mind that i got it like i'm still in the game i know women who are like 50 and older who
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actually look amazing like no lie like i know these women i have women in my family who look
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this way and if they wanted to most of my family are married but if they wanted to they they could
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attract they're 50 they can attract a 30 year old guy and so it is not until they hit where it starts
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to crack and and guys are just like man 60 they can't do that that's six that's six but to hurt
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even if a guy wanted to i was just gonna say they can attract him but they can't keep him and
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ultimately that's what we want at the end of the day we're not just supposed to be out here
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floating around from man to man we are supposed to be tethered and attached and belong to someone
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and i think that's normal and that's natural we just have to do a better job of making the distinction
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between attention and intention that's right sexual sexual it's sexual attraction versus
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relationship intention and a lot of women cannot tell the difference so i'm curious you said you're
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21 yeah would you say what they're talking about do you see that with your friends where they'll
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sleep with someone that's out of their league or that someone famous will dm them yeah and you know
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it happens it's happened to me but because i know they're rappers footballers basketball players
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i'm just not into that because i know that they're not going to be available to me so but my
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friends on the other hand they're more yeah will they um fly out to someone where they don't know
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yeah i'm i'm curious and you don't have to say this if you don't want to how many guys has a girl
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your age slept with usually like not you but just in general um
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now around 15 oh my god are you 21 yet no next month yeah so she's not even 21 yet guys and you
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would say the average i'm not saying you because me personally it's only been one but yeah but girls
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your age it's like 15 to 20 yeah plus and how many how many did were they in relationships with
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none it's mainly situationships now so you know shout out to feminism and would you would you agree
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that it's like mostly the same guys that they're all sleeping with yeah but then every time someone
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does them wrong like they start catching feelings this guy's like okay well i don't want a relationship
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with you they're like okay i'm gonna up my standards wow and then to where why do i love
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her so much guys she's so pretty too thank you sorry go keep talking sorry she is so cute yeah they um
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they up their standards and when there's someone that like maybe a rapper footballer messages them
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they're just like they hop on it and then it's like a cycle the same thing happens where that guy just
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doesn't want her for what she wants and do most of the time do the men tell the women up front that
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they're not looking for anything yeah but they still believe that i can change it yeah yo feminism
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have sold women a false bill of goods false bill of goods would you agree that it's mostly on the
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women then because the guy said up front what they're looking for yeah and why did you make a
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different choice what what made you be in a relationship when a lot of your friends are in the streets
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because i just i you know i'm very traditional i want marriage and i just don't i'm just not into
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the whole rapper scene i'm very private i like to keep myself to myself so i'm just not not into it
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y'all older women we have to protect their protect her i feel like you're like my daughter i feel like
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