JustPearlyThings - Women LOOK For Problem But End Up HURTING THEMSELVES

00:00:00.000 just think it's healthier like okay if it comes to you fine yeah yeah but it's like if you're out

00:00:04.640 looking for problems like you're toxic yeah you can't at the end of the day ignorance is bliss yeah

00:00:10.080 so like if something's going on behind closed doors and you're not aware of it and he's keeping

00:00:14.320 it on the down low and like you don't know nothing like it can't hurt you yeah and you think that's

00:00:18.560 okay no i don't think it's okay i don't think it's okay no i don't think it's okay some girls are okay 0.99

00:00:24.320 with that you know they're like what you don't know can't hurt you and i don't agree with that

00:00:26.960 they know but the thing is it's like cool i mean if you find something suspicious and you don't

00:00:30.960 trust them and something does come to you then fair enough but if you go out looking for it it's like

00:00:34.720 you're deliberately looking for something to hurt you yeah yeah you could literally call it a form

00:00:39.600 of self-harm what do you think that stems from trauma yeah no i think it's ours i think oh my gosh trauma

00:00:45.840 is going to war not your ex-boyfriend cheating on you like oh great what do you say how does that

00:00:52.880 i understand what you're trying to say i'm not disagreeing i'm not agreeing but it's that how

00:00:57.200 does that cause problems within yourself when that is a video a problem which you now just found

00:01:03.120 where what are you well because at the end of the day if you're if you go out looking for the

00:01:06.880 problem you talk about the likes on instagram oh the likes on instagram i mean to be honest like if

00:01:10.960 you're not in a relationship yeah even if you're in a relationship i don't think it's a problem if you

00:01:14.480 like a girl's picture i find it a problem when you start dming them and trying to contact them and meet

00:01:18.080 up with them that is the issue but at the end of the day like if you if you don't trust someone

00:01:22.720 then you should genuinely shouldn't be with them the whole question is how did you find it

00:01:27.200 it's one thing it's like okay it's one thing if a girl dms you and and says oh he screenshots whatever 0.97

00:01:34.400 and it comes to you but if you're going through his likes all the time going through his instagram

00:01:38.800 going through his dms going through his following you cannot do

00:01:44.400 even if you're just doing one of the three it's like you're looking for problems

00:01:48.480 but how is that looking for a problem when the problem was already there okay how

00:01:53.360 but why would that's not that why did the because you're not you're not you're not going into a

00:01:57.760 relationship in good faith you know what good faith is yeah okay so so because the question is why did

00:02:03.760 you look to begin with there might have been something that could trigger that okay but there might have

00:02:10.080 been like for example you see him like whenever you walk into the room he quickly has his phone or

00:02:14.960 that could trigger your curiosity yeah right you would want to know okay why is he hiding his phone

00:02:19.760 why is he doing that why is he doing x y and z so that could be a valid reason but then but why would

00:02:25.760 you get let that be a reason why would you get triggered by that reason i guess i'm why would

00:02:29.360 you get triggered by the fact he has his phone is it not from well it shows that he doesn't feel

00:02:33.520 comfortable no no that's just him physically showing you that he doesn't feel comfortable you seeing what he's

00:02:39.200 doing on his phone why should you have to hide the phone from me if you trust me well how about if

00:02:43.920 he puts this times his phone flat i think again though but i think again sorry go ahead i think

00:02:50.240 again it links back to like insecurity and trust issues and like maybe maybe issues from past

00:02:55.200 relationships yeah you see what at the end of the day like because if he's hiding his phone i wouldn't

00:02:58.400 think i've never thought in this in my life oh he's hiding it but i just think oh he's just putting it

00:03:02.480 away yes you have no but the way it's the way it's not about him oh yeah oh babe you're here i

00:03:07.600 want to give you attention but the the whole thing is like it's like leave him or or leave like yeah

00:03:12.880 then leave him you don't have to go through i guess some girls want some um reassurance and there's

00:03:17.120 nothing wrong with that no there's nothing wrong with reinsurance that you may call problem doesn't

00:03:21.840 mean it is a problem yeah but at what so at what cost like how often are you going to go through his 0.98

00:03:27.040 shit like it's like are you going to go through it and then now you're happy and it's 0.98

00:03:30.400 you're never going to go through again you're not happy after going through it you'll constantly 0.99

00:03:34.560 you'll dig yourself a hole and you'll before you know it you're probably checking every day but

00:03:38.160 what is this guy doing where is he who's he's like i'm reliving my past what's going on that builds

00:03:42.720 up a problem in your head some of the time like you might even create an issue in your head which

00:03:46.400 doesn't even exist i know that's overthinking right as crazy as that sounds yeah crazy this sounds

00:03:51.840 some people actually have to dig themselves a problem yeah no some people actually have to do that

00:03:58.560 yeah sometimes some females realize that they're in something toxic is that what you mean yeah and 1.00

00:04:02.880 some females just want for the sake of argument just for entertainment purposes to excite and just 1.00

00:04:07.680 and that's the difference yeah but i've never done that but obviously

00:04:12.080 some people live for the adrenaline like the boost like yeah and that's the difference between most

00:04:17.440 females because not all females are the same no 100 yeah but again like if you if you feel like 0.99

00:04:22.000 you have to check their socials every day and like and they're checking what they're doing and

00:04:25.280 seeing what they're doing okay wait wait wait okay there's nothing wrong with what there's nothing

00:04:30.720 wrong with checking with checking their socials what do you mean by checking their socials oh i love

00:04:34.640 how she's sticking up for me wait wait okay wait so go on go on tell me tell me the reason why i'm saying

00:04:41.040 that because checking what by the way going back to what she said like the likes and who they're commenting

00:04:46.720 i'm not talking about the dms because i can't actually log into his um instagram and see his dms

00:04:50.640 but the the comment is basically going up to a camera saying look good unless that's their friend

00:04:58.880 that's a whole difference or unless that's someone that they knew before okay question do you want

00:05:03.520 to be married someday yeah do you think that's healthy for a long-term marriage do you think that's

00:05:10.480 the future of six he shouldn't be doing it if he's my long successful marriages is to be looking

00:05:16.160 through your husband's following who he's liking on instagram all that he would have stopped by

00:05:21.840 then and told him to stop but you know what again like it all it all circles back to you not trusting

00:05:26.960 that person you see what i mean because if there's an issue there is a reason why you shouldn't trust

00:05:32.640 them like literally if it's not if it's not instagram it's always going to be something yeah

00:05:36.320 by the way i'm already based on instagram guys his emails yeah it could be his email guys his google

00:05:42.720 so like there's always something you can there's always something you can look through yeah you

00:05:49.120 know and sometimes you take an l i mean some people meet the husband's other family at the funeral you

00:05:54.480 know it just happens sometimes you just take it out but there's always going to be something to look

00:05:59.760 through yeah 100 and so it's not necessarily that he should be liking the photos it's like the mindset

00:06:05.120 behind it yeah um okay i'm gonna read super chats for a second okay guys make hold on

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00:06:29.280 we will read it um okay all right kcfs sac they're insecure because at the end of the day they have

00:06:36.880 nothing to offer men other than depreciating looks and used box and therefore they're replaceable black 1.00

00:06:42.000 moses the chick on the end is justifying her toxicity and is looking for issues to be toxic kcf they are 0.94

00:06:47.840 excuse makers only go for guys that look like king richie richie's um chief keef chief keef um pearl is this 0.79

00:06:55.920 emoji red pill plus red head silly sausage girls have 27 boundaries yet when a guy has one boundary 1.00

00:07:03.040 and you break it and call him controlling the politest way possible you are just waffling michelle

00:07:08.480 pearl add boundaries to the list uh or at least the definition of boundaries because that's because what

00:07:14.480 my man and family are my whole life um alfro reap what you sow you grow what you plant um con cortez i'm

00:07:22.400 i'm sicilian i had a girl from malta i was a freshman she was a junior and she loves seeing me

00:07:29.680 for seeing me fight for her definitely toxic um al afro regine morning after pill is working for 72 0.72

00:07:38.320 hours after taking it why did you need to take six to seven times a month that's 18 to 21 days of

00:07:44.080 coverage you didn't know how when you ovulated um carlos x imagine a dude ghibli saying they had sex with a

00:07:51.600 girlfriend's sister on a show that will get at least hundreds of thousands of views you can't make 0.95

00:07:56.080 this up um zoros um it's funny when modern women think men and women are the same when women sleep

00:08:02.480 around their 304s and lose value but men are the 304 makers um modern okay okay that's all that let me

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JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2023

Women LOOK For Problem But End Up HURTING THEMSELVES

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