Women LOOK For Problem But End Up HURTING THEMSELVES
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss trust issues and how to deal with them in relationships. We discuss what they are, how they affect us and why they are so common in our lives. We also discuss the issue of trust and trust issues in relationships and how they can affect our mental health.
Transcript
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just think it's healthier like okay if it comes to you fine yeah yeah but it's like if you're out
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looking for problems like you're toxic yeah you can't at the end of the day ignorance is bliss yeah
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so like if something's going on behind closed doors and you're not aware of it and he's keeping
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it on the down low and like you don't know nothing like it can't hurt you yeah and you think that's
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okay no i don't think it's okay i don't think it's okay no i don't think it's okay some girls are okay
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with that you know they're like what you don't know can't hurt you and i don't agree with that
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they know but the thing is it's like cool i mean if you find something suspicious and you don't
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trust them and something does come to you then fair enough but if you go out looking for it it's like
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you're deliberately looking for something to hurt you yeah yeah you could literally call it a form
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of self-harm what do you think that stems from trauma yeah no i think it's ours i think oh my gosh trauma
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is going to war not your ex-boyfriend cheating on you like oh great what do you say how does that
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i understand what you're trying to say i'm not disagreeing i'm not agreeing but it's that how
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does that cause problems within yourself when that is a video a problem which you now just found
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where what are you well because at the end of the day if you're if you go out looking for the
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problem you talk about the likes on instagram oh the likes on instagram i mean to be honest like if
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you're not in a relationship yeah even if you're in a relationship i don't think it's a problem if you
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like a girl's picture i find it a problem when you start dming them and trying to contact them and meet
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up with them that is the issue but at the end of the day like if you if you don't trust someone
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then you should genuinely shouldn't be with them the whole question is how did you find it
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it's one thing it's like okay it's one thing if a girl dms you and and says oh he screenshots whatever
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and it comes to you but if you're going through his likes all the time going through his instagram
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going through his dms going through his following you cannot do
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even if you're just doing one of the three it's like you're looking for problems
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but how is that looking for a problem when the problem was already there okay how
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but why would that's not that why did the because you're not you're not you're not going into a
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relationship in good faith you know what good faith is yeah okay so so because the question is why did
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you look to begin with there might have been something that could trigger that okay but there might have
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been like for example you see him like whenever you walk into the room he quickly has his phone or
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that could trigger your curiosity yeah right you would want to know okay why is he hiding his phone
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why is he doing that why is he doing x y and z so that could be a valid reason but then but why would
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you get let that be a reason why would you get triggered by that reason i guess i'm why would
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you get triggered by the fact he has his phone is it not from well it shows that he doesn't feel
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comfortable no no that's just him physically showing you that he doesn't feel comfortable you seeing what he's
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doing on his phone why should you have to hide the phone from me if you trust me well how about if
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he puts this times his phone flat i think again though but i think again sorry go ahead i think
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again it links back to like insecurity and trust issues and like maybe maybe issues from past
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relationships yeah you see what at the end of the day like because if he's hiding his phone i wouldn't
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think i've never thought in this in my life oh he's hiding it but i just think oh he's just putting it
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away yes you have no but the way it's the way it's not about him oh yeah oh babe you're here i
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want to give you attention but the the whole thing is like it's like leave him or or leave like yeah
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then leave him you don't have to go through i guess some girls want some um reassurance and there's
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nothing wrong with that no there's nothing wrong with reinsurance that you may call problem doesn't
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mean it is a problem yeah but at what so at what cost like how often are you going to go through his
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shit like it's like are you going to go through it and then now you're happy and it's
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you're never going to go through again you're not happy after going through it you'll constantly
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you'll dig yourself a hole and you'll before you know it you're probably checking every day but
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what is this guy doing where is he who's he's like i'm reliving my past what's going on that builds
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up a problem in your head some of the time like you might even create an issue in your head which
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doesn't even exist i know that's overthinking right as crazy as that sounds yeah crazy this sounds
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some people actually have to dig themselves a problem yeah no some people actually have to do that
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yeah sometimes some females realize that they're in something toxic is that what you mean yeah and
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some females just want for the sake of argument just for entertainment purposes to excite and just
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and that's the difference yeah but i've never done that but obviously
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some people live for the adrenaline like the boost like yeah and that's the difference between most
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females because not all females are the same no 100 yeah but again like if you if you feel like
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you have to check their socials every day and like and they're checking what they're doing and
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seeing what they're doing okay wait wait wait okay there's nothing wrong with what there's nothing
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wrong with checking with checking their socials what do you mean by checking their socials oh i love
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how she's sticking up for me wait wait okay wait so go on go on tell me tell me the reason why i'm saying
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that because checking what by the way going back to what she said like the likes and who they're commenting
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i'm not talking about the dms because i can't actually log into his um instagram and see his dms
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but the the comment is basically going up to a camera saying look good unless that's their friend
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that's a whole difference or unless that's someone that they knew before okay question do you want
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to be married someday yeah do you think that's healthy for a long-term marriage do you think that's
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the future of six he shouldn't be doing it if he's my long successful marriages is to be looking
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through your husband's following who he's liking on instagram all that he would have stopped by
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then and told him to stop but you know what again like it all it all circles back to you not trusting
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that person you see what i mean because if there's an issue there is a reason why you shouldn't trust
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them like literally if it's not if it's not instagram it's always going to be something yeah
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by the way i'm already based on instagram guys his emails yeah it could be his email guys his google
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so like there's always something you can there's always something you can look through yeah you
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know and sometimes you take an l i mean some people meet the husband's other family at the funeral you
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know it just happens sometimes you just take it out but there's always going to be something to look
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through yeah 100 and so it's not necessarily that he should be liking the photos it's like the mindset
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behind it yeah um okay i'm gonna read super chats for a second okay guys make hold on
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we will read it um okay all right kcfs sac they're insecure because at the end of the day they have
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nothing to offer men other than depreciating looks and used box and therefore they're replaceable black
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moses the chick on the end is justifying her toxicity and is looking for issues to be toxic kcf they are
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excuse makers only go for guys that look like king richie richie's um chief keef chief keef um pearl is this
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emoji red pill plus red head silly sausage girls have 27 boundaries yet when a guy has one boundary
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and you break it and call him controlling the politest way possible you are just waffling michelle
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pearl add boundaries to the list uh or at least the definition of boundaries because that's because what
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my man and family are my whole life um alfro reap what you sow you grow what you plant um con cortez i'm
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i'm sicilian i had a girl from malta i was a freshman she was a junior and she loves seeing me
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for seeing me fight for her definitely toxic um al afro regine morning after pill is working for 72
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hours after taking it why did you need to take six to seven times a month that's 18 to 21 days of
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coverage you didn't know how when you ovulated um carlos x imagine a dude ghibli saying they had sex with a
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girlfriend's sister on a show that will get at least hundreds of thousands of views you can't make
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this up um zoros um it's funny when modern women think men and women are the same when women sleep
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around their 304s and lose value but men are the 304 makers um modern okay okay that's all that let me
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