JustPearlyThings - May 10, 2023


Women on the Panel Got Called OUT


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8 minutes

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231.89133

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2,003

Sentence count

224

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Misogyny

23

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In this episode, we talk about the benefits of being a virgin vs having sex with multiple partners. We also talk about what it means to be a virgin and why it s better than a woman that s slept with multiple men.

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00:00:00.000 Tell you something, see a virgin girl, see a virgin girl, yeah, she'll love you more
00:00:05.220 because you're her first than a girl that's already had previous partners in the past
00:00:10.120 other than you, do you know what I'm saying?
00:00:12.320 But how about this, there's this big thing about this, obviously, she might love you,
00:00:16.280 but there's a whole life she has to live, and there would always be that element of...
00:00:22.040 Why? She has to live, why would she have to live that scat life, bro? 0.76
00:00:24.860 There's always that element of, like, I've never tried anything different.
00:00:28.900 What's wrong with that, though?
00:00:29.640 Why do you have to have a variety?
00:00:31.920 Why can't you just pick one, believe in that, and that be it?
00:00:35.300 I wish I could answer that question.
00:00:36.660 Have you had a variety before?
00:00:37.700 Yeah, but that's life, anything.
00:00:38.980 Of course, I've had a variety.
00:00:40.500 You said, of course, I would say, of course.
00:00:41.980 But that's not the question, that's not the question what men want.
00:00:44.120 The question is, do you want a virgin or a girl that's been ran through? 0.88
00:00:47.440 And if you're honest as a man, you want a girl that's a virgin. 0.99
00:00:53.100 That's just too simple, because she's easy to mold, and she's easy to teach. 0.95
00:00:56.960 You want a woman that you're able to teach and give experiences to.
00:01:00.100 You can't give experience to a girl that's been here, that's been there because she's
00:01:03.420 fucked with this dude and that dude. 0.99
00:01:05.120 That's not how it works.
00:01:06.020 Do you want a girl that's pure? 0.98
00:01:07.360 Do you want a girl that's run down by different dicks? 1.00
00:01:12.380 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:01:13.240 Or would you want a fresh girl? 1.00
00:01:14.520 Listen, bro.
00:01:15.380 Would you want a fresh girl that's fresh to you, only to you? 0.56
00:01:18.380 You're the only lover of her life.
00:01:20.100 Only you've had sex with her. 0.99
00:01:21.340 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:01:21.760 The stats back him up.
00:01:24.120 If you're a virgin on your wedding day, you have an 80% chance of a happy marriage.
00:01:27.900 If you slept with more than five people, it drops down to a 20% chance.
00:01:31.780 There you go.
00:01:32.420 Of marriage.
00:01:32.940 Exactly what I'm saying.
00:01:33.700 Of being in a happy marriage, yeah.
00:01:35.300 You're more likely to be on antidepressants if you have a high body count.
00:01:38.760 You're more likely to have anxiety.
00:01:42.720 All of the negative things for women are associated with having a high body count. 1.00
00:01:46.520 And that's a fact.
00:01:47.040 And Perra, why do you think that is?
00:01:50.360 Why?
00:01:50.920 Yeah, why do you think that is?
00:01:52.280 Do you think it's comparison?
00:01:53.480 No, I just don't think women are meant to do it. 1.00
00:01:55.480 I mean, historically, historically, women have had to be with one guy in order to get resources. 1.00
00:02:00.940 Like, they've always been looking for the best guy they can get, and they stay committed to him.
00:02:05.020 But it's like, men have always had a variety.
00:02:07.460 It's not the same.
00:02:08.200 Oh, can I ask, is that fact for women or for men and women?
00:02:12.480 No, it's for women. 0.97
00:02:13.800 Just for women. 0.92
00:02:14.500 That's really interesting.
00:02:15.320 It'll be interesting to find out the ones for men. 0.99
00:02:17.600 Men, shall I tell you something about men, bro?
00:02:19.780 Let me tell you something, bro.
00:02:21.020 The more women they sleep with, the more experience they get. 0.99
00:02:24.100 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:02:25.220 The more lack of experience they get, bro.
00:02:27.500 Let's say, cool.
00:02:28.040 I'm not going to lie.
00:02:28.540 I've had more fun in the bedroom with a girl that slept with more men than a girl that hasn't. 0.87
00:02:32.200 That's up to you, bro.
00:02:32.860 And that's just being, that's just facts.
00:02:34.500 Cool, that's up to you.
00:02:35.340 You want to have fun in the bedroom, bro?
00:02:37.380 With skets, you want to have fun with them. 1.00
00:02:39.000 No, but we're not skets, though.
00:02:41.200 Why would you call them skets?
00:02:42.660 Because they want to enjoy more in life.
00:02:44.540 Why would I call them skets? 1.00
00:02:45.440 Yeah.
00:02:45.960 Because they have...
00:02:46.460 That's why you're telling me that I'm a sket, then. 0.78
00:02:48.920 Cool, listen, bro.
00:02:49.900 Cool.
00:02:50.240 So you have sex with multiple guys, right?
00:02:52.380 Yeah.
00:02:52.760 Multiple guys on a, like, on a weekly basis.
00:02:55.620 Used to.
00:02:55.900 Jonathan.
00:02:57.060 Used to.
00:02:57.600 Yeah.
00:02:57.940 So not now.
00:02:58.440 I'm better now, yeah.
00:02:59.620 You're better now.
00:03:00.700 Anyway...
00:03:01.100 But if it doesn't matter, how are you better?
00:03:03.000 Like, it can't be better or worse if it doesn't matter.
00:03:04.780 I just feel like I've matured a lot over the past year, and also being on Ex on the Beach
00:03:11.500 has changed me a lot.
00:03:14.080 All right, girls, let me tell you, let me ask you something.
00:03:15.880 Sorry.
00:03:16.440 Let me ask you something.
00:03:17.780 Do you guys feel better about sleeping with a lot of men, or having one guy, specifically
00:03:22.100 to have sex with, to love, to take care of?
00:03:24.620 Yeah, of course, that's lovely.
00:03:26.480 Yeah, one guy.
00:03:27.360 One guy, right?
00:03:27.840 But I haven't found that connection.
00:03:29.540 One guy.
00:03:30.140 I haven't found that connection.
00:03:30.600 Yeah, but that doesn't mean you have to go through, like, having sex with other guys.
00:03:34.000 I know, but I've learned that now.
00:03:35.300 But I'm a liar.
00:03:35.920 You can go on that.
00:03:36.560 We do.
00:03:37.080 I do.
00:03:37.720 I'm not going to lie.
00:03:38.460 I go through...
00:03:38.600 Yeah, but it's not the same thing, bro.
00:03:39.500 I go through bad girls to find a one.
00:03:41.680 Yeah, but you have to go through that sometimes to learn.
00:03:42.480 No, you don't have to go through bad guys.
00:03:44.780 No, you don't.
00:03:45.000 No, I don't think you do.
00:03:46.340 I think the happiest women that I...
00:03:47.840 Like, I know a girl that waited until she was married, and she was a virgin on her wedding 1.00
00:03:51.100 night.
00:03:51.560 They don't really...
00:03:52.240 Like, you don't know many anymore.
00:03:53.340 That's beautiful.
00:03:53.780 That is beautiful.
00:03:54.120 And it was beautiful.
00:03:55.440 Like, I...
00:03:55.740 Oh, shoot.
00:03:56.160 My cousin did.
00:03:56.780 I know, too.
00:03:57.460 I know, too.
00:03:58.040 No, and both of them are literally so happy.
00:04:00.540 Like, they're so in love.
00:04:01.420 And I respect that.
00:04:02.140 And they're both...
00:04:02.840 And the thing is, they're both married to...
00:04:04.720 Well, one is an average guy.
00:04:07.000 One's a slightly above average guy.
00:04:08.420 But they don't know anything different.
00:04:10.020 And that's the problem.
00:04:10.620 When you sleep with a bunch of guys, like, your standards go up.
00:04:13.720 Because you think, oh, I liked that about that guy.
00:04:15.800 I liked that about that guy.
00:04:16.820 I do admit that.
00:04:17.100 And then you start to, like, look for a guy that doesn't really exist.
00:04:20.320 Where the virgin... 1.00
00:04:21.020 It's like, the virgin's happy with what she has.
00:04:23.460 Yeah.
00:04:23.780 Yeah.
00:04:24.260 Don't know any difference.
00:04:25.340 That's what...
00:04:26.020 What do they say?
00:04:26.580 Comparison's a thief of joy, right?
00:04:28.020 It's the same in a relationship.
00:04:29.620 You know, I've got a guy who gets treated horrible.
00:04:31.940 But...
00:04:32.080 Because that's all he knows.
00:04:33.740 He doesn't know where else to go.
00:04:35.180 And he feels like...
00:04:35.740 I'd love to leave them, bro.
00:04:36.580 There's nothing that he can get better.
00:04:38.020 Because that's all he knows.
00:04:38.760 Oh, trust me.
00:04:39.420 Women leave. 1.00
00:04:40.140 Women will leave when they're not happy, virgin. 1.00
00:04:42.640 They're not.
00:04:44.420 Oh, trust me.
00:04:45.480 You don't have to worry about women leaving when they're not happy in relationships. 0.85
00:04:49.620 She'll get out of there.
00:04:51.020 So, Pearl, when you say that, didn't you also say one time that girls love to be in toxic relationships? 1.00
00:04:55.640 Women do, in general, I would say. 1.00
00:04:58.100 And what you said disproves that, right?
00:05:00.200 Well, you know...
00:05:01.480 Because if they're really unhappy, they will leave.
00:05:04.840 Well, I mean, it's like, what makes them happy is the question.
00:05:08.280 And I think, like, women, we just like to have some, like, ups and downs for whatever reason. 1.00
00:05:12.820 It's the unpredictability.
00:05:13.960 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:14.780 So, it's like...
00:05:15.500 Is he going to flip out on me today?
00:05:17.240 Is he going to accuse me?
00:05:18.520 Is he going to judge me?
00:05:19.620 They say they don't like that, but...
00:05:21.380 They're addicted to their emotions, bro.
00:05:24.340 I can't lie.
00:05:25.260 You make them happy one day.
00:05:26.440 You make them cry the other day.
00:05:27.900 Then you make them happy again.
00:05:28.960 They're addicted to the easiest.
00:05:30.560 That's what they want in the relationship.
00:05:31.980 But it's like, it's weird.
00:05:32.600 Otherwise, they get bored.
00:05:33.660 It's weird.
00:05:34.160 Yeah, it's weird.
00:05:34.800 Because when girls, like, aren't happy, it's like they're happy. 0.99
00:05:37.600 You know what I mean?
00:05:38.420 Because when, like, when I have friends and they're complaining about their boyfriends all the time,
00:05:41.720 they don't leave them.
00:05:42.340 It's like when they stop complaining.
00:05:44.560 It's like they like the argument, though.
00:05:46.320 If there's nothing there, you just get bored.
00:05:48.520 No, it's just because...
00:05:50.380 It's because it's what you said.
00:05:52.500 One of you two said that you chase bad boys.
00:05:54.700 Was it you?
00:05:54.980 Yeah.
00:05:55.320 Why is it that?
00:05:55.960 All right.
00:05:56.320 So, I think...
00:05:57.180 How old are you?
00:05:57.980 I'm 20.
00:05:59.080 You're 20.
00:05:59.760 So, you're chasing bad boys.
00:06:01.100 And that's what you're going to chase because that's what attracts you.
00:06:03.960 There's a difference between arousal and attraction.
00:06:06.120 What is naturally attractive is a guy that treats you nice, maybe has a little bit of status, a little bit of money.
00:06:12.300 And I've been through this.
00:06:13.180 I've been the friend where the guy that they were with had more status than me at the time or had more money than me at the time.
00:06:21.500 But they did what they did with me on the side.
00:06:24.000 Why?
00:06:24.900 Because I aroused them.
00:06:26.420 I gave them something that that man couldn't.
00:06:29.060 It was attractive to them that that man was able to give them security, money, stability, status.
00:06:34.740 But me mentally being able to stimulate them and talk to them for hours on end and just be sexually attracted to me, to my aura, the way I talk, the way I conduct myself.
00:06:45.900 That was...
00:06:47.180 How you hold yourself.
00:06:48.220 Yeah.
00:06:48.820 That's what they turned them on.
00:06:50.620 So I think for women, it's the, oh, I'm going to go with what turns me on. 1.00
00:06:55.440 And then when I hit 30, when my value is lower, then I'm going to go after the guys that I should have been going at in my 20s when my value was higher.
00:07:02.980 And then you expect that man to settle down for you.
00:07:06.640 Because technically you're settling because the men you really wanted in your 20s, your 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, when your value was high, you're going after the bad boys.
00:07:14.680 You're going after the guy with status.
00:07:15.760 And then at 30, you expect the nice guy to come in and be like, oh, yeah, she's picking me.
00:07:20.340 No, she's not picking you.
00:07:21.840 She's settling because the guys that she chose in her 20s when her value was high didn't want her.
00:07:27.160 They treated her like shit. 0.99
00:07:28.240 They cheated on her. 1.00
00:07:29.160 I did agree.
00:07:29.720 Show her no respect.
00:07:30.640 Show her no attention.
00:07:31.880 And then you expect that man to be like, oh, I'm proud.
00:07:35.800 That's not how it works.
00:07:37.120 That's what I talked about in your 20s.
00:07:39.420 It matters.
00:07:40.300 You have to think about what the man wants.
00:07:42.520 You can't live just me.
00:07:44.120 Hold on.
00:07:44.480 Hold on.
00:07:45.400 You can't just live just me.
00:07:47.040 I'm going to live my life.
00:07:48.000 I'm going to be proud.
00:07:48.700 I'm going to party.
00:07:49.200 I'm going to sleep with whoever I want.
00:07:50.480 I get that's what you want to do.
00:07:51.700 You want to be free.
00:07:52.400 You're liberated.
00:07:53.400 Cool.
00:07:53.840 I support that.
00:07:54.600 But at the same time, if you want a man that's going to marry you in your future, you should
00:07:59.600 be thinking about how you move.
00:08:01.480 And the way that most modern women move shows that you have no thoughts about what the men 1.00
00:08:08.260 want, what the man that you want wants.
00:08:10.800 You only care about yourself because you just said, I don't care.
00:08:14.440 You said that.
00:08:15.140 Yeah, I admit that.
00:08:15.960 Exactly.
00:08:16.860 So why would the man care about you?
00:08:20.320 Simple as that.
00:08:21.420 I have a question.
00:08:21.880 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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