JustPearlyThings - March 20, 2023


Women on the panel kept spitting bars


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In this episode we discuss the lack of respect for men in society and why women don t respect men as much as they do in society. Do you think men are respected in society? Why do you think women don't respect men? What does it mean to be a woman and respect a man?

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00:00:00.000 do you guys think that men are respected in society by women no no by other men yeah but
00:00:09.280 by women no i think they are they are yeah i think um i think that they are respected due to the
00:00:20.800 the position that they hold and the amount of things that they do for the society as a whole
00:00:27.600 i think they are respected do you think most women are aware how much men do for society as a whole
00:00:33.920 no so then how are they respected if women don't generally know that and they're they make up the 0.99
00:00:39.440 majority of society so 55 i'd say that a lot of women do respect men i think speaking to your
00:00:45.600 mike sorry i think saying most women don't respect men is a a bit of a high number to say but i think
00:00:52.400 a majority of women that want a man do respect a man there's a lot of women that say for exact 0.97
00:01:00.000 for example like very heavy like feminists they don't think that men some of them don't think men 1.00
00:01:07.680 deserve there was as much respect as do you think most women let their do you think most women in 1.00
00:01:13.920 relationships let their husbands lead i think they should if i'm asking what they do um 0.92
00:01:22.400 like they respect him enough to trust his authority well if you're in a relationship
00:01:26.320 then yeah you should respect him i'm not asking should i'm asking what is i don't know i don't
00:01:31.600 have the answer to that i'm not sure your general i think yeah most people in your life you would say
00:01:37.040 the woman you've never heard anything like she wears the pants in the relationship no no no no never 0.99
00:01:41.600 heard that no okay go ahead i'm sorry do you think men are respected in society no
00:01:48.000 no i don't i just i'm not in general respects yes um and obviously they should be but no i've going
00:01:56.720 back to the point i made earlier about women um listening to other women about what what we think men
00:02:03.920 want if we listen to men if we respected them this wouldn't be an issue we would listen to them we
00:02:08.960 wouldn't be going to other women and appeasing and competing with them because we would know that's not 1.00
00:02:13.760 even what men want so if you respect them it comes to honoring them listening to them and society does
00:02:20.320 not reflect a general overall population that respects men because we aren't giving men what
00:02:25.760 they want men are complaining men are desperate for women who respect them and hear them and see them
00:02:31.760 and we aren't doing that so overall we don't respect men
00:02:34.560 um i think majority of men are respected in society um even at situations in the gym you might
00:02:44.000 go to the gym and you're using something and a man might come over because you're a woman he kind 1.00
00:02:47.680 of thinks he can push you away or take your weights or whatever whereas he wouldn't do that with a man 1.00
00:02:51.520 maybe in certain situations a woman wouldn't respect a man is that common that's happened to me
00:02:56.640 yeah but i mean that's just in the gym but just in general anyway like unless a man gives you a reason
00:03:02.400 not to respect him then i think majority of the time you would respect him so why do you think we
00:03:07.040 men are trash is a common saying men are the problem or the issue if most women respect men why do we have those sayings
00:03:13.360 i think there's just kind of extremists that have gone through situations where
00:03:17.760 they have maybe gone through it a lot of times due to their own fault because they're not learning
00:03:22.160 but and then they just take their anger out on line making these expressions and yeah just going forward with that
00:03:29.200 so you just think it's a minority i mean i don't have that view on men because i think if someone's
00:03:34.480 trash then they're trash that's just the personal thing and there are quite a lot of people that say
00:03:39.440 that but that's kind of what's put out to you you don't really see the nice stuff nice stuff sometimes
00:03:44.240 so you think most women respect the average tesco worker the average kfc work or i don't know what you 0.65
00:03:50.160 guys have here the chicken the the chicken shop worker it's one thing to average or it's one thing to
00:03:57.760 respect successful men and men and you know high power positions but do you think most women respect 0.99
00:04:02.480 average men um i think most decent women do just as respecting a person though i um i have an
00:04:09.680 interesting story about that because just the other day being in london not being from here i um i always
00:04:14.960 engage i'm always friendly just talking to different people and i had an interesting conversation with my
00:04:20.080 uber driver the other day and he was telling me about how he he has a nice car he has his own
00:04:26.720 business and things like that but he doesn't drive his nice car when he's doing uber right why will
00:04:31.760 we put run up the miles on a nice car right and he has had his eye on a particular girl here in london
00:04:37.600 and he was telling me that that's generally the culture here when he goes out and he's in his
00:04:42.320 plain clothes and he's in his uber prius driving around girls aren't trying to give him play but
00:04:47.360 because they had mutual friends he ended up going out with her one night when he was he had on his louis
00:04:52.160 baton bag and he had on he had his nice car the same girl who was ignoring him was giving 1.00
00:04:57.760 him attention in the time of day now and he literally told her you know you ignored me the
00:05:02.960 other day right and she tried to downplay it and laugh it off like oh haha no not at all and from
00:05:08.320 the males that i have encountered here um i would say it's the same in the in the us too as well from
00:05:13.440 a lot of girls you see him and he's looking bummy and he because he works sanitation or whatever the
00:05:17.680 case may be and you're like uh whatever um and then when you see them in a different setting
00:05:22.640 now you want oh he has something oh he's flashy now he's this i would absolutely say that that
00:05:27.680 is the culture and i've heard it from men's mouth that story just two days ago from my uber driver
00:05:32.800 and i was like appalled i was like are you serious he's like yeah and i told her get away like
00:05:37.280 no like i have no interest in you now you just ignored me you've been ignoring me for months and
00:05:41.360 now that we're out you see my nice car you see my rolex you see that i have stuff you're interested
00:05:46.320 now uh what do you think do you think most women respect most men i don't think they do no there's 0.96
00:05:53.280 a lot of women now these days that just want to stand on their own two feet because of society 1.00
00:05:59.200 and i think a lot of women won't build of a man so if she sees him at his lowest a woman doesn't 1.00
00:06:03.440 want that i think that's wrong personally but yeah is that what you did you said you had three kids yeah
00:06:08.560 i was with my ex from when i was 14 until i was 23 we just didn't work out we still get along
00:06:13.680 you know we're amicable and that's it unfortunately it just didn't work out for us
00:06:19.040 why not um basically because of a lot of women out here are trash 1.00
00:06:24.720 and they throw themselves because they see a man doing his thing and he's got nice things
00:06:28.880 and he i think he was just a weak man and he accepted that there's a lot of things that i
00:06:32.480 wouldn't do in the bedroom that these women was willing to do with him so i think that's just yeah
00:06:37.680 did these women know that he was in a relationship um a lot of women yeah a lot of them did yeah do you
00:06:42.160 you think that's something that could be worked out like work past did you ever try to um yeah we
00:06:46.240 tried we tried for a long time i mean we had a few beautiful children you know why wouldn't we but
00:06:50.480 unfortunately i just couldn't get over that i became paranoid i became obsessing over these women that 1.00
00:06:56.160 he cheated on me with so it just didn't work and i didn't want that environment around my kids
00:07:02.000 um do you think most women respect most men um i think respectful women will respect men but
00:07:08.960 not all obviously i'm i'm asking most uh probably not no no no
00:07:20.480 i think it's to do with the age i think that women my my age and older do women younger than me
00:07:29.360 they don't and as for young lady there there's nothing no woman can do out there to my man that 1.00
00:07:35.920 i ain't gonna do myself i'm doing everything i don't care whether i've got to try and do hands
00:07:40.880 i'm disabled i would try and do a handstand because no woman ain't gonna act sex me with my man 1.00
00:07:46.400 there's nothing i'm going for the whole i'm doing everything so when i hear women say oh that woman was 1.00
00:07:52.640 willing to do things that i wouldn't do for my man and i'm thinking myself but what is it that you
00:07:59.040 wouldn't do for your man do you think that goes to the lack of submission with this generation i was 0.92
00:08:03.280 thinking the same thing but is that like a submission thing where your man is wanting something desiring
00:08:07.600 especially if he's willing to communicate it and he's not embarrassed by it i would be of the nature
00:08:11.600 that i'm a i'm a try to i might not be the best but if you teach me a little some some we might get
00:08:15.840 there anything once it don't even once it doesn't involve a third party yeah what if he did ask that
00:08:22.160 then what if my man asked it i didn't what if he asked me to do something i'm gonna do it that's my
00:08:28.080 man i want to do i mean if he asked for a third party is that where you draw the line because we
00:08:31.440 know that in the beginning because i'm not the only woman he needs i can do everything okay i'll even
00:08:35.040 try i'll even try and double up a jet on two people but no no no no no that's what i said okay
00:08:42.400 there's a limit he knows a limit and he's pushed a limit but no but i think that the younger people
00:08:50.560 the younger women they don't respect they don't respect men and i think it's the old bitter women 0.99
00:08:56.320 that don't i mean me i can say like i've never heard of any of this before because most of my
00:09:00.560 friends are older than me like 10 15 years older than me and they're like married people but i know
00:09:06.880 they've got some bitter old women out there that will tell youngsters i mean i've even hadn't tried 1.00
00:09:12.640 me but because i know that i've got older women out there that got sense and i think that no i think 1.00
00:09:19.200 that young people i think that's where it's at that's where it's gone wrong with the young people
00:09:24.160 because the old people won't tell them and you get people my age that are still going out there
00:09:28.640 trying to be young and they're old it's not happening it might depend on what kind of men you've had in
00:09:34.800 your life influence and growing up growing up like i've got an amazing dad and i've got amazing men
00:09:39.600 in my family so respect for men is rooted there but maybe if you have a either an absent father or
00:09:47.120 just i think that's a cop-out i think we're all adults but all adults we know right from wrong and
00:09:52.640 we decide what to do yeah because you can have people their parents are murderers and everything
00:09:57.440 like that they can grow up to be decent human beings i think i think it plays into the lack of
00:10:02.000 healing that this generation won't adapt to admit right so even if your dad wasn't there even if
00:10:07.440 you didn't have a male figure even if you gone through traumatic dating experiences who does the
00:10:12.240 responsibility lie in for you to take accountability and say okay i don't want to be bitter and lash out
00:10:17.840 against random men who i don't even know who i've never even encountered and when we're gonna say i
00:10:22.800 want to be a better person i want to be a decent person to identify where this is coming from and to do
00:10:26.880 something different if women are that unfunctional they shouldn't be working they'll be out there 1.00
00:10:32.160 on the streets like tramps because they're making all these excuses if you've got the brain enough
00:10:38.080 to go and do a job you've got brain enough to sort your life out there should be no excuse because you're
00:10:42.640 not stupid for the stupid women go ahead but i'm tired of hearing i didn't have this i didn't have that 1.00
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