JustPearlyThings - May 20, 2023


Would You CHECK your PARTNERS Phone


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

213.6

Word count

1,780

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

sentences flagged

Hate speech

17

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode we talk about how to deal with cheating in a relationship and how to protect your partner from cheating on them. We also talk about the difference between cheating and cheating on your partner and how we should deal with it.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Why'd you go through his phone?
00:00:03.000 Because I knew he was doing something dodgy
00:00:05.000 Yeah
00:00:06.000 I wouldn't do it unless I had a suspicion
00:00:08.000 And I had a suspicion and I was right 0.91
00:00:10.000 And every time I've done it I've been right
00:00:12.000 But now I've got to a point where I will never do it
00:00:15.000 Because every time I've done it I've found something
00:00:17.000 And I actually really like my boyfriend
00:00:19.000 So even if I get the feeling I'm like
00:00:21.000 I don't even want to look like
00:00:23.000 Just leave it at this point
00:00:26.000 What did you find?
00:00:28.000 Naked pictures from other girls 0.99
00:00:30.000 Oh wow
00:00:31.000 Yeah
00:00:32.000 But like how?
00:00:33.000 I used to get that all the time
00:00:34.000 How? What do you mean?
00:00:35.000 My ex-girlfriend, like girlfriends I've had
00:00:37.000 Have gone, one pacific partner's gone through my phone
00:00:40.000 And woke me up at like 3 in the morning
00:00:42.000 And been like oh blah blah blah
00:00:44.000 And I'm like but how did you know?
00:00:46.000 And I've been like
00:00:47.000 I don't know, I don't know
00:00:48.000 It's really weird
00:00:49.000 Not continuous but my younger days
00:00:51.000 Like I would just be like
00:00:52.000 But how did you even know I was talking to her on Facebook
00:00:54.000 Or how did you know?
00:00:55.000 Well I can answer that one for you
00:00:57.000 What made you think
00:00:58.000 It's weird
00:00:59.000 And you've been like oh a woman always knows 0.99
00:01:00.000 And I'm like what is this?
00:01:01.000 How?
00:01:02.000 How did the woman know?
00:01:03.000 Your behavior probably changes
00:01:04.000 But I'm a really good actor
00:01:05.000 No no no
00:01:06.000 Not even that
00:01:07.000 Because there's a lot of subconscious things that you would do
00:01:10.000 Yeah okay so it's like
00:01:11.000 We pick up on little social cues that like men don't 0.89
00:01:14.000 Right
00:01:15.000 So like okay we'll see
00:01:16.000 We'll notice let's say if you don't like text us around the time you normally text us
00:01:22.000 Yeah
00:01:23.000 Or like or if you don't do something you normally do that you wouldn't like think anything
00:01:26.000 Yeah
00:01:27.000 Like women we notice 1.00
00:01:28.000 Yeah
00:01:29.000 We notice everything
00:01:30.000 If you have an interaction with a girl and you think well that's how he used to interact with me
00:01:33.000 Yeah
00:01:34.000 Or like when we first met
00:01:35.000 Cause the thing is
00:01:36.000 The thing is
00:01:37.000 Guys have this as well
00:01:38.000 And guys you know the whole thing of like guys knowing that one guy friend who's actually trying to fuck
00:01:43.000 Guys also see this as well so we understand it's just kind of different how we go about dealing with it
00:01:50.000 So guys will go around and be like oh that one friend we'll just say it directly because guys are way more direct than women 1.00
00:01:57.000 We'll be like yo that friend Zeke or whatever his name is Zach or I'm trying to think of random names
00:02:02.000 Oh Zach's trying to fuck you 0.97
00:02:03.000 Like there's going to be the ones where guys will tell their girlfriend
00:02:06.000 No no he's not he's just like a brother to me
00:02:09.000 A girl will do 1.00
00:02:10.000 Will look at the same information
00:02:12.000 And instead of just saying it outright like yo Sarah's trying to have sex with you bro 0.99
00:02:15.000 They'll be like
00:02:16.000 They'll go around and be like get you to see it through their words type of thing
00:02:22.000 You get what I mean
00:02:23.000 There's very different approaches that guys can go to
00:02:26.000 The approach that we take sometimes as guys is like we think that that's going to repulse the girl 0.99
00:02:30.000 The girl likes sex bro and she likes to take attention 1.00
00:02:32.000 If you say you know that male friend
00:02:34.000 You know he wants to fuck you 0.99
00:02:35.000 You know he wants to fuck you 0.99
00:02:36.000 He wants to fuck you 1.00
00:02:37.000 She's not going to be like uh 0.97
00:02:38.000 Oh no
00:02:39.000 She might be like oh is it
00:02:40.000 You know what I mean she probably knows already
00:02:41.000 But you know at the end of the day that's why I feel like with male friends
00:02:44.000 Um with women and guys
00:02:46.000 Like having that friendship
00:02:48.000 It's very much um
00:02:50.000 It works in a woman's favour a lot of the time 1.00
00:02:51.000 So you wouldn't let me be a friend with your girl
00:02:53.000 Sorry?
00:02:54.000 You wouldn't let me be a friend with your girl
00:02:55.000 You?
00:02:56.000 You know
00:02:57.000 I don't think you're a friend with me
00:02:58.000 We're good bro
00:02:59.000 We're good but
00:03:00.000 But I would treat you like a male friend
00:03:02.000 That she has in it
00:03:03.000 So the boundaries would be there
00:03:04.000 Ain't no let's get changed together
00:03:05.000 You can't come in one day and
00:03:07.000 You're in there changed
00:03:08.000 Alright listen to this
00:03:09.000 Yeah I once had a girl 0.66
00:03:10.000 What was she? 0.85
00:03:11.000 She wanted to come around my yard and 0.99
00:03:12.000 And work or something
00:03:14.000 And she was like oh
00:03:15.000 Her boyfriend won't allow her
00:03:17.000 Cause it's just me and her
00:03:18.000 I was like but why though?
00:03:19.000 It's just me and her
00:03:20.000 She's working from
00:03:21.000 Instead of working from home
00:03:22.000 It's about
00:03:23.000 It's about not putting
00:03:25.000 So her boyfriend said no
00:03:27.000 Yeah
00:03:28.000 It's about her not being in a space
00:03:30.000 Or in a situation
00:03:31.000 Where something could happen
00:03:33.000 There should be boundaries in place
00:03:34.000 If you're in a relationship
00:03:35.000 She's just a friend of mine
00:03:37.000 She's a good friend
00:03:38.000 She was a good friend of mine
00:03:39.000 Yeah but like put it like this
00:03:40.000 I was in a situation
00:03:41.000 Where I helped her go
00:03:42.000 And do her assignment
00:03:43.000 But by the end of the night
00:03:44.000 Did we finish the assignment?
00:03:45.000 No
00:03:46.000 You finished another assignment
00:03:49.000 Like no no
00:03:50.000 Because the situation
00:03:51.000 Like one on one
00:03:52.000 In those type of situations
00:03:53.000 And those type of times
00:03:54.000 I can 100% understand
00:03:55.000 Yeah
00:03:56.000 Like the guy being like
00:03:57.000 Yeah
00:03:58.000 I feel a bit aware
00:03:59.000 I feel like
00:04:00.000 You're looking at your face
00:04:01.000 You were even scheming
00:04:02.000 I can see your face
00:04:03.000 Bro
00:04:04.000 Wayne is that guy
00:04:05.000 That cheats on
00:04:06.000 And then he will say to you
00:04:07.000 Before 25 don't count 0.67
00:04:08.000 Before 25 don't count 0.67
00:04:09.000 You know you have them man
00:04:10.000 That will be like
00:04:11.000 Yo my girl's trying to say
00:04:12.000 I was cheating on her 1.00
00:04:13.000 And I'm like yeah
00:04:14.000 But bro you were
00:04:15.000 But you were
00:04:16.000 It's me
00:04:17.000 It's me you're talking to bro
00:04:18.000 I'm like Wayne it's us
00:04:19.000 Yeah it's us
00:04:20.000 It's fine
00:04:21.000 We get it
00:04:22.000 We understand
00:04:23.000 You just don't want to put yourself
00:04:24.000 In a situation
00:04:25.000 Where something could come back
00:04:26.000 Say the girl lies 0.99
00:04:27.000 And you can't really defend yourself
00:04:28.000 It's her word against yours
00:04:30.000 I think that there should be
00:04:31.000 Boundaries in place
00:04:32.000 Like I don't think it's okay
00:04:34.000 If you are
00:04:35.000 If she's in a relationship
00:04:36.000 It's not okay for her to be
00:04:37.000 Bopping up to your room
00:04:38.000 To work
00:04:39.000 Like why?
00:04:40.000 I don't understand
00:04:41.000 No but you're just chilling
00:04:42.000 You're working from home
00:04:43.000 You usually work from home
00:04:44.000 Did you
00:04:45.000 When she said that to you
00:04:46.000 Did you say
00:04:47.000 You know what I understand
00:04:48.000 That's a really
00:04:49.000 That's great
00:04:50.000 Your boyfriend had boundaries
00:04:51.000 Or did you say
00:04:52.000 Oh that's horrible
00:04:53.000 To her
00:04:54.000 But he knows I'm by
00:04:55.000 Though
00:04:56.000 That doesn't help
00:04:57.000 Have you and her been
00:04:59.000 Intimate before
00:05:00.000 Like back in a day
00:05:01.000 No we haven't
00:05:02.000 We got in a situation
00:05:03.000 Where I knew she had feelings for me
00:05:05.000 Oh
00:05:06.000 No
00:05:07.000 No
00:05:08.000 No
00:05:09.000 No
00:05:10.000 No
00:05:11.000 No
00:05:12.000 No
00:05:13.000 No
00:05:14.000 No
00:05:15.000 No
00:05:16.000 I'm a nice guy
00:05:17.000 This is how we don't trust you bro
00:05:18.000 This is how we don't trust you bro
00:05:19.000 This is how I don't trust you
00:05:21.000 Come on
00:05:22.000 Come on
00:05:23.000 I just wanted her friendship
00:05:24.000 That's all I wanted
00:05:25.000 Whatever
00:05:26.000 Whatever
00:05:27.000 Whatever
00:05:28.000 Do his Instagram
00:05:29.000 Yeah let's check your Instagram
00:05:31.000 Alright
00:05:32.000 I don't know about glasses
00:05:33.000 Okay I want to know
00:05:34.000 If you guys
00:05:35.000 I know you're not single
00:05:36.000 But when you were single
00:05:37.000 If you guys would respond or not
00:05:39.000 And what you would think of him
00:05:40.000 Oh jeez
00:05:41.000 Man's a model still 1.00
00:05:42.000 You know I can't really see
00:05:44.000 Is that your car?
00:05:45.000 I feel like
00:05:46.000 I feel like
00:05:47.000 If I saw this Instagram
00:05:48.000 I would think problems
00:05:49.000 That's the one that the gays 1.00
00:05:50.000 Yeah
00:05:51.000 That's the one that the gays 1.00
00:05:52.000 Respond to you
00:05:57.000 I don't think this
00:05:58.000 I don't need these type of problems
00:05:59.000 You got blue ticks coming into yours as well
00:06:02.000 Wow
00:06:03.000 Oh yeah defo
00:06:07.000 Yeah
00:06:08.000 Yeah
00:06:09.000 Yeah
00:06:10.000 Is that a magnum?
00:06:11.000 Your type
00:06:12.000 You need
00:06:13.000 Okay
00:06:16.000 What do you guys
00:06:17.000 What do you guys think?
00:06:18.000 What would you
00:06:19.000 Like the last picture
00:06:20.000 And this picture is fine
00:06:21.000 There was a couple pictures
00:06:22.000 That I would be like
00:06:23.000 I'm a PT but
00:06:25.000 Yeah I hear you
00:06:26.000 You need to show the merchandise
00:06:28.000 Yeah
00:06:29.000 Fair
00:06:30.000 So would you guys respond?
00:06:34.000 Yeah probably
00:06:35.000 Yeah
00:06:36.000 Yeah
00:06:37.000 What about you two
00:06:38.000 Would you respond?
00:06:39.000 No
00:06:40.000 I don't know
00:06:41.000 I think you're a good looking guy
00:06:44.000 But
00:06:45.000 I don't know
00:06:46.000 Because of course you had your
00:06:47.000 You are flexing
00:06:48.000 That's him
00:06:49.000 That's him
00:06:50.000 Oh it's you
00:06:51.000 That's him
00:06:52.000 That's him
00:06:53.000 I don't know
00:06:54.000 I don't know
00:06:55.000 I don't know
00:06:56.000 I don't know
00:06:57.000 I don't know
00:06:58.000 That's him
00:06:59.000 I'm not giving up my glasses
00:07:00.000 I was like
00:07:01.000 Like
00:07:02.000 Someone get us some glasses 0.84
00:07:03.000 What am I?
00:07:06.000 That's him
00:07:07.000 No yeah no
00:07:08.000 I mean you're a good looking guy
00:07:09.000 But I think yeah
00:07:10.000 There was a couple of pictures
00:07:11.000 That I'm
00:07:12.000 But I can't judge you
00:07:13.000 Cause you said you don't like the whole top thing of
00:07:14.000 It's just
00:07:15.000 Yeah there's just
00:07:16.000 Something I
00:07:17.000 But yeah talk
00:07:18.000 It's all good
00:07:19.000 But it's
00:07:20.000 I mean I think I have that view in general though
00:07:22.000 Like even if a girl is like 1.00
00:07:24.000 And I'm not gonna say I haven't done this in the past
00:07:26.000 But if you're out there like bikini like tits 1.00
00:07:29.000 Like tits in the camera 1.00
00:07:30.000 Like showing off your body in a certain type of way
00:07:32.000 You want a certain type of attention
00:07:34.000 To like I can't take you seriously
00:07:36.000 No I hear that
00:07:37.000 I hear that
00:07:38.000 I agree
00:07:39.000 See man
00:07:41.000 My answer comes PG clean
00:07:42.000 PG clean
00:07:43.000 I was like
00:07:44.000 I just
00:07:45.000 Have like
00:07:46.000 I would think
00:07:47.000 Cause when you see a profile like that
00:07:49.000 I would just assume you get so much attention
00:07:51.000 Which you're saying is true
00:07:52.000 And so I'm like
00:07:53.000 I have not
00:07:54.000 That's a headache
00:07:55.000 I know I'm like
00:07:56.000 I'm too jealous
00:07:57.000 You don't gotta be competitive man
00:07:58.000 You gotta go for it
00:07:59.000 You're a demon
00:08:00.000 You know what I mean
00:08:01.000 You're a demon
00:08:02.000 That's what I'm saying
00:08:03.000 As many of you know
00:08:04.000 I was just banned on TikTok
00:08:06.000 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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