JustPearlyThings - You Won't BELIEVE What She Said

00:00:00.000 would you guys want they they want to know if you would want your daughters to be only fans

00:00:04.800 of course they would yeah yeah of course i wouldn't mind okay i don't want kids so like

00:00:09.440 i don't really okay do you want kids pardon yeah i do yeah um i it's not that i wouldn't want my

00:00:17.520 daughter to do anything she wouldn't have to do it because you know i'm gonna provide for my

00:00:21.280 children so my mom encouraged me to do it yeah my parents are all still together they've been married

00:00:28.160 20 years like they're very okay and how did how did you get the idea to do only fans i was literally

00:00:33.520 just being as slow as it is so i thought you know what may as well get paid for it but it was it was

00:00:37.920 just because i actually enjoy i i enjoy sex very much and so i thought you know what and so you

00:00:43.280 told who'd you tell first your mom or your dad um i think i told no i told both at the same time and

00:00:48.400 and what'd they say they said as long as you're safe and you're happy that's all that matters

00:00:52.640 okay but they didn't say go do it they just said as long as you're no no no i well like um when

00:00:58.080 i was doing i was already doing like instagram promotion thing and my mom like was like why

00:01:03.840 don't you do that you know what i mean like why don't you do any fans you may as well okay so your

00:01:08.640 mom encouraged it yeah yeah she said if she was my age and like in this yeah generation she'd do it

00:01:13.840 yeah that's what really your your parents said the same thing yeah how did that conversation go um

00:01:21.200 it was just uh it was just because i was already with um someone who had like social media and

00:01:28.240 stuff and then we were seeing on social media together and then we just had the conversation

00:01:32.720 about only fans and then they was like yeah do it like if you're comfortable and like if i was young

00:01:38.400 and i was your age i'd do it too okay do you expect to get married later yeah i don't really care to

00:01:45.120 be honest i'd like to get married okay i mean um um if i get married it doesn't necessarily mean

00:01:50.640 that i'm gonna stay in that relationship that i'm gonna be happy for the rest of my life like

00:01:55.280 i do think if you're married i think you should stay in the marriage yeah i do and if you have

00:01:58.880 children you should but i don't really think marriage is like a nest but i don't really think

00:02:03.280 it's that necessary i mean it's not the same as it used to be obviously um and i mean i'm getting

00:02:11.280 married now like i mean you still get cheated on you still you still get cocks have you ever seen

00:02:20.720 a successful marriage yeah well my parents yeah so then why do you have this view on marriage because

00:02:26.640 um i have this view on marriage because a lot of people that i know get like i've seen a lot of

00:02:31.280 people get divorced i've i've personally met like guys like i literally met a guy actually once in a pub

00:02:37.360 and he was trying to like um chat to me and stuff and he was like trying to like ask me to go out with

00:02:42.480 him and he on his lock screen he had a picture of him at his wedding getting married to his wife with

00:02:47.680 his children in the picture as well and i just think that like marriage doesn't like stand for

00:02:53.920 anything like it doesn't mean anything really i i don't think it really means a lot and and you also

00:02:59.600 said earlier that um if you're married you get half of what your uh partner has but that's not true

00:03:04.880 either because you can actually a guy can actually sign all his money to himself and not give his wife

00:03:10.240 any of that so that's not true yes it is true because i know someone that's done it yes it is

00:03:14.560 true well was it a prenup or are you saying that this is a court ruling no it's not a court ruling

00:03:19.440 i'm saying that they can do that before they get married so it doesn't really yeah so it was a prenup

00:03:23.680 yes that's not relevant yes it is relevant because if it's a prenup or it's determined by the

00:03:28.560 court you can still get married and are you really arguing okay i have a question i just i'm just curious how

00:03:34.000 you think so you know usually if i'm in a room with someone that knows more than me i'm not like

00:03:40.960 okay so she's a lawyer you're on only fans and you you think wait wait wait wait wait it's not about

00:03:48.720 money oh my god it's not about money and so you're talking about the legal system and i know a good

00:03:54.160 amount because of the documentary i'm doing on the legal system but if she told me something i would

00:03:59.920 probably believe her just that she's wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait so so but but i'm

00:04:06.640 saying you're arguing with a lawyer i'm not like you're on her i never said that i disagreed with

00:04:11.840 what i'm saying yeah i'm just i just i just i just want to understand how you think lawyer only fans

00:04:19.520 worker you think you you know more than her did i say that you acted like it no i didn't i don't even

00:04:24.960 know what she's talking about i mean that's what i'm saying i'm saying that i know someone that's

00:04:31.920 married and that's okay so you give all that you give any you heard it okay let me let me just let

00:04:37.440 me just repeat this let me just repeat this called a friend heard it let me let me just repeat this

00:04:41.200 i didn't know what let me just repeat i'm gonna repeat this really quick really quick for us heard

00:04:45.600 a story works in the legal system as a lawyer i haven't heard a story i know someone okay who told you

00:04:52.960 what i'm not saying someone told me i know someone personally that okay so you know someone that told

00:04:59.120 you a no i never i never said that i know someone personally were you at were you at the court hearing

00:05:04.560 none of his money goes for you were you at the court hearing why does it matter like what are you

00:05:08.800 talking about my point is i don't understand why you have this gut reaction to argue because you're

00:05:14.720 saying that i said that i'm right and she's wrong no i i said that you argued with her and i don't

00:05:19.360 think you understand how you're coming across okay i don't really care that's clear that's clear

00:05:25.600 all right okay so i'm i'm saying i don't understand why you're acting like you know more than a lawyer

00:05:29.680 so why don't you so i would love to okay so god okay thank you okay so can you tell me more about

00:05:36.240 how it works i'm curious so okay so what you said was that you know somebody who had a situation where

00:05:42.640 they signed their money away in a certain way so that the wife didn't get the money yeah so maybe what

00:05:47.280 you didn't understand is that in order to do that you would have to sign a prenuptial agreement

00:05:51.840 that is not the default that is not the default outcome in a divorce system so in our family law

00:05:57.360 system here in the uk everything the division of the assets is assessed by the court and it's all

00:06:03.280 ruled by legislation so when your friend when or whoever that happened to that was a case-by-case

00:06:09.120 basis based on a prenuptial agreement that they both agreed to before they got married

00:06:13.280 in the family law system right now they will take into account who earns what who contributed what

00:06:18.960 what assets they have and that will be provided depending on what they've done and what they've

00:06:23.280 contributed and what they haven't it's so what you're saying is actually an exception it's also

00:06:27.440 completely different from the norm it's it's it's a it's a contractual agreement that's what i was

00:06:32.640 trying to say it's still it's still a thing but what maybe what you didn't understand is maybe that

00:06:36.960 it's just case by case that's what happened to them because they did a spec they did a specific

00:06:41.840 contractual agreement before but for the majority of people who don't do that that's not how the

00:06:45.920 law works okay so i'm i'm curious who you're the only one married right everyone else no okay who

00:06:54.480 here wants to be married raise your hand okay so undecided okay and i'm curious when would you guys

00:07:03.120 want to be married by so remind them what your age is and when you'd want to be married

00:07:07.040 um yeah so you're all talking about like in the i'm in my 30s 35 so um

00:07:13.520 ah i'm just kidding i'm just kidding i know i know like too late yeah forget it

00:07:20.000 um but um really sort of when i find someone that i that i like so i don't know in the next few years

00:07:28.400 whatever but it has to be someone that i um that we really like each other i don't just want to get

00:07:33.840 married just for the sake of it i'd rather not if it's okay what about kids do you want kids i mean

00:07:38.960 yeah if it's if it's meant to be yeah i would if i if i'm with a partner yeah okay are you okay with

00:07:44.960 not having them yeah whatever will be will be yeah okay well i don't understand that yeah isn't it like

00:07:53.200 i've never really i've never really been in a situation where i've had to think about that

00:07:57.440 because i would only think about having a child with someone if i'm really getting married to someone in

00:08:02.240 a situation like that so i'm i've been i haven't had to worry or think about it and it hasn't been

00:08:07.520 something i've grown up like oh i must have kids i must be married by this age i must be that i i've

00:08:13.280 just like if i if i find the one that i'm married to then i would assume and one so if you i'm just

00:08:19.760 curious um how how much roughly do you make a year you don't have to give me like more than more than 60

00:08:28.320 000 yeah okay more than 70 yeah okay so you actually make enough that you could retire by yourself

00:08:35.360 i mean not in london oh my god okay so what's your if the government doesn't bail you out what's your

00:08:41.680 plan if you don't get married um so my plan if i don't get married is basically to have a property

00:08:49.520 which i already do um but and then just just explore the world and see what's going on and

00:08:56.240 just be happy but no i do i have other things that it depends on work well well yeah because

00:09:01.360 like let's say you live to be 90 and like you you can't really work after like 65 70 so it's like what

00:09:07.360 what do you do for that 20 years if you don't get married like most people need two incomes to retire

00:09:12.640 yeah you can get into only funds oh girl no one of only only five percent of only fans it's either

00:09:19.600 prostitutes or only fans are after like 40 45 you don't really have that option you can still go into

00:09:24.400 i know a woman that's like 70 and she doesn't yeah there's there's a lot of milfs on there and stuff

00:09:28.400 also one of they're not making the money you guys are making i promise you that also one um one of my

00:09:34.400 um jobs um they asked me if uh if i'm on only fans because they were not going to give me the job if i was on

00:09:41.120 only fans because it's um negative yeah negative press i know so yeah um sex work now i understand

00:09:48.880 that but like actually that's one point that i would like to to point out so um in certain law

00:09:54.720 firms that i've worked at before when we are going through people's um finances say for example if

00:09:59.600 they're buying a property we have to go through the funds on the yeah we when we've got when we've had

00:10:05.120 people that they're getting their money through only fans a lot of the time it can preclude them from

00:10:09.440 being able to go through with the property sale yeah because only fans is potentially a high risk

00:10:16.480 um company and there's also ties to child child porn sex trafficking and things like that so a lot of

00:10:24.240 women don't know this but when they go to buy a property and you're asked okay what are your source

00:10:28.320 of funds what are your source of wealth and it turns out that this is where your money is coming from

00:10:32.480 it's highly likely that you may not be it depends on the law firm and it's really up to them

00:10:36.720 but you may not be able to get a property because your money is potentially coming from an illegitimate

00:10:41.520 place so there's the potential for money laundering and you know a law firm does not want to be

00:10:46.480 involved with any illegitimate source of funds so it's something that you have to consider yeah well

00:10:50.560 i was looking to be able to like buy outright so it wasn't too much of a problem i mean obviously it

00:10:55.520 is like because you can't like easily then snap up like 10 houses but i guess then like buying outright

00:11:01.680 you know you've paid for it so but that's the thing you're right like the people who came to us

00:11:06.800 at that time they they were able to buy the properties outright but we had to turn them

00:11:11.040 away because our firm didn't want to be associated with a company that um promotes uh child exploitation

00:11:18.720 and sex trafficking yeah no it does come with a lot of problems but you know i recognize that and

00:11:22.960 that's something i'm willing to do and i just think i mean it's it's good that you know that that you're

00:11:28.320 aware but i think a lot of girls aren't aware and they don't think about the future consequences of

00:11:32.240 what could happen to them and i think that it's sad because it's like fast money fast attention but

00:11:36.880 it could really preclude you from getting property in the future and then possibly

00:11:40.720 preclude you from getting married as well because men potentially don't want to sleep

00:11:45.200 uh well they probably want to sleep with you but they probably don't want to marry yeah no i agree

00:11:48.800 there's a lot of repercussions to doing only fans and that's why i always stress if someone wants to

00:11:52.400 start it they should think for it like thoroughly i thought of like for like a year before i actually did it

00:11:56.560 and stuff like that but i know obviously a lot of girls these days are just kind of going into it

00:12:00.560 because they think it's going to be quick easy money which you know it it can be but it you know

00:12:05.440 later on in life then they come up with a lot of problems yeah exactly

JustPearlyThings - May 12, 2023

You Won't BELIEVE What She Said

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