JustPearlyThings - May 28, 2023


Young Girl SCHOOLS Grown Women on Beauty


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10 minutes

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1,863

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1

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Misogyny

12

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3

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In this episode, we discuss beauty standards in the modern world and why modern women don t care as much about beauty standards as they do in the olden days. Do you think beauty standards are more frowned upon in modern society?

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00:00:00.000 today's topic is that modern women don't care about beauty standards that's that's my premise 0.95
00:00:06.580 today so i my first question is what are beauty standards and then start here go around then
00:00:13.820 second row go ahead um for me i think you know due to the nature of my job i do singing you know i
00:00:20.460 perform a lot you know in the public eyes so i think beauty is important uh in a way that
00:00:27.020 you need to be confident enough for people to you know to see your talent eventually i mean there
00:00:33.000 are different beauty standards i'm from italy so as you probably can imagine um maybe the beauty 0.84
00:00:39.860 standards over there are just a little bit different who's someone that is the italian
00:00:43.920 beauty standard is there like a celebrity yes celebrities or you know people on tv no i was
00:00:48.620 just like someone you could think of um monica bellucci monica could we put her on the screen 0.91
00:00:54.680 i just want to see what she looks like yeah it's pretty mediterranean vibe monica bellucci yeah 1.00
00:00:59.480 okay it's an actress i'm gonna i'm gonna look it up here just while he's playing it so i can see
00:01:03.300 is she tall short she's tall um brown hair you know the typical mediterranean type of vibe yeah 1.00
00:01:13.080 i don't know if you consider that as a beautiful i think she's beautiful um but um i think for
00:01:19.660 i would lie if i would say like no beauty doesn't matter at all i mean it's that's i think it's a
00:01:26.920 lie to me personally speaking but at the same time i wouldn't generalize you know for different people
00:01:32.680 beauty can be different i for me for example i try like to look nice without always being so
00:01:38.880 up there like showing up like your body all the time so that can be beautiful because you can
00:01:44.440 you know let men guess what's behind yeah you're very i like your outfit a lot it's very cute
00:01:50.680 thank you i try you know i knew that i was coming here so i was like i need to be in a decent stand
00:01:56.760 do you think that um british women um have you been to america too i'm just curious yes yes what 0.99
00:02:02.400 would you say um who is more put together usually when they go out american women british women or italian
00:02:08.180 women italian women yes because you know we are this is why you know i say from the beginning
00:02:15.640 i come from a country where like you know being nice and looking nice is quite important but at the
00:02:23.020 same time i feel like my beauty standards are not necessarily what the modern women they want to you
00:02:29.220 know say like oh yes let's put you know boobs out everything out and that's beautiful sexy and 1.00
00:02:33.720 provocative i kind of like like to people guess more what's behind you know the surface would you
00:02:40.660 say in italy um that that like beauty standards are higher there or lower i think that are higher
00:02:49.860 higher it's more competitive you'd say yes yes definitely like from tv you know anything you know
00:02:55.580 you can see if you're not in a certain type of body shape sometimes can be i mean it's changing
00:03:01.120 it's changing but i feel like that is still quite predominant that like and what would you say
00:03:07.660 about um like promiscuous clothes is that more i'm just curious because we don't always get people
00:03:13.200 from italy on the show um so would you say that that's more frowned upon in italy or um or is it
00:03:21.560 more open there it's a warmer the thing the thing is you know with the younger generations it's really
00:03:26.340 changing because they're quite more into this western world you know they're bombarded with social
00:03:30.980 media and images and everyone is trying to impress everyone so it's changing a little bit but i would
00:03:35.760 say and you know people like myself or you know other friends or acquaintances you know we like to
00:03:42.440 think that that are also part of women that still like to not impress just you know by i'm gonna be 1.00
00:03:49.620 naked tonight and i'm gonna show you know how sexy i am there is sexiness isn't being absolutely
00:03:54.140 fully covered i believe so okay um so what do you think um beauty to me it's i feel like it's within
00:04:02.120 to be honest with you but i'm also half bayesian so in the bayesian community beauty is being
00:04:10.520 revealing and like in the when the you're sorry say that again half bayesian say barbados
00:04:16.080 beyond is from um so we usually are quite you know revealing and nails done hair makeup sort of thing
00:04:26.080 um but yeah as i said beauty to me is is within okay yeah and you can't tell if one girl is more
00:04:32.560 attractive than the other it all looks the same um but then that goes by preference i can say
00:04:40.880 well this person looks really good and but then again this yeah it goes by its preference like i
00:04:47.820 might think this person doesn't look so good um where to others someone else they might look really
00:04:54.320 good you don't think there's general beauty at all like you think it's different for every person or
00:04:59.640 do you think that in general we can kind of tell who's the most attractive and who's the least
00:05:03.940 attractive to society yeah but who's society to our society yeah but when you say society like who
00:05:12.980 would you who is society um well people in the uk okay so you would say that people can tell who's
00:05:19.220 more attractive and less attractive um because like that's when you say society it's people right
00:05:25.620 yeah it's people it's people in the uk but i think it's different all over as i said like in
00:05:30.020 barbados they would say rihanna is what you call um you know beauty um attraction she's you know
00:05:37.220 she's she's very pretty i mean i think they'd say that in america too they love it we love rihanna 0.99
00:05:43.940 she's beautiful everywhere come on yeah but you know like over here is she not beautiful somewhere
00:05:52.740 where is rihanna not hot that's true
00:05:54.820 you know like i feel like there's like preferences like some people like might think one celebrity's
00:06:02.180 hotter than the other but they're all hot yeah you know unless you're blind you can tell so that's
00:06:06.740 why i just never understand what people say they're all hot i like if i look i if i look at
00:06:10.980 beyonce i don't think she's in comparison to um you know to rihanna i think rihanna is more
00:06:17.060 beautiful to me than beyonce so i mean just being honest my opinion depends when i don't know because
00:06:28.340 beyonce is a bit older isn't she yeah but it doesn't matter about that i think my preference is
00:06:34.980 rihanna over beyonce okay what do you think what are beauty standards like she said it's within you
00:06:41.220 i'm very big on that i do not get that within yeah like we're not blind we're not blind you could
00:06:50.500 find someone so attractive but they have the most shittiest personality yeah but we're i'm just
00:06:55.540 talking i'm just talking i'm just talking physical like okay they're ugly after even even if beyonce
00:07:01.140 came in you might say rihanna's hotter but beyonce's still hot nobody can deny that beyonce's hot yeah
00:07:06.260 yeah she's pretty but like everyone has their own preferences so who you might think's good looking 1.00
00:07:11.140 i might think he's definitely not what about men do you think men look at women and say the same thing
00:07:18.260 that beauty comes from within i would like to say so but i feel like the ones that have been hurt maybe
00:07:27.140 they start looking at beauty within maybe the ones that have been hurt you know
00:07:31.300 that's when you start hearing what is it what's the saying they say be beyond the eyes or something
00:07:37.460 like that they say right yeah then you start hearing that but you would say in general men do look at
00:07:42.900 beauty to an extent i definitely sometimes don't think men look at anything but oh you know just
00:07:52.980 what they can have okay so um when we talk about beauty standards it's all about to you it's all about
00:07:57.780 what comes from within yeah nothing physical my background's indian so like she picked up she's 0.87
00:08:03.140 beijian i'm indian and we pretty much cover ourselves back home what does that have to do with the beauty
00:08:11.540 standards so that comes within because we're not here we're quite covered up to be fair so we look at
00:08:16.580 beauty like they very well i'm from a village so oh yeah so they don't wear makeup they they just
00:08:23.540 literally my mom's always said this to me what part of india are you from punjab where is that
00:08:28.820 that's like in a border right next to pakistan so it's closer to pakistan side so i miss i would
00:08:34.340 say south india okay because i went to um abu dhabi or not not sorry not abu dhabi sorry sorry
00:08:40.420 hydrabat hydrabat where's that that's in india yeah india's really big yeah i think it's south i think i
00:08:47.300 don't know it was a long time ago i was i i barely can remember the name obviously so it's a bit
00:08:53.780 different because we're from village and we just like we women always do their hair but they're very
00:08:58.260 rarely wear makeup they're very rarely wear yeah anything really they just put their clothes on
00:09:03.780 to have their hair done so that's where my grandparents are from so when i look at that
00:09:08.900 and i'm like b is from within so that's what i mean when i say that uh what do you think beauty standards
00:09:16.260 um i mean i kind of have to disagree with the ladies to my left because i feel like
00:09:21.460 it's evident um i feel like everybody knows who like a beautiful person is i feel like if a woman
00:09:27.540 walks in the room you'll know that a woman will be classified as beautiful if she has her nails done 1.00
00:09:32.020 her hair's done her eyelashes her eyebrows everything is straight everything is put together um i feel like
00:09:37.300 if another woman was to walk in and she doesn't have that i won't i don't feel like people won't say
00:09:40.740 she's beautiful i just feel like people will be more attracted and will look um to the woman who has 0.82
00:09:46.580 everything done first initially do you get what i mean so i feel like um and to ask your question
00:09:51.540 about men i feel like men that's the first thing they look at beauty before they look at anything
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