Pearl - July 09, 2025


A Beast Arises. His name is Jeff St. James


Episode Stats

Length

26 minutes

Words per Minute

162.66501

Word Count

4,284

Sentence Count

329

Misogynist Sentences

24

Hate Speech Sentences

25


Summary

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Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Yeah, they want to demonize the red pill. It's the same reason I'm put on a DHS watch list.
00:00:05.640 All right, let's let me do this. Okay. So if I'm gonna say no, I'm gonna say no. If I'm gonna
00:00:12.760 disagree, I'm gonna disagree. And men not going through the natural maturation process as teenagers,
00:00:21.560 as early adults, because they literally don't have the opportunity to with women.
00:00:24.840 And we can't be shocked anymore that there's an environment that's festering of boys and young
00:00:30.440 men who unfortunately have a strong distaste. And I would argue, not even for women in general,
00:00:36.860 women in the Western cultures and countries. This is why they're running to the other countries and
00:00:42.380 cultures where men are at least still seen as valuable, relevant, important.
00:00:47.300 No, I think I think like anything in the West to redress any kind of any imbalance in anything,
00:01:00.600 we've had to go to some crazy level to the other side and come to a middle thing.
00:01:07.900 And the only thing I have to say to my ex is damn, you got fat. Well, that'd be pretty funny.
00:01:13.240 Imagine, imagine. So Steve M in the chat. Hello, let's say your name is Diane. Hello, Diane. I have
00:01:20.460 a message from Steve M. And he wants you to know that you look like a beluga whale now. And he's glad
00:01:27.980 he got out when he could because he got you when you were thin. And good luck to the simp that puts up
00:01:35.560 with that. That would be pretty funny. That'd be a pretty good. I'll leave it. I'll drop it to 5k
00:01:45.180 this show. This show PayPal me Hannah Pearl Davis at gmail.com. Send me a PayPal this show. It's in
00:01:53.020 the divorce documentary. It's in the I'll, I know you guys are thinking Pearl, what do you charge so
00:01:58.320 much money? Look, guys, do you know what it costs to put a documentary? Do you know what it do you
00:02:02.880 don't like? Do you know what this stuff costs? I have to hire editors, producers, lighting people.
00:02:10.240 I know what you're thinking, Pearl, Pearl, but you did you in England, you you said you were working
00:02:17.380 it. Well, we were. I had one guy that messed it up. I'm gonna be honest, I hired I made one bad choice
00:02:23.380 that wasted money. You know, sometimes when you're putting some together, that was one to
00:02:29.180 do. Got the second issue that we had was that I got demonetized. So now we're raising
00:02:38.600 money for it. And a few months, you know, I might be able to put it together myself. But
00:02:43.180 you know, I'm trying to, I'm not supposed to say that. But yeah, okay.
00:02:46.540 Why are we so surprised? Why do we have to have shows like adolescents that quite frankly are
00:02:50.980 pretty late in the game in terms of its culture. And like you said, I talk to quite a lot of my
00:02:59.140 friends, you know, who are all parents. And they had no idea what, I mean, I knew about it. I'm doing
00:03:03.780 this podcast and I see these comments all the time and I was very aware of it. I've read a lot about it.
00:03:08.460 They had no idea, had no idea about it. And I'm like, you have teenage children and young adult
00:03:14.100 children. How do you not know? How are you that ill-informed? I agree with you.
00:03:21.060 You know what's crazy? Yeah. I'm sorry. I'm sorry to cut you off, but you want to know what's crazy
00:03:25.440 when you're in a market and environment where both parents got to work long hours.
00:03:30.380 But it's wildly, wildly off in most, in most ways in which they try to categorize what's actually going
00:03:41.380 on. I'm being honest with you. And the problem with it is several things. But the first is they
00:03:47.780 clearly did not use an expert on incel culture. Any expert on any, go on YouTube when you get the
00:03:56.120 chance and type in incel experts review adolescents and see all the data they have in comparison to how
00:04:08.480 the show tried to cover it to a degree. And it was only four episodes. So there was only so much,
00:04:14.220 of course, that they could do. But I'm going to tell you one thing that I loved and I think
00:04:18.180 they did get right. And it was very subtle. And I don't know if people actually picked it up enough.
00:04:25.480 The first is when the two detectives were walking through.
00:04:28.880 It was a rattlesnake raid. Oh, tell Jake I said, thank you.
00:04:34.020 Yeah. And they're trying to engage with the students. And it's very clear, like they're
00:04:40.460 just missing it. Students aren't saying anything. Nobody's really wanting to work with them. Like
00:04:44.940 they're just getting all this resistance. They're not really getting anywhere in terms of their
00:04:48.160 investigation. And the lead detective, after he talks with his son and his son talks about the red
00:04:55.080 pill and, and he's asking son, did you see the matrix? And his son's like, what's the matrix? Like,
00:04:59.600 what are you talking? Like, and they captured the confusion of people who aren't in it.
00:05:07.380 Yes.
00:05:07.960 You don't do this for a living, who aren't psychologists, who aren't psychiatrists,
00:05:11.500 who aren't in mental health, who aren't in these spaces, even people who are talking about it all
00:05:16.980 the time. If you're not in it, you don't actually get it. When I talked about that mountaintop thing,
00:05:24.680 you don't know what it's like to be considered invisible and useless to both men and women.
00:05:35.380 You don't get it.
00:05:37.460 Damn. See, she's like, I don't care. Cause women will always be useful to some degree. Cause you're a
00:05:44.260 whole, someone will do it.
00:05:46.660 You don't know that feeling. I don't care if you're the most unattractive. If you saw the show,
00:05:53.500 uh, what was it? My 400, 500 pound life or something like that, where they got to get
00:05:59.380 cranes and break down doors to move these people. Why all these women got men?
00:06:05.040 Oh, that's funny.
00:06:12.180 Great question. I've always.
00:06:14.840 Will as a woman by default, she's still going to have value with some man.
00:06:19.180 Wow. But at a certain age, she, she, she's still, but again,
00:06:24.360 if their first 60 years of you living, you're seen as valuable to somebody that matters versus
00:06:32.680 in comparison, you can go your entire life and be considered a genetic dead end.
00:06:37.400 That is actually so interesting.
00:06:39.460 So on the show, these are lead detectives whose job it is to learn, to question,
00:06:45.200 think of things on multiple levels. And they had no idea that there's a subculture of bullying
00:06:51.160 and, and, and ostracization amongst not just boys doing this to each other, but on social media,
00:06:59.280 other people who you may not even know also saying things about you, also targeting you.
00:07:06.080 Yeah. And it never ends. I mean, there's that kid who committed suicide because his nude got leaked
00:07:15.140 or something to someone in Nigeria and they extradited them and put them in prison. That's amazing.
00:07:23.080 Just the bullying and the tactics. It's also the shaming. It's also the rejection.
00:07:27.620 It's also being seen as invisible. And I don't, it's a very, very, very hard way. It's a very hard
00:07:37.380 concept to try to describe to people who for most of their life, or they have yet to experience what
00:07:42.280 it means to be invisible since they were 14 years old. Right.
00:07:46.100 They don't know what that, that feeling is. And, and I thought the show did a really good job of the
00:07:50.200 parents didn't see it. Yeah. The, the detectives didn't know it, but the second piece I thought they
00:07:55.440 got really great was when they found out, oh snap, the kid's being targeted, the kid's being bullied.
00:08:08.880 The victim apparently was a contributing member of this and she was leading the charge
00:08:13.240 and the things that she would say and the viciousness of how they were treating this boy.
00:08:18.360 I'm not going to say what he did was justify, spoiler alert for those who didn't watch the show.
00:08:23.360 If you didn't, it's your fault by now. Yeah, exactly.
00:08:25.440 But the callous response that the woman investigator had, when he tried to bring it to her attention,
00:08:34.120 like, I think there's more that's going on with this case. And she said, I just want the attention
00:08:38.800 to be on the victim, on the girl. And what I would suggest is there were two victims. It's just that
00:08:47.120 one guy. Right.
00:08:48.780 One lost their life and one lost their freedom potential. You notice that whenever women die,
00:08:55.720 it's always a national headlines. But when, when men die, no one cares. People don't
00:09:02.860 have a lot of sympathy when men pass away really for the rest of their lives.
00:09:09.780 And what happens is that small little snippet is an example of the larger pool of what's going on.
00:09:18.580 Yes, he did something wrong. Yes, he's a murderer. Yes, he needs to be incarcerated. I agree with all of
00:09:24.980 that, obviously. But the, but the environment that created someone like that, we, we don't,
00:09:31.380 we're so oblivious to the realities and perspectives of what young boys and men are going through.
00:09:39.380 You don't get it that for many men, they don't see feminism. Doesn't matter if they don't have the
00:09:47.700 great working definition of it, their experience of all these people who claim that identity.
00:09:53.140 You don't actually care about equality. That's a woman advocacy movement, or at least was up until
00:10:01.700 recent debates about who can or can't be a woman. But prior to this debate, it's always been for many
00:10:09.140 people and particularly many men, it's more so women advocacy program, which is totally fine.
00:10:14.740 But you cannot say that you care about men and that you're advocating for equality. And I'm going to
00:10:20.100 list these things off and I wrote them down to make sure I don't forget it. You don't care about
00:10:24.580 mandatory paternity tests. You don't care about paternity fraud. You don't care about male suicide
00:10:30.660 rates. You don't care about equalizing hard, laborious jobs outside. You don't want to equalize that.
00:10:39.860 You don't care about what happens to people that are falsely accused, which is almost always
00:10:45.220 exclusively men. You don't actually care about the declining school performance, the rise in
00:10:50.180 ADHD diagnosis and the medication, psychiatric medication that comes from it. You don't care
00:10:54.500 about the lack of homeless shelters for men. You don't care about the weaponization of the family
00:10:59.300 court, the equal custodial rights, reproductive safe for men, reduction in child support and alimony,
00:11:06.020 pathologizing of just men and masculinity in general, negative attitudes towards
00:11:10.500 even men that want a nuclear family. You don't think or care about any of these things.
00:11:18.260 And I'm not even saying it's just the feminists that don't care about it.
00:11:22.180 I'm saying most people who don't do what I do don't care about this at all. And you're creating,
00:11:29.460 and we talked about this 80-20 rule, what's happening to the 80%? You don't care.
00:11:34.980 Not good.
00:11:36.260 And the beauty is if I just get the man I want, if I just get the partner I want,
00:11:40.980 if I just, I don't care about what's happening with men. Let's bring the attention back to women.
00:11:46.100 That's what the detective did in that show.
00:11:47.700 Right.
00:11:48.340 And that is what society in Western cultures is unfortunately like. Most people only care about
00:11:58.740 males or boys or men if they are their brother, their son or their father or their uncle or their
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00:13:55.380 rights, allow the worst representatives to take it to its furthest extreme. When we talk so much about
00:14:05.220 misogyny, most women can't tell you what the term is for a strong distaste and hatred for men.
00:14:15.300 What's the term?
00:14:17.300 Misandry.
00:14:17.940 Misandry. Being a misandress. Most men's experiences that we keep labeling as n-cells,
00:14:25.140 we keep labeling as misogynists, their experiences in co-worker situations, in the schools,
00:14:33.300 dating, on dating apps, is that a lot of women are either misandrous or they're so reductionistic of
00:14:40.980 men that if you don't have the money, you have no say and you need to shut up. And even if you do
00:14:46.660 have the money, it's happy wife, happy life once I'm in your life.
00:14:54.980 I've been told my wife, we joke around about it all the time, when we're amongst other couples and
00:14:59.380 friends, she sarcastically say all the time, the one thing I appreciate about Jeff more than anything
00:15:06.180 is he's the same exact person in home as he is in public. He doesn't change. So if I'm going to say
00:15:13.140 no, I'm going to say no. If I'm going to disagree, I'm going to disagree. And men not going through
00:15:21.140 the natural maturation process as teenagers, as early adults, because they literally don't have
00:15:26.020 the opportunity to with women. We can't be shocked anymore that there's an environment that's
00:15:31.460 festering of boys and young men who unfortunately have a strong distaste. And I would argue not even
00:15:37.940 for women in general, women in the Western cultures and countries. This is why they're running to the
00:15:44.420 other countries and cultures where men are at least still seen as valuable, relevant, important.
00:15:52.580 He just cooked. Oh my gosh. And they don't care. They don't care at all. She's got at least a
00:16:01.380 little bit of sympathy eyes. This woman does not care. I think that like anything in the West to
00:16:11.780 redress any kind of any imbalance in anything, we've had to go to some crazy level to the other side
00:16:19.700 and come to a middle thing. And why are we so surprised? Why do we have to have shows like
00:16:26.660 adolescents that quite frankly are pretty late in the game in terms of their culture? And like you
00:16:34.180 said, I talk to quite a lot of my friends, you know, who are all parents and they had no idea what,
00:16:39.540 I mean, I knew about it. I'm doing this podcast and I see these comments all the time and I was very
00:16:43.620 aware of it. I've read a lot about it. They had no idea, had no idea about it. And I'm like, you have
00:16:48.340 teenage children and young adult children. How do you not know? How are you that ill-informed?
00:16:56.980 I agree with you. You know what's crazy? Yeah. I'm sorry. I'm sorry to cut you off,
00:17:01.540 but you want to know what's crazy? When you're in a marketing environment where both parents got to
00:17:05.140 work long hours and both parents are out of the home for extended periods of time
00:17:10.660 and both parents have to figure out so much and you don't even have one parent that's like
00:17:15.860 really super involved versus they both are kind of got 40-hour work schedules and one may have to
00:17:22.740 do additional overtime and the cost of living is exploding. It's harder than ever before.
00:17:29.460 Oh yeah. For parents, men and women, fathers and mothers, it's a lot harder now. We are living in an
00:17:35.860 area in New Jersey where our property taxes per month is the cost of most people rent across the world.
00:17:45.380 Yeah. Where our daycare is more than the cost for daycare for one to two kids is the equivalent of what
00:17:54.980 50 to 60% of people in the world make.
00:17:57.460 Yeah, because women don't want to watch their kids.
00:18:07.220 They got to make as much as their husband to feed their ego.
00:18:10.020 Be super duper involved and actually know what's going on. You know what she saw? My son's home.
00:18:15.780 He turns the light off and I tell him to turn the light off and he doesn't get in trouble. He goes to
00:18:21.140 school every day. He gets good grades. Parents are just surviving. Mothers, fathers, people are just
00:18:26.740 trying to figure this. You know what I'm saying? Like this is, I'm not saying it's a complete,
00:18:30.980 like there's no, they get no fault. They get no blame. I'm just saying that the context for what
00:18:36.420 we're in is what's also creating this type of dynamic and environment. So it's, and then lastly,
00:18:42.500 I meant to say the dynamic, why is this exploding? And why is it so big in the UK? And why are these
00:18:48.740 government officials getting all involved in this? I'm gonna tell you this right now.
00:18:51.540 If you are young. How did I not get arrested in the UK? I don't know.
00:18:56.020 Woman or woman period. I'm a woman, right? And you're thinking about, well, oh my gosh,
00:19:02.020 this incel thing and all these men want to harm me and hurt me and do this or do that.
00:19:08.020 A huge percentage of the boys and men that feel that way is a reading why they're leaving the
00:19:12.900 statistics of being four times more likely to take their own life. Right. They're actually far
00:19:18.580 more of a danger to themselves. And to anybody else. Even in a relationship, you take a woman who's in
00:19:25.620 a relationship with a man, in a relationship with a woman, her domestic violent rates are significantly
00:19:31.940 higher with another woman than with a man. Really? DV rates are up, uh, divorce rates are up
00:19:42.180 in same sex relationships between two women than her with a man. I know. The highest divorce rate
00:19:50.660 is less than couples. Yeah. And so is the DV rate. What's the DV? They should be having the most
00:19:56.100 orgasm. That's unbelievable. Domestic violence. DV rate. Right. Yeah. So again, this show is so popular,
00:20:04.260 it's so big, probably a quarter million plus people are probably going to watch it. And now they're again,
00:20:09.780 adding to this narrative that the most unsafe you can be is dealing with and doing life with men
00:20:18.020 or males. And what I'm arguing is a huge percentage of them end up taking their own life. A very, very
00:20:27.860 small percentage of them, if they get successful enough, end up finding a suitable partner or they're
00:20:33.460 going abroad to find, uh, find a, uh, women are actually the passport bros. Most female travelers
00:20:41.460 are women. So a woman who can meet their needs. So it's not to say that men, there's violence between
00:20:48.740 men and women that doesn't exist. Of course, it's a thing. All I'm suggesting is, is that
00:20:54.660 the show, there may be ulterior motives for why the show is being pushed.
00:20:58.660 Yeah. They want to demonize the red pill. It's the same reason I'm put on a DHS watch list.
00:21:05.540 Me of all people.
00:21:06.660 Every politicians or celebrities or anybody who's not a normal person jumps in on a wave,
00:21:14.740 always be wary of what's the thing that they're pushing and what's the policy that that's going to
00:21:19.060 come down as a result of this. Is this going to be a social media crackdown? Is this going to be a
00:21:24.900 monitoring thing where people have to register their social ID numbers or something in order
00:21:29.060 for them to even have access to a website or have access to the internet? I'm going to argue this
00:21:35.620 fine time. It's, it's, it's, it's, it's perfect to push something like this in a political environment
00:21:44.500 when Gen Z and some millennials between men and women are splitting further than they've ever been.
00:21:50.340 And then you have a huge pool of women who are looking for explanations to justify why all these
00:21:58.180 men are splintering off and voting differently than us, thinking differently than us, going their own
00:22:04.340 way. Not one. Yeah. We're not nice to them. If you've treated men like for 20 years, we get surprised when
00:22:12.340 they respond to open misandry. Mary, when there's gotta be some explanation for it and it can't
00:22:21.140 possibly be because of our decision-making, our hierarchy of what we're attracted to or not
00:22:26.180 attracted to. It can't be us. It's gotta be because they're all incels. Right. It's gotta be because
00:22:31.940 they just outright hate women. It can't possibly be because there's been an environment that's been
00:22:36.820 telling them that we hate you. Can't possibly be that. It can't, it can't be society or culture or
00:22:46.420 the colleges or liberal. It can't be any of those factors or even how we treat the men who we think
00:22:52.340 don't check off all about. It can't be none of that. It's gotta be because of this Netflix series.
00:22:57.140 And now we need a policy to deal with that. Yeah. That, that's the level of thinking that I want all of us
00:23:04.180 to start to get better at when we watch anything on social media, anything on streaming services,
00:23:10.980 because I would argue much of the things that's impacting us and influencing the quote unquote
00:23:15.860 gender war is not even coming from in here. It's coming from what we're seeing on screens and on
00:23:22.500 these computers. When I walk around in everyday life, men and women still open the door for each other.
00:23:30.020 A woman's in trouble, men are still going to rush to help her.
00:23:32.580 And that's going away. But yeah. Yeah.
00:23:35.060 Uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, black man, a white man is hurting somewhere.
00:23:39.540 At this point, we almost have more interactions through phones. I think over 50% of communication
00:23:46.180 is digital now. Whoever the, whoever the race of the person is, they're still going to try to
00:23:51.540 intervene and help them. I'm trying to lift a heavy box. My white neighbor won't come in,
00:23:56.020 come and lift it up. Somebody who's gay or trans, if they need help or support,
00:24:00.180 it's still happening. Hate exists. I know that, but I'm telling you the social media,
00:24:05.620 the trends, what's going viral. But the challenge is young people, that's their reality because
00:24:11.860 most of their interactions are digital, at least half.
00:24:14.660 actually 100% of reflection of what's actually happened in most of our lives. You're actually
00:24:21.220 not walking around and most men are spitting at you, calling your names, um, attacking. That's,
00:24:26.740 that's, that's not, it's not happening in modernity, not in mass. The majority of the,
00:24:32.260 a huge percentage of the men that's a threat, they got, they're arrested. They got, they got records.
00:24:37.620 Yeah. No, absolutely. Like, I think obviously social media makes it look like everyone is out
00:24:44.420 to get you. And that's why we're having so big problems. Look, now adolescents, as true as it is
00:24:50.900 about exposing something that a lot of people didn't know, what's the takeaway? That this is
00:24:56.900 happening everywhere. This is happening everywhere. It's crazy. It's so much going, like, I'm going to be
00:25:04.660 honest with you. The US and our, our thing of violence, we, we have the monopoly, it seems like,
00:25:10.340 on school violence. It's insane. We're not using knives. We're using guns. Yes. And, and much of it
00:25:17.860 is in response to being bullied or being radicalized with some particular political or religious ideology.
00:25:24.660 That's usually what it is. Doesn't make it any better, but it's really not heavily connected. No,
00:25:32.020 there's, there, there is no significant data that shows that this is happening in mass.
00:25:39.380 I'm telling you, if you went to the data and looked at UK stats of who's, who's the primary
00:25:43.620 groups doing the stabbing, the stabbings, in the knifings, it's not who you saw on the show.
00:25:49.620 Right. It's not who you saw. We don't have to go political or go into who is and who isn't doing.
00:25:54.260 It's not, it's not who they showed on the show. You have a market of white males
00:25:58.820 males who feel so angry and disenfranchised and feeling like they're. I can't imagine why
00:26:05.460 conservatives, not conservatives, liberals have told white males that they're not valuable
00:26:12.980 and they're the root of all evil where people are just jealous of white males, to be honest.