Pearl - November 14, 2025


Accountable Women Are An Endangered Species


Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

189.51878

Word count

1,150

Sentence count

89

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

sentences flagged

Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode, I react to a woman who decided to walk away from her husband because she felt she was the problem in their marriage. She explains why she decided to leave her husband and how she handled the situation.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 A woman saying she's not entitled to a man's money? There has to be something wrong with her. 1.00
00:00:04.720 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So we all know what happens when there's an
00:00:09.740 endangered species. The government and everybody goes all out of their way to protect that species.
00:00:16.220 They might put them in zoos, they might try to repopulate, whatever. Now one endangered species
00:00:21.220 that I think is really close to going extinct, if not as extinct now, is women that take 1.00
00:00:27.260 accountability for what they did wrong. And today we're actually going to react to a woman admitting 0.83
00:00:32.600 that she was the problem in her marriage. So I didn't think I'd ever see the day. I thought
00:00:42.100 a black woman taking accountability, oh my God, a fat black woman taking accountability. I didn't 1.00
00:00:48.640 think this existed. Okay, hold on. Let's see what she says. You and him separated. I believe you're
00:00:54.280 the one that decided to walk away. Now, leaving a marriage is never a good thing. Right? Unless,
00:01:00.700 of course, your life is in particular danger, then that's a no brainer. Yeah. Again, marriage is just
00:01:06.280 women making a promise to stay forever and the man. I know they say it's a religious ceremony, 0.73
00:01:11.700 but these hoes can't be really, we're not religious. So knowing this, I don't know what, 1.00
00:01:16.920 it doesn't really mean much anymore, because it's just a promise and women don't really keep promises. 1.00
00:01:21.780 Men keep promises. It means something from the man, but the woman not. 1.00
00:01:25.560 What is it that you felt you did that made the marriage not work out? Let's leave him out of the
00:01:30.880 picture. Let's work only on Jackie. For me, I feel like I failed in so many ways,
00:01:39.120 starting by the fact that I did not listen. I reacted. I reacted to what my friends are telling
00:01:46.640 me to what. This can't be, is this AI? She said this out loud in public? You know, you're told you
00:01:54.460 can be advised, but you can decide to receive the advice and see what to do and know what to do.
00:02:01.320 And he used to, you know, during the arguments also, as women, we tend not, we tend to block what
00:02:08.780 he says and try and force what you feel, what you feel. So we are not, we don't let men to be seen 0.89
00:02:15.600 in heart. And I felt his cry for help was please just be, be a wife, just be my wife.
00:02:24.140 Even the guy is in awe. You see that little smile? He's like, I didn't.
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00:03:23.420 Is this real? Am I being like played right now? This has to be fake. Do this, do that.
00:03:30.960 And in the midst of all this, you also have friends who are advising you and instead of
00:03:35.820 you to receive the advice and know what kind of a person you're dealing with, you decide to take
00:03:40.660 that. So for me, it was, I feel like I was, yeah, because friends will nitpick everything. Like I
00:03:45.160 have a friend, she's dating a guy. She's really happy. You know what her sister says? He's too old
00:03:50.220 for you. How old is he? Eight years older, not 20, not 38, eight years. I was trying to make him be
00:03:58.040 the man I saw in my life, my mom and my dad. Yeah. A lot of women have not had role models 1.00
00:04:05.480 of masculine fathers and feminine submissive mothers. Most of us haven't seen it. I know I
00:04:11.240 hadn't, you know, um, cause what, what happens is even if the guy is masculine in every other area,
00:04:16.920 women just constantly are demasculating their husbands constantly. Like we shit test them 24 1.00
00:04:23.680 seven. Do you know, I was trying to make him that, you know, I was trying to, and it's rather 0.98
00:04:28.340 impossible. Let's revisit this part. So, you know, this is to each, or each gender rather has what 0.90
00:04:35.780 they have as a mistake. Right now, particularly with women, what happens is that women love 0.98
00:04:41.380 egging other women. You deserve better. Yeah. You shouldn't be in your life. You felt like 1.00
00:04:45.460 they were doing that. Yeah. Right. Um, for me, it wasn't basically at that. Cause all of us,
00:04:51.060 we were all young in our relationships. I feel like it's no, your husband has money. He should get you
00:04:57.140 this. No, he should not. A woman saying she's not entitled to a man's money. There has to be 0.99
00:05:03.820 something wrong with her. There has to be, what's the catch, but is she going to put a, but, but no,
00:05:10.780 you should not go out. She'll stay home with you. And you know, you come with the same forces like
00:05:15.080 by the way, you know, so you, you, you, you try and you, cause I, you know, this is a man who just
00:05:22.640 from high school goes straight to South Africa to do a flying school. Then comes back. Oh, she married 0.94
00:05:29.180 a pilot. Yeah. He probably cheated. Sorry. You know how pilots are anyways, guys. Um, but yeah,
00:05:36.860 on top of that, he comes home to a fat wife that I wish that was number one. I gained weight and I 0.99
00:05:41.740 shouldn't have, I should have stayed thin and skinny so he could love me forever. But instead I
00:05:47.720 got fat and old anyways, ladies, let me know in the comments. Um, did you gain weight after marriage? 1.00
00:05:54.260 And what do you think she did wrong? Do you believe her or do you think she's a chameleon?
00:05:58.660 Let me know what you think of the comments. Make sure you like the video and subscribe to the
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