Pearl - November 14, 2025
Allie Beth Stucky And Candace Owens Are Not as Traditional As They Think
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about how right wing women are not who they say they are, and how they have lied to themselves for years about being conservative. I also talk about the scandals surrounding Megyn kelly, allie Beth Stuckey, and Candace Owens.
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What up, guys? Welcome to my reaction. Sorry, not reaction, coffee talk series.
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Today, I have a protein coffee. It's made with coffee, pumpkin, protein powder, Greek yogurt,
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and banana, if anyone was curious. So I wanted to talk about how right-wing women are not who
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they say they are. And the reason that I know this is because I grew up with a lot of women.
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I was in a very white, conservative area growing up. And I grew up with a lot of these women.
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And I want to talk first about a story from my personal life growing up. And then I'll get into
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the Allie Beth Stuckey, Candace Owens, E-Girl, Megyn Kelly, E-Girl War. So when I was growing up,
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again, I went to Catholic school for 18 years. I went to church every Sunday.
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And there was a lot of women who really thought they were conservative women. There was a lot of
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women in this area that painted themselves as traditional conservative wives. That's what
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they told themselves. That's what they would market on their Facebooks. But it wasn't necessarily who
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they were. Now, where I was growing up, there was me and a couple of my girlfriends. And at a certain
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age, a lot of us realized that our mothers were not necessarily who they said they were.
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For example, I had one friend who had a dad that was deployed. And the mother told her terrible
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things about the dad as he was deployed. And then again, especially young women, when we get to be
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teenagers, that's when we start to realize that our mothers are crazy. And this happened to four or five
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of my friends that I'm thinking of, like one's mother cheated, another's mother, I mean, I could
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rattle off. And it's not necessarily that these women tend to lie to everybody else. They also tend
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to lie to themselves. They paint themselves as conservative. They say they can do it all, but
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they really cannot do it all. They can't. There's no way that you can work full-time and have a full-time
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high-powered career and also be a really involved mother. You pick one. And growing up, there's one
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woman I could think of who I would say was a traditional wife. There's one woman who really did,
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now, who really did, I would say, obey her husband. Now, what do I mean when I think of a traditional
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wife? The number one thing is she has to obey her husband in all things and put his needs above
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hers. Now, I don't think you're immoral if you don't take this path. I don't think that you are
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wrong. People have different setups. It's not, you know, I have a whole host of problems. I'm not here
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to judge. But a lot of the women would market themselves as these conservative women. But if you
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looked at what they did, their life choices, their behaviors, they weren't who they say they were.
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And I think the biggest lie that women tell is to ourselves. We think we're one thing when we're
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not. And I remember this traditional conservative wife was the only one who's, who would say things
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like, oh, my husband would never let me do that or I can't go. And I remember all the other
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conservative mothers would, you know, they would talk trash about her husband and say that. And then
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remember, this is a Catholic area. For the Catholics that say the women are different,
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they are not different, I promise you. Or, you know, they would have daycares or nannies raise the
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kids. And on paper, they would look like traditional conservative mothers. But they didn't listen to their
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husbands. They didn't really, motherhood was almost like a side quest to whatever they were doing.
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So, you know, if they were in, let's say, real estate, the kids, when they had the kids, it would
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not come before the real estate. And you could just tell by their life choices and what they were
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spending their time doing. Now, the interesting thing is we are currently seeing Candace Owens,
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Allie Beth Stuck, even Megyn Kelly. I think these are women that have lied to themselves for years.
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They've said they're conservative women. Brett Cooper is another one. All of them went to
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college. If you look at their, you know, I love Leonardo, but she was, you know, just she's not
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delusional like these women. She knows she's not. Respectfully, I love you, Leo. I always, I feel
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like I always got to like preface. I always got to be like, don't crash out. Don't crash out. I'm not
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conservative either, you know, but going back to this, all of them went to college. All of them
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did not have children until later in life. And all of them had their husbands step down for their
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careers. Now I saw this clip of Allie Beth Stuck, and I'm going to play the audio so you guys can hear
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it. And I just thought it was the funniest rationalization I have ever heard in my life
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of a woman trying to convince herself she's something that she's not. Now, if you didn't
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know, Allie Beth Stuckey is this conservative e-girl who makes a lot of money, Bible thumping
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and nagging men. That's essentially her platform. Now there have been times where she has been
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criticized for nagging men, right? She's been criticized for, and she always claps back. She
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always gets angry. She's like, oh, well, I'm just, I'm saying what the Bible says. I shouldn't be
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attacked because I'm a woman. But if you're a real traditional conservative woman, you know there's a
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lack of authority you have over any man anywhere ever just because you're a woman. Yes, there are
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things you cannot say only because you're a woman. If you really believe in the natural order, which
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goes God, men, women, children. The same way, if I'm an employee, there's things that I cannot say to
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my boss. I don't care. Even if maybe I have the right idea, there is a certain tone and respect you
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have to come at your boss, right? And essentially she's like this spoiled woman nagging men about porn.
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And now, and I want you guys to think about how ridiculous this is. These are men deployed overseas
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fighting for the country, and Allie Beth Stuckey thinks she needs to nag them about porn.
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Do you see what I'm saying? It's just ridiculous. It's not traditional. Now,
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these are the type of women that push conservative rhetoric that really messes everybody up. Like,
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I can only submit to my husband when he submits to God. I mean, that's like me saying I can only
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listen to my employer when he does the right thing for the company. Who are you to determine
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if he's listening to God or not? It's out of your, you don't have the authority to do that. But the women
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think they have the authority to talk to these men like this. It messes everything up further. On top
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of that, she also speaks at conferences to a bunch of men and women. But in order for, you know, this
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is the type of woman that says men need to step up and be better. But in order for men to step up,
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women have to step down. Say no to the conferences and give it to a man. Say, that's not the place
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of a woman. Give that position to a man. They never will. None of the women will. And I'm not saying
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they should, right? I'm not saying they should or shouldn't. But again, it goes back to this pick and
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choose Christianity, pick and choose traditionalism. I know the amount of time it takes to do a show
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like they're doing. They are not watching their kids. I don't know how many nannies they got. I don't
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know if it's their husbands watching the kids. They're not watching these kids. They're not. I
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would, I would bet my entire life savings on it. Okay. So what happens is a lot of times we tell
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ourselves we're one thing and we go through life thinking we're one thing. And it's not until reality
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hits us that we realize we're not what we say we are. For example, Candace Owens is like the number
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one podcast in the country. Now, again, these are women taking men's positions. I'm not saying they
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shouldn't, but, um, it's just not, it's again, it's pick and choose traditionalism. So we're
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going to listen to, so anyway, sorry. When Candace Owens goes on this debate show and everybody
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points out that she's working while she has three young kids at home, she's traveling with
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all these kids at home and everybody's kind of saying what we're all thinking, who's watching
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these kids. Um, and it always turns into like gaslighting. Um, anyways, let me, let me listen to
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Allie Beth Stuckey here. I'm so incredibly, and I am so incredibly thankful that I have a job that
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allows me to have the flexibility that I do. I am so, so she's going to try to paint to you that she
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can do it all. I'm thankful for the setup that we have in our home. And I always hesitate because
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they don't want it to seem like, well, I have to give an account to these random men on the
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internet. Now, again, the men are saying that's not traditional. That's not traditional. That's
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not traditional. And she's going to gaslight and say, yes, it is. I do this in the, in my home,
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you know, and again, I could tell you when a woman, cause I've done media for so long has a channel
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that's not going to take priority over the kids, but it's not doing a political news show every day
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with a full face of makeup. I mean, the makeup is going to take like 45 minutes. Then you got to
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prep for the show. That's a few hours. I mean, that's a full day of work, which is fine. It's
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just not traditional. Exactly how we run our home and exactly what my schedule is exactly what
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my day to day looks like. I feel no obligation, obligation to do that. She's going to say she
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doesn't feel obligated and then she's going to do it anyway. But a lot of, you know, I've talked
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about this publicly that my husband chief related bro is my business manager. We work together full
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time. He makes decisions on our behalf. He runs all of the business parts. So again, she's front
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facing, he's behind her and he quit his dreams to follow hers. It's not traditional of everything.
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And I'm so thankful that when it comes to, and what annoys me is not that they're doing this.
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I just don't like LARPing on the women that do do this. Actually, I don't, I don't like when I think
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of this woman I grew up with, she was just a different class of human. She was just built
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different. Like she would come over, she would have these kolachkis. She would, she would, oh my God,
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she was amazing. And I just think none of you bitches are her. She's really involved with my
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brother. Like I'd be, she single-handedly calmed my brother down growing up. Like, and again,
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you can't do what you do. And I'm not saying you should, like, I'm not saying you shouldn't do what
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you do, but I'm saying you want all the benefits of traditionalism. You want to take traditionalism.
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You want to profit off of it, but you want to, you don't actually want to do it, which is fine.
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I've never seen a conservative e-girl walk away from her show in order to have kids. I'm not saying
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she should, but you're LARPing. Um, my, this professionals, and then they'll gaslight you
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further. They're like, well, I didn't say I was traditional. I'm like, well, come, you know what
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you're doing, bitch. All I have to worry about is the discipleship. All I have to worry about is the
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content of what I say. I love dreaming. I love thinking. I love coming up with ideas. I love
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talking. Of course women love talking. Again, now she, she loves teaching. Do you think you,
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you have the authority to teach as a woman? Again, it's just pick and choose. And you see
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that none of these women are who they say they are because whenever there's something traditionally
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masculine, they all crash out. Brett Cooper crashed out, um, on the breakdancing dad where she said that
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he was, I can't remember what she called him, but she took the daughter's side, um, and never corrected
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it. They never say sorry. Candace Owens called Steven Crowder an abuser, never apologized. Um,
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Brett Cooper also, um, crashed out on fresh dating multiple girls, even though she wasn't a virgin on
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her wedding day. It's like, it's just the hypocrisy. You see it's pick and choose traditionalism. I could
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throw it back in college, but now LARP is a traditional woman and still have a career except
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promotions after I'm so-called traditional with you, mentoring you, talking with you. And he runs
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and leads and organizes and manages all of the business. And by the way, traditionally masculine
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men don't need their wives to prove that they're masculine. They just are. And as you always see,
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they, they kind of marry these like feminine looking guys and, um, they, the guys kind of
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take the back seat and just let them do whatever they want inside of everything we do. And I'm so
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thankful for that. Anyways, I just thought this clip was hilarious. I think it's hilarious watching,
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um, right now, Candace Owens and Allie Best Stucky are crashing out on each other
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because they're both these like fake traditional women, just Bible thumping at each other. It's so
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funny. Anyways, guys. Um, I don't know. That's all I got today. Sorry if this was a little rambly,
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but I grew up around women like this. There's nothing wrong with the way they live their life.
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Like, you know, it's not my problem, but don't be fooled into thinking any of these women are
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even the littlest bit traditional. They're not, not even a little bit, they're not different than
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other women. Um, and yeah, let me know what you think of the comments. Am I being too, um, bitter?
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I don't know. Let me know in the comments, like the video and I'll see you next time.