Pearl - Allie Beth Stucky And Candace Owens Are Not as Traditional As They Think

00:00:00.000 What up, guys? Welcome to my reaction. Sorry, not reaction, coffee talk series.

00:00:05.440 Today, I have a protein coffee. It's made with coffee, pumpkin, protein powder, Greek yogurt,

00:00:11.260 and banana, if anyone was curious. So I wanted to talk about how right-wing women are not who

00:00:18.600 they say they are. And the reason that I know this is because I grew up with a lot of women.

00:00:24.840 I was in a very white, conservative area growing up. And I grew up with a lot of these women.

00:00:31.020 And I want to talk first about a story from my personal life growing up. And then I'll get into

00:00:39.460 the Allie Beth Stuckey, Candace Owens, E-Girl, Megyn Kelly, E-Girl War. So when I was growing up,

00:00:48.460 again, I went to Catholic school for 18 years. I went to church every Sunday.

00:00:54.840 And there was a lot of women who really thought they were conservative women. There was a lot of

00:00:59.840 women in this area that painted themselves as traditional conservative wives. That's what

00:01:04.660 they told themselves. That's what they would market on their Facebooks. But it wasn't necessarily who

00:01:11.120 they were. Now, where I was growing up, there was me and a couple of my girlfriends. And at a certain

00:01:17.200 age, a lot of us realized that our mothers were not necessarily who they said they were.

00:01:22.420 For example, I had one friend who had a dad that was deployed. And the mother told her terrible

00:01:28.360 things about the dad as he was deployed. And then again, especially young women, when we get to be

00:01:35.080 teenagers, that's when we start to realize that our mothers are crazy. And this happened to four or five

00:01:43.080 of my friends that I'm thinking of, like one's mother cheated, another's mother, I mean, I could

00:01:50.420 rattle off. And it's not necessarily that these women tend to lie to everybody else. They also tend

00:01:56.280 to lie to themselves. They paint themselves as conservative. They say they can do it all, but

00:02:01.260 they really cannot do it all. They can't. There's no way that you can work full-time and have a full-time

00:02:08.560 high-powered career and also be a really involved mother. You pick one. And growing up, there's one

00:02:14.700 woman I could think of who I would say was a traditional wife. There's one woman who really did,

00:02:21.160 now, who really did, I would say, obey her husband. Now, what do I mean when I think of a traditional

00:02:29.140 wife? The number one thing is she has to obey her husband in all things and put his needs above

00:02:35.760 hers. Now, I don't think you're immoral if you don't take this path. I don't think that you are

00:02:41.120 wrong. People have different setups. It's not, you know, I have a whole host of problems. I'm not here

00:02:47.320 to judge. But a lot of the women would market themselves as these conservative women. But if you

00:02:57.780 looked at what they did, their life choices, their behaviors, they weren't who they say they were.

00:03:01.460 And I think the biggest lie that women tell is to ourselves. We think we're one thing when we're

00:03:07.500 not. And I remember this traditional conservative wife was the only one who's, who would say things

00:03:15.200 like, oh, my husband would never let me do that or I can't go. And I remember all the other

00:03:20.600 conservative mothers would, you know, they would talk trash about her husband and say that. And then

00:03:26.140 remember, this is a Catholic area. For the Catholics that say the women are different,

00:03:32.580 they are not different, I promise you. Or, you know, they would have daycares or nannies raise the

00:03:39.620 kids. And on paper, they would look like traditional conservative mothers. But they didn't listen to their

00:03:46.640 husbands. They didn't really, motherhood was almost like a side quest to whatever they were doing.

00:03:52.840 So, you know, if they were in, let's say, real estate, the kids, when they had the kids, it would

00:04:03.460 not come before the real estate. And you could just tell by their life choices and what they were

00:04:07.580 spending their time doing. Now, the interesting thing is we are currently seeing Candace Owens,

00:04:14.480 Allie Beth Stuck, even Megyn Kelly. I think these are women that have lied to themselves for years.

00:04:20.680 They've said they're conservative women. Brett Cooper is another one. All of them went to

00:04:24.800 college. If you look at their, you know, I love Leonardo, but she was, you know, just she's not

00:04:29.920 delusional like these women. She knows she's not. Respectfully, I love you, Leo. I always, I feel

00:04:36.800 like I always got to like preface. I always got to be like, don't crash out. Don't crash out. I'm not

00:04:41.520 conservative either, you know, but going back to this, all of them went to college. All of them

00:04:50.160 did not have children until later in life. And all of them had their husbands step down for their

00:04:56.980 careers. Now I saw this clip of Allie Beth Stuck, and I'm going to play the audio so you guys can hear

00:05:01.520 it. And I just thought it was the funniest rationalization I have ever heard in my life

00:05:06.640 of a woman trying to convince herself she's something that she's not. Now, if you didn't

00:05:13.140 know, Allie Beth Stuckey is this conservative e-girl who makes a lot of money, Bible thumping

00:05:20.760 and nagging men. That's essentially her platform. Now there have been times where she has been

00:05:26.780 criticized for nagging men, right? She's been criticized for, and she always claps back. She

00:05:34.540 always gets angry. She's like, oh, well, I'm just, I'm saying what the Bible says. I shouldn't be

00:05:42.560 attacked because I'm a woman. But if you're a real traditional conservative woman, you know there's a

00:05:47.660 lack of authority you have over any man anywhere ever just because you're a woman. Yes, there are

00:05:55.880 things you cannot say only because you're a woman. If you really believe in the natural order, which

00:06:03.900 goes God, men, women, children. The same way, if I'm an employee, there's things that I cannot say to

00:06:10.200 my boss. I don't care. Even if maybe I have the right idea, there is a certain tone and respect you

00:06:18.560 have to come at your boss, right? And essentially she's like this spoiled woman nagging men about porn.

00:06:27.280 And now, and I want you guys to think about how ridiculous this is. These are men deployed overseas

00:06:31.940 fighting for the country, and Allie Beth Stuckey thinks she needs to nag them about porn.

00:06:39.580 Do you see what I'm saying? It's just ridiculous. It's not traditional. Now,

00:06:43.920 these are the type of women that push conservative rhetoric that really messes everybody up. Like,

00:06:53.820 I can only submit to my husband when he submits to God. I mean, that's like me saying I can only

00:07:02.520 listen to my employer when he does the right thing for the company. Who are you to determine

00:07:10.600 if he's listening to God or not? It's out of your, you don't have the authority to do that. But the women

00:07:17.060 think they have the authority to talk to these men like this. It messes everything up further. On top

00:07:25.880 of that, she also speaks at conferences to a bunch of men and women. But in order for, you know, this

00:07:35.720 is the type of woman that says men need to step up and be better. But in order for men to step up,

00:07:40.620 women have to step down. Say no to the conferences and give it to a man. Say, that's not the place

00:07:46.420 of a woman. Give that position to a man. They never will. None of the women will. And I'm not saying

00:07:51.840 they should, right? I'm not saying they should or shouldn't. But again, it goes back to this pick and

00:07:56.500 choose Christianity, pick and choose traditionalism. I know the amount of time it takes to do a show

00:08:01.640 like they're doing. They are not watching their kids. I don't know how many nannies they got. I don't

00:08:08.340 know if it's their husbands watching the kids. They're not watching these kids. They're not. I

00:08:12.640 would, I would bet my entire life savings on it. Okay. So what happens is a lot of times we tell

00:08:19.140 ourselves we're one thing and we go through life thinking we're one thing. And it's not until reality

00:08:24.560 hits us that we realize we're not what we say we are. For example, Candace Owens is like the number

00:08:30.520 one podcast in the country. Now, again, these are women taking men's positions. I'm not saying they

00:08:36.860 shouldn't, but, um, it's just not, it's again, it's pick and choose traditionalism. So we're

00:08:45.360 going to listen to, so anyway, sorry. When Candace Owens goes on this debate show and everybody

00:08:51.340 points out that she's working while she has three young kids at home, she's traveling with

00:08:55.580 all these kids at home and everybody's kind of saying what we're all thinking, who's watching

00:09:00.220 these kids. Um, and it always turns into like gaslighting. Um, anyways, let me, let me listen to

00:09:07.740 Allie Beth Stuckey here. I'm so incredibly, and I am so incredibly thankful that I have a job that

00:09:15.960 allows me to have the flexibility that I do. I am so, so she's going to try to paint to you that she

00:09:21.880 can do it all. I'm thankful for the setup that we have in our home. And I always hesitate because

00:09:26.900 they don't want it to seem like, well, I have to give an account to these random men on the

00:09:30.600 internet. Now, again, the men are saying that's not traditional. That's not traditional. That's

00:09:36.020 not traditional. And she's going to gaslight and say, yes, it is. I do this in the, in my home,

00:09:42.180 you know, and again, I could tell you when a woman, cause I've done media for so long has a channel

00:09:49.180 that's not going to take priority over the kids, but it's not doing a political news show every day

00:09:54.480 with a full face of makeup. I mean, the makeup is going to take like 45 minutes. Then you got to

00:10:01.020 prep for the show. That's a few hours. I mean, that's a full day of work, which is fine. It's

00:10:06.480 just not traditional. Exactly how we run our home and exactly what my schedule is exactly what

00:10:11.780 my day to day looks like. I feel no obligation, obligation to do that. She's going to say she

00:10:18.100 doesn't feel obligated and then she's going to do it anyway. But a lot of, you know, I've talked

00:10:21.860 about this publicly that my husband chief related bro is my business manager. We work together full

00:10:27.800 time. He makes decisions on our behalf. He runs all of the business parts. So again, she's front

00:10:34.200 facing, he's behind her and he quit his dreams to follow hers. It's not traditional of everything.

00:10:44.020 And I'm so thankful that when it comes to, and what annoys me is not that they're doing this.

00:10:50.320 I just don't like LARPing on the women that do do this. Actually, I don't, I don't like when I think

00:10:56.940 of this woman I grew up with, she was just a different class of human. She was just built

00:11:01.200 different. Like she would come over, she would have these kolachkis. She would, she would, oh my God,

00:11:07.360 she was amazing. And I just think none of you bitches are her. She's really involved with my

00:11:15.840 brother. Like I'd be, she single-handedly calmed my brother down growing up. Like, and again,

00:11:25.880 you can't do what you do. And I'm not saying you should, like, I'm not saying you shouldn't do what

00:11:31.560 you do, but I'm saying you want all the benefits of traditionalism. You want to take traditionalism.

00:11:37.920 You want to profit off of it, but you want to, you don't actually want to do it, which is fine.

00:11:43.000 I've never seen a conservative e-girl walk away from her show in order to have kids. I'm not saying

00:11:49.160 she should, but you're LARPing. Um, my, this professionals, and then they'll gaslight you

00:11:56.620 further. They're like, well, I didn't say I was traditional. I'm like, well, come, you know what

00:12:02.920 you're doing, bitch. All I have to worry about is the discipleship. All I have to worry about is the

00:12:09.020 content of what I say. I love dreaming. I love thinking. I love coming up with ideas. I love

00:12:13.860 talking. Of course women love talking. Again, now she, she loves teaching. Do you think you,

00:12:19.480 you have the authority to teach as a woman? Again, it's just pick and choose. And you see

00:12:28.680 that none of these women are who they say they are because whenever there's something traditionally

00:12:32.980 masculine, they all crash out. Brett Cooper crashed out, um, on the breakdancing dad where she said that

00:12:42.120 he was, I can't remember what she called him, but she took the daughter's side, um, and never corrected

00:12:47.940 it. They never say sorry. Candace Owens called Steven Crowder an abuser, never apologized. Um,

00:12:54.640 Brett Cooper also, um, crashed out on fresh dating multiple girls, even though she wasn't a virgin on

00:13:01.780 her wedding day. It's like, it's just the hypocrisy. You see it's pick and choose traditionalism. I could

00:13:08.060 throw it back in college, but now LARP is a traditional woman and still have a career except

00:13:15.440 promotions after I'm so-called traditional with you, mentoring you, talking with you. And he runs

00:13:23.140 and leads and organizes and manages all of the business. And by the way, traditionally masculine

00:13:30.720 men don't need their wives to prove that they're masculine. They just are. And as you always see,

00:13:36.240 they, they kind of marry these like feminine looking guys and, um, they, the guys kind of

00:13:45.040 take the back seat and just let them do whatever they want inside of everything we do. And I'm so

00:13:49.080 thankful for that. Anyways, I just thought this clip was hilarious. I think it's hilarious watching,

00:13:55.940 um, right now, Candace Owens and Allie Best Stucky are crashing out on each other

00:14:00.760 because they're both these like fake traditional women, just Bible thumping at each other. It's so

00:14:08.780 funny. Anyways, guys. Um, I don't know. That's all I got today. Sorry if this was a little rambly,

00:14:18.740 but I grew up around women like this. There's nothing wrong with the way they live their life.

00:14:23.580 Like, you know, it's not my problem, but don't be fooled into thinking any of these women are

00:14:31.600 even the littlest bit traditional. They're not, not even a little bit, they're not different than

00:14:36.440 other women. Um, and yeah, let me know what you think of the comments. Am I being too, um, bitter?

00:14:44.080 I don't know. Let me know in the comments, like the video and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - November 14, 2025

Allie Beth Stucky And Candace Owens Are Not as Traditional As They Think

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