Pearl - Are We Dating the Same Guy Should Have Positive Reviews Too!!!!! WHERE ARE THE FIVE STAR REVIEWS

00:00:00.000 What up guys, welcome to my coffee thoughts. So today, um, I'm actually, we finished filming

00:00:07.740 for the first day of our divorce documentary. If you have anybody that you think would be

00:00:12.640 a good fit, put it in the comments. We have room for a few more guests. So if you want

00:00:18.000 your story to be featured, um, Doug at the audacity network.com. Um, we also are looking

00:00:23.180 for lawyers, judges, or people that would have a differing point of view too. Um, okay.

00:00:30.000 so today I was thinking about that Are We Dating the Same Guy Facebook page right 0.77

00:00:35.900 and so many times women get in these pages and I lurk in them I won't lie I'm a lurker I'm nosy

00:00:45.340 I get I get up in these pages I mean I'm in the trenches right so I go there and I'm like

00:00:51.920 reading all these accounts from women and you know some of these stories are pretty bad

00:00:57.000 now there's men that get put on the are we dating the same guy facebook page

00:01:02.280 where i don't really feel bad for the guy

00:01:06.080 um and there's guys where they really don't deserve it like if a guy takes you on a date

00:01:13.460 and it's really not that bad of a date right or you know you have some complaints he doesn't pick

00:01:18.080 you up doesn't pay whatever i don't think you deserve to be on that page i don't really think

00:01:23.240 anybody deserves to be on that page it's kind of toxic altogether but there's some men

00:01:27.960 where it's like they're asking for it a little bit like he banged your sister your whole friend group

00:01:33.640 i mean did you not think she was gonna tell people and you know go to the ends of the earth

00:01:38.040 i mean what we know how women are right we know how they are i have a little bit less sympathy

00:01:44.920 when some guys it's like okay what did you think was gonna happen my guy like what did you i'll

00:01:51.480 read some of these stories and again they could be lying right but i don't know there's a certain

00:01:57.560 vitriol when a woman takes an l and she's telling everybody about and i don't know it's just a vibe 0.67

00:02:03.560 i guess you got to use discretion where you're like do you know what i think this woman might 0.97

00:02:10.600 be telling the truth i don't know like he banged your sister or you know um cheating with hookers 0.94

00:02:19.320 um at that point just get a divorce my guy that woman there's too many receipts along the way when 0.99

00:02:25.960 you get hookers or it seems like in these pages anyway like it just the women are gonna get in 1.00

00:02:33.080 their phones if you want to cheat go take a home from the bar or something um spreading around stds 0.95

00:02:41.640 like did you not think these women were not gonna crash at now again it's not really fair because 0.56

00:02:47.480 because women do the same thing, right, and the men don't crash out, and I'm not saying it's right, 0.53

00:02:54.360 but you see what I mean? You have a little bit less sympathy in those cases than the guys where

00:02:59.940 she's like, oh, he didn't take me to the nicest restaurant, or he didn't do x, y, and z, or he

00:03:04.400 was weird on the day. It's like, well, you see the difference, but the question I have for the women 0.98

00:03:15.040 is ladies where are the positive reviews is every guy you've ever dated like okay women 0.57

00:03:24.560 we tend to have three boxes for men alpha fox beta bucks prince charming now who cares what

00:03:33.480 box the woman puts you in when you think about it you guys still get to hit all three men get 0.93

00:03:38.260 to hit they hit anyway who cares right how does she view me who cares but ladies let's have a talk

00:03:47.340 you know lady to lady when a guy's in the fun only box 1.00

00:03:53.180 we aren't as possessive you know it's the prince charmings or the alpha fucks demons that we go 0.99

00:04:04.320 you know cuckoo over i think i just my experience what i've seen right um and the beta bucks guys

00:04:10.960 that are starting to you know stand up to the white that's when they crash out right so when they

00:04:15.740 stop being a beta

00:04:17.120 but it's like i think there are some things that men should get positive reviews for

00:04:27.260 like clean apartment that should be like if we're gonna do the negative reviews i'm just saying

00:04:33.760 ladies maybe we need to add in some positive reviews like clean apartment

00:04:40.160 you know if an apartment's clean like why not just put that in the review you know 1.00

00:04:47.920 good set you know you could put in a little review that says and women do this behind the scenes so 0.94

00:04:52.960 i'm like if women will refer men to each other sexually behind the scenes why do women not do

00:05:00.240 that publicly do you know what i mean it's like we're gonna put in these l's right these total l's

00:05:06.800 where it's like he did xyz and this is as a woman if you allow a guy to not allow because people are

00:05:12.960 going to do what they're going to do but if you were in a situation um where you chose a man that

00:05:17.920 did x y and z that's a complete l on your hand complete l i mean look if anyone asks all my

00:05:25.840 my ex has treated me perfectly. Angels. Because it makes you look better. If anything, women,

00:05:32.860 we need to start normalizing positive reviews. 1.00

00:05:38.600 Bought me breakfast in the morning. Let me stay. Let's you stay the night, right?

00:05:46.940 Taught me a new position, right? I think there's things we could put in. Got me food after. Drove

00:05:52.880 me home all of these things got me an uber because then it's like ladies we could have a nice little 1.00

00:05:59.920 review of the experience we're gonna get but too many times the women just put the l experience 1.00

00:06:05.920 and you know what to some extent it's like you're kind of an idiot if you don't ask around about a 0.84

00:06:12.240 person not believing the random people online right but we're in 2026 i mean i heard about a woman 0.99

00:06:18.160 that has been married 15 times and just moves from state to state marrying new guys and like

00:06:25.940 literally swindling them just exploiting the system and I'm thinking well if there was a

00:06:34.240 review page you know men sometimes would actually do better looking into the women a little bit more

00:06:41.640 you know they could learn learn a thing from the women not that this really helps women because

00:06:47.220 it's like um women will write a review like he banged my sister and women will think oh he had 0.97

00:06:53.040 the balls to do that wow you know but all I'm saying ladies is you know um great body 0.71

00:07:03.340 five five star review you know that could be in there um I'm trying to think you put in the 0.98

00:07:12.440 comments what could be a five-star review but it could be good style you know gave me good life

00:07:19.000 advice listen to my problems five-star therapy got a free therapy session out of a one night 0.92

00:07:25.000 you know it's like great guy to date after a divorce you know because there's guys that women

00:07:30.700 they're never going to take seriously right men have this too but men like i think men offer

00:07:36.800 referrals with their host like they kind of like to pass they like their favorite hose for

00:07:41.440 themselves right but like they will refer a friend he'll be like great gluck gluck 9 000 0.64

00:07:47.680 you know that girl gluck gluck to high heavens but women it's like we're always focusing on

00:07:54.720 the negative ladies great guy took me to karaoke took me showed me a cool youtube guy showed me a

00:08:03.040 cool youtube video is it all bad ladies is it all bad i mean i understand you know because they say

00:08:10.800 hookup culture is this terrible thing and i'm like ladies

00:08:13.520 can we stop pretending that there's no like pot you know 0.97

00:08:21.680 taught me how to dance right gave me a dance

00:08:27.460 took me to a sports game

00:08:31.260 taught me what the final four what i don't you know like i don't know bitcoin i you know it's

00:08:39.560 just, you know, because men, men really have these cool hobbies. They have these cool hobbies. Women

00:08:44.820 don't have cool hobbies. They teach you nothing. But men, like, even in a casual set, they're always 1.00

00:08:49.860 going to teach you something. Men, they love teaching. And a lot of them have really thought

00:08:56.660 out their experience, right? Men are creatures of habit. So any experience, ladies, any experience

00:09:04.240 you've had with a guy, he's done for another girl and will do for another girl in the future. So you

00:09:09.240 might as well leave an accurate review and my pushback on these pages is okay some of the men

00:09:17.460 are demons they kind of I mean I don't know what you expected right so but some of these men don't

00:09:23.800 deserve you know the guys I know um that got on these pages and some of these some of these guys

00:09:30.980 they're they're like um you know guys come up they tell me they're they're friends right and

00:09:37.040 like one guy i know his system is to take girls to karaoke on the second date

00:09:42.940 and it's like this woman wrote a review about him and i'm like did you not

00:09:46.680 include the karaoke karaoke is fun do you know how many times i've tried to beg

00:09:55.400 beg i love karaoke i have begged ex-boyfriend to take me to karaoke and they don't want to go

00:10:03.960 right they're like that's lame and you got karaoke on the second date

00:10:08.160 and you didn't like I understand he ghosted you ma'am I understand I'm sorry about the ghosting

00:10:16.500 you know maybe he should have maybe he should you know put a text out there put a little feeler out

00:10:21.800 there but you did not include the karaoke it's like incredible another guy I know another guy

00:10:33.680 because you have to understand sometimes I meet people because they just they they come up to me

00:10:38.040 they tell me their horror stories right and he also got put on this page um and it was an it was

00:10:43.640 a bitter ex-girlfriend and I guess he did some maybe he did some cheating right yeah I mean I

00:10:50.180 think he did I'm gonna be I'm gonna be on I'm gonna be honest I think he did cheat but she 0.94

00:10:53.980 didn't include the house he bought her right he didn't include um I mean this dude was jacked

00:11:04.580 right I'm like I mean that was probably fun for you right I mean can we just can we just keep it 0.79

00:11:10.180 like a buck here can we just keep it another woman it's like okay she got um do you know I

00:11:21.480 think she caught him looking at some weird online stuff right but he you know and so that's how he

00:11:28.600 got on the page like I think he was looking at some weird cool one I mean like which is kind of

00:11:33.160 an L right but he didn't do it in front of you you know and that's kind of like are we gonna

00:11:38.480 are we gonna act like our fantasies are not depraved ever it's okay that's that's an L

00:11:44.060 that's totally an L. But, but he would buy you dominoes. Why didn't you include the dominoes?

00:11:59.060 The girl dating the fitness rat is like, I would love some dominoes. He's been making me eat

00:12:04.780 grilled chicken. And the fat woman is like, my husband always takes me out to eat and makes me 1.00

00:12:10.560 fat you got the grilled chicken i'm just saying like women were never happy but at least we can 1.00

00:12:15.840 know like if we're gonna if we're gonna have reviews because they're gonna be there anyway

00:12:20.240 these pages i just would like some accuracy i would like it to have the positives if we're

00:12:27.520 gonna have the negatives you can't stop that let's let's add in some positive reviews ladies so

Pearl - April 13, 2026

Are We Dating the Same Guy Should Have Positive Reviews Too!!!!! WHERE ARE THE FIVE STAR REVIEWS

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