Pearl - April 14, 2026


Why Can’t Lauren Southern Just Take The L？


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

168.37315

Word count

1,776

Sentence count

56

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Toxicity

20

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Hate speech

16

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Lauren Southern recently wrote an article about how she helped build the manosphere and now it has destroyed her. As women, we need to stop taking the L.S. and just do what we are told to do.

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00:00:00.400 What up guys? Welcome to my coffee talks. Today I have a black coffee with half and half and sugar-free syrup.
00:00:05.740 A few updates. I'm trying to decide what days I want to do my show.
00:00:10.740 So this month I have a bunch of filming for the documentary.
00:00:17.840 So this whole month I'm going to be gone a lot. It's going to be sporadic.
00:00:21.360 We are not going to have consistent shows except tonight it's 6 to 8.
00:00:25.140 So the reason it's kind of been sporadic is because I just have a lot of projects, you know, going on.
00:00:34.960 And anyways, but I'm going to be in the position where I can do it at a consistent time.
00:00:40.260 I was thinking Monday, Wednesday, Friday, but I like filming my reactions for the week on Monday.
00:00:46.600 So would you guys be opposed if I did Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday or like Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, something like that?
00:00:54.860 i don't know i could do a saturday night show we'll see any any thoughts um i've been going
00:01:01.900 with the times six to eight because i you know i'm like people are off work they're chilling
00:01:07.500 they're gonna go out at night like if they're night owls they haven't gone out yet so anyways
00:01:12.300 let me know what you guys think in the comments now to the topic today we're talking about lauren
00:01:18.540 southern now lauren southern recently talked about how she built the manosphere now she wrote an
00:01:24.060 article. This is going to be the topic tonight, but we're going to do coffee talk. Um, she wrote
00:01:29.040 an article about how she helped built the manosphere and now it destroyed her. Now I completely
00:01:34.420 understand what she's going through. And I, while I think she's insane, I do understand this massive
00:01:41.120 L. So Lauren Southern was a right-wing e-girl. And a lot of times what happens as women is we 1.00
00:01:46.220 get offered opportunities that we are not equipped for. Now, many times the men in our life may tell
00:01:51.760 us don't do that. And we just don't listen. Um, and it's tough because again, the world is just
00:01:56.500 constantly giving us free stuff. So her as a young woman, she's 18. She probably thinks she
00:02:01.080 worked so hard when really some man did all the work for her, right? She became a right-wing e-girl 1.00
00:02:08.140 and the challenge of what you get with the right-wing e-girls, um, is it's very difficult.
00:02:14.940 I can say this kind of living through it, not to believe it's a product of your hard work or
00:02:21.160 whatever. When the truth is, if a man was equally as talented as you, you just wouldn't be as
00:02:28.020 famous. Like it's just, it just is what it is, right? Like I became more famous, not to make
00:02:33.480 this about me, but I can relate, right? Because I was a woman. And her, it's kind of the same thing.
00:02:42.780 But the issue you get 1.00
00:02:44.360 is she banged everyone in right-wing media. I don't know how stupid you can be. 1.00
00:02:51.160 I mean, honestly, look, if you're going to whore out as a woman, why are you whoring out with everyone you work with? 1.00
00:02:59.420 You know, I guess promotions and clout, you know. 1.00
00:03:03.200 But anyway, so her whole concept is that she helped build the manosphere and that it destroyed her. 1.00
00:03:11.940 And it destroyed her because she whored out, essentially. 0.99
00:03:15.880 Now, Lauren, if you're watching this, I'd like to say, number one, you got to stop. 0.97
00:03:24.220 This is getting ridiculous. 0.94
00:03:27.400 You need to just take the L. 0.98
00:03:29.460 Look, you got a job you didn't deserve. 1.00
00:03:31.560 And instead of shutting up and just doing your job, you fucked everybody, right? 1.00
00:03:35.020 You banged everybody on the internet or at least enough people with microphones, which is kind of stupid, right? 1.00
00:03:41.020 You can't bang men with microphones. 0.99
00:03:44.880 or if you do you got to get an NDA or something I mean men with microphones love
00:03:49.360 Brad like you're too you were too hot back in the day for men to not brag about it you know what I
00:03:54.260 mean it's like what did you think was gonna happen like you know what I mean like if the men bang a 0.99
00:04:02.460 mid they're not gonna brag like they might they might forget but you're too attractive right you 1.00
00:04:08.920 back in the day, not anymore, but like when you were 18, 19, 22, you were a baddie. And as women, 1.00
00:04:17.400 we need to practice just taking the L. Now, again, um, I just never understood this. Her
00:04:27.360 whole concept is that the manosphere destroyed her because she just didn't know. I didn't know
00:04:33.700 what I was doing. I was so young. And instead of saying, do you know what? It was easy money. I
00:04:39.600 didn't fully understand the talking points. I believed it at the time. And I thought the
00:04:45.080 manosphere, which she didn't even build, right? Women take credit for everything, but, um, 1.00
00:04:50.000 and now I have a different opinion. Instead, it's gotta be the evil men. You had to go through 0.99
00:05:00.680 sex spill everyone's business accuse everyone of rape and um sexual assault on your way out the 1.00
00:05:08.280 door why couldn't you just leave you were an attractive enough woman you could go join another 1.00
00:05:13.200 group right you burned your reputation in this one you bang too many men with microphones 1.00
00:05:18.760 eat that l that's an l just eat you know what i mean like do you think i enjoy um
00:05:25.480 there's things on that i've done on the internet that are gonna live forever
00:05:31.180 things i've said things i've done that are just embarrassing humiliating but i just eat it i eat 1.00
00:05:42.120 it like um but these women they're so um hungry for public validation right and approval that 0.88
00:05:54.140 they'll go to the ends of the earth to not look like a bad person and it's like look I was explaining 0.99
00:05:59.300 this to um when Rachel was going through her Rachel Andrews wife love her okay and um when
00:06:08.760 she they were kind of chastising her because her backstory is that she was married before and she
00:06:12.980 has kids for more than one guy not an insult just that's what it is right and um I remember she had
00:06:20.860 this essay defending herself right and I told her I'm like Rachel I'd love you anyway like even if
00:06:27.740 you were the villain in this story like when you like somebody it almost transcends what they do
00:06:33.600 in a way you know what I mean it's kind of like um women love Ted Bundy not not that they're the
00:06:38.600 same but women love Ted Bundy regardless of what he did you know like there's always going to be 0.70
00:06:45.840 people in your life that are going to love you even if you do a fucked up thing you know it's 0.97
00:06:51.000 like lauren even if you fucked half of conservative media it is what it like it doesn't mean you're a 0.98
00:06:57.920 bad person it just means you were horny right i mean i can live with that you know but what you 0.99
00:07:04.560 gotta do um is just eat the l and just say do you know what i overreacted um i shouldn't have 0.54
00:07:14.880 but what's making you a bad person is you trying to defend your reputation like men kind of
00:07:21.600 understand and the thing is your reputation is something you just don't have a lot of control
00:07:25.840 over i've learned that in my life i've learned that i mean there was um a rumor years ago started
00:07:37.440 about me and the rumor was um that i dated a homeless man like off the street homeless man
00:07:43.740 um and this girl that started it just kept repeating it and repeating it to the point
00:07:49.360 that every person like every show like every person would tweet this at me and it wasn't
00:07:55.320 even true right that was crazy it wasn't even true but you just like there's a certain point
00:08:00.100 where defending yourself um it does nothing so now i just say yeah i help the homeless you know 0.98
00:08:07.360 and lauren that's what you got to do if people are like you're a whore just be like hey hey i 0.93
00:08:15.140 prefer 30 foe i prefer because you can't help how people perceive you right um i mean you did do 1.00
00:08:22.240 part of this to yourself you bang too many men with microphones but
00:08:25.020 my issue is women why can't we just eat the l like okay
00:08:32.300 there's not even societal shame the way there used to be about divorce about family all that stuff
00:08:38.820 like we don't even have the same shame um you can still get married and have a good family and like
00:08:44.780 live the rest of your life happy if you want um why must you make your l everybody's problem like
00:08:54.460 you don't need to broadcast it you don't got to tell everybody about it you can just eat it
00:08:59.440 understand that some people are going to judge you and like move on with your life
00:09:03.000 so that's my two cents to lauren southern um if this coffee talk was all you know what's funny
00:09:11.720 i'll say this coffee talk is kind of all over the place and then the comments are like this
00:09:16.620 was my favorite coffee talk and i'm like you guys are not incentivizing me to be more scripted you
00:09:22.060 know like but that's that's the thing with her it's like why don't you just eat this out look
00:09:30.340 I mean yo okay when I was in high school I threw a party without my parents I'm knowing now
00:09:40.800 this party I got caught for I got caught in the dumbest way possible
00:09:46.760 um I cleaned up after the party my friend actually came back and he threw another party
00:09:52.600 and he didn't clean up properly so my dad found the second party so he ends up going through my
00:09:57.940 phone and they find everything and um there's just a point where I remember I was trying to
00:10:02.960 defend myself and being like no like the party wasn't that big and you know my brother's done
00:10:08.520 worse and da da da da and I'm like you know what I just gotta eat this and there's a certain point 0.95
00:10:13.860 is a woman and a man. You just got to eat it. So anyways, women, we need to learn to take L's 1.00
00:10:22.680 better. Lauren Southern. Um, if you guys have thoughts on the topic, put it in the comments 1.00
00:10:27.060 because I'm writing a show for tonight, today. And I love hearing your perspectives. Like the
00:10:31.700 video. I'll see you next time.