00:00:00.000uh but when i say hey does he have authority to your boss you would say yes he does have authority
00:00:04.720but when i say does the husband have authority over his wife there's never a yes all right what's
00:00:09.040up guys welcome to my reaction series where i actually react to my own videos that i've done
00:00:14.960i'm always pretty proud of my content that i make so i kind of i kind of like doing this
00:00:19.040so i actually got a pastor um to come out that's baptist and i just want to show you fellas how0.79
00:00:25.280you're cucked i'm telling you you're cucked i don't care if you go to the catholic church the0.96
00:00:29.840baptist church the orthodox church the church should be the church of your d i'm just messing1.00
00:00:36.800i'm just messing but it really should be the church of um your house because when you go to0.65
00:00:43.760any group gathering women will always get the sexually inexperienced men to do what they want0.51
00:00:49.600so here is a fella um who's a pastor and totally hen packed by his wife
00:00:55.760it's personally more impactful for him um for me i would say i would lean more towards the love side
00:01:03.920um yeah but i think it would depend on who who you would ask so is it a woman's
00:01:08.960role to decide if her husband's following god or not i mean to an extent yes i mean not to like
00:01:16.800not as if there's no no other person even an even a person's spouse can like fully know what's going
00:01:24.480on in someone's heart and mind right um so not to an 100 percent extent but absolutely the one
00:01:31.120part of the roles for spouses is to help is for us to help each other follow god as faithfully as
00:01:35.840we can so for my wife to say hey i've noticed that you haven't been reading the bible as consistently
00:01:42.000or i you haven't been praying you haven't been leading us to pray as consistently like that is
00:01:45.760and and to answer your question fully like yeah in that sense she is absolutely
00:01:50.580not deciding if i'm following god at all but how faithfully i'm doing so and helping me to
00:01:55.360helping me to follow more faithfully okay but isn't that giving um like bosses more authority
00:02:00.940over your wife than they're like in in that case like don't the women respect their bosses more
00:02:07.520than their husbands um sorry i get so distracted it's okay it's hot out it's hot out um
00:02:15.060again it's not i don't know the way the way that i look at the world is not like
00:02:20.460this battle of who has more authority over who you know um see it's this roundabout way to say
00:02:27.440i'm cucked i'm cucked um i don't want to you know because if i say look at is that food healthy
00:02:33.460yes or no i could say yes it's healthy no it's not uh but when i say hey does he have authority
00:02:38.300to your boss you would say yes he does have authority but when i say does the husband have
00:02:42.680authority over his wife there's never a yes but it's realistic right you somebody there's a reason
00:02:47.700we have phrases like who wears the pants yeah for sure and again i mean oh that's around the
00:02:56.420back side of the building if you're looking for them but the uh yes i guess if you want to say
00:03:04.320like but again by the same token does the wife care more about her job than her husband because
00:03:11.420spends more of her time at work than at home most days if she works and they both work you know what
00:03:15.500i mean so like sure you can say you can play the game of oh this person quote has more authority
00:03:21.020over you than this person but again if they're if the if the marriage is based on mutual love
00:03:25.500and respect and they're both trying to faithfully follow god as well as they can that's just not
00:03:28.860gonna be an issue it won't it's gonna be perfect there's never gonna be an issue no at all of
00:03:34.300course there's still gonna be problems but going back to what you said earlier i never answered
00:03:38.540what if there's disagreement who decides i'm very young my wife and i only have two years
00:03:44.620i've known so many christian couples when both are doing their best to follow god in a moment
00:03:52.940and they're willing to take advice from outside the marriage as well from other faithful christians
00:03:59.100i've never seen it i've never heard of a single situation where a couple has not been able to come
00:04:02.700to an agreement okay so lies lies that leads me to my next question so do you do counseling then
00:04:08.540every once in a while what would you advise a woman to do if her husband and
00:04:13.040you disagree yeah so let's say let's say she you there's a couple they're getting
00:04:18.380counseling from the pastor and the pastor you say one thing the husband
00:04:23.240vehemently disagrees with you and it's not clear-cut it's not a clear-cut
00:04:28.220biblical answer right but maybe it's parenting style the pastor says he's too
00:04:33.680strict the husband says I'm not too strict something like that that's not a
00:04:37.580black and white answer yeah who would you advise the woman to listen now if it was me answering i
00:04:41.740would say the dad listen to your father and what is the church where we're supposed to go to answer
00:04:48.140say are they both members of the church yeah they're both no they're both members of of your
00:04:53.580church here and he goes to the church he just says no two men always agree on everything right yeah
00:04:59.820ever ever in life i've never met two hundred percent so if they're going to be here 20 30
00:05:03.980years you know people are going to want to know who should the wife listen to you the pastor or
00:05:09.580the husband absolutely um so if they're both church members that's going to create a whole
00:05:15.420different situation that's why i asked i'll answer both situations if they're both church members
00:05:19.580then and i want to this you say this very carefully and i'll explain myself then they're both are
00:05:24.300quote under the authority of that church and its leadership so in that scenario it's less of an
00:05:30.140issue of and that doesn't mean we tell them how to parent it doesn't mean that we say you give this
00:05:33.980money you give this money it's not like that at all especially our denomination but what it does
00:05:37.580mean is notice how he's given a non-answer they're always non-answers when they make it super
00:05:44.940complicated that means it's um if they make it super complicated that means it's like a non-answer
00:05:55.660if they make it simple it's a real answer there is a level of the church leadership has the
00:06:01.020authority to speak into lives especially when people are asking for that advice and for that
00:06:05.820asking for to receive comments on that and if it comes down to a situation where
00:06:11.020the husband says you know i'm not doing that screw that i'm not listening
00:06:15.580um then at some point you have to make a choice of then my counsel to the to the wife would be
00:06:22.060at some point you have to make a choice of is this a hill you're willing to die on is it something
00:06:25.820that's not important to you where you have to continue this or can you choose or are you is
00:06:32.700it something that we can not give up on but again and now you're you're bargaining he's bargaining0.99
00:06:38.940with the woman you can never bargain with a woman you gotta say no period no bitch and that's why0.95
00:06:45.100you always hear the men say well i might not say it like that okay do you really have authority if1.00
00:06:51.020If you can't say it how you want to say it, if you can't tell a woman to shut up, if you don't have the balls to tell a woman to shut up, men, take your country back.0.99