Pearl - Being A Single Mom Is An L

00:00:00.000 Single mothers a lot of times we're jealous of the fathers because the kids tend to like the

00:00:03.640 fathers better. All right, what's up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. Today we react to women

00:00:09.900 taking L's and today we're reacting to women talking about how just, you know, being a single 0.92

00:00:16.220 mom is an L. So let's see what these ladies have to say. So being a real single mom means carrying 1.00

00:00:22.740 financial stress, emotional stress, all the stress, all the stress. Yeah, it's self-inflicted

00:00:28.580 stress right a lot of times when women complain about stress it's like stress that we have

00:00:33.200 inflicted upon ourselves you know and still having to stay positive and never ever ever ever getting

00:00:42.220 a break you have to do all the parenting all the disciplining all the everything driving

00:00:47.460 everything and it's not easy i will tell you it is not easy at all yeah but again this is

00:00:54.100 the equivalent is like a guy complaining about prison so imagine a guy goes online says you know

00:00:59.320 being a prisoner it just isn't easy it's like well you kind of made a choice to become a prisoner we 0.97

00:01:04.280 don't feel bad um like i hope it's not easy actually i would hate it if a single mom had an 0.79

00:01:10.500 easy life you know like it kind of makes you mad when porn stars get married or single mothers get

00:01:14.980 remarried it's like that's not supposed to happen so you having an easy life not supposed to be the

00:01:20.740 case and parenting single parenting of a teenage girl even harder um if you are a person how about

00:01:28.320 the teenage girl hates her gets child support or has somebody that takes your child every other

00:01:33.120 weekend or every other week or even one day a month you're not really a single parent

00:01:38.040 so being a real single mom teenage girl even harder um if you are a person who gets child

00:01:47.300 support or has somebody that takes your child every other weekend or every other week or even

00:01:52.640 one day a month, you're not really a single parent. And yes, you might be a solo parent or doing it

00:01:58.840 single sometimes, but you're not a single parent. And also if your husband or wife goes away for a

00:02:04.660 little and you have your kids for a weekend yourself, you're not a single parent. You don't

00:02:09.380 know what being a single parent is like. It is hard. Trust me, it's hard. So if you can help out

00:02:15.300 a single parent um if you're close to them by watching their kids helping them she begging for

00:02:21.000 help on the internet is this where this is going all right who's next oh yay we have one crying i

00:02:27.920 love it when women cry i'm trying to make this video like five times now this is not a video

00:02:38.720 i've ever done and i don't even know if i'll post this oh no she has the music in the background

00:02:47.040 your crack is not inspirational it means you're mentally unstable i don't really know anybody on

00:02:54.080 here but i would like to get to know some of you guys because right now i'm in really hard time in

00:02:59.600 my life as a single mom being a single mom is not easy raising two babies being 22 years old

00:03:08.080 didn't get on here to you know what imagine all the men that shot their shot in high school and

00:03:13.680 she rejected just watching this this has that ever happened to you you're like

00:03:20.000 you know she went for tyrone got a chest tattoo now she's a single mother and now she's crying

00:03:25.440 on the internet and you're you know living your best life as a man or or attention i'm reaching

00:03:31.440 out for help even if it's just somebody to talk to because i would love to have another mom to

00:03:39.200 talk to i don't really have friends to talk to other than my mom and she's amazing i can talk

00:03:45.760 to probably for a reason you know i'm all about anything but everybody needs a friend not the

00:03:51.680 only single mom out there i'm not in this economy it is so hard being able to give the get give the

00:03:59.040 the kids to the dad. Say, look, I made a mistake. I can't do it. Take your kids.

00:04:02.840 Figure out what your next dollar or $10 or $5 is going to come for me. I just had to

00:04:09.860 spend the last little bit of money I had on my daughter's diapers. And now it's like

00:04:15.860 everything's coming down on me. Bills, car payment. Car payment's due right now. I just

00:04:22.720 wish it was a little bit easier for all the single moms out there. I don't even know if 1.00

00:04:27.500 i feel comfortable posting this because i don't want people to be negative to the comments but

00:04:35.180 as i'm trying to go on tiktok i want y'all to know what i'm going through i just want to be

00:04:39.980 honest with people i want them to see the real me and not just a video of what i want them to

00:04:46.300 take my life is i'm sorry for crying i wanted to come on here and talk to y'all about what i'm

00:04:55.180 going through a little bit about myself right now but i'll see y'all in the next video

00:05:04.460 all right let's see who's next i just left my son's graduation

00:05:12.540 and every time i do something like this um it hits me a little hard and it's not because i'm

00:05:20.300 like sad or anything it was i cried i was so happy like it was one of the best moments ever

00:05:25.180 but every time this happens my son has a dad okay a great dad um and and a stepmom and grandparents

00:05:33.260 and a whole family on that side um and so it's always like christmas things graduations whatever

00:05:39.580 he has all these people there like from his dad's side siblings anyways i always feel so

00:05:50.860 small because it's always just me and like this is my choice you know like i had

00:06:00.460 sorry anyways it's like i don't know it's just hard being a single mom sometimes

00:06:06.140 when it's not like you're competing with the other parent it's just like i wish i could

00:06:12.940 it's like i wish i could give you you know that yeah so single mothers a lot of times

00:06:18.700 were jealous of the fathers because the kids tend to like the fathers better son on his third

00:06:22.860 birthday morning yesterday and it's okay the reality of being a divorced mom if you're thinking

00:06:27.540 about divorcing your spouse as a parent this is something you have to think of fought really hard

00:06:32.100 in my divorce hard like i did not let it go that if we're gonna split christmas in half we're

00:06:37.500 splitting birthdays in half i'm not gonna go every other year not seeing my son on his birthday and

00:06:41.780 this is how i made it okay i had his birthday party yesterday was saturday on his birthday

00:06:47.260 big birthday party all of his friends way too many people in my house was the best distraction

00:06:52.240 ever by planning his birthday on the day so all morning all day i was busy busy busy busy busy

00:06:57.940 i facetimed him best birthday ever and then tomorrow you guys tomorrow we're doing a birthday

00:07:03.860 day celebration it's i should call it his due date celebration he was due may 18th he was born 1.00

00:07:08.320 i don't know these women sound so evil like it doesn't even it almost seems like the point of 0.77

00:07:13.220 this video is to talk about how awesome of a mother she is not how awesome the kid is because

00:07:18.760 we were so busy with this party it was so much fun he was so tired from his birthday so we're

00:07:23.360 gonna have like his regular birthday celebration first and second birthday we went to the pool and

00:07:27.020 we went to build a bear so we're doing that tomorrow and we're also going to the zoo and

00:07:30.940 then we're gonna go see his little best friend because her mom let me borrow a bunch of stuff

00:07:34.500 at the party so i want you guys to know if you're getting divorced prepare for this if you want to

00:07:41.040 divorced prepare for this but as it sounds worse than it was i had a fabulous day i missed my son

00:07:48.800 but i was happy that he was happy he was gonna have the best time ever at his birthday party

00:07:53.200 this morning he woke up asking mama can i have my priority again and i was like no

00:08:01.360 okay let's see let's see this one like loneliness oh no the music oh no how 0.69

00:08:07.840 fucking lonely it is being a single mom wasn't it the consequences of your own actions it gets so 0.63

00:08:13.520 lonely you know imagine being the dad being like hey he like has his new girlfriend 10 years younger 0.99

00:08:19.440 constantly in that state where you're just like mother in you is so fulfilled but the woman in

00:08:24.560 you is lonely going down the route of dating and bringing man into child's life is questionable

00:08:31.440 for me i have to base it on a number of different things i guess it's just easier to just be on my

00:08:36.960 own with my daughter loneliness is debilitating and it's crippling and it's really hard where

00:08:41.600 i'm living at the moment i don't have any family here either i've got a really good set of friends

00:08:46.880 but they're all partnered up so the loneliness can just be debilitating because then it leads

00:08:51.440 on to the guilt why am i feeling guilty because i'm lonely like i've got my kid i shouldn't

00:08:56.080 but as i said the woman is lonely and look at the positives because at the end of the day

00:09:01.280 got a healthy beautiful daughter we have a beautiful lifestyle we live in australia we live

00:09:07.120 yeah that's the cope the cope that they don't need a man anyways let's keep going 0.58

00:09:14.480 that no one is coming to save me no one someone will come to save her she's cute enough not that

00:09:20.960 keep it cute enough someone will do it um it could be your dad or brother but somebody's gonna do it

00:09:25.680 people aren't quite talking to us about what it's like to be a single mother

00:09:30.960 i'm going to take it to you you have to do all of the things that a two-person household would

00:09:36.080 have to do that means you're going to manage the household you're going to do all of the outdoor

00:09:40.000 stuff currently i need to finish cutting my grass the rain has not allowed it i have a

00:09:44.080 store and shed that i have to build myself i've never done that before put it up myself

00:09:49.760 i have a pool that i got as a free sample that i've got to get up i've had it for a month

00:09:54.480 nobody is going to save me not to mention all of the content that you have to create when you

00:10:00.000 literally just want to put yourself like in a little closet and shut the door but you have

00:10:05.280 just catastrophizing chores so that's what we're meant to put it all out there for everybody

00:10:10.240 to see nobody gets it unless you do clothes that you have to wash the house that you have to

00:10:16.560 maintain my house is total rent i've been in like a lupus flare for like two weeks straight

00:10:21.040 and then you have to worry about the bills getting made my back is killing me i'm so tired

00:10:28.280 i'm so tired so please forgive me if you think i'm ignoring i'm just having a hard time

00:10:35.440 so say a little prayer for me i have a lot to get done and i love you and i just thank you so much

00:10:42.580 for your okay she says she has no time but she has time to record the tiktok like i mean this

00:10:46.760 is incredible imagine being like mom what are you doing on tiktok all right guys let me know

00:10:53.220 what you think in the comments have you ever been that guy watching a single mother crash out that

00:10:56.880 you shot your shot at when she was single let me know in the comments like the video

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Pearl - June 06, 2026

Being A Single Mom Is An L

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