Pearl - Botox, Brunch & Babies： Do Women Even Want to Be Moms？

00:00:00.120 Nanny versus parents. How everyone can win the battle for the baby's heart. 0.95

00:00:05.080 By the mom doing her job.

00:00:11.380 She won't though. She won't. I promise to God she won't.

00:00:14.220 There's going to be something more fun and cool and exciting than hanging out with these kids.

00:00:18.400 This idea that the women just love being mothers 0.98

00:00:21.120 is the biggest cope, right? Because everyone, society says, you know, women are natural 1.00

00:00:28.140 nurturers, right? And the women, they're like, but you know, women, here's a choice to kill 1.00

00:00:33.180 your kids. And the women are like, we got to kill them. We got to abortion. We're going to march for 1.00

00:00:38.260 this. Okay. And then they're like, okay, well, I guess it's not a life, I guess. Okay, sure. Okay,

00:00:45.780 sure, ladies. And then they're like, okay, but you know, you guys can work and save money. So

00:00:51.040 in your 20s, you could save money for your kids, you know. And then in your 30s, you can have a

00:00:57.000 kid and then you have money for the kid right and you can stay home and the women are like no I'd 1.00

00:01:01.620 rather just get Botox and liposuction and boob jobs and clothes and go to events and travel

00:01:09.840 and I would rather do that instead of saving money to have a kid right and I'd actually when I have

00:01:16.880 the kid I do want to work and I want someone else to do the job but I want the cloud of the kid so

00:01:22.440 I definitely want but it's like you can have every shred of evidence that a woman doesn't want to be 1.00

00:01:27.460 a mother but still society will say that we're like dying to be mothers I don't think so I really

00:01:35.420 don't I think women like the control a kid gives over like society and a man and like the attention 1.00

00:01:41.920 they get from the kid but I don't know if the moms really like love their kids you know like a dad

00:01:49.200 can have a kid that hates him and he still loves the kid but the mom if the kid doesn't like you

00:01:54.280 get those overbearing mothers where they're like be a doctor be a lawyer and if the kid doesn't do 1.00

00:01:58.640 exactly what the mom wants it's like you you have hell on earth to pay if you're having a hard time 0.99

00:02:05.380 shaking off the feeling of jealousy or resentment over your nanny's special bond with your baby it's

00:02:09.860 time to address the problem and be a mom right we're going back to the answer and quit your job 1.00

00:02:16.120 stay home, be a mom. Now, you know, there's real situations like poverty, right? But

00:02:24.120 we're not talking about those situations. We're talking about the situations where the mom wants

00:02:31.160 a three-bedroom house instead of a two-bedroom apartment, right? The kid's going to be happier

00:02:35.960 in the small house with the mom there. But, you know, then Tracy sees Diane lives in the suburbs

00:02:44.220 with a 10 you know bedroom apart or house or you know in the city and she's going to these events

Pearl - April 09, 2025