Pearl - Chopped Moms Fight To Survive The Modern Dating Market

00:00:00.000 There's always men that are looking to buy a car with a certain amount of miles because they know

00:00:04.980 it's cheaper. What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. So historically dating was for young

00:00:10.600 people. Dating was meant for people under 25, but since we could not help ourselves, us ladies,

00:00:17.860 we couldn't help but whore out, just be whores. Now we have women dating in their 50s, you know, 1.00

00:00:22.340 not one, not two baby daddies, two divorces, whatever. Anyways, guys, so we're going to react

00:00:29.440 to some people dating in their 50s and seeing how these ladies are doing. Now, I don't really 0.99

00:00:36.300 believe in this revenge fantasy because I know that there's always a man that'll do it. Let's see how

00:00:41.120 this woman talks about dating in her 50s. Hi guys. Can we just talk about dating in your 50s?

00:00:50.180 It's a problem. Do you have any tips for me? Please let me know. I can't. I can't take it.

00:01:02.300 Everyone's out of their mind. Out of their mind. Yeah, because it's everyone that's left over.

00:01:08.040 I'd go work it out with your ex-husband, ma'am. What do you know? Love you guys.

00:01:15.040 All right. Let's share this tab instead. All right. Here's another woman dating in her 50s. 1.00

00:01:21.480 The chat about dating in your 50s. I feel like there are two types of people. There are the people

00:01:25.620 who date because they love to go out, because they're super social, because they may just enjoy

00:01:33.160 going out for nice meals, maybe for ex-husband. But, and then there are the people who date with

00:01:39.180 intention. I fall into the second. Can you imagine dating a 50-year-old woman with intention? Like,

00:01:44.640 what intention? We're both almost dead. Like, we got like 10 years left. What is the second half

00:01:51.320 of life that we're planning? Do you know what I mean? Like, at that point, I mean, I would just

00:01:56.320 take marriage off the table. Like, you guys are going to have a ceremony? For what? You don't have

00:02:03.140 life to live together, you know? Category. I don't love going out. I am a homebody. I also don't connect

00:02:13.720 with a lot of people on that level. Most women don't connect with most men, so. Unless I feel 1.00

00:02:21.600 that you're someone that could be additive to my life, that could add value to my life, take things to

00:02:31.220 an entirely different level, I'm probably not going to go on that date. And neither way is right or

00:02:39.080 wrong. It's just who I am. So, then you have the friends that want to set you up with people,

00:02:45.440 and I feel like people aren't discerning when they set you up with their friends.

00:02:50.340 Well, no, because your friends are realistic about what you can get. So,

00:02:54.120 who your friends set you up with, you should be offended.

00:02:58.200 For the most part, I'm like, would you date that person? No, probably not. And the apps

00:03:04.340 have had a really shitty experience.

00:03:07.700 She's still going to get a decent amount of guys. I mean, she's in shape. She's thin. 1.00

00:03:11.380 Um, because you have to look at it this way. I know, I know like the revenge fantasy is kind

00:03:16.200 of how you want it. Like it's, it makes better click bait or whatever, but there's always men

00:03:21.740 that are looking to buy a car with a certain amount of miles because they know it's cheaper.

00:03:26.420 Right. Um, and yeah, well, you got to figure out is who are the men buying for these type of cars

00:03:34.380 and how can I appeal to them? So yeah, with apps, haven't been on one in probably

00:03:40.500 maybe 12 years. I actually had someone stalk me. That's a whole nother story.

00:03:47.680 Long distance I'll do my last two. Don't be stalking a 50 year old. I'm so sorry. We got to, 0.51

00:03:52.980 women just say that. Relationships have been long distance and that worked really well for me.

00:03:59.440 Um, especially when my son was still living. I see a really big increase in long distance

00:04:04.040 relationships. I find it's either chads with like a couple long distance girlfriends or, um, women

00:04:10.240 with a couple long distance boyfriends, whoever's the better looking one. That's who's playing the

00:04:15.280 other. Separate the two, but now I'm really open to finding true love this next chapter.

00:04:24.860 What love? Just get some good sex and chlamydia, bitch. Look, I mean, you're done. I mean, 1.00

00:04:31.700 dating's for young people. This is like, find someone hot, have sex. Hope he calls you back. 0.97

00:04:38.380 That's it. That's your strategy for that age. How do we go about it?

00:04:42.440 I generally date older. I'm 50, but I would say at this point, anyone 50 to 65, um, I've dated that

00:04:53.840 much older. So I'm not sure I want to be a caregiver when I'm 70, but it works for me.

00:05:01.120 I like someone who's worldly and cultured and well-traveled. I like someone, maybe it's

00:05:10.340 not what's best for me, but I like someone who has a little bit of an edge to vanilla.

00:05:14.860 She likes alphas. You know, she divorced the beta husband. Now she's going back to the alpha. Women 1.00

00:05:19.680 love alphas. We will do anything to not be with beta males. Anything. We'll get in debt. We'll start

00:05:25.540 dating at 50. We'll ruin our whole family. We are not good people, guys. I don't have to tell you.

00:05:31.320 It's me. I need someone to keep me on my toes to challenge me. Um, a guy who cooks would be

00:05:38.780 amazing. I love to cook. I have this dream of being in the kitchen, cooking with my partner.

00:05:47.040 Um, someone who likes nice things, who likes to be surrounded by nice things.

00:05:52.060 More and more about what she wants. It's never about what she can give.

00:05:55.060 Someone who takes care of themselves health-wise, physically, who cares. Um, I live in Miami.

00:06:03.820 Many men tend to be super metrosexual here. I don't need that per se, but someone who does care

00:06:09.880 about their physical appearance, looking good, presenting themselves well, keeping their body

00:06:18.060 in shape. Um, I think it's just a matter of self-respect. Um, and I expect that at this stage

00:06:27.260 of life, that person most likely has children. It's not grandchildren. That's cool. I have no issue

00:06:33.100 with that. I was a single mom and you know, I've been there. I get it. But all in all,

00:06:40.700 I think I'm looking, may sound cliche, but looking to spend my life with my best friend.

00:06:47.180 You don't have a lot. You can't spend your life. You already spent it. You know what I mean? Your

00:06:50.940 life has been spent. You don't have that much time left. Um, okay. So next we have another woman here 1.00

00:06:56.380 talking about dating over 50. I think out of the three, girl two is going to have the best options out of 0.90

00:07:01.020 these 50 year old broads. Girl one looked a little too plastic for me. I think men will just register 1.00

00:07:06.300 that as crazy. Girl two seemed the most stable and she's just the ugliest of the three. 1.00

00:07:11.420 So real talk. Um, I saw someone post about this the other day and it's really been making me think,

00:07:19.180 and I don't mind being single. I have friends and family and my daughter and my dog and work and

00:07:25.660 things to keep me busy. Um, I think the biggest thing is that I am not anybody's

00:07:37.500 priority. Like nobody. And that like when this woman can't be, you haven't spent life with him. 0.95

00:07:44.060 Why would he make you a priority when he just met you? Like if you're a 50 year old woman, 0.99

00:07:48.460 you're dating guys, 70, 60. I mean, you guys don't have life to live together. I mean,

00:07:53.660 can he even really be your husband? If like, he's almost like, you don't have, you might have life

00:07:59.100 if you both make it to 90, but you don't do what I'm saying. I mean, my grandma, I remember when she

00:08:04.940 was widowed, I met like her and her friends. They went out when I was in Wisconsin, I got in trouble

00:08:09.660 and I got banished to Wisconsin at my grandma's house. And I was their DD. And I listened to these

00:08:14.780 old broads, like talking about their dating lives and they would date a guy and he would die. 0.96

00:08:19.180 Imagine they're going on a date and they're like, I can't wait for the next day. And then he dies.

00:08:25.020 That's a re that's a reality with these people at that age and said that on tech talk. I was like,

00:08:31.100 wow. Like nobody, nobody considers me or their priority. Um, you know, my priority is obviously my

00:08:41.820 daughter. Um, wait, okay. So she said that nobody considered me my priority, but I also don't

00:08:48.780 prioritize them. It's like, all right. But being single when you're single, um, there isn't anybody,

00:08:56.140 you know, considering you their priority and that's a hard pill to swallow. So anyway,

00:09:04.380 I thought that was interesting and I I've been thinking about it a lot.

00:09:07.980 All right, guys, let me know what you think of the comments. Um,

00:09:11.420 these old broads are going to have a sad reality when they get back on the dating market. It is not 1.00

00:09:15.980 going to be as good as they think, but there are buyers ladies. Don't worry. You can always find a 1.00

00:09:19.420 buyer. It might not be the buyer you want, but there always are buyers for used cars.

00:09:24.300 Anyways, ladies, make sure you like the video, subscribe to the channel. Thank you so much 0.88

00:09:28.380 for watching it. I'll see you next time.

Pearl - November 08, 2025

Chopped Moms Fight To Survive The Modern Dating Market

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